Finding Moderation In the New Paradigm

Do You Feel Confused About Where You’re Heading? Finding Moderation is the Key to Finding Your Path.

Rheanni Lightwater
Rheanni Lightwater Reiki Master Teacher

Kuan Yin has been helping us to transition from the old economic paradigm based on greed and fear to a new paradigm of co-operation and sustainable prosperity. Her advice about finding moderation springs from the I Ching, an ancient book of divination that follows the flow of the cosmos. Because of that, her insight comes from a different perspective than ours.

Transformation Games - Finding ModerationKuan Yin’s Readings and Transformation Games can help you to identify problems, change your focus to positive solutions, ground yourself and get in the present. Simply relax and gaze at the Circles while contemplating Kuan Yins words. Your intuition will come forward and give you the help that you seek.

Welcome to the I Ching Reading and Transformation Game for:

Hexagram # 15 – Finding Moderation

Transformation Game - Finding Moderation

“In especially difficult times, it’s usually best to move with the flow of MODERATION, Hexagram #15, where ‘The predominant forces … are in the process of balancing extremes and harmonizing interests.’ ~ The I Ching Workbook, R.L. Wing

The ancient Chinese text describes finding MODERATION as the best way to make progress amidst chaos. The suggestion is to disengage from extremes or opinionated attitudes and then follow the guidance that comes from within instead. In almost any situation, if you are able to walk a middle road between extremes, there will be improvement in whatever you undertake.

Finding Moderation and Following that Path ~

As a general rule, MODERATION is a sensible flow to follow, especially when there’s too many unknowns for you to tell what’s going on. In the midst of chaos, unpreferred karma (cause and effect) can be easily triggered. For many people, soul contracts have been completed or need to be released because they’re probably either:

  1.  Feeling threatened, at risk or censured,
  2.  Stuck in the desire to return to the way things were,
  3.  Caught in the chaos of things splitting apart, or
  4.  Seeking harmony and balance by letting go of extremes.

As you softly gaze at this Circle that accesses karmic seeds, see if you’re currently experiencing one of these situations. Ask yourself:

“Am I generally experiencing situation #1, 2, 3 or 4?”

It could easily be a mix, depending on your mindset and what stage of the karma you’re living through.

Whichever one it is, you can make your life easier by letting go of any karmic agreement that is complete – over and done with or that is causing you harm in any way.

Mind Body Integration

Mind Body IntegrationFor best results, look at each symbol both crossed over the midline of the body and uncrossed so that the correction is more complete.

Feel free to move at any time in any way to help you embody your experience!

Let Go So You Can Be Present

Use this Soul Contract Circle to help you identify and release the agreements. Simply gaze softly at the Circle while you use the affirmations. 

“I uproot any agreement to stay stuck in the past or place myself in harms way.”

“I let go of harmful plans, activities or beliefs.”

“I release patterns of behavior that support conflict, ignorance, false pride, victimization, co-dependency, extremism, deception, elitism or ______.”

“I gently disengage from pathways that would be harmful to me.” 

“I let go of _________. I prepare for __________. I take care of __________.”

This is a good opportunity to clear your inner garden of any outdated intentions or plans that are interfering with your health or happiness. Include family, friends or business relationships. Update agreements with organizations you’ve been involved with – religious institutions, political agendas, completed projects, places you’ve lived, modes of transportation, communication issues, ways of doing business, etc.

Use this chart to uproot cultural conditioning from the old paradigm that’s holding you down to harmful pathways. By doing so, you free up a lot of energy and effort that’s tangled up with the way things used to be or the way you wish they were.


Because of the chaos involved, making any kind of reliable prediction is next to impossible. You’re going to need all the presence and energy you have to help you during times such as these. Gently look at the next Circle while you affirm these helpful ideas:

“My new agreement is to stay in the present and remain flexible.”

“I am guided by my Divine Source which shines light on my pathway and purpose.” 

“I make choices that align me with my Soul’s path and purpose.”


“I reclaim my connection with my spirit and allow my energy to recalibrate around my highest good.”


“I am empowered to focus my energy on people, intentions and activities that are genuinely beneficial to me now.”

Be sure to include some fun and restful relaxation!


“I nurture my body, mind and spirit healthfully, in alignment with my true nature.”

Are there any herbs, teas, vegetables or fruits that would be especially helpful to you now?


“I decide to close the door on harmful distractions and pathways to suffering.”

You probably feel more stable now.

If you’re willing, there are several other decisions you could make that would really improve your situation. Let’s continue with a few extremes that might be making it hard for you to find and stay on the road to MODERATION:

Extreme #1: The 24/7 workaholic syndrome.

Here is the prime example, ‘Being busy at work = having purpose.’ You might want to let go of that, because this is a terrible time to overload yourself.

“My purpose comes from my Soul. I let go of unrealistic expectations.”

“I understand that my job is there to support me, not the other way around. My well-being is part of the exchange.”


Extreme #2: The ‘there are no limits’ syndrome.

For example: The Sun is good, however too much Sun causes cancer. Butter is good, yet too much butter causes weight gain, etc. Another social meme that explains the mindset is: ‘I have no limitations. I want it all now, so I have to have it now!’

“I send a laser beam to break up impatience, perfectionism and unrealistic demands. I let go of rigid or extreme behavior.”

“Healthy boundaries and limits can enhance my creativity.”

“I am satisfied and can appreciate MODERATION. I follow my inner guidance.”



Extreme #3: The ‘I’m not doing enough/doing too much” dichotomy.

If things are going too slow for you, suddenly heading off into fifteen different directions will probably blow you out of finding MODERATION. That’s because panic, overwhelm and poor planning usually leads to poor results at best, and chaos at worst. If you’re going too fast, stop and slow things down. Taking good care of yourself is what’s most important now.

What will help me to take good care of myself right now?


Extreme #4: The “I know what you need” syndrome.

Those who pay so much attention to other people rarely have the time to notice what’s going on with themselves. Make a promise to yourself that you will keep your boundaries and refrain from meddling, “fixing” or becoming too involved with others.

“I decide to feel my own feelings and take responsibility for them.”


Extreme #5: Finally, there’s the all time favorite extreme – the need to be “right”.

“I release the need to be right. I now focus on real solutions that are respectful to all, including me.”


Now it’s time to dissolve mental and emotional patterns that pull you off track. Use this symbol for destructive blueprints to identify and dissolve self-delusion or any societal or familial patterns that still affect you in a negative way. See them disappear as you send them to the Sun:

“I dissolve the destructive energy of these mindsets and any connection I have ever had to them.”

“I dissolve ___________________.”

A lot of those “extremes” may still be attached to hidden pockets in your magnetic field. Expel them with this chart and mend any damage that may have occurred.


Once your field is repaired, close the door to pathways that lead to extremes and danger.

“All harmful pathways are sealed and healed.

I am finding MODERATION in accordance with my highest good.”

For many people, finding MODERATION signifies an opportunity to go within and expel deep patterns of fanaticism within their psyche so that they can evolve and arise from that pattern, much as a beautiful lotus arises from the muck and mire at the bottom of a pond.”


Now that you’ve made choices about finding moderation you can bring order and new happiness into your environment!”

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Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKT lives and practices in Santa Fe, NM. She specializes in mind body healing with family and relationship clearing using Kinesiology, the Intuitive Learning Circles™, Reiki as a Master/Teacher, Hypnotherapy and Shamanic Clearing Techniques.

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This Transformation Game should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

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