Healing Emotional Abuse

Transformation Game: Healing Emotional Abuse from Our Collective Karma

Healing Emotional Abuse - Transformation Game The key to healing emotional abuse and remaining positive in difficult times is to remember the bottom line – you are a being of love!

Sometimes we forget or never believed it in the first place. We allow past patterns of fear, hatred or abuse to influence us. One of the main ways that this happens is through confusion.

In order to move into the New Paradigm, we need ways to address the collective karma that is at the source of the confusion. To help with that, I’m inspired to share a powerful process that has helped many people shift negative collective patterns into positive well being. It’s called Healing Emotional Abuse– R Lightwater

Kuan Yin's Transformation GamesTransformation Games are inspired by Kuan Yin, a beloved and respected healing guide among natural health and energy medicine practitioners.

*Caution! Her advice is, as always,  direct and to the point!

“Did you know that a person who is stuck in confusion is probably under the influence of karmic patterns of abuse?
Some patterns are about individual karma and some are collective patterns. In a collective pattern, we are all affected in one way or another. A poignant example would be the tragedy of 9/11 or Nazi Germany in World War II. In current times, the appearance and spread of the coronavirus and the deterioration of our democracies are definitely group patterns. We all share the collective karma of these events, although the level of our involvement varies with each person or group, of course.
The game below is made up of Intuitive Learning Circles™ that can help you disentangle from collective karma that’s causing you harm in the present. Simply go through the game by answering pertinent questions that will activate your heart wisdom and give you a new perspective.”

Step One: Gaze at the Circle for a moment and then consider this question:

“In what aspect of my life am I experiencing confusion or fear?”

Use the answer that came to you as the basis for the game so that you can disengage from the confusion and release your fears very quickly. If there is more than one situation causing you to be concerned, angry or fearful, play the game again later for each specific situation. The best way to take the energy out of anything is to stop feeding it and turn your attention to whatever you love. That is exactly what Healing Emotional Abuse will help you to do with these unconscious patterns.”

How to Play Healing Emotional Abuse:

Simply gaze softly at the images below while you ponder the statements or questions that go with them. Use the symbols to help you go within and access new energy and clarity.  What you do with the information you come up with is up to you!

Mind Body Integration

Mind Body IntegrationFor best results, look at each symbol both crossed over the midline of the body and uncrossed so that the correction is more complete.


Step Two: Relax with this symbol and repeat to yourself several times:

“I am ready, willing and able to shift my perception from extreme to balanced, from confused to clear and/or from powerless to empowered.”


Imagine that your life is like a movie and that your inner camera is filming it from a certain angle. Allow your Inner Guidance to pull the camera back and move it to an entirely different angle – a perception that includes a viable solution. Focus in on this new perspective like a close up in a movie. 


Step Three: While looking at this Circle, remember that aspect of your life that’s troubling you. Ask your heart:

“What do I notice about what I’m feeling?” or

“Is there a particular time when I feel especially anxious or confused?”

Remember, there is no right or wrong answer. Any information you get can be used to help you!


Step Four: Notice how this situation may shut you down or agitate you because it opens up a lot of confusion or turmoil. Breathe a few times and allow this Circle to help you calm yourself and get back into balance.


Step Five: Let this Circle help you really tune into your heart center. You can do this by focusing your inner camera again. This time, use it to zoom in on your heart center. 

Once you feel a connection, ask for help from your Soul resources and allow yourself to receive it. Take all the time you need to surrender into it.

“I am filled by the supportive energy of my spirit.”



Step Six: It’s time to dispel destructive energies from your field. Begin with this symbol, which helps you dissolve any agitation, frustration, heaviness, confusion, or fear that you might be feeling right now. You can even include harmful habits or illness if you’re experiencing those.

You can imagine the turmoil is like a bank of heavy clouds.

Continue to use your imagination to bring in the Sun and see the clouds breaking apart, dissipating into a clear, blue sky.

Use this symbol to gather up negative influences on the heart, such as greed, cruelty, envy, etc. Send them to the Sun like you did with the heavy cloud.


This symbol can be used to dispel weaponized thoughts and energy from acts of overthrow and war. Gather up the arsenal of energetic weapons and send them to the Sun.


This is a symbol that helps you identify and dispel curse imprints and energetic daggers in your energy field – especially those that originate from religious oppression. Expel those imprints from your field and send them to the Sun!


Step Seven: Now that you’ve cleared a lot of destructive energy away, take a moment and focus on something or someone that you truly love. It could be a place in nature, a favorite animal, a person that you care deeply for or all of the above! You can use this affirmation if you like:

“I turn my attention towards love. Love is my priority.”

It also helps to place an image of what you love in the center, blank area of the Circle. Be sure to take all the time you need with this.


Step Eight: Imagine that you are creating something beautiful as an expression of your love. Use the Circle to help you plant the karmic seeds for a new collective pattern of Divine Love in the core of your Being. Be sure to include seeds for everything it would need to prosper and grow.


Step Nine: Continue to visualize being calm and serene. Let your body drop into that feeling and let yourself unwind. You know what that feels like don’t you? So relaxed and very, very calm.
Imagine a gateway to loving kindness opening before you.

As the gateway opens, all  doors to anxiety or fear are closing.



Step Ten: See if you can bring your breath into alignment with Divine Love. Gaze softly at this symbol and play with your breath for a few minutes.

  • If you’re uncomfortable or tight – move around.
  • If your breathing feels stilted or anxious vary the tempo, the length and breadth of it.
  • Stretch. Fire breathe. Whatever it takes!

“I let go of the constraints that inhibit my body, mind and spirit.”

“I breathe in Divine Love and Life. I exhale and let go of __________.”



Step Eleven: Remove remaining energetic debris from your field to integrate love and protection.

“I  send any remaining heaviness or turmoil to the Sun. I feel lightness and ease spreading throughout my entire body.”

Your shoulders are dropping. Your breathing has gotten deeper and deeper.

You are surrounded by protection, courage and comfort.


Step Twelve: Now, you’ll want to be sure that you’ve learned the lesson of this karma. Relax with this Circle and the positive affirmations until you feel the shift has taken place:

“I understand what I need to do now. I’m heading in the direction of Love.”



Step Thirteen: Finally, make a firm decision that you are done with this abuse and that you’re not going back. With this Circle, find the holes, openings or pathways that take you back to the past and close them – in accordance with your highest good.

“All holes are sealed and healed.”

“I follow the direction of healthy protection.”


Step Fourteen: Finish the game by making sure the protective light of your aura is all sealed and healed – an important step that will help your health and mental focus even more!


Now that you’ve extricated yourself from all that, take some time to rest and nurture yourself. Now would be a great time to rest, to take a walk or spend time in nature – doing something you love. Allow yourself to receive the blessings that come from leaving the past behind and healing emotional abuse.

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Rheanni Lightwater - Healing Emotional Abuse

Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKT lives and practices in Santa Fe, NM. She specializes in mind body healing with family and relationship clearing using Kinesiology, the Intuitive Learning Circles™, Reiki as a Master/Teacher, Hypnotherapy and Shamanic Clearing Techniques.

Schedule with Rheanni via Zoom, Skype or in person when you visit Santa Fe, New Mexico. Call her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, MST, Monday through Friday to schedule.

This game should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment of any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

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