Fly Medicine | Animal Totems

Learn to Leave the Poison Behind with Fly Medicine ~

Self-care and Personal Growth through Gifts from the Rainforest:

Fly Medicine from Gifts from the Rainforest

19. Fly medicine warns us when we are revisiting self-destructive habits. It’s better to empower our best interests – health, creativity and life!

Are you getting sucked into a toxic pattern from the past? If so, what will help?

Healing Action: Close off or expel negative manipulative energy. Stand up for yourself and stop enabling the pull of destructive habits.

Fly Right

The fly lives off the waste and garbage left by others.

This pest brings bacteria and disease with it, spreading misfortune and death among the living.

Once you have released poison and toxicity from your system, leave it behind you.

Do not return again to eat from your own garbage.
It is no longer a part of you and you have no need of it, no matter how familiar it is.

Right action is about inner direction and doing what is
in your best self-interest.

Your best self-interest is health, life, and creation.

When you see the fly, consider how you might be needlessly revisiting self-destructive habits.


Mind Body IntegrationMind Body Integration

For best results, gaze softly at the Circle both crossed over the midline of the body and uncrossed so that the communication is more complete.

Intuitive Learning Circles ™ help you access your inner guidance, identify problems and make proactive changes. Simply relax and gaze at the Circles while contemplating its message and positive affirmations. Your intuition will come forward and give you the help that you seek.


Further Exploration into Fly Medicine:

Fly Medicine

Traditional principles around taking care of yourself have been blocked. You may be feeling hopeless. Perhaps your ego is saying that you aren’t worth taking care of, so why bother? Nothing could be further from the truth.
When you believe your ego, you fall back into destructive habits that have caused you no end of sorrow in the past. You’re having difficulty seeing through all the garbage and realizing there is a way out. Whoever first told you that you were not worth taking care of was really just expressing how they felt about themselves.Make yourself a priority. Agree to take care of yourself.

Or
It may be that you are putting up with abuse from others. If so, it’s time to take courage, speak up and set some healthy boundaries. Once you have accomplished this, never go back. There is nothing there for you.


Fly Medicine is an excerpt from Gifts from the Rainforest

Available exclusively From Soul Resources LLC:

Animal Totems for Inner Guidanceby Rheanni Lightwater

OPEN YOUR HEART AND MAKE FRIENDS WITH FLY MEDICINE

Inspired by Design Therapy from the native tribes of the Amazon, the forty-nine Intuitive Learning Circles™ and animal totems from Gifts from the Rainforest are healing and divination tools for anyone who wants to accelerate their spiritual growth and intuitive abilities.

♦ Find emotional balance  ♦ Deal with repetitive habits & attitudes that keep you stuck  ♦ Develop common sense  ♦ Learn to trust your gut instincts.  ♦ Receive messages from plant, animal & nature spirits.


Disclaimer:
The Intuitive Learning Circles should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment of any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Navigating Danger

September -October, 2020 Intuitive Reading from the I Ching or Book of Change – Navigating Danger.

In this intuitive reading for September 20th – October 11, 2020, Soul Resources offers a variety of SOS formulas and Transformation Games using the Intuitive Learning Circles and the I Ching for navigating DANGER as we seek to build a better world based on the Common Good.

Creating Synergy for a New Paradigm

Gaining a Larger Perspective on the Current Flow


2020 is the Year of the Yang White or Golden Rat in the Chinese Zodiac. The Rat is generally described as active, fertile, filled with energy and industrious. However, Rats also attract clutter, spread disease and tend to meddle in situations where they can do serious damage. As I’ve mentioned before, another year of the White Metal Rat was 1720 when the French city of Marseille was devastated by the Black Plague. Unfortunately, the themes of collective karma around responsibility and illness is difficult to miss.

The I Ching (or Book of Change) Energy was in the flow of Hexagram #6 CONFLICT for the whole month of July. Then, at the beginning of August, the energy changed to #30 SYNERGY. Unfortunately, the collective mindset of the USA remained stuck in the CONFLICT and was unwilling to detach from the gridlock and take advantage of the more positive energy.  
As a result, we have entered into Hexagram #29 DANGER for the next 2 – 4 weeks.

I Ching Intuitive Reading for September 20th – October 11th, 2020.

I Ching Workbook - R. L. WingThe original intent of the I Ching was based on an Eastern philosophy of observation and marking changes in natural and human events. Through many centuries and contributions from shamans and master teachers, including Lau Tzu and Confucius, the Book of Change was developed into a full philosophy for applying beneficial human conduct to varying circumstances. The Art of Feng Shui is part of that philosophy.

The Transformation Games, Mind Exercises and Self-care Formulas listed at the bottom of this Reading follow I Ching advice for Navigating DANGER, as translated by R.L. Wing.

“The situation is one of real DANGER, caused by and manifested in the affairs of man. This DANGER is not inspired by overwhelming tendencies within the cosmos, or by conflicts in your innermost attitudes. The real DANGER that confronts you is brought about by your immediate environment. It will take skill to overcome the difficulties, but managed properly, this time of challenge can bring out the very best in you. The Chinese text points out that if you can act with confidence and virtue whatever you do results in success.”

Do not avoid confrontations in any difficult or threatening situations; you must now meet and overcome them through correct behavior. Maintain a continued resolve. Hold to your ethics and principles and do not for a moment consider compromising what you believe to be right. Acting with integrity and confidence is the key to surmounting the DANGER.

In business or political affairs, stick to approved policy. When making judgements regarding matters of leadership, neither bargain with your principles nor attempt to avoid the issue, for such actions would render meaningless all that has been achieved thus far. In social interactions, remain true to your nature. If possible, convince others of the soundness of your ideas by demonstrating the good effects of your actions. If they will not support you, you do not need them. Keep moving. Do not dally in the DANGER. In personal relationships, do not allow passions to to lead you into peril. If the difficulties cannot be resolved without sacrificing your principles, the relationship may be irresolute.

The time of DANGER can be especially good for inner development. By holding to fixed and virtuous ethics, by maintaining your inner vision and ideals, all things fall into a steady, tangible perspective. You will know your relationships to your environment, and in this way you can accomplish your aims. Although subjective, this perspective is now in accord with the problems facing you now.

Additionally, by persevering in high minded conduct, you become a living example to your family and your fellow man. Through the consistency of your actions you guide and inspire others in the handling of their own affairs. This in turn will create order and dispel DANGER within your milieu. Thus you are protected.

Frequent encounters with DANGER are a part of life. Beyond making you inwardly strong, familiarity with DANGER, like the near brush of death, can instill in you a profound awareness of the life force and the mysterious nature of the cosmos. Such heightened awareness can bring new meaning, determination, and richness into your life.”

The Fourth Changing Line Holds the Key to Navigating Danger:

“Take the simple and direct approach to solving your problems and over coming difficulties. Strive for clarity of mind. Do not clutter your actions with useless pretense, since it will only confuse the situation.” ~ Hexagram #29 DANGER, The I Ching Workbook by R. L. Wing


So, what processes will help you stay balanced as you’re navigating DANGER?

SOS - Soul Oriented SolutionsHere is the list of Transformation Games, Mind Exercises, SOS Self-care Formulas and Chakra Healing Exercises that have been put to gather to keep you moving with the flow, rather than against it.

Gaze softly at this symbol and ask for a number between 1 – 15.

Scroll down to that number and check out what that process has to offer you.


~Transformation Games and Mind Exercises ~

1. Make Adjustments in Your Environment with Feng Shui.

2. Reclaim and Maintain Your Power in Times of Change.

3. Let Go of Your Resistance to Change.

4. Be True To Yourself and Exercise Clear Perception.

5. Find Moderation If You’re Getting Caught Up in Extremes.


~ Navigating DANGER Through our SOS Self Care Formulas ~

6. SOS – Self-care for Grief. We have lost so much over the past few months. The extent of what’s happened on a personal, economic and collective level is aggravated by the loss of iconic leaders and injustice in our own neighborhoods. Everyone has lost something or someone of major significance. We must hold the faith and keep our spiritual connection alive. Take time out to gently grieve your losses and ask for help.

7. SOS – Resolving Emotional Shock. In this pandemic, experiencing shock is more common than not. Unfortunately, if you don’t get grounded in your body after a shock – or if you’re not able to – you’re making it easier for illness to develop. This exercise will help keep you from covid burn-out. 

8.  SOS – Dispelling Self-doubt and ProjectionsPeople are becoming sensitive to each others thoughts and emotions more than ever, and it’s especially easy to tap into negative thoughts that you grew up with as a child because they’re so familiar. Free yourself from the grip of projections, paranoia and self-doubt. This self-care formula is from Rheanni Lightwater’s PTSD Workbook.


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~ Chakra Healing and Clearing ~

9. Heal the Collective Karma of Abuse.

The healing recommended on this level is associated with the Root Chakra. This Transformation Game helps you to release past patterns of impending doom and conflict so that you can participate more fully in a hopeful future. 

I Ching Readings Today - The Root Chakra

10. Untangle Family Relationship Issues. 

The balancing recommended on this level is associated with the Second Chakra. Use this Mind Exercise to help you let go of painful conditioning from childhood and allow something different to happen in adult life.

I Ching Readings Today - The Second Chakra

11. Use Intuition to Take Good Care of Yourself.

The healing recommended on this level is associated with the Third Chakra. This Transformation Game will help you take good care of yourself by letting go of any karmic agreement that is complete – over and done with or that’s causing you harm in any way.

!I Ching Readings Today - Third Chakra

12. Ground in the Truth. 

The healing recommended on this level is associated with the Heart Chakra. This Mind Exercise helps you take back your power and gather your resources to succeed! 

I Ching Readings Today - Fourth Chakra

13. Transforming Your Life. 

The healing recommended on this level is associated with the Throat Chakra. In this Transformation Game, you have an opportunity to go within and expel deep patterns of neglect that have come up in 2020 and prevented us from creating more sustainable systems for health, relationships and prosperity.

I Ching Readings Today - The Throat Chakra

14. Develop Your Precognition.

The healing recommended on this level is associated with the Third Eye. There are times when you need to turn your intuition and instincts way up. As we navigate this pandemic, this Mind Exercise will help you develop your ‘spidey senses’ and stay away from trouble. 

. I Ching Readings Today - The Third Eye Chakra

15. Let Go of the Cynic.

The healing recommended on this level is associated with the Crown Chakra.  This Transformation Game will help you detach from the malaise of collective cynicism that’s so prevalent right now.

I Ching Readings Today - The Crown Chakra

Thank you for joining with us for Todays Intuitive Reading and being a part of the movement into a New Paradigm of common good and common ground!

Please share if you know someone you think could benefit.


Rheanni Lightwater - Todays Intuitive ReadingResolve for a New Paradigm is put together by Rheanni Lightwater and inspired by – The I Ching Workbook by R. L. Wing.

If you would like more help, find out about Rheanni’s Intuitive Readings and Clearings (Long Distance or Visit Santa Fe)

Long distance intuitive readings are available with Rheanni (Ray-ah-nee). Call her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, Monday through Friday to schedule.

Disclaimer:
Resolve for a New Paradigm should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment of any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Self-care for Economic Loss

Soul Oriented Solutions: A Self-care Formula for Loss and Economic Stress ~

Self-care for Loss

Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKP Self-care for Loss

Many people are experiencing deep levels of anxiousness, distress and fear around our current economic situation due to the pandemic. These feelings can come on suddenly and be very overwhelming. What are some ways to provide self-care for loss and bring some level of emotional relief?

To help out, I’d like to share this brief exercise from RESOLVE that uses affirmations and the Intuitive Learning Circles™. You can use it whenever you are:

  • Stressed over a lost job or income
  • Grieving a loss of any kind
  • Recovering from an abusive experience – past or present
  • Dealing with a serious or long-term illness
  • Preparing for surgery
  • Coming to terms with tragedy, loss or death.

Here’s an example of how the Circles can help you restore balance.

Simply gaze softly at the image while you contemplate the positive affirmations that go with it for for a minute or so. Relax and breathe:

“I bring my senses into balance.”

“I focus them so that I can feel calmer and more aware of what’s important financially.”

“I use my senses to help me be more aware of where I am and what I’m doing.”

“I focus on thoughts and actions that are helpful and in my best interest.”

 

Next, you can continue Self-care for Loss by allowing this Reiki Chakra Key to provide chakra healing to your heart center. It helps to put both feet flat on the floor and place your hands on your heart while you gaze at the symbol.  Here’s a a couple of suggested affirmations:

“I am filled with compassion for the suffering of myself and others. I open my heart to the possibility of healing and moving forward.”

Strong emotions or insights may come up. The images may move, rotate, vibrate or change color. Don’t worry. That happens sometimes. It just means they’re working to help you feel better. Once the energy calms down a bit, you can move on to the remaining Circles with each of their affirmations to complete the process.

You might want to journal some of your thoughts so that you can speak with a trusted counselor or friend about what comes up. If so, get out some paper and something to write with as you go through the steps.


Mind Body Integration

Mind Body Integration - Self-care for lossFor best results, look at each symbol both crossed over the midline of your body and uncrossed so that the correction is more complete.

Feel free to move at anytime in any way to help you embody your experience!


Self-care for Loss

Step One: Asking for Help

Breathe in deeply, all the way to your belly while you look at this Circle. 

If you could ask for something that would help you feel better, what would that be? Place your request in the center, open space of this Circle and imagine you can send your breath to it.

For best results, put your hands on your knees and breathe in through your nose 4 times, exhaling with a long “hoo” sound. Do that three times (three sets of four breaths).

 

Step Two – Support

Imagine that you can bring healing and release into all parts of your body, mind and spirit while you continue to breathe.

Miracles - Self-care for Loss

Put your hands on your knees again and breathe in through your nose 3 times, exhaling with a long “haa” sound. Do that four times (four sets of three breaths).

 

Step Three ~ Peace

What do you think is the main difficulty or burden you’re dealing with right now?
Are you ready to let go of that burden and find a solution? 
If not, why not?

 

Step Four – Release

Where are you holding tension? Use this Circle to scan your body.

You can release the tension around anything that’s bothering you right now. Your shoulders are dropped. Your jaw is relaxed. Keep melting the tension until it’s all gone.


Remember to do that both crossed and uncrossed.

 

Step Five – Soul Vision

Consider what your life could be without those burdens. Sense the experience as much as you can in detail. See it, hear it, taste it, smell it and feel it.

 

Step Six – Remove Your Burdens

Imagine that you can send all those burdens to where ever they need to go to resolve themselves. Feel the heaviness lifting up and off of you.

You have done the best that you can under the circumstances.

Step Seven – Rebalance

Breathe again.
Feel a calmness coming over you.
You feel calmer and calmer with every breath.

 

Step Eight – Cleansing

Send away any illness, pain or fear that you’re experiencing. Send it to the Sun or wherever it needs to go to heal.

 

Step Nine – Faith

Fill yourself with strength and the knowledge that you are loved. 

 

Let yourself rest now. You might feel tired or sad. That’s okay. It means that you’re feeling safe enough to really let go and rest.

Closure for Mind Body Healing

 

Some people have gotten a lot of extra support out of going through this self-care for loss formula every day for twenty-one days. It helps to retrain your mind to think more positively and keep you on track toward your full recovery.


RESOLVE - Self-care for LossSelf-care for Grief, Illness and Loss is one of seven self-care formulas and mind exercises from RESOLVE, a handbook for staying true and following through in difficult times by Rheanni Lightwater.

 

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Disclaimer:
Self-care for Loss should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment of any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Handle Irritations Before They Handle You

Is the Way You Handle Irritations Working for You or Impairing Your Health?

Mind Exercise - Handle IrritationsDo you handle irritations by flying off the handle or is it more like a slow burn?

Certainly, it seems that everywhere and every day, there’s more things to be irritated about. But, are you letting them drain your energy or sour your mood? Do they keep you up at night?

Well, if that’s happening, you’re certainly not alone. These are all ways that we keep “scratching the itch” and make bad situations worse.

This is a great subject to journal about for your own personal growth. You can turn irritations into positive progress, and this Mind Exercises is here to help you do that.

Simply relax and gaze at the Intuitive Learning Circles while contemplating the accompanying positive affirmations and questions. Going through the process will help you discover how well you’re handling irritations and what you can do to improve. 

So, get out a pen and paper and let’s get started…

An irritation is there to alert you of a problem. Use Chigger Medicine to slow down and tune into what’s bothering you.

What is a problem that’s been irritating you? Write it down.

Often, an irritation communicates on several levels. Ask yourself:

“How is this irritation affecting me physically?

Emotionally?

Mentally?

What about spiritually?”

In what ways do you keep “scratching the itch?”

Is that working for you? If not, are you open to an alternative path?

Keep writing until you feel you’ve gotten all the information.


MIND BODY INTEGRATION

Mind Body IntegrationFor best results, look at each Circle both crossed over the midline of the body and uncrossed so that the correction is more complete.


Engage in a Change in Perception to Help You Handle Irritations.

It’s possible that you could handle irritations a little better by shifting your focus. Look at your situation from a different angle or through a different filter. You can get some help with that by relaxing with these affirmations:

Rational Thought

 

“I reclaim and balance my five senses.”

“I focus them to be present and aware of my current needs.”

“I use them to become aware of confusion, conflicts and self sabotage.”

“I gain clear awareness of alternative paths that hold beneficial resources, solutions, opportunities and _________.”

 

Relax and let this Circle help you adjust the volume on your senses so you can handle irritations from a more balanced point of view.

“I bring my senses into balance and see things as they are.”

River Medicine

 

Check to see if your energy is getting drained.

Mind Exercise - Handle Irritations

 

“I focus in on potential solutions that could really make a difference.”

Praying Mantis Medicine

This is a good time to write down specifics to help you clear away extraneous mental and emotional clutter.

You could also move, stretch, draw, doodle or journal via a stream of consciousness.

Art often brings in creative inspiration and self-care from your Soul!

 

Once you’re ready, use this Circle to help you reorganize your situation from a more empowered standpoint.

How do you need to reorganize your thoughts? Can you tell what the priorities are? What actions will you need to take realistically to follow through on those priorities? Write the information down, so that you have a plan to handle irritations.

Starlight Medicine

 

Is there something that needs to be re-arranged? Does something need to be re-calibrated? Does something need to be removed entirely?

The Essential Human* If you have a copy of The Essential Human, now would be a good time to use the process on page 10 to help you make corrections for a healthy and full expression of the power that comes from your Essential Self. Choose from The Essential Human charts #1 – 42. Use this affirmation:

“I detach from harmful energies and connect with beneficial energies. What number(s) between 1 and 42 would help me correct the imbalance?”

Water Element – Emotional Balance

 

Make sure that your energy isn’t being drained anymore.

 

Are You Heading in the Right Direction to be Successful?

Are you hanging out with those who will be helpful?

 

Bring closure to this exercise by closing any holes or pathways that lead away from your higher good.

“All holes are sealed and healed. 

I follow the direction of healthy protection.”

Piranha Medicine

Congratulations! You have a plan to handle irritations more objectively, with a different perspective and without the intense energy drain! Now is a good time to go for a walk or relax.


The medicines in this exercise come from Gifts from the Rainforest ~

Available exclusively From Soul Resources LLC:

Animal Totems for Inner Guidanceby Rheanni Lightwater

PURCHASE HERE

Inspired by Design Therapy from the native tribes of the Amazon, the forty-nine Intuitive Learning Circles™ and animal totems from Gifts from the Rainforest are healing and divination tools for anyone who wants to accelerate their spiritual growth and intuitive abilities.

♦ Find emotional balance  ♦ Deal with repetitive habits & attitudes that keep you stuck  ♦ Develop common sense  ♦ Learn to trust your gut instincts.  ♦ Receive messages from plant, animal & nature spirits.


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Rheanni Lightwater - Retraining the MindRheanni Lightwater CHT, CKT lives and practices in Santa Fe, NM. She specializes in learning difficulties and mind body healing  using Kinesiology, the Intuitive Learning CirclesReiki as a Master/Teacher, Hypnotherapy and Shamanic Clearing Techniques.

Schedule with Rheanni via Zoom or in person when you visit Santa Fe, New Mexico. Email your request to: soulresources@gmail.com or text her at (505) 271-4612 to schedule an appointment between 10:00am – 5:00pm, Monday through Friday, Mountain Standard Time.

Agreements|The Power of Your Word

Access the Power of Your Word Through the Fifth Chakra ~

Many people don’t realize how important the chakras are to our physical, mental and emotional health. For example, the Throat Chakra. Let’s start out by using the Reiki Chakra Key to relax and tune into the fifth primary chakra found at the throat. This energy center is about communication and is important to the function of our thyroid / parathyroid glands and affects the respiratory system. It also influences our abilities of expression and creativity. The color vibration of a balanced and healthy throat chakra is blue – as in “true blue.”

The Fifth Chakra Works with Your Agreements to Help You Create Your Physical, Mental and Emotional Health.

When you’re going through significant changes and want to improve your chances for success, it can be very helpful to understand how the power of your word plays into the mix. Unexamined agreements are often the cause of failure to heal, unnecessary stress and inner conflict. That’s because your unconscious mind and nervous system may still be following an old directive that contradicts what’s currently in your best interests. Especially if you’re dealing with boundaries or any kind of illness or recovery process, straightening out your agreements will streamline:

  • how you focus your energy to get well, and
  • affect your ability to make clear decisions that benefit you now.

To help you sort out how you’re using the power of your word through your agreements, here is a short explanation and mind exercise:

The mind is a recording device and is there to help you navigate physical reality by way of identifying things, communicating, making agreements and by blocking things out that will cause confusion in physical reality. Its primary purpose is to preserve and protect the body.

An agreement can be something simple like deciding that a plate is a plate or that the color red is the color red. More complex agreements are marriage and business contracts or taking religious vows.

Agreements are what organize collective experience and help us to navigate through life. If we didn’t agree what a hammer was used for, it would be difficult to build anything. If there were no agreements around a marriage, then it would be difficult to operate as a collective family unit. These agreements act as a filter so you can focus on relevant information and discard input that is irrelevant.

The mind records our experiences and acts on agreements that we’ve made. Let’s explore different kinds of agreements that might be causing you trouble:

1. Agreements with self. Examples: “I must be nice – I have to put the needs of others before myself”, “I’m not good enough as I am – I’m too tall, too short, too old,” etc.” 

2. Agreements with other people. Examples: “I have to keep working, no matter what”, “I’m the only one who can do it”, “I can’t trust anybody,” etc.

3. Agreements with society. Examples: “Being successful = being busy”, “I’m not the right sex, race, or age to ______,” “I can’t, my religion won’t let me”, etc.

4. Agreements with the collective unconscious. i.e. the recorded memory of human kind. “This is the way my ancestors did it, therefore, I must follow in their footsteps.”

Agreements imply certain obligations that shape our beliefs and behavior. Examples: “I said I would vote for him, and so I will – no matter what”, “I have no voice in this situation and so I have no power”, etc. 

What Are You Giving Voice To?

Am I listening to my voice or someone else’s?

As mentioned before, the mind is a recording device and is there to help you navigate physical reality safely. But what if your physical reality goes through a significant trauma or upheaval? What if you are unconsciously accessing agreements that no longer have relevance for you or that are in conflict with one another?

What if the voices in your head aren’t your voice at all?

Conflicting or out of date agreements cause confusion and blockages in your mind. That can create situations where you’re sabotaging yourself and don’t even know it. If you’d like to find out if that’s happening to you, ask yourself:

“Am I listening to messages, assumptions or agreements that are in conflict with each other?”

If so, can you tell what they are?

Notice how your mind gets confused and doesn’t know what action to take. Then when you do make a decision, whatever agreements that are in conflict with that decision come up and create obstacles. These obstacles could impair your health in serious ways, so it’s well worth it to address them and clear out the landscape of your mind on a regular basis.

“Are these conflicts causing disharmony or poor health?”

A Solution for Healing Inner Conflicts.

Use the Intuitive Learning Circle below to release conflicting or harmful agreements on a neurological level. All you need to do is look at the Circle and consciously imagine any “contracts” that are outdated or causing you harm are burning up into ashes.

Here are some “global” agreements that might be useful for you to release: 

“I release any agreements, obligations or vows that are causing me harm.”

“I let go of any agreement that’s blocking my ability to adapt successfully to my current needs.”

“I release all agreements, obligations or vows that sabotage my health or prevent me from taking good care of myself.”

“I release all agreements, beliefs, or obligations that I’ve been forced into against my free will.”

What other agreements can you think of that might be good for you to release?

Establish New Agreements or Renegotiate Old Ones that Will Help You Adapt to the Changes You’re Going Through:

“I now decide to love and take good care of myself. I find excellent resources to help me be happy, healthy and prosperous.”

“I listen to my Soul’s guidance.”

“I am fully present and can easily adapt to necessary changes.”

“Under my current circumstances, I’m going to need to renegotiate my agreements around ___________________, etc.”

*Notice that you always replace the old agreement with a positive, new one. 

Release Conflicts from the Collective Unconscious:

Remember, your mind can also access agreements in the collective unconscious, which is the recorded memory of human kind. Some of those memories or agreements may be causing you harm without you knowing it!

Use this Circle to consciously pull your energy back from people, places and old intentions that no longer serve you.

“I pull my energy back to the here and now. I reclaim my gifts and talents. I use them to fulfill my Soul’s purpose and my highest good.”

 

Dissolve Harmful Patterns Left Over from Those Old Agreements:

“I dissolve any destructive mental / emotional patterns or templates that sabotage my health, my communications or the power of my word.”

Keep dissolving the heavy energy by sending it to the Sun until you can feel yourself standing in a beautiful open field with a clear blue sky.

 

Once the patterns are cleared, give your heart and Soul some relief through closure.

“All holes, leaks or damages to my energy field are sealed and healed. 

I follow the direction of healthy protection.”

 

Re-integrate the Light into Your Throat Chakra ~

Come back now to meditating on the Reiki Chakra Key for your Fifth Chakra. Relax and softly gaze at the symbol for a few minutes with these positive affirmations:

“My Soul is in charge of how I communicate. I speak truly and clearly.”

“It’s okay to use my own voice to ask for what I want.”

 

Congratulations!

You have recalibrated the energy from your throat center so that you can use the power of your word to create in alignment with your Soul! Thank yourself for taking the time today to learn how to be more intuitive – a gift that will make your life a whole lot better!

Bring the energy of gratitude in towards the center and let it connect with your heart. Now is a good time to take a walk or go out into Nature to help this all integrate.


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If you feel that Agreements and the Power of Your Word has helped, but hasn’t addressed all of your needs, Rheanni Lightwater, BFA, CHT, CKP is an expert in the art and science of mind body healing.Rheanni Lightwater - The Power of Your Word She has 19+ years experience in energy medicine and environmental energy clearing. Contact her if you still feel confused, lost, or overwhelmed.

Ms. Lightwater’s mission is to assist people in creating vibrant health, happiness and prosperity. Contact her at 505-271-4612 or email:
soulresources@gmail.com


Disclaimer:
This Mind Exercise should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Law of Attraction and the Astral Field

What Does the Astral Field Have to Do with the Law of Attraction?

The astral field, or as I like to call it “the field of potential,” is located in the fifth level of the human aura.

Muscle Testing 102 - The Astral FieldThis level of the aura is filled with Universal symbols and abstract forms, archetypes, collective memory, numbers, colors and all the potential ingredients for the soup we call our lives. This is the place where we go to in our dreams, ecstatic spiritual experiences and shamanic journeys.

Attention Creates Attraction

The Law of Attraction is deeply connected to the astral field. Every ingredient in the field of potential is available to us, however what we attract in life depends on what we put our attention on. Therefore, the astral field is the place from which we can either create miracles or disasters, blessings or curses, depending upon what we have been conditioned to choose. If we want to change the flavor of our “soup”, we would do well to change the ingredients we have been choosing.

For example, perhaps we’ve been born into a family that attracts the ingredient of worthlessness out of the astral field. That ingredient could express itself through an overt pattern of abuse, poverty or violence. It could also manifest more covertly due to an intense desire to get away from those things. It’s important to note that the desire to resist certain experiences is still a form of attention and will create a strong attraction for whatever we don’t want.

Until we learn to accept what’s happening and have compassion for ourselves, the pattern, whatever it is, continues to be fed and perpetuated by our unconscious reactions. Once we’re neither striving for or trying to run away from events, people or circumstances, we can begin to understand the wisdom of non-attachment. From that place of objectivity we can freely choose ingredients such as self-worth, self-love or self-confidence.      

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          • Self-responsibility                                        Collective Karma

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Unearthing Emotional Conflict

A Transformation Game for Handling Emotional Conflict ~

Transformation Games help you to identify problems, navigate change and clarify what’s really important to you. Simply relax and gaze at the Intuitive Learning Circles™ while contemplating the accompanying positive affirmations that help you unearth emotional conflict using the I Ching and the Tarot.*

Relax and follow the directions… your intuition will come forward and give you the help that you seek!

Welcome to our Transformation Game about Hexagram #6 – Conflict

Transformation Game - Emotional Conflict
* Illustration by Norbert Losche’ – Cosmic Tarot

Sometimes the reason we’re experiencing emotional conflict is because we’re being dragged into unhealthy patterns from the past. These could be societal expectations, a family pattern or it could be an unhealthy, entangled relationship you have with an individual.

The I Ching says about CONFLICT:

“You may be facing a major disillusionment in your life as you begin to realize that what you believed to be a universal truth is only your subjective view of the situation. You will have to reconsider your premise more realistically. The need for an inner adjustment yielding a more harmonious outlook is indicated.” ~ Hexagram #6 CONFLICT, The I Ching Workbook, R. L Wing

 

To find out if that’s happening for you, gaze softly at the Intuitive Learning Circle™ and ask yourself:

“Am I tangled up with someone else’s belief or desire?”

“Is an entanglement or misunderstanding pulling me into the Old Paradigm of greed and inequality?”

“Is it dragging me into an unhealthy trajectory that isn’t my Soul’s path?”

If the answer you get is”no,” that’s great! Your Soul is in charge and you’re staying grounded in the New Paradigm of equality, personal responsibility and sustainable prosperity!

However, if the answer you get is “yes,” “maybe,” or “sometimes,” you may be losing your footing, or even worse, weakening your connection with your Soul. What can you do?

1. Get Yourself Into the Best Position To Clear Your Emotional Conflict.

You could be having trouble with your Third Chakra, located at the solar plexus (in the front where your ribs go up). Your Psyche or Essential Self resides most effectively in that location.

Take a minute or so to gaze softly at the Reiki Chakra Key for chakra healing so that your Essential Self can access its power effectively.

The existence of the Essential Self is discussed in many cultures and disciplines. Other names would be your Inner Child, the Authentic Self, the Golden Child or the Basic Self.
Regardless of what it’s called, you can think of it as your “I am,” or your true essence.”

2. Identify Mistaken Ideas That Can Cause Emotional Conflict.

Now that you’ve got your positioning right, let’s see if we can find out exactly what’s causing problems for you right now.  Gaze softly at the Circle below, and imagine you’re looking at yourself objectively. Ask yourself these questions:
“What is the biggest challenge I’m facing right now?
What am I telling myself about it? Is that the truth?


How am I seeing myself in this situation? Is this an accurate reflection of what’s really happening?
Am I buying into a mistaken idea that’s interfering with my truth or ability to succeed?”

3. Get Specifics About This Particular Emotional Conflict.

Ask yourself if your energy is actually tangled up with someone around this issue. If so, can you tell who it is?

 

Are harmful or controlling thoughts being directed towards you? Are you giving yourself a hard time with negative self-talk?

If so, can you tell what the nature of those thoughts might be?

 

Is there an energy drain or harmful habit involved?

 

 

Is your ability to protect yourself or control your own space impaired?

 

Is this conflict affecting your health, safety or prosperity?

If so, can you tell in what way?

4. Make a Decision to Detach From Harmful Influences.

If the answers you get are distressing to you, it’s time for your Soul to reclaim your personal authority and detach from the conflict. Note – Once you’ve detached, the conflict may still be there, but you’ll be relating to it differently.

Relax and use this sequence of symbols and positive affirmations to help you detach…

“I decide to detach from past resentments and the conflicts they create – in the past, now and in the future.”

 

“I let go of the confusion around this conflict. I now choose thoughts that support my freedom and happiness.”

 

“I let go of the poison and negativity that surrounds me and take responsibility for my own happiness.”

 

“I decide that my Soul is now in charge. I let go of mistaken ideas, flattery, coercion, shame,  blame, guilt and punishment. I let go of the desire to take things personally or waste my energy on emotional conflicts.”

“I learn from past mistakes and they are forgiven.”

 

 

“I reclaim my connection with my Soul.”

“My Soul is in charge of detaching from and clearing away false or harmful influences.”

“I follow the guidance and integrity of my Soul.”

5. Dissolve Destructive Mental and Emotional Patterns:

Imagine all those emotional conflicts and the ways you get caught up in them are like a huge storm cloud trying to surround and engulf you. This symbol for dissolving destructive blueprints will help your Soul clear the negative pattern. All you have to do is breathe and have the following intention as you gaze softly at the image:

“I dissolve all the patterns of this emotional conflict and any ways that I attach to them.”

“I dissolve shame, blame, falsehood, entrapment, gullibility, guilt and ____________.”

Simply see the cloud dissolving or send it to the Sun until you can see yourself standing in the middle of your own personal garden, filled with beauty and brightly colored flowers.

6. Reclaim Balance:

“I bring myself back into balance. Both feet are firmly on the ground.”

7. Make a Course Correction:

Imagine that your Soul is opening your Heart center and connecting with it. Feel the light within you getting stronger and allow your Soul to make the necessary changes. This is your garden. Your way. The way that your heart is guided to create – free of this emotional conflict.

 

8. Say Good-bye to Old Pathways of Conflicts.

Before you go – close the doors to all that suffering so you don’t keep recycling finished business! Use these positive affirmations to help you:

“I seal and heal all pathways that lead back to conflicts, punishments and suffering.”

“I follow the direction of healthy protection.”

 

9. Reclaim the Wisdom of Your Soul.

Next, take a deep breath and relax your body. Allow your Soul to download its resources – its wisdom and awareness for creating your highest good:

“I am filled with the wisdom of my spirit.”

Take note of where you feel this new awareness moving through your body. Allow yourself to enjoy it.

Congratulations!

Now is a good time to get out into nature. Go for a walk or do something you enjoy. The time you take for yourself now will help you move beyond emotional conflict and into fully embodied action.


Rheanni Lightwater - Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKT lives and practices in Santa Fe, NM. She specializes in mind body healing with family, environment and relationship clearing using Kinesiology, the Intuitive Learning Circles™, Reiki as a Master/Teacher, Hypnotherapy and Shamanic Clearing Techniques.

Schedule with Rheanni via Zoom, Skype or in person when you visit Santa Fe, New Mexico. Call her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, MST, Monday through Friday to schedule.

Disclaimer:
This Transformation Game should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment for any ailment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Staying Empowered Even When Things are Falling Apart

A Transformation Game To Help With Staying Empowered ~

Transformation Game - Staying EmpoweredDuring difficult times, staying empowered is essential to long term success. Social paradigms and relationships from the past are in various stages of falling apart and it’s important that you don’t fall apart along with them. You can recenter yourself and refocus your energy by going through this I Ching Reading* and Transformation Game from Kuan Yin.
To help you better connect with her assistance, she uses the Intuitive Learning Circles ™ to communicate with you through meditation, affirmations and visualization. Simply relax and gaze at the Circles while contemplating Kuan Yins words. Your intuition will come forward and give you the help that you seek.

Mind Body IntegrationMind Body Integration

For best results playing a Transformation Game, look at each Circle both crossed over the midline of the body and uncrossed so that the correction is more complete.

 

 


Welcome to the I Ching Reading and Transformation Game for The TOWER and Hexagram #23 – Deterioration

Transformation Game - Staying Empowered

Staying Empowered (even when things are falling apart) ~

“If you’re experiencing a situation where there’s a great deal of societal upheaval and discord, the situation may well be in the flow of the I Ching Hexagram #23 – DETERIORATION. Other signs or symptoms would include:

  • incompetence,
  • arguments,
  • blow ups and break ups,
  • power grabs or
  • illness due to being in a toxic environment.

If this fits what you’re going through, be extra cautious about how you spend your energy, time or money. Reckless expenditures, whether they be financial, emotional or spiritual, are much more likely to result in loss at this time. 

The best thing to do when dealing with deteriorating situations is to step back and get perspective from your Soul. Take care of yourself very sensibly and examine your reactions carefully. Be generous and kind to those you care about.

Remember that confusion is the ideal atmosphere for tricksters, abusers and despots. The ego runs rampant and doesn’t want to let go. Meditate, gather  and remind yourself that all things must end. There will eventually come a change for the better. 

If you deal with DETERIORATION with an attitude of revenge or resentment, you will deplete yourself by giving the situation more fuel, which is probably exactly the reaction your ego wants. Your good intentions are better served by keeping yourself centered and grounded. 

Here is some help through a Transformation Game called Staying Empowered.”

Gently gaze at the Intuitive Learning Circles™ one at a time and consider the question or affirmation that goes with each Step. This self-care process helps you to become aware of what’s bothering you, so that you can make a different choice about how to use your energy more productively and in tune with your Inner Guidance.

 Step 1:

What is a situation around you now that is in the flow of DETERIORATION? Trust the message that comes through from your deepest, wisest guidance.

 

Step 2:

What truth are you having trouble communicating in this situation?

RCK Throat Chakra Healing

 

Step 3:

What is the feeling that tends to pull you into that situation?

G 39 Emotional Healing

Once you’ve identified what you’re feeling, take a moment and relax into it.

“I accept that this feeling is present and that eventually it will change. All things change eventually.”

The more you relax and accept, the faster and easier it will be for you to make corrections on the deeper levels you’re looking for.

Step 4:

Epigenetic Healing - Divine Nature ActivatedThe next few symbols are from Divine Nature Activated and will help you release negative conditioning and stimulate some epigenetic healing. The key is to relax as much as possible while looking at each symbol. It can help to imagine that an old, broken DNA strand is falling apart while a vibrant and cohesive DNA strand is relaxing, healing and filling up with light.

When using these symbols, it’s important to relax and breathe as you use each affirmation:

“I let go of seeing myself as weak or powerless. I reclaim and maintain my connection to the Divine.”

 

 “I let go of rigid ideas that have changed or proven to be false. I don’t have to be right.” 

“I let go of needing to control the situation so that I can focus on solutions that are truthful and serve my highest good.”

 

“I let go of societal patterns of fear, violence and corruption. I hold the victory of love in mind.”

DNA - Guidance from Angelic Realms

 

“I see myself outside of the pattern of intolerance. I acknowledge and respect my fellow brothers and sisters.”

 

“I ask the Divine to lead me to common ground.”

 

Step 5:

Now that you’ve cleared that energy, ask your inner guidance:

“Are there any aspects of me that have become scattered or disempowered?”

If there are, call them back now.

 

Step 6:

It’s time to get more present and heart centered: 

“I am fully present inside my body. I organize my awareness around ________.”

 

“The light in my heart center is strong and radiating out into the world.”

If you’re having trouble, it can help to take several deep breaths. Inhale on the count of 4. Exhale on the count of six. Open and close your fingers. If you feel a strong emotion come up, go back to Step #4 and repeat the process of relaxing and dissipating the negative DNA patterns.

 

Step 7:

Now that you’re fully present, ask your deepest wisest guidance:

“What is an action I can take that will help me with staying empowered?”

Take as much time as you need to reorganize your thoughts and energy around positive action.

 

 Step 8:

Staying empowered is much easier when you don’t let things stick to you. Consciously let go of any issues that aren’t yours and peel off any sticky energy that comes from your deteriorating situation.

“I let go of whatever doesn’t belong to me. I send it back to where it needs to go to resolve itself.”

 

Step 9:

Dissolve destructive blueprints using these affirmations:

“I allow my mind to let go of any attachments to the past or the future that I’m still holding onto. I see those patterns like dark clouds dissolving into a clear, blue sky.”

“I dissolve negative templates, attitudes and behaviors that cause me harm.”

 

Step 10. AurasThis is the final step to your game, but it’s very important!

You will want to keep your auras close to your body whenever you want to stay empowered. That’s because your auras provide protection. When they’re strong and focused, they can repel toxicity and keep your energy from mixing up with other people.

So, to finish this game, gaze softly at this Circle for as long as you need to repair and refocus them. Use this affirmation if you like:

“My auras are very strong and focused. I naturally keep them close to my body.”

 

Congratulations!

Staying empowered is essential in times of DETERIORATION. Remember the transformation isn’t complete until you’ve taken the action you were guided to take in Step #7. If you like, you may go through this healing meditation again around other issues that are falling apart.  Be sure to rest though and take good care of yourself!


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Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKT lives and practices in Santa Fe, NM. She specializes in mind body healing with family and relationship clearing using Kinesiology, the Intuitive Learning Circles™, Reiki as a Master/Teacher, Hypnotherapy and Shamanic Clearing Techniques.

Schedule with Rheanni via Zoom, Skype or in person when you visit Santa Fe, New Mexico. Call her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, MST, Monday through Friday to schedule.


Disclaimer:
This Transformation Game should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment for any ailment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Untangling Family Relationship Issues

Mind Exercise: Clearing Emotional Entanglements from Family Relationship Issues

Family Relationship IssuesEmotional entanglements that come from family relationship issues can be very stubborn and you may feel powerless to free yourself from them.

Sometimes there’s so much going on the dynamics of a person’s childhood, it seems impossible to let go of all the conditioning and allow something different to happen in adult life. 

However, there is a way through to free yourself and get some relief using the Intuitive Learning Circles™ and positive affirmations with your imagination.


Untangling Family Relationship Issues

Step One: Think about the relationship issues in your life that never seem to get better.  No matter what you do, the pattern just keeps returning over and over again. How frustrating! They could be relationships in love, friendship or career. They could be about communication, equality, finances, or access to power. Just about anything!

Use this Circle to help you visualize the nature of the issues from a larger perspective. Are you willing to finally learn from this situation and let it go?

If you are, how would you describe your experience?

You might want to quickly journal your answer to help you express it later through writing, art, music, movement or sharing your story with others. Go ahead and get a feeling for it.

Is there any kind of meddling, interference or co-dependance going on?

Family Relationship Issues - Meddling

If you can get a sense of what it is, write that down too.

 

Step Two: When dealing with any kind of pain, breathing always helps. Gaze softly at the Circle and breathe in on the count of three. One…two…three.
Exhale to the count of six. One…two…three…four…five…six.
Do this as many times as you like. Breathing in and letting go. 

Imagine that the pain around the relationship issues you’re dealing with is like a huge iceberg. Visualize it melting, moving and breaking apart until your energy relaxes. There may be more than one iceberg. Feel free to move at any time and in any way to help you embody your experience. Continue until you feel a palpable release of tension.

Use this Circle to help you clear away any debris or garbage that’s leftover after the ice has melted. You can imagine a broom (or shovel) just sweeping it all away to the Sun!

 

Step Three: In Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs, the second level needs are safety oriented. They include protection from the elements, security, order, law, stability and freedom from fear. Family relationship issues often involve these needs. Second level needs are primarily processed through the 2nd Chakra (located approximately 2 – 3 inches down from your navel).

Gaze softly at the Second Chakra Key below for a minute or so. Then ask yourself: “Are these relationship issues having a negative affect on my safety and security needs? Are they causing a problem in any of my current relationships? Are they interfering with my relationship with myself? Is my Second Chakra holding some of that energy?” 

Am I having difficulty accessing information, connection or trust? Do I need chakra healing here? if so, what would help me to bring my 2nd Chakra in balance?

 

Step Four: Empower your needs and your ability to manifest your highest good. Imagine you can open your heart and get connected to your Divine Power. Take all the time that you need (and be sure you gaze at the symbol both crossed and uncrossed over the midline of your body for greater mind/body integration).

“I exist and am able to resolve these issues within myself.”

 

Step Five: Now we’re going to clear some emotional entanglements around this situation. Meditate on the Circle below and imagine that you’re on your path, looking to create healthy relationships, yet for some reason, you can’t see your way. Perhaps the path is blank, crowded or dark or has you feeling anxious and unsafe. Maybe it’s filled with junk, obstructions or debris. Maybe it doesn’t seem to be there at all! How frustrating it is to feel like this when you would really like to have things be different for you now!

Ask yourself, “What do I need to do to make my path clear?” Gather up unconscious information.

 

 

It may help to bring your senses into balance. 

“I reclaim and balance my five senses.”

“I focus them to be aware of my path and my current needs around relationships.”

“I use them to perceive how I sabotage myself in my relationships and what I need to let go of.”

“I open my senses to possible solutions, resources, opportunities and _________.”

 

The Essential HumanStep Six: Let’s suppose that by going through the following sequence of symbols from The Essential Human, you’ll be able clear up your path and see what you need to do to help yourself.

 

Look at this symbol for a few moments and imagine that you’re untangling a messy string of lights that could light up your path. Stay with it until the lights are all straightened out and ready to be hung.

 

 

Imagine that your path is blocked with dozens of little children fighting and bullying each other. As you look at this symbol, imagine that you’re ringing a bell or blowing a horn. As if awakened from a nightmare, the children change their demeanor. Some start to play quietly with each other. Some leave entirely and some of them come up to you and say “hi” nicely.

 

Now you’re walking through a garden party where lots of couples are dancing.  Suddenly, the center of the garden is filled with a pile of wriggling snakes, ruining everyone’s time! Use the symbol and ring the bell again. You can see the snakes disappearing into thin air. If there are any openings that the snakes got in through, see them close completely. Life has returned to the party!

 

Now imagine that you come upon a library that represents all the information your family uses to create relationships. Use this symbol to detach from the denial, the resistance, the lies and neglect around your family’s relationship issues.  Use this affirmation to clear away any falsehood:

“I remove all false information. I now perceive the truth about me.”  

“I reclaim my________, _______, ________, etc.”

 

Look at the Circle and ask your heart, “Am I present and in my own heart space? Or am I somewhere else?

Consciously decide to be present, in your own body, your own heart space, using your own energy.

 

Look at this Circle and ask yourself, “Am I accessing my own karma or someone else’s to create relationships? Has someone dumped their karma on me? Is someone accessing my karma without my permission?”

 

Affirm to yourself: “I decide to use only my karma to create my relationships. I naturally deflect and repel other people’s karma and return it to them.

“I reclaim my karma. I am on my own path and in charge of how my karma is used.”

 

“Since I don’t know how this suffering came to be, I let it go and forgive all transgressions.”

 

Step Seven: Now that you’ve cleared some major entanglements and karma, it’s time to address any assumptions, misunderstandings or harmful decisions that might affect you going forward. Begin by adjusting the volume to your senses. Some may be turned up too high or some too low. 

“I see things as they really are.”

“I see my path as it really is.”

 

From this new perspective, what did you misunderstand about relationships?What did you decide about yourself and others?

What would you like to change? Be sure to write your new decisions down, so that you’ll remember.

 

Step Eight: With this symbol, imagine the all the obstructions and misunderstandings dissolving away until your pathway for healthy relationships is completely clear. Do that both crossed and uncrossed.

 

Step Nine: Put it all together now. How has this exercise changed your awareness? 

What might you do differently now to create the relationships you really want?

 

Make an agreement with yourself to follow through on the information you’ve gained through this exercise. Then close the door on all pathways that might lead you back to suffering.

“All doors are sealed and healed.”

“I follow the direction of healthy protection.”

 

Finally, check in with your Second Chakra again for a minute or so. Ask yourself: “Is the original relationship issue still having a negative affect on my safety and security needs? Is my Second Chakra holding energy from that situation now?”

“Does my chakra need balancing now? Do I need Epigenetic Healing from Divine Nature Activated? What else might help me?”

 

Congratulations! You have made some progress with emotional healing and entanglements from your family relationships. The next time you encounter the issue, notice if the dynamics have changed for you.

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Disclaimer:
This Mind Exercise should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Do the Right Thing – Conflict Resolution

How To Do the Right Thing in Relationships

Do you ever have the feeling that you’re about to say or do something that you’ll regret? If you could do the right thing, what would it be?

Do the Right ThingIn any kind of close relationship, there’s often a false perception that the other person somehow understands what our motivations are – that they know what we really mean, even if we’re angry. Perhaps because we feel so close to them, we make a lot of assumptions. That can be a very dangerous game!

 

Help Me Do The Right Thing!

Note: This exercise is associated with the I Ching Hexagrams #6 CONFLICT, #38 CONTRADICTION and #43 RESOLUTION:

You can help yourself find emotional healing by taking this quick relationship quiz. The person or group you’re struggling with may not know how to interact with you because of mixed messages or unresolved issues from your past. By taking the time to go within and find out what part you’re playing in the game, you can understand what’s motivating you so you can do the right thing to resolve the situation. Remember, actions speak louder than words!

The way to play this game is to relax and breathe deeply while you meditate on the questions and suggestions that accompany the Circles. This first one will help you to slow down and let yourself focus on one thing at a time.

“I slow down and relax.”

 

Once you’re relaxed, go through the rest of the quiz in the same way – asking yourself the questions while you gaze softly at the accompanying Circle. Take your time, the answers might not come right away. The Circles are helping your mind to clear away mental and emotional clutter.

“What do I want to do?” 

“Have I made a decision that’s in CONFLICT with what I really want to do? If so, can I tell what it is?”

 

Is there an agreement I have with anyone involved that’s causing a conflict?

“If so, what can I say or do to remain loyal to myself?

 

“What things have I been saying to myself or others about this situation? Is that really true? What do I really mean?”

“What might help me respond better in this situation?”

 

“What am I assuming about the situation or the other people involved?” 

“Is that a helpful assumption to be making in the long run?”

“What might work better?”

 

“How am I getting thrown off?”

Is there an obsession or compulsion involved?

The Essential HumanIf there is and you have an updated copy of The Essential Human, you might want to go through the Emotional Correction E on page 101 to clear it up.

 

Continue your inquiry:

“Am I anticipating a problem? What am I afraid will happen?”

Relax for a few minutes and let the Circle help you calm down with this affirmation: “I decide to anticipate a positive outcome.”

 

“What do I need to do for this to change for the better?”

“Do I need to say anything to the other party to make myself clear?”

 

“Am I willing to do what would be required for this to change in a positive, meaningful way?”

Miracles - Channels of Love

If you are willing, ask for help from your Soul resources or angelic guidance.

If you’re not, this is a good opportunity to explore what’s really motivating you.

 

Imagine that you can release any old agreements, assumptions or grudges that are keeping this CONFLICT going. Visualize them like contracts, burning up into nothingness.

“I let go of outdated agreements, assumptions, contradictions, compulsions, obsessions or taking things personally.”

“I let go of the need to hold onto the conflict in this situation.”

Make some new agreements that support your true desire, like:

“My Soul is in charge and I forgive myself. I choose my words wisely. I set the other party free to do things their own way without me,” etc.

It’s time to bring RESOLUTION to the various mental and emotional behaviors that feed the CONFLICT. Use this symbol to dissolve destructive blueprints that are causing you harm.

“I release all behaviors to react out of fear, obligation, revenge or disdain.”

“I send the worry, guilt and resentment to the Sun.”

Take your time and visualize them dissolving like dark clouds into a pure, blue sky.

Next, seal and heal any leaks or attachments that may lead you back into CONFLICT.

“All holes are sealed and healed. All pathways that lead to CONTRADICTIONS and CONFLICT are closing.” 

“I follow the direction of healthy protection.”

 

Make a RESOLUTION to overcome your difficulties by making progress in a unified and productive direction. Gently formulate some positive affirmations about how you can do the right thing in a way that will really benefit you. For example:

“I make a RESOLUTION to grow in the direction of my general good.”

 

Finally, let your Throat Chakra balance out and support you in your new RESOLUTION!

Congratulations!

It isn’t always easy to do the right thing in relationships, yet if you’re willing to make a change for the better – anything is possible!

 

Todays Intuitive Reading


Rheanni LightwaterTransformation Games have been put together by Rheanni Lightwater, CHT, CKP.

If you would like more help, find out about Rheanni’s Intuitive Readings and Clearings (Long Distance or Visit Santa Fe)

Long distance intuitive readings are available with Rheanni (Ray-ah-nee). Call her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, Monday through Friday to schedule.

Disclaimer:
This Mind Exercise should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment of any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.