Learning How to Change

Transformation Game: How To Change with the Changes in Shocking Times

If you’re like most of us, you’re probably going through a period of rapid and sudden changes in your life. You may be wondering how to change effectively with all the changes. Or you may be resisting those changes with every fiber in your body! 

Transformation Game - How to Change with the ChangesThe I Ching or Book of Change talks about the importance of being flexible and knowing how to change  in many of the 64 Hexagrams that talk about going with the flow of Life.

In Hexagram #49 CHANGING, the ancient text states: 

“…the time of CHANGING suggests that although you may not know what to do, you know that something must be done.”

Do You Know How To Change with the Changes or Are You Stuck in the Old?

You can discover how to change more gracefully by going through this Transformation Game associated with the I Ching Hexagrams #49 CHANGING and #51 SHOCKING.  By taking the time to go within,  you can gain a deeper understanding of what the resistance is about. Not only that, you can find the motivation to change how you’re responding in a more positive way! 

The way to play this game is to relax and breathe deeply while you meditate on the questions and suggestions that accompany the Circles. This first one will help you to slow down and let yourself focus on one thing at a time.

“I slow down and take a few, relaxing breaths.”

Gently, bring your awareness to a specific area of life that is changing very quickly. What does it feel like? You might want to write down some of the impressions you get.

 

Now you’re ready to go through the rest of the game in the same way – asking yourself the questions while you gaze softly at the accompanying Circle. Take your time, the answers might not come right away. The Circles are helping your mind to clear away mental and emotional clutter.

“In this particular situation, am I changing with the changes?” 

Am I stuck on something? What is the concern?”

 

Whatever you’re stuck on, you could deal with it easily using this Circle that clears shock, resistance and fixated thinking.

Imagine that you can use the Circle like a bull’s eye to dissolve, melt or send a laser beam to break up any “hard thoughts” or fixations you may be experiencing.


An important note about Mind Body Integration ~ 

Retrain Your Mind for Mind Body IntegrationThe brain and body communicate through different channels when a part of you is crossed over the center of your body. As you work with the Circles, cross and uncross a hand or foot over the midline of your body. Use a soft focus and breathe patiently. This will help you access your resistances more fully so that you can release more. Let any negative self-talk go by breathing through it.

Feel free to move at anytime in any way to help you let go!


Continue with your investigation about how to change…

“Am I taking anything personally?”

You can usually tell if you’re internalizing something because you’ll start to experience physical, mental, emotional or even spiritual symptoms.

The Essential HumanIf that’s happening and you have an updated copy of The Essential Human, you might want to go through the Emotional Corrections on pages 97 – 101 to help you disengage from taking this situation so personally. You can use this positive affirmation:

“I stop taking this personally and open up to more positive ways of dealing with this particular situation.”

Imagine that you can release any old agreements, assumptions or obligations that are keeping you stuck. Visualize them like contracts, burning up into nothingness.

“I let go of outdated agreements to resist or to take on someone else’s resistance as my own.”

“I let go of the need to hold onto anything harmful in this situation.”

Make some new agreements that support how to change more appropriately, like:

“I choose to see this situation in a positive light.” or… “I am capable and my Spirit helps me to handle change… I am free to change in accordance with my highest good… I allow other people to handle their own resistance…” etc.

 

Open up the Third Chakra at your Solar Plexus. Relax and let the stress go. Deep breathing is your best friend in time of change! Move around or stretch if you like.

 

Imagine that this Circle can help you find the seeds of the resistance you’re feeling. They’re probably not even yours! Let them go back to wherever they came from.

Reclaim your own seeds of acceptance and nurture them gently.

 

Now it’s time to dissolve your connection to any of that old resistance. Use this symbol for Dissolving Destructive Blueprints and send all the patterns to the Sun!

“I dissolve the mental, emotional and spiritual patterns of resistance, shock, fear or disdain.”

Take your time and visualize them dissolving like dark clouds into a pure, blue sky.

 

Next, seal and heal all leaks, holes or pathways that lead to back to any unnecessary suffering:

“All holes are sealed and healed. I follow the direction of healthy protection.”

 

Are you grounded in the New Paradigm of cooperation and sustainable prosperity? If not, put your feet flat on the ground and let your energy organize around it now.

 

Finally, let your mindset align itself with gratitude and grace:

“I am gratefully changing with the changes.”

Congratulations!

It’s rarely easy to let go of resistance, but once you know how to change with the changes, your situation is bound to improve! The I Ching leaves you with this thought:

“Remove discordant elements as they appear, throw out outmoded or stifling policies when they once again create problems, and establish far-reaching clarity about the future whenever the opportunity presents itself.” ~ The I Ching Workbook, R.L. Wing

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Rheanni LightwaterTransformation Games have been put together by Rheanni Lightwater, CHT, CKP.

If you would like more help, find out about Rheanni’s Intuitive Readings and Clearings (Long Distance or Visit Santa Fe)

Long distance intuitive readings are available with Rheanni (Ray-ah-nee). Call her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, Monday through Friday to schedule.

Disclaimer:
This Transformation Game should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment of any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Rat Energy in 2020

Gaining a Larger Perspective on the I Ching and Rat Energy

The Year of the Pig is officially over and we’re now into the Chinese Year of the Rat. The White or Golden Rat energy is yang (masculine), and started officially on February 4th, 2020. That means we’ve completed a 12 year karmic cycle and are preparing to launch into a new cycle. Rat energy is known to be active, fertile, filled with energy and industrious. Although Mr. Rat is generally friendly, he does have his downside, as all Chinese Zodiac animals do.  In reverse, they attract clutter, are self-absorbed and feel perfectly comfortable in unhealthy environments! That may be fine for a Rat, but that kind of behavior could be devastating for others.

The major consideration during this next year will be keeping your environment and thinking clear. Illness, outdated thinking and unhealthy patterns of neglect could be a real problem if you aren’t careful. By the way, all this fits in perfectly with 2020 being the Year of the Emperor within the Tarot system.

The #IV Emperor is about male authority and the effective (or ineffective) management of physical reality, particularly the land. It’s easy to see how the Rat’s management style has already made a pretty big mess and is likely to continue. 

How is Rat energy mixing with the current I Ching Flow – March 8th to 22nd, 2020.

So where are we right now? The I Ching flow split up into the multiple highways pattern again around January 30th (read more about that below). In the meantime, you can utilize the energy of #12 Rat from Gifts from the Rainforest to get an idea of what’s going on with you and what might be helpful. Ask your Self:

Rat Energy
Rat Energy – Gifts from the Rainforest
  • Are my thoughts racing? Am I too busy to stop and take a deep breath? (If so, stop now and clear the clutter from your mind)
  • Is someone meddling in my business in a way that will start causing problems if I don’t deal with it soon?
  • Am I overly concerned with what other people are doing, rather than taking good care of myself?
  • Are others being negatively affected by my actions or inaction?If so, call I tell what’s happening and what I might do to correct it?

The overriding message coming from Rat energy at this time is: “Clear the landscape of your mind regularly, because there is quite a bit of litter. Let your mind calm down and notice how the body calms down as well.~ Gifts from the Rainforest, R. Lightwater

What About That Multiple Highways Pattern in the I Ching Energy Flow?

Todays Intuitive Reading - Finding ModerationThe first time I experienced the “multiple highway” phenomena consciously was in 2009 and it’s no coincidence that the political and economic “flow” became very unstable then.

It happened again this last year between the end of May and the Solstice in December – another period marked with high volatility and political drama.

The best way that I know how to explain it is by sharing with you what Kuan Yin has shared with me through her Transformation Game called Finding Moderation in the New Paradigm. This is what she says:

“Let’s use the analogy that describes this period of time to a massive highway system that has thousands of different freeways available for you to travel on – or not, depending on what you choose…

Some of those freeways are traveling on the I Ching energy of Hexagram #6 CONFLICT, which is marked by a lot of sudden stops and starts, resistance and polarization. When traveling on highways of this sort, The Book of Change warns about trying to force issues in business, political or personal relationships. Forcing will only escalate the myriad of conflicts into an out-of-control mess. Better to step back and re-evaluate how you’re approaching your situation and make changes based on your true priorities.

A great number of other freeways are moving in the flow of Hexagram #26 DETERIORATION where things are falling apart at an alarming rate.

Another is #11, SHOCKING and there is a lot of CONTRADICTION #38. As you might guess, those who are traveling on these freeways are feeling unstable, confused and very ungrounded.  If this is where you are at, The Book of Change still warns against forging ahead with your plans. You will simply be advancing into #47 ADVERSITY or possibly even disastrous DANGER, #29. 

Luckily, there are also some freeways that are moving with the flow of MODERATION, Hexagram #15, where ‘The predominant forces … are in the process of balancing extremes and harmonizing interests.’ ~ The I Ching Workbook, R.L. Wing

The ancient Chinese text describes MODERATION as a the best way to make progress by disengaging from extremes and opinionated attitudes and follow the guidance that comes from within. In almost any situation, if you are able to walk a moderate and middle road, there will be improvement in whatever you undertake.

~To help yourself get into the flow of MODERATION, go through Kuan Yin’s Transformation Game.  

 ~ Important Things To do During this Time

~ Your chakras are likely to channel extreme and polarized energy, especially if you’re around a lot of electronics. It’s important to your health and peace of mind that your chakras be kept as clear and balanced as possible.

~ Don’t let the avalanche of shocking events or bad news threaten your mental, emotional or physical health. If you’ve experienced a recent shock (and most of us have) do something quickly to RESOLVE it and clear it out of your system.

~ A lot of people are worrying and fearful about the future. Misinformation, manipulation and chaos can pull you off onto one of those unpreferred highways! Stay grounded in the truth and use the power of your mind to control your own energy.

Other Things to be aware of

~ The “BS” Richter Scale will continue to escalate this year. If you’re not sure whether someone is lying or not, calm down and listen to your gut instincts.

~ Many people are realizing that their priorities have to change as they watch things deteriorate around them quickly! Take the initiative and repair your priorities now.

~ Because of recent public health fears, we can all benefit by becoming more aware of any danger that we might be exposing ourselves to and learning  what we can do that would actually help. 

“The time of DANGER can be especially good for inner development. By holding to fixed and virtuous ethics, by maintaining your inner vision and ideals, all things fall into a steady, tangible perspective. You will know your relationships to your environment, and in this way you can accomplish your aims. Although subjective, this perspective is now in accord with the problems facing you.” ~The I Ching Workbook, R.L Wing

Keep developing your spidey-senses! A lot of karma is being activated. It’s very important that you tune into your Inner Guidance and keep good energetic boundaries so that you don’t step into trouble.

In Closing ~

Check out the Transformation Games and Exercises below to help you keep your chakras in the flow of MODERATION until the multiple highway phenomena subsides.

“Your inner development now requires a modest and sincere attitude. Do not indulge in extremes of any sort, and instead strive for MODERATION in all that you do.” ~ Hexagram #15 MODERATION  The I Ching Workbook, R. L. Wing

 


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What’s Next? Personal Growth and Self Care Games for Rat Energy in 2020.

Recommended Transformation Games and Mind Exercises to Keep You Moving with the Flow, Rather than Against it.

Because the chakras react to and reflect other subtle energy systems, an imbalance in one of the seven Primary Chakras is usually an indicator of a deeper imbalance affecting many people. Therefore, we’re using the Primary Reiki Chakra Keys to help you identify what needs correction and bring new meaning to the old axiom: “When I heal myself, I help to heal the world.”

Directions: Gaze at each Circle and ask: “Is this chakra balanced?” If the answer is no, click through to the game or exercise and see if it helps.

What’s Next? Personal Growth and Self Care Games for Rat Energy in 2020.

Recommended Transformation Games and Mind Exercises to Keep You Moving with the Flow, Rather than Against it.

Because the chakras react to and reflect other subtle energy systems, an imbalance in one of the seven Primary Chakras is usually an indicator of a deeper imbalance affecting many people. Therefore, we’re using the Primary Reiki Chakra Keys to help you identify what needs correction and bring new meaning to the old axiom: “When I heal myself, I help to heal the world.”

Directions: Gaze at each Circle and ask: “Is this chakra balanced?” If the answer is no, click through to the game or exercise and see if it helps.

Heal the Collective Karma of Abuse

The healing recommended on this level is associated with the Root Chakra. This Transformation Game helps you to stand up for yourself and release past patterns of instability and fear. 

I Ching Readings Today - The Root Chakra

Find out more about the First Chakra>

Creating Internal Safety

The balancing recommended on this level is associated with the Second Chakra. Go through this Mind Exercise to help you to get clarity about how well your personal space is supporting you in this dramatic time of change and what you can do to make improvements.

I Ching Readings Today - The Second Chakra

Find out more about the Second Chakra>

Know When Someone Is Lying ~

The healing recommended on this level is associated with the Third Chakra. In times of accelerating chaos, your gut instinct is often the best lie detector and has all the information it needs – as long as you’re present and paying attention!  Stay grounded and trust your gut with this Mind Exercise.

!I Ching Readings Today - Third Chakra

Find out more about the Third Chakra>

Balance Heart Polarity ~

The healing recommended on this level is associated with the Heart Chakra. The Heart Center is your go to place when you need to stabilize and organize your energy. Keep it clear and balanced with this Mind Exercise that helps you balance chakra polarity and release electro-magnetic interference.

I Ching Readings Today - Fourth Chakra

Find out more about the Fourth Chakra>

Say the Right Thing for Conflict Resolution ~

The healing recommended on this level is associated with the Throat Chakra. As we continue into 2020, conflict resolution is front and center in relationships of all kinds. This Transformation Game will help you gently examine the contradictions in your situation and come up with how you can say and do the right thing.

I Ching Readings Today - The Throat Chakra

Find out more about the Fifth Chakra>

Use Your Common Sense ~

The healing recommended on this level is associated with the Third Eye. Everyone has a “blind spot.” For some reason, we’ve been conditioned to turn a blind eye to certain things. See if you can remedy some of that by going through this Mind Exercise.

. I Ching Readings Today - The Third Eye Chakra

Find out more about the Sixth Chakra>

Clear Electro-magnetic Debris ~

The healing recommended on this level is associated with the Crown Chakra. If you’ve been having trouble with your sleep or connecting with your inner guidance, you can go through this mind exercise to help you focus and re-connect with your natural rhythms.

I Ching Readings Today - The Crown Chakra

Find out more about the Seventh Chakra>

Thank you for joining with us for Todays Intuitive Reading and being a part of the movement into the New Paradigm!

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Rheanni Lightwater - Todays Intuitive ReadingTodays I Ching reading about Rat energy in 2020 is put together by Rheanni Lightwater and inspired by – The I Ching Workbook by R. L. Wing.

If you would like more help, find out about Rheanni’s Intuitive Readings and Clearings (Long Distance or Visit Santa Fe)

Long distance intuitive readings are available with Rheanni (Ray-ah-nee). Call her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, Monday through Friday to schedule.

Disclaimer:
Todays I Ching Reading should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment of any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Cut Through Stagnation

Rheanni Lightwater - Cut Through StagnationTransformation Game - Cut through Stagnation

Welcome to Soul Resources FREE Transformation Game that uses the Intuitive Learning Circles to help you cut through stagnation and release the epigenetic patterns of apathy and inertia.

When you play, you’re strengthening a New Paradigm in our collective consciousness for greater joy and sustainable prosperity!

Our Transformation Games can help you to identify problems, change your focus to positive solutions, ground yourself and get in the present. We’re getting help from the I Ching, an ancient book of change that follows the flow of the cosmos. Simply relax and gaze at the Circles while contemplating positive affirmations. Your intuition will come forward and give you the help that you seek.


Are you concerned about how the pervasive pattern of inertia and foot dragging in our society is preventing us from finding viable solutions to violence, poverty, environmental issues and equality? 

Play a Transformation Game for I Ching Hexagram #12 that helps you to successfully Cut Through STAGNATION!

So, let’s get started:

This symbol represents a lazy, apathetic energy that blocks energetic REPAIR and REFORM. It clogs our vision and loves to masquerade as grief (think of the wolf in sheep’s clothing and crocodile tears). One of the goals of playing this Transformation Game is to cut through STAGNATION and the illusion created from this destructive pattern.

The false narrative of ‘thoughts and prayers’ after a devastating act of violence is an expression of this apathetic energy. Those who utilize it want to keep the status quo intact, so they spread it on thick to block appropriate action. The grief, the feigned hurt feelings, the guilt, shame and righteous indignation. You’ve been there, right? We’ve all been there. In fact, we’ve all been there for years! 

Unfortunately, when nothing is done, we resort to comforting ourselves with things. Comfort food, comfort drinks, comfort distractions. We self-medicate. We feel shut down, trapped and hopeless. Like being in a kind of psychic mud hole. Nothing gets done and nothing changes for the better.

Take a moment to meditate on the symbol and really get a feel for it. Once your unconscious mind identifies it, you’ll have a much easier time recognizing and dispelling it.


Mind Body Integration

Mind Body IntegrationFor best results, look at each symbol both crossed over the midline of the body and uncrossed so that the correction is more complete.

 


1. All right. Now that you’ve identified the energy, let go of any agreement you have to be trapped by it for any reason. Use the Intuitive Learning Circle below with these affirmations to release any unconscious connections you have to this toxic energy:

“I disconnect from this energy. I release all agreements to mistake it for a real solution or true comfort. I have no need of it.

Instead, I choose to expel it entirely. I now cut through STAGNATION caused by this energy.”

My new agreements are:

“I connect with energetic action to repair and reform the current situation. I am determined to take good care of myself and my resources.”

 

2. Let this symbol help you identify and expel the thoughts and energy of violence. Use these affirmations if they help:

“I expel the thoughts and intentions of violence and safely send them to the light.”

 

Cut through stagnation and violence

Epigenetic Healing - Divine Nature Activated3. Clear epigenetic information with the next few images from Divine Nature Activated. Allow the positive affirmations to help you shift your energy. Relax and take your time.

Imagine that you can cut through stagnation and “stuck” energy and that you can then connect with a light filled DNA strand that comes directly from your Source.

“I ask for assistance in disabling the destructive energy. I now connect with my highest good.”

 

“I hold the victory of Love in my mind. I am protected in times of fear and violence.”

 

“I clear away the smoke screen and cut through stagnation in all aspects of my life.”

 

 

4. Finish this section by imagining that the toxic pattern is sticking to you and that this symbol can peel it off.

“I remove destructive energy from my body, mind and spirit and send it to the Sun. I am clean and clear.”

 

5. Now it’s time to visualize the destructive mental/ emotional blueprints of inertia and apathyinertia and foot-dragging and send them to the Sun to be transformed:

 

“I dissolve this imprint of apathy and any connection I have ever had to it.”

“I clear my field of destructive mental and emotional patterns and send them to the Sun.” 

6. With this Circle, find any whirlpools or drains that could suck you back into the STAGNATION or any old patterns of danger or inaction. See them close completely.

 

 

7. Find any energetic opening(s) that leave you open and vulnerable to the destructive patterns and close them completely.

“All pathways to apathy or violence are closed – sealed and healed.”

“I follow the direction of healthy protection.”

 

8. You’re almost finished with the game now, please take a minute to refocus and strengthen your auras before you go!

Be sure that you spend all the time you need with this Circle. Your auras are an important part of having good health and protection.

“My auras are strengthened, repaired  and refocused.”

 

 

Congratulations!

You have lifted yourself out of the mud and detached from the epigenetic pattern of apathy. Go out and relax in nature, take a walk… celebrate!

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Rheanni Lightwater -Find out about Rheanni’s Intuitive Readings and Clearings (Long Distance or in Person)

Mind body healing and intuitive readings are available with Rheanni (Ray-ah-nee) online over Zoom or in person when you visit Santa Fe, NM. Call or text her at (505) 271-4612. Appointments are scheduled to take place between 10:00am – 5:00pm, Monday through Friday, Mountain Standard Time.

Disclaimer:
This Transformation Game should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Unearthing Emotional Conflict

A Transformation Game for Handling Emotional Conflict ~

Transformation Games can help you to identify problems, navigate change and clarify what’s really important to you. Simply relax and gaze at the Intuitive Learning Circles™ while contemplating the accompanying positive affirmations that help you unearth emotional conflict using the I Ching and the Tarot.*

Relax and follow the directions… your intuition will come forward and give you the help that you seek!

Welcome to our Transformation Game about Hexagram #6 – Conflict

Transformation Game - Emotional Conflict
* Illustration by Norbert Losche’ – Cosmic Tarot

Sometimes the reason we’re experiencing emotional conflict is because we’re being dragged into unhealthy patterns from the past. These could be societal expectations, a family pattern or it could be an unhealthy, entangled relationship you have with an individual.

The I Ching says about CONFLICT:

“You may be facing a major disillusionment in your life as you begin to realize that what you believed to be a universal truth is only your subjective view of the situation. You will have to reconsider your premise more realistically. The need for an inner adjustment yielding a more harmonious outlook is indicated.” ~ Hexagram #6 CONFLICT, The I Ching Workbook, R. L Wing

 

To find out if that’s happening, gaze softly at the Intuitive Learning Circle™ and ask yourself:

“Am I tangled up with someone else’s belief or desire?”

“Is that entanglement pulling me into the Old Paradigm of greed and inequality?”

“Is it dragging me into an unhealthy trajectory that isn’t my Soul’s path?”

If the answer you get is”no,” that’s great! Your Soul is in charge and you’re staying grounded in the New Paradigm of equality, personal responsibility and sustainable prosperity.

However, if the answer you get is “yes,” “maybe,” or “sometimes,” you may be losing your footing, or even worse, weakening your connection with your Soul! What can you do?

1. Get Yourself Into the Best Position To Clear Your Emotional Conflict.

You could be having trouble with your Third Chakra, located at the solar plexus (in the front where your ribs go up). Your Psyche or Essential Self resides most effectively in that location.

Take a minute or so to gaze softly at the Reiki Chakra Key for chakra healing so that your Essential Self can access its power effectively.

The existence of the Essential Self is discussed in many cultures and disciplines. Other names would be your Inner Child, the Authentic Self, the Golden Child or the Basic Self.
Regardless of what it’s called, you can think of it as your “I am,” or your true essence.

2. Identify Mistaken Ideas That Can Cause Emotional Conflict.

Now that you’ve got your positioning right, let’s see if we can find out exactly what’s causing problems for you right now.  Gaze softly at the Circle below, and imagine you’re looking at yourself in a mirror. Ask yourself these questions:
“What is the biggest challenge I’m facing right now?”
“What are the voices from my critical mind saying about it? Is that the truth?”


“How do I see myself in this situation? Is this an accurate reflection of what is really happening?”
“Am I buying into a mistaken idea that’s interfering with my truth or ability to succeed?”

3. Get Specifics About This Particular Emotional Conflict.

Ask yourself if your energy is actually tangled up with someone around this issue.

Are harmful or controlling thoughts being directed towards you? Are you giving yourself a hard time with negative self-talk?

If so, can you tell what the nature of those thoughts might be?

Is this conflict affecting your health and/or safety?

If so, can you tell in what way?

4. Make a Decision to Detach From Harmful Influences.

If the answers you get are distressing to you, it’s time for your Soul to reclaim your personal authority and detach from the conflict. Note – Once you’ve detached, the conflict may still be there, but you’ll be relating to it differently.

Relax and use this sequence of symbols and positive affirmations to help you detach…

“I decide to detach from past resentments and the conflicts they create – in the past, now and in the future.”

 

“I let go of the confusion around this conflict. I now choose thoughts that support my freedom and happiness.”

 

“I let go of the poison and negativity that surrounds me and take responsibility for my own happiness.”

 

“I decide that my Soul is now in charge. I let go of mistaken ideas, shame, coercion, blame, guilt and punishment. I let go of the desire to take things personally or waste my energy on emotional conflicts.”

“I learn from past mistakes and they are forgiven.”

 

 

“I reclaim my connection with my Soul.”

“My Soul is in charge of detaching from and clearing away false or harmful influences.”

“I follow the guidance and integrity of my Soul.”

5. Dissolve Destructive Mental and Emotional Patterns:

Imagine all those emotional conflicts and the ways you get caught up in them are like a huge storm cloud trying to surround and engulf you. This symbol for dissolving destructive blueprints will help your Soul clear the negative pattern. All you have to do is breathe and have the following intention as you gaze softly at the image:

“I dissolve all the patterns of this emotional conflict and any ways that I attach to them.”

“I dissolve shame, blame, falsehood, entrapment, gullibility, guilt and ____________.”

Simply see the cloud dissolving or send it to the Sun until you can see yourself standing in the middle of your own personal garden, filled with beauty and brightly colored flowers.

6. Reclaim Balance:

“I bring myself back into balance. Both feet are firmly on the ground.”

7. Make a Course Correction:

Imagine that your Soul is opening your Heart center and connecting with it. Feel the light within you getting stronger and allow your Soul to make the necessary changes. This is your garden. Your way. The way that your heart is guided to create – free of this emotional conflict.

Next, take a deep breath and relax your body. Allow your Soul to download its resources – its wisdom and awareness for creating your highest good:

“I am filled with the wisdom of my spirit.”

Take note of where you feel this new awareness moving through your body. Allow yourself to enjoy it.

8. Say Good-bye to Old Pathways of Conflicts.

Before you go – close the doors to all that suffering so you don’t keep recycling finished business!

Use these positive affirmations to help you:

“I seal and heal all pathways that lead back to conflicts, punishments and suffering.”

“I follow the direction of healthy protection.”

Congratulations!

Now is a good time to get out into nature. Go for a walk or do something you enjoy. The time you take for yourself now will help you move beyond emotional conflict and into fully embodied action.


Rheanni Lightwater - Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKT lives and practices in Santa Fe, NM. She specializes in mind body healing with family, environment and relationship clearing using Kinesiology, the Intuitive Learning Circles™, Reiki as a Master/Teacher, Hypnotherapy and Shamanic Clearing Techniques.

Schedule with Rheanni via Zoom, Skype or in person when you visit Santa Fe, New Mexico. Call her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, MST, Monday through Friday to schedule.

Disclaimer:
This Transformation Game should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment for any ailment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Setting Limitations for Strong Boundaries

Are You Setting Limitations That Are Strong Enough to Maintain Healthy Boundaries in Times of Social Upheaval?

As we enter into the New Paradigm of equality and personal responsibility, setting LIMITATIONS becomes more and more essential to our health and well-being. 

Transformation Game - Setting LimitationsAs a part of that growth, sometimes we have to ask ourselves unpleasant questions. In this game we’re going to address some particularly painful ones:

“Am I being dumped on or scapegoated? If so, how am I contributing to the problem?”

“What can I do about it (without creating more drama) in a non-violent, yet effective way?”

Welcome to the I Ching Reading and Transformation Game for: Hexagram #60 Setting LIMITATIONS for Strong Boundaries ~

“Extravagant behavior and lack of restraint has led you into a state of difficulty. If you are now feeling regret over this and not busy placing the blame elsewhere, you will avoid further mistakes.” ~ The I Ching Workbook, R.L. Wing

When people choose to blame others and you happen to be in their crossfires, you are liable to be dumped on. This tendency is especially common among highly sensitive people.

In this context, when someone is being “dumped on” (or scapegoated), it means that they’re consciously or unconsciously taking on responsibility for other people’s feelings, karma, behavior, etc. This method of coping is usually learned early on in life and can cause great suffering for the “dumpee.” In contrast, it creates quite a bit of freedom for the “dumper.”

Sometimes dumpers just feel overwhelmed and are looking for relief, as in the case of a small child. However, some people never learn to handle their own feelings and go around unconsciously looking for someone to shame, blame and/or dump their feelings on. Unfortunately, some people are actually narcissistic and dump on purpose to further their quest for power and control. A big, red flag is when they want you to feel sorry for them. “Poor me. I have it so hard!” Watch out… that means the energetic dump truck is pulling up to your driveway!

Another technique is flattery and adulation. “You’re so wonderful! Your work is so amazing…you’re such a great healer, mother, artist, etc.” Don’t fall for it, you’re about to be covered with energetic ick and ook from the ethers!

The truth is, unless you want to spend your life cleaning up after others, rather than living your own dreams, you’re going to have to start setting limitations.

All forms of dumping are an abuse of power based on co-dependence and a desire to escape responsibility. In addition, there are certain situations where dumping is more likely to happen.

If you feel you are in such a situation and want to do something constructive to help yourself, you can go through this Transformation Game on Setting Limitations. Simply relax and gaze at the Circles while contemplating the questions or positive affirmations that go with them. Your intuition will come forward and give you the help that you seek.

Begin By Gaging Your Willingness to Change:

If you’re willing to examine your personal habits and are setting LIMITATIONS for yourself that are healthy and life affirming, you can learn to stop being a dumpee. To get started, ask yourself:

“Have I been willing to let other people dump on me? Have I allowed it to happen a lot in the past?” 

“Am I willing to stop this tendency in myself?”

If you have a tendency to be caught off guard by others, now is the time to set stronger LIMITATIONS. Ask your Self, “Am I currently experiencing situations where:

1) There’s a lot of incompetence or my privacy is being disrespected?

2) People are noncooperative, argumentative or easily offended?

3) There is poor health or breakups in friendship or family relations?”

If so, setting LIMITATIONS is definitely called for.

In cases such as these, forceful displays of power will absolutely backfire. Realize that you’re being baited. Do nothing to aggressively confront people in regard to those particular situations and be very conservative with any investment of energy, time or money. Doing so would probably result in a nasty bout of dumping.

The best things to do when dealing with the “dumper/dumpee” dynamic is to stay calm, accept what’s happening and take care of yourself very sensibly. Don’t take the bait. Be generous and kind to those you care about and trust, while you stay out of their business. Find new avenues of behavior that genuinely support your well-being.

Let me repeat…

If you don’t want to be dumped on, don’t engage in dramatic emotional exchanges. That’s because whenever you’re caught up in emotional turmoil, you’re in an excellent energetic position to be dumped on. And that’s true regardless of whether the emotion is positive or negative.

To help yourself, gaze softly at this symbol and imagine that your karmic seeds for harmful or co-dependent habits are burning up.

“I purify my karmic tendency towards co-dependence and self-destruction. I now make a commitment to my higher good.”

 

Tell your neurological system that you are done with behavior that puts you in harm’s way – like shaming and blaming yourself or continuing to hang out with people who have dumped on you multiple times.

“I release my agreement to ____________________________.”

“I release any agreement I have to hate myself. I detach from harming or disrespecting myself in any way.”

Include situations like buying into gossiping, conflicts, contradictions, obligations, “duty,” lies, trickery or someone else’s suffering.

Release Fixations:

You may be experiencing shock that’s interfering with your ability to sense what’s really going on. Relax and use this affirmation to help you release whatever is causing conflict in you.

“I stop gripping on self-criticism and self-hate.”

“I release the conflict around _______________ or anything else that causes me harm. “

You can use this Circle like a telescope to help you find fixations in your mind and energy field. Once you find one, use the symbol to send a laser beam to break it apart or melt it like an iceberg in the Sun. There may be more than one.

Next, scan your body and energy field to do the same with any denser, hardened energies. You can even do it for the immediate space around you.

 

Open the connection to your spirit through your Heart Chakra. Allow your energy to connect with what’s true for you. Acknowledge that there may be some interference that’s blocking you from the truth.

“I let go of pleasing others. I now connect with the truth and the positive input of my Soul.”

“I exist and what happens to me matters.”

Setting Limitations On How You Contribute to the Problem:

Slow down and use this Circle to help you become aware of how you are approaching projects, plans, organizations and people that aren’t working in your best interest. If you let your thoughts slow down, you can begin to sense what is contributing to your problems. The very awareness of how you’re tied into the problem reveals possible solutions.

“I slow down and take things one at a time… is there something about this situation that I’m missing and need to know?”

“I clarify my awareness of what I’m doing to contribute to unhealthy boundaries.”

 

Dissolve any harmful thoughts or emotions that keep you in the dark. It might help to imagine those patterns like dark clouds that obstruct the light. See the darkness dissolve and dissipate into sunlight and clear blue skies.

“I dissolve the confusion and chaos. I let go of needing to please others. I let go of the need to_______________.”

Before you continue, seal and heal any holes that may have been hidden behind in the darkness. These positive affirmations work very well:

“All holes or leakages are sealed and healed.”

“I now head in the direction of my Souls true purpose.”

Be sure to do that both crossed and uncrossed over the midline of your body.

 

“I understand the part I have played in this situation.”

 

In this lighter, clearer mind space, ask yourself:

“What makes sense to do next?” or “How can I best protect myself in this situation?”

Congratulations! You’ve taken an important first step towards protecting your Self from being dumped on. Taking the time now to understand how you have unknowingly contributed to your own suffering is truly a gift of self-love.

Extra-intuitive Activities

The following extra-intuitive activities aren’t required, but they can really help you prevent future suffering…

Note: At any point during the rest of this Transformation Game, you may need to go back to the Release Fixations section to look for and clear additional fixations. 

Setting Limitations On What You’re Attracting:

If you’re approaching situations with an attitude of “I’m going to fix this,” or “I’m supposed to rescue this person or change how they are thinking / behaving,” you’re setting yourself up to fall into the dumper/dumpee trap. To avoid it, stay centered and focused on your own integrity.

The Essential Human* If you have a copy of The Essential Human, now would be a good time to use Emotional Corrections A – E between pages 97 and 101 to access and balance energies you’re pulling from the ‘field of potential’.

Going through this process will help you draw on the kinds of spiritual / emotional ingredients that will support your integrity.

“I am focused on my own integrity.”

 

Setting Limitations on What Kinds of Situations You Participate In:

Put your feet on the floor and ground in the New Paradigm – a consciousness of equality, personal responsibility and sustainable prosperity.

 

Once you’re feeling grounded, ask for the very best.

“I now access healthy nourishment and support for my Souls purpose.”

 

Imagine that you can form strong, healthy boundaries with this affirmation:

“I am surrounded with courage and determination. I reject and repel shame, blame, frustration, jealousy, impatience, panic and _________.”

Congratulations!

The fact that you have taken the time now to strengthen your boundaries and protect yourself will serve you well throughout your life.

Closure for Mind Body Healing


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Rheanni Lightwater - Sustainable Prosperity in the New Paradigm

Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKT lives and practices in Santa Fe, NM. She specializes in mind body healing with family and relationship clearing using Kinesiology, the Intuitive Learning Circles™, Reiki as a Master/Teacher, Hypnotherapy and Shamanic Clearing Techniques.

Schedule with Rheanni via Zoom, Skype or in person when you visit Santa Fe, New Mexico. Call her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, MST, Monday through Friday to schedule.


Disclaimer:
This Transformation Game should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Escape Critical Mass

Transformation Game to Escape Critical Mass

Rheanni Lightwater, reiki Master Teacher

Kuan Yin's Transformation Game - Escape Critical MassKuan Yin has been helping us through these I Ching Readings to transition from the old economic paradigm based on greed and fear to a new paradigm of co-operation, common ground and sustainable prosperity. Her advice springs from the I Ching (The Book of Change), an ancient book of divination that follows the flow of the cosmos. Because of that, her advice and instruction comes from a different perspective than ours.

To help you better connect with her assistance, she uses the Intuitive Learning Circles ™ to communicate with you through meditation, affirmations and visualization. If you’re unsure about how to use the Circles, you can check out Exploring the Intuitive Learning Circles here >

Kuan Yin’s I Ching Readings and Transformation Games can help you to identify problems, change your focus to positive solutions, ground yourself and get in the present. Simply relax and gaze at the Circles while contemplating Kuan Yins words. Your intuition will come forward and give you the help that you seek.


Transformation Game and I Ching Reading for Hexagram #28: Escape Critical Mass & Prepare for the New Paradigm

“The mindset of the old patriarchy is currently filled with chaos and curses. There is a lot going on, the situation is excessive and you may need to escape CRITICAL MASS soon.

Escape Critical Mass

Calmly prepare to make decisions about your priorities and your next move. Your better angels are ready to guide you. Ask for help and assistance will be given.

Carefully evaluate all of the things affecting you. In social or business affairs make a rapid assessment of your situation. Concern yourself with the care and development of your assets. These are things that you will carry with you, and they should become the foundations of your character.

Any goal that supports stability and equanimity is worth accomplishing. If this is true in your case, a methodical, practical mindset will see you through.

Above all, when CRITICAL MASS is imminent, action must be taken. Whether this is a carefully considered escape or a resolute determination to dispense with what is to come, success surrounds those who remain strong and certain within.” ~ The I Ching Workbook, R L Wing

Mind Body Integration

Mind Body IntegrationFor best results, look at each symbol both crossed over the midline of the body and uncrossed so that the correction is more complete.


Transformation Game: Escape Critical Mass

1. These symbols begin the process of disconnecting from the mindset of inequality and patriarchy.  Use positive affirmations while you gaze softly at the images:

“I dissolve the patterns that bind me to the old, patriarchal paradigm – past, present and future.”

 

“I reject and repel the harmful energy of elitism.”

“I develop caution and mindfulness to help me steer clear of dangerous situations.”

2. Release any unconscious connections you have to the mindset of inequality. Let go of any agreement you have to connect with it or put up with it for any reason. 

“I release all agreements with any false ideas or dogma about what’s in my best interest.

I release all alliances with chaos and curses and detach from them completely.”

My new agreements are: “My Soul is in charge. I am patient and receive clear guidance based on my needs. All action now follows my Soul’s purpose.”

 

“I now choose to move into a new mindset of healthy balance, equality and co-operation with my Soul.”

 

3. The next section uses images from Divine Nature Activated to help you release epigenetic patterns. 

Epigenetic Healing - DNAMentally, imagine that you’re untangling yourself from any confusion, darkness or sticky energy you may be feeling. Once it feels gone, imagine your DNA connecting with positive energy from your Soul.

The more relaxed you are, the better this works, so take your time. Allow the affirmations to help you shift your energy.

Note: DNA and the auras are directly connected. Be sure that you end this game healing and sealing your auras with the last Circle.

Imagine that the toxic pattern of inequality is sticking to you and that this symbol can help you remove it and send it to the Sun.

“I remove harmful communication lines from my energy field and send them to the Sun.

Once your energy feels clearer, take your time with this visualization:

“I now build and strengthen new lines of direct and honest communication with my Soul.”

 

4. Continue with this sequence of symbols – remember to relax!

“I see through the smokescreen of whatever is blocking my ability to move forward in a healthy way.”

 

“I release complexity and return to simplicity. “

 

“I receive the vibration of Universal Love and transform it into compassionate action.”

 

5. Balance and clear your Crown Chakra.  This energy center rests at the very top of your head and connects you with divine inspiration and your true potential.

Do the same with your Root Chakra, the opposite end of your Crown Chakra at the pubic bone. These two chakras work together to maintain stability and wholeness.

 

6. Now it’s time to set things right. Use this symbol for dissolving destructive blueprints to identify and let go of any harmful karma or emotional turmoil that interferes with your connection to your Soul. Dispel any patterns relating to the destructive energies you feel:

“I dissolve the energies that prevent me from unifying with my Soul.”

Seal and heal any holes or pathways that may be open:

“The pathways that lead to suffering are closed.

All holes are sealed and healed. I am protected.”

 

7. Once you feel safe, turn your attention to your beneficial seeds of karma and nourish them with positive life force.

“I nourish a balanced, stable mindset.”

 

8. Finally, let this Intuitive Learning Circle™ help you ground and get centered. Put both feet on the floor and use this affirmation:

“I am firmly grounded and centered in the New Paradigm.

I connect to the truth of who I am.”

 

9. With this Circle, find any energetic whirlpools that might suck you back into chaos or emotional turmoil. Close them completely.

 

10. You’re almost finished with the game now, but you’ve got to refocus and strengthen your auras first!

Be sure that you spend all the time you need with this Circle. Your auras are an important part of having good health and protection.

“My auras are completely repaired and refocused.”

 

Congratulations! You’re grounded in a lot more stability!

Remember Kuan Yin’s closing words – “Above all, when the need to escape CRITICAL MASS is imminent, action must be taken. Whether this is a carefully considered escape or a resolute determination to dispense with what is to come, success surrounds those who remain strong and certain within.” ~ The I Ching Workbook, R L Wing

 

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Mind body healing and intuitive readings are available with Rheanni (Ray-ah-nee). Call her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, Monday through Friday (MST) to schedule.

Disclaimer:
This Transformation Game should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Intuitive Reading with the Book of Change

How to use the Intuitive Learning Circles™ to consult with important books of divination like the I Ching or The Book of Change ~

The I Ching (pronounced ee cheeng) is an ancient book of divination that follows and predicts movements and energy flow in the cosmos. Intuitive readings that recognize the Tao encourage us to find our place in the cosmos and harmonize with it.

“To move with the tao (or gate through which all things move) is to be in a state of grace.”

Book of Change
Come into alignment with the Tao – the underlying principles of Nature.

One of the best things about The Book of Change is that it’s uniquely equipped to help you understand the nature of your circumstances in relation to the ebb and flow of nature itself.

This symbol helps your mind tune into information regarding the “Tao” or the natural flow of life, which is what the Book of Change is all about.

It’s easy to do, just relax and gently contemplate coming into alignment with the Tao.

 


Rheanni Lightwater – Intuitive Reading from the Book of Change

Rheanni Lightwater - Book of ChangeI Ching Workbook - R. L. WingIntuitive readers often say that it’s difficult to do a reading for yourself and that’s true. However, whenever I consult The Book of Change with the Intuitive Learning Circles™ I get very good results. With them, I am informed about key unconscious movements, concerns and decisions that need to be made within my psyche. For example, I often get forewarnings of unexpected or accidental encounters that I simply could not have been aware of on my own.

A simple sequence of Circles from Gifts from the Rainforest helps you frame a question or intention for an intuitive reading that you wouldn’t be able to formulate without a lot of experience. If you already have a particular question in mind or a choice that you’re considering, use it as a starting point.

This is the formula I use for insight into a variety of issues including health, timing and healing emotional dilemmas:


Come Into Balance with the Book of Change

Make sure the chakras for your senses are connected, balanced and clear.

 

Mind Body IntegrationContinue enhancing intuition by calming your senses and bringing them into balance. Some may be turned up too high and some may be too low. Relax and allow your eyes to rest gently on the Circle below.

Take some deep breaths and let your shoulders drop. Adjust the volume to your senses. Do that both crossed and uncrossed over the midline of your body to achieve greater mind body integration.

The chakra at your sacrum (sacred bone) is an access point for tapping into the flow of the Tao. Take a minute to make sure it’s connected and balanced as well.

Activate Intuition

Begin by slowing down, so that you can get in better touch with the best intention for your reading. Gaze softly at this Intuitive Learning Circle™ for slowing down with an affirmation like:

“I slow down and bring my attention in, towards what’s truly important at this time.” 

 

While gazing softly at this next Circle, sort through your mind like you would sort through a pile of messy papers on your desk when you’re looking for something. You come across a really important piece of paper (or several) that you didn’t know was there. Use the Circle to help you find it and pull it out.

If your mind is blocked or blank go here and read about Fixated Thoughts or Shock>

Clarify Intention

Move your attention to this next Circle and ask your gut:

“What do I need clarity about?”

Be patient and wait for information or an intention to emerge. Whatever comes up, make a note of it. Unconscious information often doesn’t make sense at first. Usually, it’s a general subject, possibly one that isn’t currently on your radar. Go with it and refrain from trying to force things or second guess yourself.

Or go to one of the Circles from Gifts from the Rainforest. Pick #1 – 49.

 

Continue your investigation. What concerns you about this issue?

Hopefully, by now more details are emerging from the unconscious mind and you’re more aware of them. If you sense an important Soul issue, go to a Circle from Soul Prayer Charts to help you know what it is. Pick #1-24.

Determine the Emotional Environment

Is there a particular emotion(s) that’s causing distress?

Are you holding that emotion towards yourself? Towards others or others to self?

Is there a decision about yourself that you need to change?

Is there an attitude, compulsion, obsession, or phobia that needs to be healed?

Choose An I Ching Hexagram

The symbol below is from SOS Soul Oriented Solutions and can be used to go through any list of possible choices where you want your Soul to help you find the opening to a solution and determine what process will help you the best. All you need to be is open and ask for true assistance. It’s especially good at helping you make a choice, fine tune your intuition and listen to your gut feelings.

In the case of the Book of Change, there are sixty-four hexagrams that might have useful information for you. So gaze at the SOS symbol and experiment with it. Remember that in this case, you’re looking for information or advice that will help you deal with the situation you just came up with.

What number between 1 – 64 comes to you first? Follow your inner guidance. If your mind is blocked or blank go here>

SOS - Soul Oriented Solutions

Whatever number comes to you, open your Book of Change and go to that Hexagram. You might need to read the whole commentary or just a portion of it. There are also what is called “changing lines” and you might be guided to read one of those. It could even be just one sentence!

Once you’ve read the advice, you may understand the message immediately or you might want to continue to get an even more detailed understanding.

Synchronicity

For example, perhaps you’d like more information about timing or how to synchronize your response in the most effective way.

 

This symbol is about timing and synchronization. Let your mind gently contemplate the symbol. Remember, no forcing! The more relaxed you are, the better this works.

 

 

 

The whole point of consulting the I Ching is to help you see your situation clearly so that you’re able to make an effective plan for handling it. As you look at the Circle below, ask yourself: “In this situation, what is the best timing for effective action?”

or “How long will this period of time go on?”

 

“Is there any danger present now?”

“If so, will it pass on it’s own or should I do something?”

 

“What can I do specifically to help myself?”

“Is there a number in the I Ching that can help me with that?”

If a hexagram number between 1-64 comes to you, go to that hexagram and do what you did earlier – read the portions that come up as important. If a number doesn’t come up, continue on with the question below.

 

“What do I need to do now?”

and “How might I go about doing it?”

You may get a clear answer through the Circle itself or you could be given another hexagram number and/or changing line. It may be the same or it may be different. Keep following this line of questioning until you feel satisfied with your answers. Write them down so you don’t forget.

 

Congratulations!

Once you’re finished with your reading from the Book of Change, be sure to thank your unconscious mind and yourself for making the time to take care of yourself.


 

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Rheanni LightwaterI Ching Workbook - R. L. WingThe text that Rheanni Likes to use for her readings is The Book of Change Workbook by R.L. Wing

Mind body healing and intuitive readings are available with Rheanni (Ray-ah-nee). Call her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, MST, Monday through Friday to schedule.

Disclaimer:

Intuitive Readings are not a substitute for professional medical care and diagnosis. I cannot give you a diagnosis and I can’t prescribe. If you are ill or injured, please seek the assistance of a qualified medical practitioner.