Electro-magnetic Poisoning and Chakra Polarity

Welcome to a Powerful Clearing for Your Primary Chakras

and several additional chakras that will activate a stronger connection to your Spirit above and to Mother Earth below! We’re going to use Reiki Chakra Keys to help you clear electro-magnetic poisoning from your energy system and balance the polarity of each chakra for increased energy. 

Rheanni Lightwater, Medical Intuitive

This is a great healing meditation to go through while moving or stretching. I love to do it while I’m riding the recumbent bike at the gym. Lately, because of the increased electro-magnetic activity in the atmosphere, I‘ve been guided to go through it on an “as needed” basis. One common sign that you need this would be if your electronics start going haywire. Your own unstable polarity could be interacting with your equipment! If you’re a highly sensitive person like me, you might want to go through it as a daily self-care routine…

Transformation Game: Clearing the Polarity of Your Chakras ~

There are hundreds of chakras located throughout the human body. Aside from the seven basic chakras that are well known, there are secondary spiritual chakras activating new levels of consciousness and essential chakras that govern the proper functioning of your body. That means, every organ, gland and joint has at least one chakra. When the polarity of one or more of these chakras go out of sync with the others, you may feel unstable or off balance physically, mentally, emotionally or spiritually.

Problems with Chakra Polarity Can Cause Electro-magnetic Poisoning.

Electro-magnetic Poisoning and the ChakrasWhen you spend a lot of time around technology, it’s easy to build up a toxic load of EMF’s in your energy system.  As a Medical Intuitive, I see this process beginning when electro-magnetic debris starts zapping around and jamming up the flow of energy in the chakras. If this “shock to the system” isn’t cleared regularly, highly sensitive people  can eventually experience what’s known as electro-magnetic poisoning. The online magazine, Healthline lists possible reactions to EMF’s including: disturbances in your sleep, including insomnia, headache, depression and depressive symptoms, tiredness and fatigue, dysesthesia (a painful, often itchy sensation), lack of concentration, changes in memory, dizziness, irritability, loss of appetite and weight loss, restlessness and anxiety, nausea, skin burning, tingling and changes in the electrical activity of the brain.

Although the symptoms are vague and hard to diagnose, people suffering from electro-magnetic poisoning can experience significant disturbances in their mental health and physical wellbeing.

So, how can we expel electro-magnetic poisoning?

Fixation and Electro-magnetic PoisoningFirst, you want to make sure that your energy system is cleared of all the little  “shocks” and fixations. On a mental level, these fixations often show up as rigid or dogmatic thinking. If your thinking has gotten a little extreme lately, this could be one reason!

To soften your thoughts up a bit, try gazing softly at the Intuitive Learning Circle below for a few minutes while using these positive affirmations: 

“I release agreements to buy into extreme thinking or rigid behavior.

I relax my chakras to help me make beneficial changes.

I let go of electro-magnetic poison in accordance with my highest good.”

Once you’ve done that, you should feel your system beginning to relax. Next, set a simple intention about polarity. For example:

“This is a clearing for me to balance my chakra system so that it’s flowing in harmony with life affirming polarity.”

Start going through the different Circles for the chakras in the order laid out below. Spend approximately a minute or two meditating on each symbol. The Reiki Chakra Keys are helping you to shift harmful polarity and let go of electro-magnetic poisoning. You’ll probably feel a lot of energy moving. That’s all right, it simply means the symbols are working with Reiki energy to cleanse toxins out of your chakras and then balance them.

As you meditate on each Key, consciously visualize the toxic energy clearing out of you and going to the Sun. That way, you can be sure that you’re not dumping debris on others or our precious Earth. You will know you’re done when the energy calms down. Then you can move on to the next Key. At the end of the sequence, additional Circles from Gifts from the Rainforest will help you get your energy settled and grounded.

So, let’s get started!

Begin with the Fourth Chakra Key (Heart): Think about someone or something that you love very much. Feel that tender feeling in the center area of your chest. This is where the Fourth Chakra is located and its energy radiates out, like a star with “Yang” energy.

A balanced and clear Fourth Chakra vibrates with the color GREEN. This is the center of your Being and the focal point for a healthy chakra system in the New Paradigm. It’s often called the Heart Chakra (please note that you have other chakras that bring energy in and out of your actual physical heart and their polarity generally runs more Yin or receptive). To balance the polarity in your 4th chakra, gaze at the Circle while using this positive affirmation:

“This chakra is connected and flowing with life affirming polarity.”

Primary Chakras - The 4th Chakra

Visualize any electro-magnetic debris going to the Sun.


Next, gaze at the Fifth Chakra Key for the chakra located at your Throat:

“This chakra is connected and flowing with life affirming polarity.”

A balanced and clear Fifth Chakra vibrates with the color BLUE. Visualize any blockages or heaviness going to the Sun.


Continue with the Sixth Chakra Key for your Third Eye at the center of your forehead:

“This chakra is connected and flowing with life affirming polarity.”

A balanced and clear Sixth Chakra vibrates with the color Purple. Send toxic energy out and to the Sun.


At the top of your head is the Seventh Chakra Key, often called the Crown Chakra:

“This chakra is connected and flowing with life affirming polarity.” 

Primary Chakras - The Seventh Chakra

A balanced and clear Seventh Chakra vibrates with the color WHITE. Feel the toxic energy moving up, out of the Crown Chakra like a fountain and going to the Sun. Continue until you feel calm and stable.


Keep moving up now and imagine an energy center located about 2″ up from the top of your Crown Chakra. This is what I call your Soul Chakra and it connects you with your Soul energy coming from the Divine Mind:

“This chakra is connected and flowing with life affirming polarity.”

A balanced and clear Soul Chakra vibrates with your unique Soul COLOR. Let the positive energy of your Soul calm and strengthen your entire system. It helps for you to think about activities and things you’ve created that fill you with joy!


Just above your Soul Chakra is the Divine Mind Chakra, which transmits Divine Love energy through your unique connection with Divine Source.

“I connect with my Divine Mind Chakra to receive pure, Source energy.

Grail Reiki Healing - Divine Mind Chakra

Your LifePath Chakras are positioned on either side of the Crown Chakra about one inch out. These chakras carry your potential coming into this lifetime.

“These chakras flow with positive, life affirming polarity.”

When the polarity between these two chakras are positive and balanced, a treasure chest of gifts is unlocked that can help you on your path.

Take a moment to dissolve any buildup of toxins with this symbol.

Consciously visualize the toxic energy clearing out of you and going to the Sun.

You will know you’re done when the energy calms down.

Then you can move on to the second part of the clearing!

Now that you’ve balanced the upper chakras, let’s move down to the center of your body to the Third Chakra, located at your solar plexus (the soft area where your ribs go up):

“This chakra is connected and flowing with life affirming polarity.”

A balanced and clear Third Chakra vibrates with the color YELLOW. Remember to let the chakra relax and release any stuck or fixated energy, sending it to the Light.


About 2″ below your navel is the Second Chakra:

“This chakra is connected and flowing with life affirming polarity.”

Primary Chakras - The Second Chakra

A balanced and clear Second Chakra resonates with the color ORANGE. Visualize any toxic energy or entanglements going to the Light.


Next, let’s clear your First Chakra located at the base of your pelvis (sometimes called the Root or Sacral chakra):

“This chakra is connected and flowing with life affirming polarity.”

Primary Chakras - Root Chakra

A balanced and clear Root Chakra vibrates with the color RED. Visualize any heaviness, illness or toxic energy going to the Sun.


Now its time to connect with the Earth Chakra, located directly below your feet:

“I connect with Mother Earth and am grounded in pure, Source energy.

A balanced and clear Earth Chakra also vibrates with your unique Soul COLOR. Consciously feel your feet joyously connecting to the ground.


As we finish this clearing, let’s strengthen the hara lines that connect all the chakras, like a beautiful web of life.

“The hara lines between my chakras are healing and strengthening.

Imagine that these tiny lines are healing themselves, mending up and reorganizing around perfect health.


Finally, take a moment to let everything blend and flow together while you keep your feet on the floor to finish grounding.

“My chakras are flowing together in harmony with life affirming polarity.”


You’ve balanced the polarity of the seven primary chakras and connected additional chakras that will enhance your intuition, personal growth and creativity. Now, your energy will be much clearer – more stable and grounded. Remember, a person whose energy is balanced and grounded benefits everyone. Be sure to take some time to relax and rest.

Go through this process as often as you need to. Let it help you stabilize and navigate recent downloads from the Universe. Important things are happening!

This Transformation Game uses healing symbols and affirmations from Grail Reiki and Reiki Chakra Keys for advanced chakra balancing and clearing.

If you’re looking for deeper healing, you may need a private energy clearing or it may be time for you to be attuned to the Reiki energy yourself.

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Chakra clearing for electro-magnetic poisoning should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment of any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Staying Empowered Even When Things are Falling Apart

A Transformation Game To Help With Staying Empowered ~

Transformation Game - Staying EmpoweredDuring difficult times, staying empowered is essential to long term success. Social paradigms and relationships from the past are in various stages of falling apart and it’s important that you don’t fall apart along with them. You can recenter yourself and refocus your energy by going through this I Ching Reading* and Transformation Game from Kuan Yin.
To help you better connect with her assistance, she uses the Intuitive Learning Circles ™ to communicate with you through meditation, affirmations and visualization. Simply relax and gaze at the Circles while contemplating Kuan Yins words. Your intuition will come forward and give you the help that you seek.

Mind Body IntegrationMind Body Integration

For best results playing a Transformation Game, look at each Circle both crossed over the midline of the body and uncrossed so that the correction is more complete.



Welcome to the I Ching Reading and Transformation Game for The TOWER and Hexagram #23 – Deterioration

Transformation Game - Staying Empowered

Staying Empowered (even when things are falling apart) ~

“If you’re experiencing a situation where there’s a great deal of societal upheaval and discord, the situation may well be in the flow of the I Ching Hexagram #23 – DETERIORATION. Other signs or symptoms would include:

  • incompetence,
  • arguments,
  • blow ups and break ups,
  • power grabs or
  • illness due to being in a toxic environment.

If this fits what you’re going through, be extra cautious about how you spend your energy, time or money. Reckless expenditures, whether they be financial, emotional or spiritual, are much more likely to result in loss at this time. 

The best thing to do when dealing with deteriorating situations is to step back and get perspective from your Soul. Take care of yourself very sensibly and examine your reactions carefully. Be generous and kind to those you care about.

Remember that confusion is the ideal atmosphere for tricksters, abusers and despots. The ego runs rampant and doesn’t want to let go. Meditate, gather  and remind yourself that all things must end. There will eventually come a change for the better. 

If you deal with DETERIORATION with an attitude of revenge or resentment, you will deplete yourself by giving the situation more fuel, which is probably exactly the reaction your ego wants. Your good intentions are better served by keeping yourself centered and grounded. 

Here is some help through a Transformation Game called Staying Empowered.”

Gently gaze at the Intuitive Learning Circles™ one at a time and consider the question or affirmation that goes with each Step. This self-care process helps you to become aware of what’s bothering you, so that you can make a different choice about how to use your energy more productively and in tune with your Inner Guidance.

 Step 1:

What is a situation around you now that is in the flow of DETERIORATION? Trust the message that comes through from your deepest, wisest guidance.


Step 2:

What truth are you having trouble communicating in this situation?

RCK Throat Chakra Healing


Step 3:

What is the feeling that tends to pull you into that situation?

G 39 Emotional Healing

Once you’ve identified what you’re feeling, take a moment and relax into it.

“I accept that this feeling is present and that eventually it will change. All things change eventually.”

The more you relax and accept, the faster and easier it will be for you to make corrections on the deeper levels you’re looking for.

Step 4:

Epigenetic Healing - Divine Nature ActivatedThe next few symbols are from Divine Nature Activated and will help you release negative conditioning and stimulate some epigenetic healing. The key is to relax as much as possible while looking at each symbol. It can help to imagine that an old, broken DNA strand is falling apart while a vibrant and cohesive DNA strand is relaxing, healing and filling up with light.

When using these symbols, it’s important to relax and breathe as you use each affirmation:

“I let go of seeing myself as weak or powerless. I reclaim and maintain my connection to the Divine.”


 “I let go of rigid ideas that have changed or proven to be false. I don’t have to be right.” 

“I let go of needing to control the situation so that I can focus on solutions that are truthful and serve my highest good.”


“I let go of societal patterns of fear, violence and corruption. I hold the victory of love in mind.”

DNA - Guidance from Angelic Realms


“I see myself outside of the pattern of intolerance. I acknowledge and respect my fellow brothers and sisters.”


“I ask the Divine to lead me to common ground.”


Step 5:

Now that you’ve cleared that energy, ask your inner guidance:

“Are there any aspects of me that have become scattered or disempowered?”

If there are, call them back now.


Step 6:

It’s time to get more present and heart centered: 

“I am fully present inside my body. I organize my awareness around ________.”


“The light in my heart center is strong and radiating out into the world.”

If you’re having trouble, it can help to take several deep breaths. Inhale on the count of 4. Exhale on the count of six. Open and close your fingers. If you feel a strong emotion come up, go back to Step #4 and repeat the process of relaxing and dissipating the negative DNA patterns.


Step 7:

Now that you’re fully present, ask your deepest wisest guidance:

“What is an action I can take that will help me with staying empowered?”

Take as much time as you need to reorganize your thoughts and energy around positive action.


 Step 8:

Staying empowered is much easier when you don’t let things stick to you. Consciously let go of any issues that aren’t yours and peel off any sticky energy that comes from your deteriorating situation.

“I let go of whatever doesn’t belong to me. I send it back to where it needs to go to resolve itself.”


Step 9:

Dissolve destructive blueprints using these affirmations:

“I allow my mind to let go of any attachments to the past or the future that I’m still holding onto. I see those patterns like dark clouds dissolving into a clear, blue sky.”

“I dissolve negative templates, attitudes and behaviors that cause me harm.”


Step 10. AurasThis is the final step to your game, but it’s very important!

You will want to keep your auras close to your body whenever you want to stay empowered. That’s because your auras provide protection. When they’re strong and focused, they can repel toxicity and keep your energy from mixing up with other people.

So, to finish this game, gaze softly at this Circle for as long as you need to repair and refocus them. Use this affirmation if you like:

“My auras are very strong and focused. I naturally keep them close to my body.”



Staying empowered is essential in times of DETERIORATION. Remember the transformation isn’t complete until you’ve taken the action you were guided to take in Step #7. If you like, you may go through this healing meditation again around other issues that are falling apart.  Be sure to rest though and take good care of yourself!

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Rheanni Lightwater - Learning from Danger

Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKT lives and practices in Santa Fe, NM. She specializes in mind body healing with family and relationship clearing using Kinesiology, the Intuitive Learning Circles™, Reiki as a Master/Teacher, Hypnotherapy and Shamanic Clearing Techniques.

Schedule with Rheanni via Zoom, Skype or in person when you visit Santa Fe, New Mexico. Call her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, MST, Monday through Friday to schedule.

This Transformation Game should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment for any ailment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Heartfelt Communication Using Your Intuition

Intuition is Learning to Listen with Your Heart

You could say that heartfelt communication is something many people would like to achieve. In the best of times it happens naturally by opening your heart and listening to its promptings. Unfortunately, when life takes a difficult turn or tragedy happens, the heart and throat centers can shut down, leading you to feel cut off and at a loss for words. Repeated trauma and other violations of the spirit take their toll. Perhaps it’s the shock of disappointment or the panic one feels when the world gets turned upside down. Opening up again may take time and some extra encouragement, especially for introverted, shy or highly sensitive people.

Yet, with a little help, your heart can heal and your throat can relax again. By practicing heartfelt communication with yourself first, you strengthen your intuition, which is like having an inner guidance system. When you go one step further and act on your intuition, you can:

  • Re-examine your relationship with yourself, your family and the world around you,
  • Reverse negativity,
  • Reclaim an inner peace that helps you remain objective while adapting to major changes,
  • Resource new ways to nurture cooperation and appreciation,
  • Resolve to be free from apathy and indifference to the plight of the planet and your fellow (wo)man,
  • Renew your hope and faith in the power of Love to heal and create.

Heartfelt Communication Changes Negative to Positive

A Transformation Game using the Intuitive Learning Circle™ method.

Intuitive Learning CirclesThe Intuitive Learning Circles use messages from animals and nature to facilitate your learning and access inner peace.

Many cultures claim that messages from the animal world inform and offer us guidance, a very special kind of “medicine”. The Intuitive Learning Circles™ have their own Animal Totems and our Heartfelt Communication Meditation gives you an opportunity to try out the Circles and receive the animal medicine that go with each of them.

*For best results, place both feet on the ground and gaze gently at each Circle to receive your own message.

Step One

Let’s start by introducing you to the very first Intuitive Learning Circle™ from “Gifts from the Rainforest“:

Animal Spirits Medicine

Animals are our partners in creating an abundant and peaceful life on our planet. By observing their behavior and the role they play in their environment, we can adapt to and make the most of the circumstances in our lives. This Intuitive Learning Circle helps us to adapt and take ownership of how we use our energy. It also helps us to set things right by listening to the wisdom of our hearts. If you gaze gently at the Circle, you can tune in and receive your own answers to the questions below.

Relax and breathe as you would in a state of meditation. Think of a person or group that you would like to improve your communications with.

What do you really want to communicate to this person or group? Write it down.

Step Two

Electric Eel Medicine

The message of Electric Eel is always about grounding. Being grounded in the truth about who we are and what we’re doing. Use this medicine to scan your body and pay attention to any areas that feel blank or void when it comes to communicating with this person or group. Once you feel the blank area, Electric Eel will help you fill in the void with positive energy and purpose. It can also help you change the polarity of your throat and heart chakras so that they can open up again.

Once you feel more open and grounded, look at what you wrote down. Is this really what you want to communicate?

Do you think that this message, as it is, will evoke the response you’re really looking for?

Is there a more positive message to send?

Step Three:

Epigenetic Healing - Divine Nature activatedThe next symbol is from Divine Nature Activated and will help you release negative conditioning on an epigenetic level. The key is to relax as much as possible while looking at the symbol. It can help to imagine that an old, broken DNA strand is falling apart while a vibrant and cohesive DNA strand is relaxing, healing and filling up with light.

When using these symbols, it’s important to relax and breathe as you use each affirmation:

“I cut through the smoke screen of conflict, doubt, fear and confusion.”

“The airwaves are clear so I can hear the true guidance of my heart.”

“I call on the power of Love to assist me in times of fear and violence.”

“I hold the victory of Love in mind.”

“I know how to communicate the correct message in a safe, respectful manner.”

“I remember my connection to Universal Love.”

“I communicate with honesty and sincerity.

“I release any negative conditioning I may have to feed the seeds of violence and fear.”

Visualize those seeds moving up, out and away from you… send them to the Sun to be transformed!

“I decide to feed the seeds of  ________ instead.” 

Now that you’ve released all that negative conditioning, be sure to refocus and strengthen your auras using this Circle. Your auras protect you and are an important part of your physical, mental, emotional and spiritual health. Take all the time you need using these affirmations:

“I decide to take good care of myself.”

“My auras are completely repaired and refocused. I strengthen my mental capacity for heartfelt communication.”

Step Four

Dissolve any karma that you may have for harmful or ineffective communication with this symbol for dissolving destructive blueprints.

“I dissolve the destructive energy of harmful communication and any connection I have ever had to it.”

See it dissolve like a black cloud, dissipating into the pure light of the Sun.

“I close the door on any harmful or manipulative communication.”

Closure for Mind Body Healing

Step Five

Starlight Medicine

Now you’re ready to reform and clarify your message! Starlight aligns our individual consciousness with Universal Truth to achieve clarity and order. This medicine supports compassionate action, clarity of direction and alignment with your spirit. Continue to relax as you gaze at the Circle and allow it to help you re-frame what you really want to communicate. That way, your words will have a more desirable impact.

“What I really want to say is _________________________________.”



You have taken the time to consider the true impact of your words and re-framed any confusion or negativity into more heartfelt communication. Be sure to take some time to relax. Take a walk and integrate what you’ve come up with.


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This Mind Exercise should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Setting Limitations for Strong Boundaries

Are You Setting Limitations That Are Strong Enough to Maintain Healthy Boundaries in Times of Social Upheaval?

As we enter into the New Paradigm of equality and personal responsibility, setting LIMITATIONS becomes more and more essential to our health and well-being. 

Transformation Game - Setting LimitationsAs a part of that growth, sometimes we have to ask ourselves unpleasant questions. In this game we’re going to address some particularly painful ones:

“Am I being dumped on or scapegoated? If so, how am I contributing to the problem?”

“What can I do about it (without creating more drama) in a non-violent, yet effective way?”

Welcome to the I Ching Reading and Transformation Game for: Hexagram #60 Setting LIMITATIONS for Strong Boundaries ~

“Extravagant behavior and lack of restraint has led you into a state of difficulty. If you are now feeling regret over this and not busy placing the blame elsewhere, you will avoid further mistakes.” ~ The I Ching Workbook, R.L. Wing

When people choose to blame others and you happen to be in their crossfires, you are liable to be dumped on. This tendency is especially common among highly sensitive people.

In this context, when someone is being “dumped on” (or scapegoated), it means that they’re consciously or unconsciously taking on responsibility for other people’s feelings, karma, behavior, etc. This method of coping is usually learned early on in life and can cause great suffering for the “dumpee.” In contrast, it creates quite a bit of freedom for the “dumper.”

Sometimes dumpers just feel overwhelmed and are looking for relief, as in the case of a small child. However, some people never learn to handle their own feelings and go around unconsciously looking for someone to shame, blame and/or dump their feelings on. Unfortunately, some people are actually narcissistic and dump on purpose to further their quest for power and control. A big, red flag is when they want you to feel sorry for them. “Poor me. I have it so hard!” Watch out… that means the energetic dump truck is pulling up to your driveway!

Another technique is flattery and adulation. “You’re so wonderful! Your work is so amazing…you’re such a great healer, mother, artist, etc.” Don’t fall for it, you’re about to be covered with energetic ick and ook from the ethers!

The truth is, unless you want to spend your life cleaning up after others, rather than living your own dreams, you’re going to have to start setting limitations.

All forms of dumping are an abuse of power based on co-dependence and a desire to escape responsibility. In addition, there are certain situations where dumping is more likely to happen.

If you feel you are in such a situation and want to do something constructive to help yourself, you can go through this Transformation Game on Setting Limitations. Simply relax and gaze at the Circles while contemplating the questions or positive affirmations that go with them. Your intuition will come forward and give you the help that you seek.

Begin By Gaging Your Willingness to Change:

If you’re willing to examine your personal habits and are setting LIMITATIONS for yourself that are healthy and life affirming, you can learn to stop being a dumpee. To get started, ask yourself:

“Have I been willing to let other people dump on me? Have I allowed it to happen a lot in the past?” 

“Am I willing to stop this tendency in myself?”

If you have a tendency to be caught off guard by others, now is the time to set stronger LIMITATIONS. Ask your Self, “Am I currently experiencing situations where:

1) There’s a lot of incompetence or my privacy is being disrespected?

2) People are noncooperative, argumentative or easily offended?

3) There is poor health or breakups in friendship or family relations?”

If so, setting LIMITATIONS is definitely called for.

In cases such as these, forceful displays of power will absolutely backfire. Realize that you’re being baited. Do nothing to aggressively confront people in regard to those particular situations and be very conservative with any investment of energy, time or money. Doing so would probably result in a nasty bout of dumping.

The best things to do when dealing with the “dumper/dumpee” dynamic is to stay calm, accept what’s happening and take care of yourself very sensibly. Don’t take the bait. Be generous and kind to those you care about and trust, while you stay out of their business. Find new avenues of behavior that genuinely support your well-being.

Let me repeat…

If you don’t want to be dumped on, don’t engage in dramatic emotional exchanges. That’s because whenever you’re caught up in emotional turmoil, you’re in an excellent energetic position to be dumped on. And that’s true regardless of whether the emotion is positive or negative.

To help yourself, gaze softly at this symbol and imagine that your karmic seeds for harmful or co-dependent habits are burning up.

“I purify my karmic tendency towards co-dependence and self-destruction. I now make a commitment to my higher good.”


Tell your neurological system that you are done with behavior that puts you in harm’s way – like shaming and blaming yourself or continuing to hang out with people who have dumped on you multiple times.

“I release my agreement to ____________________________.”

“I release any agreement I have to hate myself. I detach from harming or disrespecting myself in any way.”

Include situations like buying into gossiping, conflicts, contradictions, obligations, “duty,” lies, trickery or someone else’s suffering.

Release Fixations:

You may be experiencing shock that’s interfering with your ability to sense what’s really going on. Relax and use this affirmation to help you release whatever is causing conflict in you.

“I stop gripping on self-criticism and self-hate.”

“I release the conflict around _______________ or anything else that causes me harm. “

You can use this Circle like a telescope to help you find fixations in your mind and energy field. Once you find one, use the symbol to send a laser beam to break it apart or melt it like an iceberg in the Sun. There may be more than one.

Next, scan your body and energy field to do the same with any denser, hardened energies. You can even do it for the immediate space around you.


Open the connection to your spirit through your Heart Chakra. Allow your energy to connect with what’s true for you. Acknowledge that there may be some interference that’s blocking you from the truth.

“I let go of pleasing others. I now connect with the truth and the positive input of my Soul.”

“I exist and what happens to me matters.”

Setting Limitations On How You Contribute to the Problem:

Slow down and use this Circle to help you become aware of how you are approaching projects, plans, organizations and people that aren’t working in your best interest. If you let your thoughts slow down, you can begin to sense what is contributing to your problems. The very awareness of how you’re tied into the problem reveals possible solutions.

“I slow down and take things one at a time… is there something about this situation that I’m missing and need to know?”

“I clarify my awareness of what I’m doing to contribute to unhealthy boundaries.”


Dissolve any harmful thoughts or emotions that keep you in the dark. It might help to imagine those patterns like dark clouds that obstruct the light. See the darkness dissolve and dissipate into sunlight and clear blue skies.

“I dissolve the confusion and chaos. I let go of needing to please others. I let go of the need to_______________.”

Before you continue, seal and heal any holes that may have been hidden behind in the darkness. These positive affirmations work very well:

“All holes or leakages are sealed and healed.”

“I now head in the direction of my Souls true purpose.”

Be sure to do that both crossed and uncrossed over the midline of your body.


“I understand the part I have played in this situation.”


In this lighter, clearer mind space, ask yourself:

“What makes sense to do next?” or “How can I best protect myself in this situation?”

Congratulations! You’ve taken an important first step towards protecting your Self from being dumped on. Taking the time now to understand how you have unknowingly contributed to your own suffering is truly a gift of self-love.

Extra-intuitive Activities

The following extra-intuitive activities aren’t required, but they can really help you prevent future suffering…

Note: At any point during the rest of this Transformation Game, you may need to go back to the Release Fixations section to look for and clear additional fixations. 

Setting Limitations On What You’re Attracting:

If you’re approaching situations with an attitude of “I’m going to fix this,” or “I’m supposed to rescue this person or change how they are thinking / behaving,” you’re setting yourself up to fall into the dumper/dumpee trap. To avoid it, stay centered and focused on your own integrity.

The Essential Human* If you have a copy of The Essential Human, now would be a good time to use Emotional Corrections A – E between pages 97 and 101 to access and balance energies you’re pulling from the ‘field of potential’.

Going through this process will help you draw on the kinds of spiritual / emotional ingredients that will support your integrity.

“I am focused on my own integrity.”


Setting Limitations on What Kinds of Situations You Participate In:

Put your feet on the floor and ground in the New Paradigm – a consciousness of equality, personal responsibility and sustainable prosperity.


Once you’re feeling grounded, ask for the very best.

“I now access healthy nourishment and support for my Souls purpose.”


Imagine that you can form strong, healthy boundaries with this affirmation:

“I am surrounded with courage and determination. I reject and repel shame, blame, frustration, jealousy, impatience, panic and _________.”


The fact that you have taken the time now to strengthen your boundaries and protect yourself will serve you well throughout your life.

Closure for Mind Body Healing

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Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKT lives and practices in Santa Fe, NM. She specializes in mind body healing with family and relationship clearing using Kinesiology, the Intuitive Learning Circles™, Reiki as a Master/Teacher, Hypnotherapy and Shamanic Clearing Techniques.

Schedule with Rheanni via Zoom, Skype or in person when you visit Santa Fe, New Mexico. Call her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, MST, Monday through Friday to schedule.

This Transformation Game should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Feng Shui for Your Home

How to Use Feng Shui For Your Home with the I Ching to Prepare for a Successful 2020 ~

Feng shui for your home is very useful anytime you’re going through significant changes. That includes changes of the season and the New Year!

In fact, in order to keep things in good REPAIR, there’s an old feng shui recommendation that twelve objects be moved or rearranged in some way at the change of every season or during other times of significant change. 

Feng Shui for Your Home

The I Ching or Book of Change works beautifully with Feng Shui because it follows and predicts movements and tendencies in the cosmos using a series of sixty-four hexagrams or energy flows. When feng shui for your home can go with the flow of life, it’s possible to avoid stagnation and other energy problems, which helps everything work better!

“A change is occurring, whether in your own objectives or in the situation around you… By adapting to the realities around you at this time, you will find peace of mind and success.” ~ Hexagram #17 REPAIR

To Begin Assessing the Feng Shui for Your Home, It Helps to Focus Your Awareness:

Rheanni Lightwater - Feng Shui for Your Home
Rheanni Lightwater, Feng Shui Consultant

I use the Intuitive Learning Circles™ as mindfulness tools for tuning into my intuition and focusing my “feng shui eyes.” You can easily learn to use them too! All you have to do is relax and gaze softly at the Circles while you gently contemplate the affirmations or questions that go with them.

For example, this Circle will help you gather up your senses and focus them on assessing the energy of your home:

“I connect with my five senses.”

“I fine tune them to be present and aware of my Souls purpose.”

“I use them to become aware of my environment.”

“I gain clear awareness of helpful and harmful influences in my surroundings.”



Mind Body IntegrationThey say that intuition is easier when all of the senses are balanced. Some may be turned up too high and some may be too low. Relax and allow your eyes to rest gently on the Circle below.

Take some deep breaths and let your shoulders drop. Adjust the volume to your senses. Do that both crossed and uncrossed over the midline of your body to achieve greater mind body integration.


Next, gaze gently at this Circle to get present and slow everything down, so that you can get a better “read” on the situation. Use an affirmation like:

“I slow down and bring my attention in, towards what’s truly important about my environment right now.” 

Imagine that you can slow the energy around you down, like a slow motion replay you would see on TV. We often miss intuitive information because things are just moving too fast!


Another reason we may miss things would be because we’re thinking about how things were in the past or how we wish they could be in the future. Truth is, we need to be very present with what’s going on, right now. Especially after experiencing a lot of change!

Use this Circle for the Four Seasons to get present. Notice where you are right now. Feel your hands open and close. Notice the date and time. Move around. Bring yourself into the present.


Finally, in order to get an accurate read, you need to trust your “gut instincts.” In this situation, do you trust your gut feeling?

If the answer you get is “no,” you’d be missing a really important aspect of doing effective feng shui assessments. Go here, to get help if you need it.

If the answer you get is “yes,” you are ready to get an accurate “read” on your home!

So let’s get started!

I always start with a few quick check questions, starting with what needs to be removed. When you remove disturbing influences first, your environment can support you better as it suggests in I Ching Hexagram #18 REPAIR:

“The situation will develop new energy and inspiration once the problems are removed.”

Quick Check #1: Ask yourself this question while gazing softly at the Intuitive Learning Circle™ below:

“In general, do I need to remove disturbing influences from my home, yard or office?”

“If so, can I tell what they are and what I need to do?”

Interesting isn’t? You intuitively know somethings up, but need a little help to focus in on the details of what’s actually happening.

Quick Check #2:  Get a sense if anything needs to be rearranged so you can optimize your chances for success in all areas of your life. Ask yourself:

“Do I need to rearrange something in my home to optimize my potential for success? If so, can I tell what it is or what area needs rearranging?”

“You can see the problems clearly. The timing is excellent for making amends.” ~I Ching Hexagram #18 REPAIR

Quick Check # 3: The third question is about whether or not something needs to be added. This isn’t a question about what’s fashionable, it’s about flow. Many beautiful houses are picture perfect, yet they don’t feel comfortable or welcoming. What’s missing in those cases is a natural flow. So, while you gaze softly at this next Circle, think about your home again, as it is currently. Ask:

“Is anything missing? Are there any holes or disturbances in the flow? If so, can I tell where they are?”

Can you get an idea of what you might add to make the correction? Make sure you keep in mind the needs of the other people who live or work with you.

“Only through intelligent deliberation can you be certain that the action you take is correct… The correct actions now are constructive rather than combative and lay the foundation for continued growth toward the good.” ~I Ching Hexagram #18 REPAIR



You now have an overall idea about your environment and what would be good to change. If you want to find out more, continue with the extra-intuitive activities or you may want to Subscribe to our Ezine and get regular I Ching Energy Updates to keep you in the flow!

Additional Help: Feng Shui for Your Home:

~ This additional exercise goes into more depth about issues in your environment that may be affecting you without your conscious awareness ~

Some people don’t know that feng shui can also help you to correct instability and “take apart” destructive patterns that are causing you and your family harm. Those patterns may have been a part of the family dynamic for a very long time. 

Once the imbalances are corrected in your environment, personal growth happens more easily and effectively. Good health is supported. Your sense of timing improves, chaos is reduced and changes in life direction are more easily achieved. A private consultation is often the best, however, there are some things that you can do on your own. To help you, Kuan Yin has inspired this short Transformation Game.

Going through this process can help you evaluate whether or not your home is providing a stable and healthy environment for you. Plus, you could get some inspiration or possible remedies to support your happiness.

Simply gaze softly at the symbols while you consider the questions that accompany each of them. Doing so will help you to uncover hidden information about how your prosperity or sense of “home” is being impaired (it will also work in your office).

Step One – Relax and Tune In On A Deeper Level:

Begin by getting in the correct mindset to receive intuitive information. Gaze softly at this symbol while you repeat the following affirmation for a minute or two:

“I ask my intuition to reveal hidden information about imbalances or interferences in my home that are causing me, my business or my family harm.”

Continue enhancing intuition by calming your senses and bringing them into balance again – some may be turned up too high and some too low. You can bring them into balance by adjusting the levels so that you can sense the hidden information. Do it both crossed and uncrossed.

Step Two – It May Be Time to Review the Intention for Your Home:

“The opportunity to change a situation from STAGNATION to progress is at hand. It will not happen of its own accord. A strong and continuing sense of purpose is necessary to achieve and maintain the greatest possible heights of success.” ~ Hexagram #12 STAGNATION

[You might want to get a notepad to write on and see if you can find at least twelve objects that you can move, rearrange or remove as you go through the rest of this game.]

Use this Circle to slow down some more and become aware of your actual, physical, home environment. On your pad of paper, see if you can formulate a clear intention for what you would like your home to do for you at this time in your life. 

Now, briefly review each room and remind yourself about what’s really important about the function of each room. What happens there and what purpose does that room serve for you and/or the family? You might also want to think about how a change in the season might affect each room.


If your mind goes blank, or you’re having trouble accessing clear intuition, use this Circle to melt away any conflicting thoughts or resistance. It can help to imagine the room softening and moving around. Wait until your vision stabilizes.

Step Three – Get Specific:

Once you’ve briefly gone through each room and feel ready, use the wisdom from this I Ching Hexagram to move on to the questions below that will help you identify more specifics:

“Order can be brought to chaotic situations, Because you are now unusually familiar with the elements involved in the object of your inquiry, you can evaluate and arrange them in whatever way necessary to achieve your aim.” ~ Hexagram #64 BEFORE THE END

Question #1 Trust your initial response to the questions ~

“Are there pockets of negativity or STAGNATION collecting in my home?”

“If so, can I identify where they are located? Do I know what needs to be done to remedy them?”

If no, continue to Question #2.

Question #2

“Am I experiencing poor communication or lack of co-operation where I live?”

“If so, can I identify the source of where it’s coming from? Can I get an idea of what changes are needed?”

 Question #3

“Are there any objects or elements out of balance that are causing mental, emotional, financial or physical difficulties?”

“If so, can I identify how they can be brought into balance?”

“Does something need to be moved, reorganized or completely removed?”

Question #4

“Could I benefit from being more grounded and present in my own home?”

“If so, can I identify the source of what the problem is?”

“Does something need to be moved, reorganized or completely removed to help me be more grounded?”

Question #5

“Is there any interference with productivity?”

“If so, can I identify something that needs to be moved, reorganized or completely removed in order to help me be more productive?”

Question #6

“Is my health or prosperity struggling because of disharmony in my  environment?”

Does something need to be moved, reorganized or completely removed to restore harmony?”

Question #7

“Is there anything I need to know about my environment that is preventing me from heading in the right direction to accomplish my goals? Can I get a sense of what that is?”

“Is there anything I can add to enhance the love and light available in my home?”

“A change is occurring, whether in your own objectives or in the situation around you… By adapting to the realities around you at this time, you will find peace of mind and success.” ~ Hexagram #17 REPAIR

Question #8

“Is my environment safe and does it have adequate protection? Is there anything I need to do to be certain that it’s free from harmful or interfering energies?”

Question #9

You can use this Circle to review the feng shui for your home to see if you have come up with at least twelve items that can be moved, removed, or added to accommodate the changes that you are currently experiencing.

Congratulations! You now have a lot more information about how feng shui for your home or office can be helpful in achieving your goals.

Rheanni LightwaterReiki Master, Hypnotherapist and Medical Intuitive, Rheanni Lightwater specializes in space clearing and Feng Shui in Santa Fe NM and also serves the Albuquerque, Rio Rancho and surrounding New Mexico area. She also creates colorful Feng Shui Healing Art to enhance the chi and empower your intentions.

An appointment with Rheanni lasts between one and three hours, depending upon the property and the circumstances surrounding it. Rates are $100.00 per hour. A complimentary initial telephone consultation is available.

Call to make your appointment today:

  • Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKP
  • business (505) 271-4612
  • Soul Resources, LLC – Santa Fe, New Mexico
  • Email: soulresources@gmail.com

This Transformation Game should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Office Feng Shui

Achieve Your Business Goals in 2020 Using Office Feng Shui ~

Office Feng Shui in the New ParadigmAs your business changes and grows, it’s important to keep some fundamental principles about office Feng Shui in mind so that your goals for success are properly supported.

In this article I’m going to share several basic issues and remedies I often use when working with clients who want to know how to set up their office or studio space for success. Then, just for some added fun and insight, we’ll also use some Intuitive Learning Circles™ to help you zero in on what your intuition says about the space you work in! Rheanni Lightwater, Feng Shui Consultant

Principle #1: Productivity

A smart business owner or professional pays close attention to their office or workplace environment and uses proper input to increase productivity.

What are some of the things to think about? What would a Feng Shui expert ask you about your office space? Certainly, a reliable practitioner would want to find out if something about your office is keeping you from doing your best. It’s easy to get distracted by non-essential details. You can clarify that for yourself a bit by using the Mind Exercise below.

Take a break from your busy day, slow down and see your business environment as it is right now.

This Intuitive Learning Circle™ from Gifts from the Rainforest will help you slow down, tune into your intuitive senses and clarify what’s going on. Simply gaze softly at the Circle for a few moments with a soft gaze. Relax and allow your mind to to get still.

Use these positive affirmations while you take a few breaths:

“I slow down. I choose to be calm and centered.”

Sloth Medicine – Slow down!

“I know what my primary business goals are.”

It often helps to imagine that everything is moving in slow motion. Once your mind has stopped chattering, you’ll be able to focus on your business priorities with greater accuracy. You might want to make some notes about what’s important.

Now, turn your attention to your actual, physical working environment as it is right now. Look around:

What is your overall impression?

Do you feel productive there? Do you feel comfortable?

Do you feel competent and empowered? If not, can you tell why not?

Does anything distract you?

If so, make a note of whatever distracts you and we’ll come back to it later.



Principle #2 Grounding

A smart business owner makes sure that they feel grounded in their working environment.

If your intentions aren’t grounded in your space, your success is being severely compromised. It’s wise to rectify this situation as soon as possible.

This is another Intuitive Learning Circle™ that’s about being grounded. Use it in the same way you used the previous Circle, except this time, make sure both feet are on the ground. Relax and gaze at the Circle with a soft focus while you review the intentions you just wrote down.

“I am well grounded in the intentions I have for my business.”


Ungrounded Office Feng ShuiNow, ask yourself another set of questions: 

“Is this building/room grounded?

Am I able to think clearly in my environment?

Do I easily get tossed around or overwhelmed?”

If you’re having a problem here, it’s a really good idea to get the room grounded. You can either get a professional help or you could try standing or sitting in the middle of the space and use this affirmation while you gaze quietly at the Reiki Chakra Key below:

 “I am grounded in this space.”

Connect with Mother Earth.

Additional tips if you’re having trouble grounding:

Obsidian for office feng shui
Image ~ Geology.com


I often use obsidian to keep spaces grounded here in the Southwest area of the United States. Find a good size rock and place it somewhere unobtrusive as close to the center of the room as is practical.

You may have your own favorite techniques for getting grounded. Go ahead and try them. You can confirm whether they’ve worked or not by looking at this Circle for Soul connection and asking:

 “Is the space grounded now? If not, what would help?”

Old Soul

“Is there anything else my Soul would like me to know?”

Follow the suggestions you get until the answer comes back positive. If you feel that there’s a lot of interference, you can try one of my favorite Mind Exercises: Grounding in the Truth. 


Principle #3: Support

A smart business owner makes sure that the decor in their working environment supports their intention.

If you own a restaurant, you’ll want it to have an atmosphere that suits the style of eating establishment you have in mind. The needs of a fast food deli, for instance, would be quite different from a place intended for fine dining. The same goes for every kind of business – if the atmosphere doesn’t “feel” right, its success will be compromised. Another suggestionThat’s one reason why it’s usually a very good idea to keep your home office out of your bedroom. Usually sleeping well and business productivity aren’t a good mix!

Sometimes it’s hard to know whether you’re on track, so here’s another Intuitive Learning Circle to help you tune into the overall “feel” of your working environment.

As you look at this Circle, imagine your space again in your mind’s eye, then ask yourself these questions: 

“Does the decor support my true intentions for this business?”

“Am I feeling nurtured here? Do I feel stressed here? If so, why?”

“What might help me tap into the energy I need to attract business success?”

Remember if there’s anything about your office feng shui that’s creating disharmony, it will effect you negatively. Use Kuan Yin’s symbol for Restoring Peace in Your Environment to help you meditate on the changes that would help you. Ask yourself: “What needs to change?”

Consider moving, clearing or re-organizing whatever is distracting you.

If you’re still not feeling supported in your workplace, there could be many other possible reasons. Again, calling in a professional is probably a good idea, however, if you enjoyed playing Office Feng Shui, you could find some remedies at our online store, Feng Shui Healing Arts.

Rheanni Lightwater is a Reiki Master, Hypnotherapist and Medical Intuitive specializing in space clearing and Feng Shui in Santa Fe NM and also serves the Albuquerque, Rio Rancho and surrounding New Mexico area.

Rheanni LightwaterMake your appointment today:

business (505) 271-4612
Soul Resources, LLC – Santa Fe, New Mexico


What can an Intuitive Feng Shui Consultation do for you?

• Set up an overall atmosphere that is welcoming, warm and comfortable.

• Establish clear goals and positive input to enhance all major aspects of your life or bagua: career, self-cultivation, health, family, wealth and prosperity, reputation, love and marriage, creativity, children, helpful people and travel.

• Bring a more harmonious flow into your environment so that you can more easily achieve your goals.

• Provide tips and assistance in making significant life changes such as: getting married, having children and new career directions.

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