Nourish Healthy Relationships

Did you know that you instinctively know the difference between toxic and healthy relationships?

The Solar Plexus Chakra is key to knowing whether or not a relationship is nourishing or toxic to you. Healthy RelationshipsYour gut feeling is the best lie detector and has all the information it needs about healthy relationships – as long as you’re present and paying attention! It’s just that for some reason, the information is being blocked from your conscious awareness and you can’t see the signs.

Take a moment and relax with this Reiki Chakra Key for your solar plexus to help you get present. Use the positive affirmations if they helps or come up with one of your own.

“I am present and open to my gut instincts. I trust myself.”

“I am _____________________.”

Your Essential Self is most efficiently positioned and grounded there to help you manifest, create happiness and maintain your health.

In stressful times, it’s pretty common for the Essential Self to get closed off, misplaced or dissociated. You can correct that now with this Soul Prayer Chart.

Make sure that you have a sense of your Essence facing forward and up right.

 

There are several ways that gut instinct gets blocked. Two that are particularly relevant in times like these are being in too much of a hurry and getting distracted. 

Distractions keep us from taking good care of ourselves, because if we’re always busy, busy, busy and not paying attention to our basic needs, we’re asking for trouble.

Of course we have all kinds of excuses that make it seem all right.  “I ran out of time… I have to get this done… there’s too much going on…” etc.

Check your response to these statements and notice if you get stuck on either of them: 

“I get distracted.”

 “I get in too much of a hurry.”

So, let’s slow down and think about the source of your relationship trouble. Relax into it. Is there a particular person, group or relationship system that seems to be at the core of the problem?

Healthy Relationships

Sadly, many of us we spend too much time or energy on toxic relationships that aren’t particularly good for us. You know the kind of people I’m talking about:

  • the wolf in sheep’s clothing that uses flattery to charm and disarm you.
  • the whiners that are oh, so good at making you feel sorry for them.
  • the wunderkinds who go out of their way to impress you.
  • or bullies that just want to intimidate and make you miserable.

Are you attracting a lot of that? 

If your answer is “no” count yourself lucky. You must have very good relationship karma!

If your answer is “yes,” go ahead and continue this extra-intuitive mind exercise to see what’s going on…


Slow Down and Focus

Let’s see what’s going on for you by experiment with one of our Intuitive Learning Circles for slowing down and focusing on what’s really important.

“I slow down and focus on what I need when it comes to my  _______ relationships.”

If you’re thinking about a particular relationship, it’s worth your time to really slow down and ask yourself a couple of honest questions:

“What is my concern about this particular relationship?”

Clarify the nature of the relationship – friend, business associate, boss, family, lover, etc.

“What is the confusion about?”

 

 

Check for Good Boundaries

Most relationships have their own irritations, resistances and rough patches. Where is the irritation in this relationship? What is it about?

Are you taking something personally or internalizing something that isn’t yours? Are you being codependent in some way?

If so, use this Circle to help you open your energy up wide and let those irritations go. Send it all to the Sun!

What else what might you do to soothe the situation?

 

Examine Emotional Reactions

Sometimes people trigger certain emotional responses in us that come out of our childhood conditioning or earlier relationships. A certain tip of the head or tone of voice can be very potent.

Most of the time, the people in our relationships have no idea about what’s happening. You may have very little power over them. However, you can be responsible for your own reactions. Ask yourself:

“What is the main emotion or emotions I’m feeling when around this person?” 

“Does it happen only in certain situations?”

“Does this relationship remind me of another person? A painful experience?”

Could you be experiencing a harmful attitude, a phobia or an obsession?

 

Clear the Clutter

Sometimes we attract disturbing or stressful situations because our minds are cluttered up with disturbing, stressful thoughts.

Imagine that you can use this Circle to clear out the landscape of your mind. Sweep all that junk and chaos out of your head and send it to the Sun! You might be surprised at how much clutter there is!

That’s one of the reasons people like to meditate. It’s a great way to develop a regular habit of clearing debris out of the mind!

 

Evaluate How You’re Using Your Energy to Nourish Yourself.

Now that you’re present, focused and clear, you can get some accurate information about how to nourish yourself. If you follow the directions, you can get all kinds of answers that could really help you make a big improvement in your happiness. All you have to do is relax and gaze softly at the center open space of this Circle while you ask yourself a few questions. Use a scale of one to ten to evaluate what’s going on (one being lousy and ten being great!). Be sure to listen to your gut and be receptive to the answers that come.

On a scale of one to ten:

Ask yourself when it comes to this person:

“How is this person nourishing me- Emotionally?
Professionally?
Intellectually?
Spiritually?
What, if anything, is missing?
Is there a beneficial exchange
of energy?
Have I closed myself off
in some way?
What, if anything, could be done to improve the relationship?

 

Release or Renegotiate Agreements

Most rules about relationships are rooted in old ideas and systems that we grew up with as children.

In the New Paradigm, a lot of those old agreements and assumptions cause problems and keep us from having truly nourishing relationships.

In this particular relationship, what agreements need to be amended, reformed or let go of entirely?

“I let go of ___________.”
“I reform ________.”
“I amend my agreement to ______.”
“I stop participating in ______.”
“I uproot ______,  _______, &_________.”

 

Release the Mental/ Emotional Patterns

Imagine that this symbol for Dissolving Destructive Blueprints can help you identify and dissolve any toxic imprints or patterns that may be perpetuating harm. You might see them as a dark cloud dissolving into the pure light of the Sun.

“I release the blockages and entanglements that keep me from  experiencing healthy nourishment.”

“I release patterns that keep me from experiencing joy.”

Let Go of Old, Outdated Intentions

Gaze softly into the center of this Circle and see ancient intentions like eggs or seeds waiting to be activated. Not only do you see your own intentions and prayers, but also cultural, ancestral goals that no longer have life affirming motivations behind them. 

Visualize them like ingredients in a soup that is spoiling your genuinely desired outcome. Imagine you can scoop out any unpreferred intentions and send them to the Sun:

“I let go of all intentions that would contradict my highest good or cause conflict in how I’m nourishing myself.”

 

Release the Karma 

Release any seeds of karma that perpetuate habits and beliefs that keep you from nourishing yourself properly and send them to the light.

“I plant new karmic seeds for good things that will support my new choices. I nourish those seeds with love, light, fresh water and healthy nutrition.”

 

Close the Door on Suffering and Unhealthy Pathways

Now it’s time to close the door on all that toxicity and move in the direction of nourishing yourself appropriately. 

Closure for Mind Body Healing

“I close the door on any drain or strain on my time, space, attention or energy.”

Congratulations! You’ve just set the stage to let go of harmful energies and emotions and begin moving in the direction of NOURISHING yourself appropriately.  Be sure to take time to rest and relax. Take a walk or get out into nature if you can!

 

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Rheanni LightwaterRheanni Lightwater CHT, CKT lives and practices in Santa Fe, NM. She specializes in mind body healing with family and relationship clearing using Kinesiology, the Intuitive Learning Circles™, Reiki as a Master/Teacher, Hypnotherapy and Shamanic Clearing Techniques.

Schedule with Rheanni via Zoom, FaceTime or in person when you visit Santa Fe, New Mexico. Call her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, MST, Monday through Friday to schedule.


Disclaimer:
This game should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment of any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Release Attachments Through Mind Body Healing

How can we release attachments through Hypnotherapy, Shamanic Healing, Past Life Clearing and Advanced Energy Medicine?

Many people who come to Soul Resources LLC want to release attachments, detach from destructive energies and clear unwanted emotions. Here are some things that you’ll want be aware of:

How Do Attachments Form?

Release Attachments in RelationshipsMost attachments center around emotional conflict and desire. In a perfect world, our emotions would be accepted and respected. We could simply ask for what we want and accept the response whether it’s positive or negative.

Unfortunately, this kind of perfect response isn’t always forthcoming!  We often react instead because we’ve been taught to try and make things happen in many overt and covert ways. Typically, when one person or group of people wants something from another, they make a lot of assumptions about what would be in everyone’s best interest. If compliance isn’t forthcoming, emotions are bound to escalate!

The Either / Or Conundrum

Depending on the situation, most people keep pushing their agendas and insist on their way. Or, they may have learned more subtle ways to control relationships and manipulate outcomes through mind games, group think or emotional ties and attitudes like guilt, shame, blame, self-pity, flattery… etc. 

Unfortunately, both of these options lead to escalating conflict until one party either “wins” or “loses”. Of course, the external either/or outcome is rarely accepted. Resentments and frustration go underground to create internal conflict that often leads to overt acting out (oppositional defiance) or covertly turned in toward the self. Sadly, many forms of low self-esteem, chronic failure,  loneliness, separation anxiety and even physical illness have their source in  unresolved conflicts and the resulting emotional entanglements.

Oh, yes! We’re taught that we must struggle to win. It’s good to want what we want, when we want it! We can make it happen. Even though all the signs around us are saying, “Stop! You’re heading for trouble! This isn’t going to work.”

Condor Medicine

Condor Medicine from Gifts from the Rainforest may help you relax and release some of that conflict within yourself. Just relax and breathe while you allow the Circle to help you gently focus in on a conflict you are experiencing now.

Mind Exercise: Release Attachments to Group Think and Herd Mentality

Emotional Entanglements are the Basis of Group Think or Herd Mentality

Group Think is basically a situation where a lot of people are attached to each other through conflict based emotions, beliefs, agendas and attitudes. But what if you don’t want to share in that way anymore?

Release Attachments to Group Think

Let’s investigate this through your own example. Your awareness can be used to enhance your mind/body healing.

Notice the “herd mentality” that has your attention now.

In this moment, there is probably some form of group communication that’s causing irritation or conflict within you. It could be an attitude, an agenda or a distressing belief. Think of it like a radio channel that you’re tuning into. There could be one or there could be several.

Mosquito Medicine

For the moment, don’t try to fight it or get away from it. Don’t beat yourself up about it. Just gently observe the quality of it.
The first step towards peace is acceptance of what is.

The Third Eye can easily tap into Herd Mentalities.

Is your Third Eye tapping into the disturbing frequencies you’re feeling? 

Can you tell what’s stressing you out about this situation?

Third Eye Chaka

 

Other Chakras are often tapped into a group entanglement.

Use this symbol to help you determine if there are problems in your chakra system. Are they all intact and functioning properly?

Are any other chakras in your energy system that are being damaged or manipulated through this entanglement?

 

It can help to “name” the entanglement or herd mentality.

Slow down and see the situation more clearly. Use this Circle to help you slow everything down, just like the slo-mo camera effect in a televised sports event.

What name would you give this mentality?

What does it want? What is the underlying conflict for this mentality?

What about your own internal conflict? What do you make of the situation?

In most situations, the simplest thing to start with is to detach your Chakras from the herd mentality.

In the old paradigm, many healing modalities “cut the cords.” However, in my experience, this is another expression of “making it happen.” A sharp, cutting action like that doesn’t resolve the underlying conflict. It only offers temporary relief and extends the either/or conflict to return again another day.

I like to use a softer approach, taught to me by my guides. Use this Chart to relax and mend any wounds within yourself and your own energy field that are associated with this entanglement. Like a healing balm, imagine that a loving coat of peace and comfort is pouring down over you.

Attachments and conflicts are melting away. Relax. Breathe. Take your time and move around if you need to.

Project that healing balm out into the past, present and future.

Next, clear up the mental and spiritual entanglement.

You will want to address any confusion the herd mentality is causing you.

Imagine you can softly gaze into the center of this Circle, Mapacho Medicine, and see ancient intentions like eggs or seeds.

Not only do you see your own intentions and prayers, but also the intentions held by the group entanglement. You can even sense the cultural, ancestral goals that are perpetuating harm and devision in your heart.

Visualize them like ingredients in a soup that’s interfering with your life. Scoop out any life destructive intentions and send them to the Light. You don’t have to let them harm you anymore!

“I remove or reform any out of date intentions that are harmful to me.”
“I release harmful intentions from others.”
“I intend that all harmful energies and intentions be sent to the Light and purified.”

“I create a new life affirming intention from my Soul and follow that instead.”

 

Now dissolve the underlying destructive blueprints of conflict.

These conflicts could be ancestral, societal, racial or sexual biases. They could involve grudges, curses, vows for revenge, etc. After all, resentment and frustration can be internalized and externalized in a thousand ways!

You can dissolve them all now and send any heaviness to the Light.*

*Be sure to let go of the human tendency of sending negative energy and stuff we don’t want anymore into the ground. Mother Earth doesn’t want to hold those seeds anymore either! She’s busy making the changes she needs for the next stages of life on this planet

When we send destructive energy up to the Light, it can be transformed and set right.

In addition, your mind can be more at peace, which matters! Like a dark cloud, the heaviness is lifting up and off of you.

 

To completely release entanglements, collapse the channels they move through.

We can communicate in other, more helpful ways. Use the symbol below to collapse any energy drains or channels that lead to or from the conflicts, grudges and curses. You don’t need or want them anymore.

 

Once you have finished that, tune into your Heart Center.

This Reiki Chakra Key helps you to access compassion for yourself and others. Relax and breathe deeply again. In this place, you can connect with hope and communicate with the best of who you are.

Imagine new connections taking place. Remember don’t force it! This heart connection has to happen from the inside. No one else can do this for you.

 

Eventually, if you’re patient and open, you can feel a light begin to radiate out, extending a sense of gratitude coming through from your deepest, wisest Self.

“My Heart is at peace and the interference is released.”

 

Congratulations! Now that you’ve taken the time to stop, listen and connect with your heart, you can feel the truth. Forcing things doesn’t work in the long run. “Making things happen” or trying to avoid the truth eventually strips away every shred of joy and respect from our relationships, especially the ones we have with ourselves. The need to make things be the way we want them to be is actually the source of our suffering and attachments. These attachments hold us back, boomerang around and give us a big kick in the behind!

Our problems cannot be solved from the same mental position they were created from. A transformation of consciousness is required to get from where we are to where we want to be. Obviously, no one can do that for us. We can get good help, but ultimately, we have to make the shift ourselves.

SOS - Inner Guidance

This is an excellent time to get up and go for a walk, preferably out in nature if you can.


If you would like to release attachments on a deeper level, contact Rheanni at Soul Resources LLC. We we are about Healthy Balance, Presence & Connection with your True Self.

The overall intention we hold for our work with you is to help you connect with your highest potential. That means connecting Psyche with your Soul and learning how to follow the inner guidance of your Higher Self.

Another priority is to assist you in strengthening and maintaining your Soul Integrity by walking your Soul’s path and following your personal dream or heart’s desire.

Release AttachmentsWith this work, you can learn how to connect with and utilize your own innate healing abilities. You can get support and guidance on how to let go of old stories and learn how to live peacefully and prosperously in a New Paradigm. That means you will release attachments by cultivating a mindset based on equality, personal responsibility, sustainable prosperity and creating common ground for the common good.

We provide techniques to recalibrate your energy and mindset to move beyond trauma, serous illness and ptsd to actualize self-love, self-worth and self-respect through Reiki, Hypnotherapy, Kinesiology, Past Life Clearing and the Intuitive Learning Circles. Clients get to explore our tools for self-care and manifesting and learn how to use them responsibly.

Each of us have our unique gifts, talents and energy signatures. And we have our own motivations for wanting to be free and co-creating a New Paradigm. This work is here for you to claim your own place under the Sun – your way, your own path, your own happiness! There is no need to copy, appropriate or emulate what someone else has. Your Soul has a path for you, and it is beautiful!


In Summation:

We don’t “get rid of” an attachment or anything else. If you have an attachment or an illness, it’s resonating with you in some way (that way is often unconscious) and needs to be addressed before it can be fully resolved. In order for the process to work, there needs to be an honest desire to take responsibility for your part in the situation. That often requires a soul retrieval and recalibration of your energy field.

When we accept a new client, we commit to working as a part of you team to help you regain your Soul Integrity. No practitioner or teacher can do this for you. You are in control of your decisions and you need to be actively engaged in the process in order for healing to happen.


 

Rheanni Lightwater Practices Mind Body Healing for the New Paradigm through Reiki, Hypnotherapy, Regression Therapy, Kinesiology, Energy Medicine and Feng Shui/Space Clearing.

Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKPSanta Fe Intuitive Trainings and Private Medical Intuition Sessions are available online.

Due to COVID, in person sessions are available only to fully vaccinated clients. Online sessions are available.

Call her at (505) 271-4612 or email: info@soulresourcesllc.com


Available Private Sessions



Intuitive consultations with Rheanni or any other practitioner are not a substitute for professional medical care and diagnosis. I can not give you a diagnosis and I cannot prescribe. If you are ill or injured, please seek the assistance of an appropriate medical practitioner.


Release Attachments should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment for any ailment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Homeostasis – A Healthy Response to Stress

Calming the Nervous System Through Homeostasis

Rheanni Lightwater - Homeostasis
Rheanni Lightwater, Reiki Master/Teacher, Certified in Somatics, Applied Kinesiology, Cranio-sacral & Hypnotherapy

is a Mind/Body Healing Protocol developed by Rheanni Lightwater that helps you recalibrate your energy field so you can regain balance and equilibrium more easily after a stressful experience.

In addition, you will be able to nourish and strengthen your nervous system and build increased resilience into your immune system against COVID 19 and other harmful pathogens.

This Advanced Energy Medicine Protocol addresses the various inter-related aspects of our energy systems that work together to create a “resonate field”  that will effectively activate the parasympathetic nervous system response. This “recalibration” includes essential information I’ve been able to gather as a Medical Intuitive over the last two decades about how our subtle energy fields influence a healthy, vibrant immune response.
The human energy field has been going through significant transformation for some time. In my work, I’ve followed this evolution and assisted many people in restructuring their subtle energy fields for greater health and efficiency. The Intuitive Learning Circles and symbols have been carefully developed to facilitate these changes in alignment with Psyche, Soul and the Soul’s individual purpose.

Mind Body Integration trains your unconscious mind to recognize imbalances and harmful energies so it can activate and develop new patterns for protection, self-correction and re-generation.

Vitality and Homeostasis

Because the primary function of the unconscious mind is to preserve and protect the body, it runs all of our body functions. It’s also in charge of how information is communicated throughout the entire system.

In my work, I have found that when the unconscious mind recognizes the need to adapt and can effectively communicate that need, the subtle energy systems can shift and are “upgraded” to include the new information, which naturally upgrades the efficiency of all physical systems.

In this particular protocol, we seek to activate the unconscious mind and alert it to the presence of possible viruses, harmful toxins, polarities and imbalances that might be preventing homeostasis. Chakra and Meridian integrations are then facilitated to gently:

  1. Improve Communication – the proper transfer of messages between the brain and nervous system.
  2. Process and Regulate Emotional Information
  3. Expel Stress from the Nervous System – gentle release of fear and trauma
  4. Reduce Fight or Flight Stress Response
  5. Improve Overall Endocrine and Immune Health
  6. Release toxins and manage stress and trauma more effectively

This evolutionary process is an important aspect of SOS – Shelter from the Storm, which has been conceived and intended to help us meet the challenges of our global climate crisis and enhance our response to the increase of super viruses, environmental hazards and other unknown health challenges.

Homeostasis is laid out to help you recalibrate your energy field to nourish and strengthen your nervous system and to build increased resilience into your immune system against COVID 19 and other harmful pathogens.

In your body, are all elements needed for homeostasis in place, connected and communicating?


About Rheanni Lightwater

Rheanni Lightwater - Adapting to Change

Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKT specializes in online mind body healing and COVID support using Reiki Energy Medicine, Hypnotherapy, Dream Tending and the Intuitive Learning Circles™Specialized protocols include Advanced Energy Recalibrations for:

  • Enhanced Immune Response
  • Respiratory and Circulatory Health
  • Overstimulated Nervous System and Immune Response
  • Digestive and Intestinal Health
  • Sleep Difficulties and Nightmares
  • Chemical Sensitivities and Static Electro-magnetic Clearing
  • Trauma and Compassion Fatigue

Long distance sessions are available with Rheanni (Ray-ah-nee). 

Schedule with Rheanni via Zoom, FaceTime or in person when you visit Santa Fe, New Mexico. 

Please note: Due to COVID, in person session are available for fully vaccinated clients only.

Call or text (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, MST, Monday through Friday to schedule or email: info@soulresourcesllc.com


Advanced Energy Medicine $135




Disclaimer:

An intuitive consultation is not a substitute for professional medical care and diagnosis. I can not give you a diagnosis and I can’t prescribe. If you are ill or injured, please seek the assistance of a qualified medical practitioner.

Intuitive Guidance from Gifts from the Rainforest

A Mind Exercise for Developing Intuitive Guidance – Making Difficult Decisions

Intuitive Guidance for Making DecisionsAnimal Energy Medicine for Healing the Modern Mind 

  • Enhance your intuition and self-healing abilities
  • Heal negative karmic and energetic patterns
  • Change destructive attitudes, habits and behaviors
  • Create new templates for self-love and joy
  • Guided meditations to hear your inner guidance

When your mind is all cluttered up with too many thoughts it can be hard to tell if something you want to do is really a good idea. Also, some ideas that are really important can get overlooked. Use these positive affirmations to help you get special insight from your Soul.

Is there a decision that you need to make or clarify about something you’re considering doing? If there is, this short exercise may help…

Start with these affirmations:

“I release any unconscious agreements I may have to get lost, misled, or head off in the wrong direction. I am determined to learn from my experiences so that I make the best possible decisions based on my highest good.”

Next, follow these steps to help you think it through and follow your own intuitive guidance:


Ask Your Intuitive Guidance About Specific Actions to Take ~

Slow down and think about things that you’re considering doing at this time – i.e. taking a trip, starting a business, a project, etc.

If you’re all up in your head, It’ll help to get your feet on the ground and consciously bring your energy down into your solar plexus area. Once you’ve done that, slow down even more!

 

Stop focusing on what you’re trying to accomplish and chill out for a few minutes. Just relax.

When your mind starts racing and you’re too busy to stop and take a deep breath, you are identifying with the collective ego. Catch yourself before your ego runs away completely! Imagine you can sweep away all that clutter.

Move around. Stretch if you need to. Take several long, deep breaths – inhale and exhale.

 

Once your mind has calmed down, gently bring your mind back to your question. What were you thinking of doing?

Notice how much better your body feels when your mind has calmed down… now you’re ready to ask:

“How would taking that action nurture me?”

“Is the timing for it right?”

“Would doing it energize me, drain me or something else?”

What is your impression of how it would actually feel to do that thing?

 

Take the action that you’re considering and project it out into the future – what do you sense?

Does taking this action serve you on a Soul level? Does it have purpose and meaning? Would it be joyful? What are the possibilities that could result from taking this action? Are there certain steps or decisions that need to happen first?

 

What effect would taking the action have on your other priorities?

 

Tap into your Guardian Angel and Intuitive Guidance:

Is there anything else that you need to be aware of?

 

“Is there something else that I haven’t thought of that could contribute to a better outcome?”

Old Soul

 

Take a few minutes to put the intuitive guidance you get from your right brain together with the logical left brain. Relax and let yourself go into a light trance so that you can understand what’s happening on a deeper level…

 

Now that you have answers from your intuitive guidance, take a moment to close off any harmful pathways or leaks in your energy field.

“All hole are sealed and healed.”

“I follow the direction of  healthy protection.”

Congratulations!

Take a moment to thank yourself for stopping to listen to your Intuitive Guidance, a gift that will save you a lot of time and grief in the long run. Bring the energy of gratitude in towards the center of this Circle and let it connect with your heart. Now is a good time to take a walk or go out into Nature to help this all integrate. Be prepared for new ideas and solutions to make their way towards you!

 


More Help ~

If you feel that Intuitive Guidance has helped, but hasn’t addressed all of your needs, Rheanni Lightwater is an expert in the art and science of mind body healing.Rheanni Lightwater - Developing Precognition She has 21+ years experience in energy medicine and environmental energy clearing. Contact her if you feel stuck, confused, or overwhelmed.

Ms. Lightwater’s mission as an Intuitive is to assist people in creating vibrant health, happiness and prosperity. Contact her at 505-271-4612 or email:
soulresources@gmail.com


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Disclaimer:
This mind exercise should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment for any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Come From a Grounded Place

How to ADAPT and Come From a Grounded Place in the New Paradigm ~

Many of us are aware that our environment has a lot to do with how well we’re feeling and how easy or difficult it is to come from a grounded place. That’s especially so when we need to communicate or move forward in a genuinely productive way! The energy of the Cosmos is changing radically and we are being called to ADAPT to a new paradigm based on common ground.

Come From a Grounded Place

Feng Shui Deva, Kuan Yin is helping us to find the resources we need to make the transition and come from a grounded place.

If you have noticed any of the following situations when you’re in a certain environment, try this exercise from Navigating Compassion Fatigue, an online resource from our Soul Oriented Solutions series –

SOS - Soul Oriented Solutions
SOS – Soul Oriented Solutions

If you feel like you or your environment are:

  • Ungrounded
  • Overwhelmed by too much stuff
  • Disorganized and confused
  • Unstable, unsafe or explosive
  • Juggling too many things
  • Unproductive – going around in circles
  • A magnet attracting negative energies.

Directions: Confirm this is the best formula for you with the SOS Symbol.

Find a quiet place to sit in the center of your space, where you won’t be disturbed for about twenty minutes. Make sure both of your feet are firmly planted on the floor and that the soles of your shoes wouldn’t prevent you from grounding well.

Begin by reading the first message and then gaze gently at the Circle or chart that goes with it for approximately two minutes. A longer or shorter time may be necessary. Let yourself breathe and relax as much as possible. Don’t worry if the images move around or change in any way. That just means the Circles are working to help you and your environment to come into balance with each other and ground.

Some emotions may come up and when that happens always visualize the heaviness moving up, out and towards the Sun. You may intuitively feel that an object in the space should be moved or removed completely. Trust your instincts. Give yourself permission to let go of anything that could keep you stuck in the old paradigm.


Mind Body Integration

Mind Body Integration - Self-care for lossFor best results, look at each symbol both crossed over the midline of your body and uncrossed so that the correction is more complete.

Feel free to cross or uncross your arms whenever you intuitively feel you need to!


It helps to know that you can close down many harmful energies that may be running rampant through your body, mind and space.

Divine Protection

Keep this symbol handy to help you identify and close down life-destructive energy channels from the old paradigm. Keep in mind that those energy channels could be found within you or in your space.

Once they are closed, you’ll find that it’s much easier to clear your mind and be open to the generative life force (chi) that we look for in Feng Shui.

In Chinese, Feng Shui means wind water. These are the two elements that move energy for creating life when they are in balance. When they’re out of balance, they can create all kinds of destructive energy patterns – poltergeists, sudden reversals, collapse of protection and stagnancy – just to name a few. Needless to say, the energy channels from the old paradigm are very much out of balance and are creating quite a bit of instability for everyone.

The bottom line is – the sooner we can come from a grounded place in the New Paradigm – based on common ground, the better!

If you need help getting your space grounded, you’re welcome to connect with Rheanni for Feng Shui consulting. You can share some of the experiences you’re having and what you’re noticing about your space. Getting a Feng Shui perspective on your situation could be very useful and help you to make the best decisions about your space and what will help you now.

Once you’ve finished going through the entire exercise, take yourself for a gentle walk in nature or have a soak in a hot bath with Epsom salts or Sea Salt. It’s important to make sure that you’ve cleansed yourself.


Connection
  1. Begin by relaxing while you softly gaze at this Key. Use the following affirmation:

“I choose to relax and open up to my true potential.”

 

Presence 

2. Take some more time to breathe deeply.
 Pay special attention to those places in your body where you are feeling pain or discomfort. 
Consciously send your breath to those places and let them relax.
Stretch if you need to. Open and close your hands. Notice the time and the space around you.

“I am fully present in the New Paradigm.”

Mind Body IntegrationScroll back up to Divine Protection and take a few moments to consciously close down any harmful energy channels in your body or your space.

Do it both crossed and uncrossed over the center line of your body.

 

Receptivity

3. Ask for peace and harmony to come into your heart and awareness.

Consciously move your energy out of your head and pull it down into your heart and solar plexus area.

Old Soul

Once you feel the shift, close down harmful energy channels again. The more relaxed you are, the better this works.

 

Balance

4. You don’t need to be perfect or be everything to everyone.

Could you be holding onto something that doesn’t belong to you or open to something that’s not yours to fix? If so, resolve to let any baggage go and send it to the Light.

You are responsible for yourself and only your part of the situation. What is your part? Shut down any energy channels that are irrelevant or distracting you.

 

Coherence

5. What you do matters and it’s important that you take good care of yourself.  Focus your energy on getting grounded. When you get grounded, you have a positive effect on those around you.

“I pull myself together and get grounded.”

What makes sense to do? What would be genuinely helpful in this situation? Is there something you can do to be genuinely helpful to others?

 

Nourishment

6. To do this effectively, you need a strong connection to a generative life force. You need to take care of yourself and able to ask for help. Go back to your heart and listen to it beating – nice and steady. Affirm to yourself:

“I call on my Spirit to help me get in balance.”

“I am connected and aligned with my highest good.”

Take all the time you need with this.

 

Self-care

7. What else do you need to help you take good care of yourself?

Make a list so you can remember.

 

Change

8. Do you have old intentions or agendas you need to change? You can find them by examining your life and asking yourself, “what’s been working and what hasn’t been working?”

Are you willing to let go of things that are not working?

Release any agreements to hold on.

“I’m willing and able to let go and make the changes necessary for me now.”

 

Realization

9. Keep looking at the Circle while you relax and think of something that you love very much.

Have you been jeopardizing things that matter to you? If you have, what can you do to set it right?

Make note of the ideas that come to you.

 

Clean Up

10. Use this Circle to sweep any confusion or clutter out of your mind and send the debris up to the Sun. In your mind’s eye, sweep it all away!

Notice how much better your body feels when your mind gets clear.

 

REDIRECT

11. Imagine that your Spirit can gently take you by your heart and head. Let it turn you around – toward the direction of your highest good.

Allow a generative flow of life affirming energy to circulate through your body.

 

DECISION

12. Use this Circle to help you close the door on all that clutter and confusion.

Choose to close the doors and seal the leaks as if they were never there.

You probably feel much clearer now.

 

Inner Guidance

13. Take some deep breaths and move your body around again. Let your shoulders drop. Listen to that calm, gentle voice that comes from your heart. What is it telling you?

Old Soul

 

New BeginningS

14. Allow a generative energy to begin in your solar plexus. Feel it moving up into your heart and let it fill up your entire body – all the way to your fingertips. You are creating a new template for a new beginning.

 

Closure

15. Gaze at this symbol and close harmful energy channels that may still be open from all ten directions of the Feng Shui Grid: north, northeast, east, southeast, south, southwest, west, northwest – above and below.

“I close down all harmful energy channels.”

Repeat all directions with this intention: “My mind is open and clear to receive generative life force.”

Remember that the need to unify in common ground is real! The changes are taking place over time and you will likely need to do this exercise repeatedly. Take yourself for a gentle walk in nature or have a soak in a hot bath with Epsom/Sea Salts to cleanse yourself.



 

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Rheanni Lightwater, Reiki Master Teacher

If you feel that Come From A Grounded Place has helped, but hasn’t addressed all of your needs, Rheanni Lightwater, BFA, CHT, CKP is an expert in the art and science of mind body healing. She has 23+ years experience in dream tending, energy medicine, hypnotherapy and feng shui clearing. Contact her if you still feel exposed, lost, or overwhelmed.

Ms. Lightwater’s mission is to assist people in creating healthy balance and harmony in their lives. Sessions are available online or when you Visit Santa Fe. Contact her at 505-271-4612 MST or email: info@soulresourcesllc.com.


Disclaimer:
The Intuitive Learning Circles should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Adapting to Change

Soul Resources Intuitive Reading from the I Ching – Adapting to Change.

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In this intuitive reading for the transition from  2020 to 2021, Rheanni offers a variety of self-care formulas and Transformation Games using the Intuitive Learning Circles and the I Ching for ADAPTING to change. Yes, we have officially entered into the Age of Aquarius or the New Paradigm…

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The I Ching 

I Ching Workbook - R. L. WingThe original intent of the I Ching was based on an Eastern philosophy of observation and marking changes in natural and human events. Through many centuries and contributions from shamans and master teachers, including Lau Tzu and Confucius, the Book of Change was developed into a full philosophy for applying beneficial human conduct to varying circumstances. The Art of Feng Shui is part of that philosophy.

Gaining a Larger Perspective on the Current Flow

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The Year of the Yang White or Golden Rat  in the Chinese Zodiac will be ending on February 12, 2021. Hooray!

During this fast moving year, the collective karma for illness, lack of personal responsibility and unhealthy patterns of neglect have been fully activated and they’re not just going to go away because we’re in a New Year. Hopefully we’ve learned something from it!

The animal coming in is the auspicious Yin Metal OX, symbolizing strength, hard work, honesty and positivity. Concerns during the transition continue to revolve around keeping your environment clean, your thinking clear and your heart strong. 

December 27th, 2020 – January 12th, 2021 Intuitive Reading from the I Ching or Book of Change – Adapting.

Kuan Yin has been helping us through these readings and games to transition from the old paradigm based on greed and fear to a New Paradigm of co-operation, equality and sustainable prosperity. Some say that this is the official start of the Aquarian Age.

Her advice springs from the I Ching, an ancient book of divination that follows the flow of the cosmos. Because of that, her advice and instruction comes from a different perspective than ours.


Adapting to Change - Todays Intuitive Reading“Since the Jupiter/Saturn Conjunction on the Solstice, you have been ADAPTING to change on many levels. A change of season. A change in your collective mindset. A change that follows the flow of the Universe.

On the physical plane, you have been separated from the usual common activities that you hold dear. This sequestration is a requirement – not by some political agenda or conspiracy, but by the forces of Nature, whose will is being carried out regardless of how you feel about it!

Take heart and be patient. If you’ve been looking upon it as unfair, you are making the situation more difficult than it has to be. 

In your seclusion, you have had many opportunities to reform yourselves and ADAPT to sweeping change in fundamental ways. It is now time to take action on those changes if you genuinely want to change the direction of your collective society. 

“The process of letting go can be difficult, but if we refuse to let go of something that’s already left, we are courting disaster.”

The path that Humanity has been on is filled with dead ends, tangles and irreconcilable differences. You may say, “the path can be altered.” To that, the Universe replies, “the path itself is untenable and can no longer be supported.” You must change the path you’re traveling on and the time is now.

Let me say it again. The path your society has been traveling on is a dead end. 
The good news is that a new path has opened, is taking form and available to ground in. It promises to be a rough transition, but not impossible.
This is a vulnerable time and whether you feel ready or not, you are being called upon to ADAPT to this new path and energy in significant ways. If you are choosing patience, courage and caution, your journey will go much easier.”

The Transformation Games and Self-care Formulas listed at the bottom of this Reading are put together to help us as we are ADAPTING to Change.

Here is the I Ching text for Hexagram #17 ADAPTING, as translated by R.L. Wing:

(FOLLOWING)

“When autumn approaches, all of life that continues to survive begins an adaptation to the season. The pelts of animals begin to thicken in anticipation of the winter, while the seeds of plants scatter themselves in autumn winds to await the spring. The bark of the tree increases to protect itself from the cold, while insects may burrow deep inside to hibernate. By ADAPTING to the forces, life is protected as it rests and restores itself for new activity.

ADAPTING is knowing when to act and when to rest, when to speak and when to be silent. The nature of this hexagram is compared to the time of autumn when activity ebbs and rest begins. This is not a restraint, for there is no stress involved. It is instead a peaceful, accepting frame of mind willing to adjust to the existing forces. You should now concern yourself with doing the best you possibly can under the circumstances. Leave the control of the situation to others. Even if you feel you possess the strength to alter events, it is in your best interests to remain low. True power lies in serving others, and with such behavior comes progress and success.

In worldly matters, only leaders who adapt their vision to the sentiments of society will be followed. If their ideals are too far from the popular mainstream of reality, if they are not ADAPTING their product or service in the interests of the times, then following them can lead to danger. However, if their goals are harmonious with the times, you may commit yourself to their leadership. When you follow another, you may relax and restore yourself.

Try to be flexible in your social and personal relationships and, if necessary, subordinate yourself. It is correct to adapt to the situation presented now, for this is the only way that there will be favorable progress. Do not waste your energies struggling against the predominant forces. Instead, make your relationships as rewarding as possible by ADAPTING yourself to the current mood.

Rid yourself of old prejudices and opinions that may be controlling your behavior and holding you back. If your goals and principles are not consonant with those of your society, then you must make an adjustment in yourself. Your progress now depends upon the reality of your milieu. You may live by your own rules in your own home, but once outside, you must adapt. By ADAPTING to the realities around you at this time, you will find peace of mind and success.

“You will find yourself parting ways with former inferior elements in your life as you make contact with worthwhile persons or ideals. By firmly following the superior path* you will find what you are looking for, while your strength of character will greatly benefit.” ~ Hexagram #17 ADAPTING, The I Ching Workbook by R. L. Wing

*The “superior path” means a path of MODERATION, guided by following your own inner worth and wisdom.


ADAPTING to Change Can Be a Vulnerable Time: 

SOS - Soul Oriented SolutionsChange is happening so fast, you will need all the help you can get! To get us through this vulnerable stage of the process, Kuan Yin recommends this series of Transformation Games, Mind Exercises and signing up for our new series – SOS – Navigating Loss and Compassion Fatigue.

Gaze softly at the SOS symbol and ask for a number between 1 – 15.

Scroll down to that number and check out what that process has to offer you.


Transformation Games and Mind Exercises to Help You Safely ADAPT to Change and Keep Moving ~

1. Reduce Chaos by Coming From A Grounded Place.

2. Animal Totem: Take Out the Garbage of 2020 with Rat Medicine. 

3. Learn From Danger and Don’t Slide Back Into Bad Habits from the Past.

4. Clarify Your Intentions to Make SureYou’re Not Making Trouble for Yourself.

5. If You’re Overwhelmed, the Key is in Following the Path of MODERATION.


ADAPTING to Change and Transition ~

“ADAPTING is knowing when to act and when to rest, when to speak and when to be silent.” ~ ADAPTING, The I Ching Workbook by R. L. Wing


SOS Self-care Formulas and Mind Exercises can help you let go and cultivate resiliency:

6. Dispelling Self Doubt and Projections.This self-care formula will help you clear away projections and see things more clearly, from your own viewpoint. If your efforts to solve a problem are causing you to become overwhelmed and frustrated, go through this exercise and watch how your perspective changes!

7. Managing Anxiety in the Midst of Collective Fear. The collective anxiety in the air is palpable. You don’t have any control over what other people decide to do, however, you can respond in a calmer, more productive way yourself. This mind exercise  will help you breathe easier and gain some healthy detachment.

8. RESOLVE – Clearing Overwhelm To Stay on Track.You may have been completely burned out and exhausted by the barrage of events over the past few years. It’s important to keep your energy from collapsing entirely. Use this simple self-care formula to reboot your system and create more resilience.


Chakra Healing and Clearing ~

Recommended Transformation Games and Mind Exercises to Keep You Moving with the Flow, Rather than Against it.

Because the chakras react to and reflect other subtle energy systems, an imbalance in one of the seven Primary Chakras is usually an indicator of a deeper imbalance affecting many people. Therefore, we’re using the Primary Reiki Chakra Keys to help you identify what needs correction and bring new meaning to the old axiom: “When I heal myself, I help to heal the world.”

Directions: Gaze at each Circle and ask: “Is this chakra balanced?” If the answer is no, click through to the game or exercise and see if it helps.

9. Heal Collective Karma that Keeps Us From ADAPTING to Change.

The healing recommended on this level is associated with the Root Chakra. In order to move into the New Paradigm, we need ways to address the collective karma that is at the source of our collective confusion.This Transformation Game will help. 

I Ching Readings Today - The Root Chakra

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10. Untangle Family Relationship Issues.

The balancing recommended on this level is associated with the Second Chakra. Use this Mind Exercise to help you clear entanglements and change the dynamics in painful family relationships.

I Ching Readings Today - The Second Chakra

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11. Let Go and Move On.

The healing recommended on this level is associated with the Third Chakra. If you’re dealing with a deteriorating situation with an attitude of “I’m going to fix this” or “I need to understand why these people are thinking or behaving this way,” you are giving the situation more fuel, rather than letting it die out on it’s own. Play this Transformation Game to let everyone move on – especially you!

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12. Use Heartfelt Communication.

The healing recommended on this level is associated with the Heart Chakra. This Transformation Game will be invaluable to you when communication gets difficult between people with very different viewpoints. If you can slow down and get to the bottom of what you really mean – you can be certain you’re using your communication to benefit the Common Good

I Ching Readings Today - Fourth Chakra

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13. Update Your Agreements.

The healing recommended on this level is associated with the Throat Chakra. Unexamined agreements are often the cause of stalemate, failure to heal, unnecessary stress and inner conflict. Use this Mind Exercise to make important updates in the power of your word and recalibrate your energy. 

I Ching Readings Today - The Throat Chakra

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14. Clear Your Chakras of Shock and Reversed Polarity.

The healing recommended on this level is associated with the Third Eye. Fixations in your chakra system make it hard for you to change, adapt and let go of environmental toxins. Reversals in polarity can cause instability and feeling like you’re losing your mind. Release fixations with this Chakra Meditation for your health and spiritual growth.

. I Ching Readings Today - The Third Eye Chakra

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15. Stop Energy Drains.

The healing recommended on this level is associated with the Crown Chakra. Our problems can’t be solved from the same mental position they were created from. This Mind Exercise will help you consciously pull your attention and energy away from energy drains and redirect them to genuinely helpful solutions.

I Ching Readings Today - The Crown Chakra

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Thank you for joining with us for Todays Intuitive Reading and being a part of the movement into the New Paradigm!

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About the Author

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Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKT specializes in online mind body healing and COVID support using Reiki Energy Medicine, Hypnotherapy, Dream Tending and the Intuitive Learning Circles™Specialized protocols include Advanced Energy Recalibrations for:

  • Respiratory and Circulatory Health
  • Overstimulated Nervous System and Immune Response
  • Digestive and Intestinal Health
  • Sleep Difficulties and Nightmares

Long distance intuitive readings are available with Rheanni (Ray-ah-nee). Find out about her online Intuitive Readings and Clearings.

Schedule with Rheanni via Zoom, FaceTime or in person when you visit Santa Fe, New Mexico. Call her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, MST, Monday through Friday to schedule or email: soulresources@gmail.com


Disclaimer:
Potential Energy for Positive Change should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment of any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

SOS for Collapse

Stabilizing After a Traumatic Event: SOS For Collapse ~

SOS for CollapseAfter a traumatic experience many people feel lost, shattered or fragmented and if they don’t get a chance to reintegrate, their power and life force can easily get drained. Moreover, if the problem isn’t addressed fairly quickly, the pattern can become ingrained, making them more susceptible to long-term feelings of hopelessness and feeling disconnected. Going through SOS for Collapse helps to quickly reconnect fragmented parts of a soul and its energy. By reducing the impact of shock and fear on the nervous system, patterns of hopelessness can be dispelled before they get a chance to become habitual.

SOS for Collapse - Soul Oriented SolutionsUse this formula when you are:

  • Feeling lost, hopeless or out of balance
  • Anxious or upset due to a traumatic experience
  • Weakened and want to regain your strength
  • Triggered by the memory of a traumatic event
  • Having a flashback or out of body experience.

Directions: Confirm this is the best formula for you with the SOS symbol.

Here’s how it works: Simply go through the formula while you follow the directions. Gaze softly at each image and notice any thoughts or feelings you might have in response to the words that accompany them. Some people like to write down their insights to share with a trusted counselor or friend.

You might also want to use this formula like a prayer or request for help. Remember to remain open though, because help doesn’t always come in the way we expect it to!


SOS for Collapse

Strength

1. Begin by taking a few deep breaths while you gaze softly into the Circle. Focus in on the center, blank area.

Gradually feel your strength returning to you. Stronger and stronger with each and every breath.

 

Presence

2. Notice where you are right now. How old do you feel? How old are you really?

Feel your hands open and close.
Notice the time. Move around. Bring yourself into the present.

 

Courage

3. What do you need right now? What would help you the most?

 Make a note of whatever comes up, even if it doesn’t make sense at first.

 

Recognition

4. Do you know what has happened to you? 

How would you describe it?

What insights do you get about your situation?

 

Honesty

5. How are you feeling?
What would help you to feel better?

 

Focus

6. Describe how you would like to feel.
Breathe deeply and let yourself imagine what that would be like. 

 

Clarity

7. What do you want to have happen? 

 

Communication

8. Is there anything else that you want to ask for? 

 

Truth

9. How do you feel now? 

 

Strength

10. Focus your energy on taking good care of yourself. 

If you like, imagine yourself standing in the center, blank area of this Circle with helpful energy coming toward you along the lines. Pure, life affirming energy from the Universe.

 

Receiving

11. What will help you to take good care of yourself? 

 

Courage

12. Is anything stopping you? 

Notice if there are any negative thoughts or emotions present. Running away from uncomfortable self-talk just hides the pain temporarily. You can face it, feel it and let it go.

 

Assistance

13. Make a list of everything you need.
Keep looking at the Circle until you run out of things to write down. 

 

Comfort

14. Let peace and hope be with you.
Let them fill your heart with strength and courage. 

If you can, find some time to relax, take a walk or move around.


Completion and Integration

What are some words of encouragement you like to give yourself?

 

What are some ways I could be gentler with myself?

 

What are some things I’m grateful for?

What gives me hope?

 

Be sure to give yourself time to rest and integrate. Now is a good time to take a walk or go out into Nature to help this all settle.



SOS Soul Oriented Solutions for Collapse

SOS for Collapse is one of nine self-care formulas and mind exercises from SOS Soul Oriented Solutions, a self-help journal for your inner journey from emotional stress to self-love by Rheanni Lightwater.

 

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Rheanni Lightwater, Reiki Master Teacher

If you feel that SOS for Collapse has helped, but hasn’t addressed all of your needs, Rheanni Lightwater, BFA, CHT, CKP is an expert in the art and science of mind body healing. She has 23+ years experience in dream tending, energy medicine, hypnotherapy and feng shui clearing. Contact her if you still feel exposed, lost, or overwhelmed.

Ms. Lightwater’s mission is to assist people in creating healthy balance and harmony in their lives. Sessions are available online or when you Visit Santa Fe. Contact her at 505-271-4612 MST or email: info@soulresourcesllc.com.


Disclaimer:
SOS for Collapse should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment of any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Special Applications:
This self-care formula can be profoundly useful in several difficult circumstances:

  • Energy Cascading
    Use it to reconstruct aura integrity when a person’s energy system collapses under extreme stress. Learn more beginning on page 14 – PTSD and the Subtle Energy System.
  • Soul Retrieval
    This formula frequently works to bring a dissociated person back into their body. Scattered soul fragments can be recovered and awareness restored to the mind.
  • Clearing Trauma from Abandoned Dogs, Cats or other Animals
    Place your hands on the animal’s heart or chest area and go through the formula imagining that you’re beaming the symbols into them, helping them to recover quickly.
  • Preparing for a Peaceful Transition
    Use for anyone who might die or is preparing for their transition. Simply beam the sequence of symbols towards them and their energy field will organize itself for a peaceful transition in alignment with their Soul.
    – Reiki assists in all these processes. Use the Distant Healing Symbol.

 

 

Find Emotional Balance

How You Can Find Emotional Balance and Move On With Your Life.

Find Emotional BalanceUnhealthy emotions are like toxic sludge and few things are more destructive to a person’s wellbeing than those that come out of unresolved pain from early childhood. Is it possible to get “unstuck” and find emotional balance as an adult?

Take a very common example in the young child of a couple going through marital problems. This could very easily happen to either a boy or a girl, but we’ll use a young boy in this case.
Let’s say that Jessie walks in on an argument that’s going on between his parents. Immediately, he knows that something’s wrong, but when he asks, he’s told not to bother them and go upstairs.

Since he doesn’t know what it’s all about, his imagination comes in to fill in the blanks. The confusion is further compounded when Jessie’s parents withhold from him by not letting him in on what’s really happening. Perhaps they think that he’s too young to understand, or that it doesn’t matter. They say to themselves, “he’ll forget all about it in a few days.”

What they’re ignoring is that children are nearly always aware that something is wrong and when it’s not explained in terms they can understand, they will find their own explanation. Unfortunately, that explanation may be much worse than what is actually happening.

This is how projections are formed out of misguided love.

Are you living under projections from your childhood? You can release them.

If left in the dark, Jessie could start internalizing the experience and decide that he’s unworthy of his parent’s love and somehow to blame. Or he may decide that something nefarious is going on. If he does that, he’s likely to act out by misbehaving or putting up false show of toughness. When Jessie’s parents see his behavior, they could get confused themselves. They might feel either guilty, angry or both – which causes him to feel more and more insecure and the “stuck” emotional pattern is firmly established.

Of course, these kinds of patterns can get imprinted or reinforced in numerous ways later on in life.

The following mind exercise is for when a stuffed or stuck emotional pattern has re-emerged and you’re ready to do something about it. It also is good to use when you:

  • Are feeling distressed or conflicted about what steps to take 
  • Ready to gently bring up emotional conflicts so they can be be resolved
  • Want to let go of emotional programming from early childhood
  • Are frustrated or angry with events that are out of your control
  • Are letting other people’s feelings or beliefs interfere with your objectives.

It helps to remember that you are not your emotions. You are bigger than they are and you don’t have to let them run you! Being afraid of emotions is a choice that you can change at any moment by making a new decision about them. For example, you could decide that the emotions you’re feeling now are just energy patterns and not solid things.

Enlist the Power of Relaxation

Did you know that it’s possible to gain some emotional balance by simply relaxing? Very often, when you can relax your energy, the “stuck” energy pattern begins to shift and let go!

You can use these affirmations and the Circle to help you:

“I decide that I am bigger than these emotions.”

“I am in charge of how I experience these emotions, not the other way around!”

“I decide that letting go and relaxing are okay – even helpful things to do.”

Of course there’s more to it than just that, and yet, every stage of our personal growth has to start with the decision that we want something better. Hopefully, going through this mind exercise will help you get started on your way…

Welcome to Finding Emotional Balance ~

Rheanni Lightwater - Retrain Your MindSimply follow the directions.  All you have to do is relax and gaze softly at the Circles while you gently contemplate the affirmations or questions that go with them.


MIND BODY INTEGRATION

Mind Body IntegrationFor best results, look at each Circle both crossed over the midline of the body and uncrossed so that each correction is more complete.

Feel free to move at anytime in any way to help you embody your experience!


Step One: Whenever you want to find emotional balance, breathing always helps. Start by gazing softly at the Circle and breathe in on the count of three. One…two…three.
Exhale to the count of six. One…two…three…four…five…six.
Do this as many times as you like. Breathing in and letting go.
 

“I relax and let the tension go.”

Notice where you feel the tension in your body. Imagine that the “stuck” tension or emotions you’re dealing with are like a huge iceberg. Visualize it melting, moving and breaking apart. Feel your energy relax! Continue until you feel a palpable release of tension.

 

Step Two. Keep breathing with your belly soft and relaxed.
Let your shoulders drop.
Gaze softly at the Circle and imagine you can turn down the feelings or thoughts that are turned up too high, just like the volume on a radio dial.

 

Step Three: Now you’re in a better position to see if you have any stuffed emotions. Visualize them breaking apart or melting again with this symbol from The Essential Human:

What is the message that I’m getting from this emotional pain?

Use the affirmation below to help you bring emotional balance to the situation: 

“I release my need to ignore or escape from emotional pain.

I now acknowledge its message and use it for my greater good.

I safely release any emotional baggage I am carrying.”

Be sure to follow the directions both crossed and uncrossed over the midline of your body.

 

Step Four: Repeat the same process to see if you’re holding any stuffed conflicts. You don’t have to keep carrying them around either. Use this affirmation:

Am I holding stuffed conflicts?

“I release my focus from conflict to peaceful and prosperous solutions.”

Imagine that any conflict is breaking apart. If you’re having trouble, imagine sending a beam of light directly to the image, completely dissolving any resistance you feel.

 

 

Step Five: Is there anything else that’s bothering you?

Try to put it into words if you can.

 

Step Six: Can you name the particular emotional pattern that’s throwing you off balance? Remember that you may be picking up emotions that other people are feeling.

 

Step Seven: Is there an underlying problem involved that’s affecting your chakras?

Grail Reiki Healing - Divine Mind Chakra

 

Step Eight: As you gaze gently at this Circle, let your unconscious mind gather up all the pertinent information, so that over time, you can get this sorted out.

 

Step Nine: Gaze softly at this symbol (let your eyes relax) to help you connect with Love. Get spiritual guidance and direction that will bring you into position for receiving your highest good.

Ask yourself three questions:

  1. Am I heading in the proper direction to find emotional balance?
  2. Am I positioned correctly to receive help?
  3. What spiritual guidance do I get in regards to this situation?

The Essential HumanStay with it and contemplate the symbol for a few minutes to help you make corrections and gain further insights. For example, you may need to recover aspects of yourself using The Essential Human.

Choose numbers between 1 -42 to make corrections and find emotional balance.

Be sure to dissolve any destructive blueprints that you’re ready to let go of. Imagine those old emotional patterns are like clouds disappearing into Sunlight.

“I relax and let them go.”

 

Once you feel clear, be sure to close the door on old emotional channels of pain.

“All holes are sealed and healed.

I follow the direction of healthy protection.”

 

Congratulations! You’ve successfully interrupted a pattern that has probably been interfering with your emotional balance for some time! Be sure to take a few minutes for yourself now. Stand up. Move around. Take a walk in nature if you can. Being out in nature is the best!

As time passes, you will find that opportunities for healing will begin to make their way to you.



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Rheanni Lightwater - Emotional Balance
Rheanni Lightwater, Reiki Master Teacher

If you feel that Find Emotional Balance has helped, but hasn’t addressed all of your needs, Rheanni Lightwater, BFA, CHT, CKP is an expert in the art and science of mind body healing. She has 23+ years experience in dream tending, energy medicine, hypnotherapy and feng shui clearing. Contact her if you still feel exposed, lost, or overwhelmed.

Ms. Lightwater’s mission is to assist people in creating healthy balance and harmony in their lives. Sessions are available online or when you Visit Santa Fe. Contact her at 505-271-4612 MST or email: info@soulresourcesllc.com.

 


Disclaimer:
The Intuitive Learning Circle™ method should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment for any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Healing Emotional Shock

Any person who is going through serious loss could experience emotional shock.

Healing Emotional ShockThe symptoms of emotional shock are disorientation, numbness, mental confusion or fragmentation. A person may even disconnect and leave their body. This includes people who are witness to traumatic experiences in some way. 

These are all ways that the unconscious mind protects us during a traumatic event:

  • Feeling stuck, numb, lost or helpless
  • Unable to rest or relax
  • Caught in a blank or fixed state of mind
  • Waking up at night worried, with obsessive thoughts
  • Reliving painful experiences
  • Alternately feeling trapped and shattered.

The following mind exercise uses the Intuitive Learning Circle method for healing emotional shock ~

Emotional ShockRheanni Lightwater - Resolving ShockSometimes people who’ve just received bad news or experienced a traumatic event will tell you that they’re fine and not to worry about them. That’s because one of the main symptoms of being in shock is not being aware of being in shock. Why is that? During a shock, the mind goes blank as a form of protection.

The shock response is natural and not a sign of spiritual, mental or emotional weakness. It is a physiological event. Nevertheless, if the person doesn’t get a chance to get grounded in their body again – or if they’re not able to – serious problems may develop. Blocked energy and a constant state of fight or flight takes its toll over time. Statements like: “I can’t think straight,” “my life was shattered” or “I feel disconnected” describe the experience of emotional shock.

If any of the above seems familiar, you can go through this mind exercise step by step to help you access your own innate healing abilities and bring yourself back into balance.

Simply follow the directions and see if you can free up some of the confusion and conflict that comes from shock. Here’s an example of how it works. Simply gaze softly at the Circle while you contemplate each of these positive affirmations:

“I reclaim and balance my five senses.”

“I focus them to be present and aware of my body.”

“I use them to become aware of my environment and what’s important to me right now.”

“I focus on positive actions that benefit my well-being and happiness.”

Mind Body Integration

Mind Body Integration

For best results, look at each symbol both crossed over the midline of the body and uncrossed so that the correction is more complete.

Let yourself breathe and relax as much as possible. Don’t worry if the images move around or change in any way. That just means the Circles are working and that your mind and body are relaxing.
Be sure to go through the entire formula and at the end, give yourself time to rest and integrate.


Healing Emotional Shock and Confusion

Step One:

Take several deep breaths and relax while you look at this Circle that releases shock and inner conflict.

Imagine you can use it to focus in on a conflict or painful experience that’s blocking your way. If your mind is blank, focus on how “blank” it is. You may get a conscious image or message, or you may not.

Once you have a sense that your mind has found the blockage, imagine that it’s like an iceberg and the Sun is melting it away with a beautiful beam of light. Allow it to melt until it’s completely gone.

Check for other blockages or conflicts that you can do the same with.

Step Two:

The next step is to bring your senses into balance so that you can see and hear things without the distortion that often accompanies shock.

As you breathe deeply, let this Circle help you to adjust the volume and pitch of your senses to just the right level for you.

Soon you will be able to hear that “calm, gentle voice” inside that reminds you about what matters the most to you:

“I see things as they really are. My senses are balanced. I reconnect with what matters the most.”

Step Three:

If your gut feels tight or uncomfortable, use this Circle to help you relax in your solar plexus and get back into balance there. Your solar plexus is that soft place in your belly where your ribs go up. Just take a nice breath and feel it relax as you say to yourself:

“It’s safe. I feel safe and more relaxed with every breath.”

Step Four:

Sometimes a person who’s had an emotional shock will be disoriented and feel a bit “out of their body.” In case that’s happening with you, take a few minutes to consciously bring yourself back into your body.

“I am at home in my heart. I am inside myself.”

You can open and close your hands. Move your fingers and wiggle your toes around. Notice the time and where you are. These actions all help you recover from emotional shock.

Step Five:

The next thing is to make sure you’re grounded. Without proper grounding, you could get frantic, distracted and confused. That’s not what you want. What you decide to do matters now more than ever!

Let this Circle for grounding on the Earth help you. Place both feet on the ground and your hands on each knee while you use these affirmations:

“I uproot whatever is confusing me. I decide to get grounded. The Earth supports me.”

Take all the time you need with this.

Step Six:

Oftentimes, healing emotional shock and confusion requires a change in priorities. There may be certain plans, ideas or habitual patterns that are no longer relevant or constructive. Certain roles may get suddenly reversed. You can use this symbol for dissolving destructive blueprints to help you identify them and dissolve whatever is confusing you.

Actively imagine that the negative patterns in your mind are like heavy clouds or a jumbled maze of fears and nightmares.

Once you have the image, bring the pure light of the Sun in and dissolve the maze completely.

You’ll know that you’re done when you can see yourself standing in a beautiful open field with clear blue skies all around.

Step 7:

Be sure to seal and heal any holes, leaks or openings in your energy field. Leaky energy may open you up to danger or allow harmful energies to attach to you. It can also leave you feeling drained and exhausted.

As you gaze at the Circle, imagine harmful leaks and openings are closing as if they were never there.

“All holes are healed and sealed.”

“I follow the protection of healthy direction.”

 

“I close up any energy drains so that I may recover my strength.”  

“I let go of old habits that are causing me harm.”

 

Bring your attention to the area that surrounds your body.

“I strengthen the protection of my auras around me.”

“I feel protected and safe in my body.”

Step 8.

To finish this exercise, let your heart recover. This Circle will help you to balance your heart energy and clear away any residual heaviness. Breathe deeply and take your time.

“I feel the heaviness lifting up out of my heart.”

“I let it go and send it to the Sun where it can be transformed.”

“I have the strength and resilience to shine my light.”

Now that you’re finished with the exercise, consider taking a nice walk outside. Nothing grounds you like being in nature after an emotional shock.



Specialized Energy Clearing with the Author of Soul Oriented Solutions

Rheanni Lightwater - Healing Emotional Shock
Rheanni Lightwater, Reiki Master Teacher

If you feel that Healing Emotional Shock has helped, but hasn’t addressed all of your needs, Rheanni Lightwater, BFA, CHT, CKP is an expert in the art and science of mind body healing. She has 23+ years experience in dream tending, energy medicine, hypnotherapy and feng shui clearing. Contact her if you still feel exposed, lost, or overwhelmed.

Ms. Lightwater’s mission is to assist people in creating healthy balance and harmony in their lives. Sessions are available online or when you Visit Santa Fe. Contact her at 505-271-4612 MST or email: info@soulresourcesllc.com.


Disclaimer:
This Mind Exercise should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Overwhelm Help for Secondary Traumatic Stress

If you are in need of overwhelm help

SOS - Overwhelm Help

the Intuitive Learning Circles offer support for your inner journey…


Many of us are completely exhausted by recent events – even just the past few days! If you are experiencing any symptoms like the ones below, you can easily remedy the situation by going through our Overwhelm Help Exercise #3 out of RESOLVE , a burnout prevention handbook from our Soul Oriented Solutions series.

SOS - Soul Oriented Solutions
SOS – Soul Oriented Solutions


Use this self-care formula when you are:

  • Exhausted 
  • Overwhelmed
  • Confused
  • Out of balance
  • Taking on too much
  • Doing too much
  • Going too fast and need to slow down.

 

Directions: Confirm this is the best formula for you with the SOS Symbol.

Find a quiet place if possible, where you won’t be disturbed for about twenty minutes. Begin by reading the first message and then gaze gently at the Circle or chart that goes with it for approximately two minutes. A longer or shorter time may be necessary. Let yourself breathe and relax as much as possible. Don’t worry if the images move around or change in any way. That just means the Circles are working and that your mind and body are coming into balance. 

Some emotions might come up as well. That also means the Circles are working. Just give yourself permission to let go of anything that’s causing you pain or suffering. 

Mind Body Integration

Mind Body Integration - Self-care for lossFor best results, look at each symbol both crossed over the midline of your body and uncrossed so that the correction is more complete.

Feel free to move at anytime in any way to help you embody your experience!

If someone is with you, talk to them about some of the feelings that you’re having. It could help you to gain perspective on your situation. Having perspective allows you to make the best decisions about what will help you now. 

After you’ve finished going through the entire formula, let yourself rest for a little while. You’re doing very well with such a difficult circumstance. 


 

Presence

1. Take a few moments and breathe deeply.
 Pay special attention to those places in your body where you are feeling pain or discomfort.
 Consciously let them relax.
Move around or stretch if you need to.

 

Receptivity

2. Ask for peace to come into your heart and awareness.

Consciously move your energy out of your head and pull it down into your heart and solar plexus area.

 

Balance

3. You don’t need to be perfect or be everything to everyone.

Are you trying to take care of something that’s not your problem? If so, give yourself a break and resolve to let it go.

You are responsible for only your part of the situation. What is your part?

 

Healing

4. You may feel like you’re being pulled in too many directions. Relax and meditate on this Circle for as long as you like. Let it help you untangle from the confusion and heal any wounds like a gentle salve from your Soul, pouring over your entire body.

 

Compassion

5. Focus your energy on taking good care of yourself now. You are important and what you do matters. People care about you. 

What would be genuinely helpful in this situation?

Is there something you can do to be genuinely helpful to others?

 

Nourishment

6. It’s all right to take care of yourself and ask for help. Go back to your heart and listen to it beating – nice and steady. You are alive. 

What do you need to help you take good care of yourself?

Make a list so you can remember.

 

Change

7. In your life, what’s been working and what hasn’t been working?

Are you willing to let go of things that are not working?

Release any agreements to hold on.

Affirm that you‘re ready and able to let go and make the changes necessary for you now.

 

Realization

8. Keep looking at the Circle while you relax and think of something that you love very much. 

Have you been jeopardizing things that matter to you?

If you have, what can you do to set it right?

Make note of the ideas that come to you.

 

Clean Up

9. Use this Circle to sweep any confusion or clutter out of your mind and send the debris up to the Sun. Sweep it all away!

Notice how much better your body feels when your mind gets clear.

 

Clarity

10. Use this Circle to help you close the door on all that clutter and confusion.

Close the doors and seal the leaks as if they were never there.

Once those doors are closed, you’ll feel much clearer.

 

Inner Guidance

11. Take some deep breaths and move your body around again. Let your shoulders drop.

Listen to that calm, gentle voice that comes from your heart. What is it telling you? 

Old Soul

 

New Beginnings

12. Allow that calm feeling to come from your heart and fill up your entire body – all the way to your fingertips. 

 

13. Gaze at this symbol until you feel resolved and ready to move on.

Remember that good self-care includes rest and taking good care of yourself! 

 



RESOLVE - Overwhelm HelpClearing Overwhelm To Stay on Track is self-care formula #3 in the RESOLVE handbook. Overwhelm Help for staying true and following through in difficult times by Rheanni Lightwater.

 

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Rheanni Lightwater - Overwhelm Help
Rheanni Lightwater, Reiki Master Teacher

If you feel that Overwhelm Help has helped, but hasn’t addressed all of your needs, Rheanni Lightwater, BFA, CHT, CKP is an expert in the art and science of mind body healing. She has 23+ years experience in dream tending, energy medicine, hypnotherapy and feng shui clearing. Contact her if you still feel exposed, lost, or overwhelmed.

Ms. Lightwater’s mission is to assist people in creating healthy balance and harmony in their lives. Sessions are available online or when you Visit Santa Fe. Contact her at 505-271-4612 MST or email: info@soulresourcesllc.com.


Disclaimer:
Overwhelm Help should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.