Navigate Contradiction

Intuitive Reading from the I Ching or Book of Change: Navigate Contradiction through MODERATION.

Rheanni Lightwater - Navigate Confusion
Rheanni Lightwater, Reiki Master Teacher & Feng Shui Consultant

In this intuitive reading, Soul Resources offers a variety of SOS formulas and Transformation Games using the Intuitive Learning Circles and the I Ching to help us navigate contradiction and get on the path to a better world based on the Common Good. 

The I Ching

I Ching Workbook - R. L. WingThe original intent of the I Ching was based on an Eastern philosophy of observation and marking changes in natural and human events. Through many centuries and contributions from shamans and master teachers, including Lau Tzu and Confucius, the Book of Change was developed into a full philosophy for applying beneficial human conduct to varying circumstances. The Art of Feng Shui is part of that philosophy.

Understanding the Larger Picture ~

When a roller coaster is being flung this way and that, it’s natural to grab onto something that you think will help to stabilize you. However, if you’re clinging to something that is itself unstable, you are actually making your situation worse, whether you’re aware of the mistake or not. It may seem, in the moment, that the larger the structure, the safer you’ll be and that encourages you to grip even harder. This is a classic survival response, and completely understandable.

You may feel safer for a moment, yet once you’ve given over the weight of your body to a larger structure that is in DECLINE and falling down, the gravity and force of the fall is exponentially greater.

This is the reason that you are  encouraged to stay in the I Ching Flow of  MODERATION whenever possible.

Todays Intuitive Reading - ModerationIf you can pull back and look at your situation from a larger perspective, you may see the truly precarious situation that you’re in as a society.

Your levels of communication are an extreme example of how desperately people are clinging to the way things used to be. Structures of communication are falling down, tangled and filled with outages, glitches, hijacking of information – these are all signs of the general DECLINE we’re going through.

This DECLINE is completely natural and cannot be stopped.

“Although DECLINE points to the beginning of a later flowering, the way you handle this current decrease in resources is of great importance. This decrease is in accordance with the forces in the cosmos and therefore perfectly natural and completely unavoidable… Accept the DECLINE and respond appropriately by simplifying your life.” – Hexagram #41 DECLINE, The I Ching Workbook, R.L. Wing

The text goes on to warn against extreme communication in particular:

“There may be less meaningful communication between you and yours, and a frustrating lack of information. Don’t become angry or provocative in an attempt to rekindle passions. Instead, gear the relationship down to a simpler form more appropriate to the time of DECLINE. Be as reassuring as possible to those dear to you while devoting your energies to the refinement of your character.”

“This work on the Self underlies the considerations in all worldly affairs. The DECLINE becomes evident in diminishing social contact. Again, you should not try to force events or carry on as though nothing had changed. Instead, turn your energies within and apply them to your personal aims. Success is yours through sincere devotion and simplicity.” ~ Hexagram #41 DECLINE, The I Ching Workbook, R.L. Wing

The Chinese Zodiac 

Overcoming Misunderstandings and Mistrust in the Chinese Year of the Black Yang Water Tiger.

2022 Year of the Tiger - Todays Intuitive ReadingThe Chinese Zodiac animal that has dominated the energy of 2022 is the ferocious TIGER. There is no ignoring the arrogance, sudden changes and contradictory behaviors that he’s so well known for.

This Fall, these negative behaviors will continue to escalate and it certainly doesn’t take much intuitive ability to figure that out!

However, it is wise to enhance our intuition and other Soul resources to take clear, affirmative action to protect ourselves against the forces that threaten to pull us back into a putrid pool of poison, extremism and chaos that is therapeutically referred to as Narcissism.

If we want to set the stage for greater equity, co-operation and sustainable prosperity, we must proactively call upon the more positive qualities of the Tiger like Confidence, Courage, Steadfastness and Strength.

The I Ching: Navigate CONTRADICTION.

To navigate the flow of CONTRADICTION that’s predominant right now requires a great deal of caution and courage. It’s important that your intentions don’t further complicate the many problems that are evident everywhere. It will be essential for any new invention or plan to be fully scrutinized and vetted for unconscious gripping and mistaken assumptions about what would be actually joyful for you.

Making a careful and comprehensive examination regarding your intentions and motivations will yield the best results. Then, because you’ve consciously weeded out harmful, outdated methods and procedures, your actions will take on greater meaning.

“This is a time when you may meet with the dualism in your own nature. You may appear indecisive or equivocal to others as you weigh contradicting viewpoints. Never before have you been able to see both sides so clearly. Arbitrary predispositions such as patriotism, clannishness, fixed ideas of principle or class prejudice may become less important in your life as you begin to see things in the larger overview. The struggle between good and evil, life and death, and all such opposites may appear to be simply the natural interaction of the great forces in the universe, as you develop the perspective of the sage. This sense of oneness or wholeness in a world of CONTRADICTION can bring you great depth of character and peace of mind.

Special Advice from the Second Changing Line:
“An unexpected or accidental encounter with an important idea or person will benefit you. There is a natural attraction at work here, although a direct approach would have been inconceivable or impossible.”
– Hexagram #38 CONTRADICTION, The I Ching Workbook, R.L. Wing

Soul Resources To Navigate Contradiction

Soul Oriented Solutions for Todays Intuitive Reading
SOS Symbol

This leads us to the movement of the Collective Psyche, which is upward this year. Last Year was a Year of going In and when people bucked against their better angels, they went Out, causing unnecessary ill will, suffering and divisiveness towards the collective good.

This year, our better angels are advising us to rise up and above the CONTRADICTIONS and darkness that festers below by following the Middle Road. As always, Kuan Yin offers her help and assistance through a specially chosen collection of Transformation Games, Mind Exercises and Self-care Formulas.

Gaze softly at the SOS symbol and ask for a number between 1 – 9.

Scroll down to that number and check out what that process has to offer you.


Transformation Games and Mind Exercises ~

1. Retrain Your Mind to Go For Joy.

When we go for “perfection,” that usually means doing what somebody else wants us to do, which only creates pressure, CONTRADICTIONS and an overwhelmed mind! On the other hand, going for joy usually creates more joy – which connects us with our true creative spark – and is the subject of this Learning Mind Exercise.

2. Communicating in MODERATION.

How we communicate can have a significant impact on how we’re handling the CONTRADICTIONS in our different points of view. When opposing viewpoints come front and center, striking a balance through MODERATION can bridge the gap and become the basis for future re-unification.

3. Returning To Danger.

If you are aware of the need for a new beginning and have the courage to make the change, this exercise will help you avoid RETURNING into the trap of narcissism.

4. Develop Precognition to Stay Out of Trouble.

Over the next few weeks, it would be a good idea to keep tuning into your gut instincts to shed some light on potential situations where you might be better off staying out of the way. This Mind Exercise will bring intuitive hits, hunches and other unconscious information up to the surface to be examined more closely.

5. Understanding What’s Next in the Year of the Tiger.

Take a quick quiz to see what CONTRADICTIONS are keeping you from following your path over the next three months or so.


Self-discipline Will Help Us Navigate CONTRADICTION ~

“The time calls for self-discipline. When difficulties arise, do not place the blame upon others. Once you begin to take responsibility for your own destiny you can bring order to your environment.” ~ Sixth Changing Line, MODERATION, The I Ching Workbook by R. L. Wing

If you are struggling with the massive amount of stress, lose and mistrust going around and through you, Join us! Sign up for our new series – SOS – Navigating Loss and Compassion Fatigue.

Navigate Confusion & Compassion FatigueSOS Self-care Formulas and Mind Exercises can help you navigate confusion and restore yourself:

6. Develop Healthy BoundariesIt’s a valuable skill to know how to shift your energy and develop healthy boundaries. This Self-care Formula uses affirmations and the Intuitive Learning Circles to help you learn to consciously strengthen your autonomy and ability to close off negative thoughts, emotions and energies.

7. Clear Perception. If you’d like to navigate contradiction, you’ll need to develop clear perception so you’ll know that you’re heading in the right direction. This mind exercise will help you uncover several reasons why you might be unconsciously heading in the wrong direction.

8. Overwhelm Help. Many of us are completely exhausted by all that’s happened – and we know that the pressure over the next few months will only go up. When you come up against physical or mental overwhelm, exhaustion or collapse, this self-care formula provides a helping hand back to balance.


Chakra Healing and Clearing ~

Recommended Transformation Games and Mind Exercises to Keep You Moving with the Flow, Rather than Against it.

9. Advanced Chakra Healing.

The sheer amount of blocked or stuck energies indicates that we need to find innovative methods for handling radical energy reversals and be conscious about it.

Kuan Yin has helped put together a whole medicine cabinet of Transformation Games and Self-care Formulas that specifically address our chakras and their accompanying psychological challenges. See the full selection and explanation here>


Coming Soon

Online Groups for SOS – Navigating Loss and Compassion Fatigue.

If you are looking for group energy medicine sessions for our PTSD Series of Self-care Formulas and Mind Exercises, Rheanni will be offering Private and Group Coaching – Online Events through Zoom: 

To inquire, call or text Rheanni at: (505) 271-4612 to schedule or email: info@soulresourcesllc.com


About the Author of Navigate Contradiction

Rheanni Lightwater - Adapting to Change

Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKT specializes in online mind body healing using Reiki, Hypnotherapy, Energy Medicine and the Intuitive Learning CirclesSpecialized protocols include Advanced Energy Recalibrations for:

  • Enhanced Immune Response
  • Respiratory and Circulatory Health
  • Overstimulated Nervous System and Immune Response
  • Digestive and Intestinal Health
  • Sleep Difficulties and Nightmares
  • Chemical Sensitivities and Static Electro-magnetic Clearing
  • Trauma and Compassion Fatigue

Long distance intuitive readings are available with Rheanni (Ray-ah-nee). Find out about her online Intuitive Readings and Clearings.

Schedule with Rheanni via Zoom, FaceTime or in person when you visit Santa Fe, New Mexico. Call or text (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, MST, Monday through Friday to schedule or email: info@soulresourcesllc.com


Disclaimer:
Navigate Contradiction should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment of any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Clear Your Crown Chakra

When In Search of the Truth: Clear Your Crown Chakra ~

Clear Your Crown Chakra of False ImprintsIt can be hard to keep your mind clear when lies are everywhere. The sheer amount of them can make your head spin and have you doubt your sanity! Luckily, there are ways to detach from the crazy-making and get centered again. This Mind Exercise has been put together to be one of those ways. Simply go through this step by step process and you will be guided to clear your Crown Chakra and strengthen your Soul connection.

Directions: Find a quiet place if possible, where you won’t be disturbed for 20 – 30 minutes. Begin by reading the information and then gazing gently at each Circle that goes with it for approximately two minutes. A longer or shorter time may be necessary. Let yourself breathe and relax as much as possible. Don’t worry if the images move around or change in any way. That just means the Circles are working and that your mind and body are coming into balance. 

Some emotions might come up as well. That also means the Circles are working. If you’re being hard on yourself or afraid you aren’t “doing it right,” give yourself permission to continue relaxing. You could very well be releasing confusion that’s caused you quite a bit of suffering for some time now. Resolve to patiently keep breathing and let it go.


A Series of Divine Connections

The Seventh or Crown Chakra is an energy center that, among many other things, helps us to process self actualization needs like realizing personal potential, self-fulfillment and seeking personal growth or peak experiences. When the Crown Chakra is blocked, it’s easy to get confused and misled by false information.

Use this Reiki Chakra Key to tap into your Crown Chakra at the top of your head. Relax for a minute or two. Does it feel balanced and open? If not, how would you describe it? Clogged? Shut down? Disconnected?

Clear Your Crown Chakra
Crown Chakra Key

Clearing your Crown Chakra when it’s blocked is one of the most important energetic interventions you can employ to maintain a free and open mind.

Why do I say that?

Because, when the Seventh Chakra is blocked by false imprints and entanglements, a domino effect is created that impairs the Sixth Chakra, also known as “The Third Eye.”

The Third Eye is located in the center of the forehead between the eyebrows and governs our need for spiritual insight and understanding, among many other things. When it’s open and clear, a person can properly “see” and utilize their own intuition and common sense.

Third Eye Chakra Key

If those important mental functions get thrown off, the person becomes more susceptible to delusions and fantasy thinking that emanate from groupthink and herd mentality.

They begin to doubt themselves, become cynical and rely on the opinions of others. This loss of personal power creates a stage that’s set perfectly for conspiracies and cults to come in and take over.

Take a moment and use this Reiki Chakra Key to tap into your Third Eye. How does it feel? Clogged? Cluttered? Chaotic?


If you’re experiencing any blockages, it may help to meditate on this sequence that helps connect a person’s Crown Chakra to their Soul Chakra:

The goal is to connect your Crown Chakra to your Soul Chakra located directly above it.

Crown Chakra – Located at Top of Your Head

Soul Star Connection

Soul Chakra
Soul Chakra – Located Just Above Your Head

It may help to scroll back and forth through the sequence several times to establish a strong connection…

 

Being able clear your Crown Chakra and maintain it requires clear agreements from you to connect directly with your own Soul and Divine Connection – rather than going through someone else’s.

An example of this would be in religious organizations. Many spiritual institutions or philosophies from the old paradigm have taught that we have to go through the priest, guru or spiritual leader to find a connection to the Divine. This is no longer true in the New Paradigm. We each have our own connection. We just need to know how to make that connection and keep it.

Connection to Spiritual Guidance

You may say, “I don’t need to connect with my Divinity through another person or group!” And yet, human beings have been trained for millennia to do exactly that. The conditioning to hand over our personal authority is deeply ingrained and maintained on an unconscious level. Even when we rebel against it, we’re still reacting out of that conditioning. We can’t just snap our fingers and dismiss all that cultural training.

Ask yourself, are you experiencing a direct and clear connection to your spiritual guidance?

A New Way to Relate To Ourselves and Others ~

Think about the contracts or agreements you hold around authority and self-determination: the people, the places and the organizations that have been important to you throughout your life. They could be affecting you in a negative way now.

Is there anyone trying to control me? Am I unknowingly interfering with someone else?

Those agreements may not be over, but they have certainly changed! For example, you could still want to care about a significant person or group, but that doesn’t mean that you want to let them control you or interfere with your thoughts.

Then there are those people who you don’t care about, and yet they are always trying to get into your head…

Mind control… brainwashing… herd mentality… it’s enough to drive you crazy! But it doesn’t have to…

 

Give yourself permission to have healthy boundaries.

Free up your energy with the Circle below by letting go of old, out-dated agreements about control, authority and self-determination.

Release sub-conscious agreements to put up with control and manipulation. See completed debts, vows and resentments burn up like old contracts in a beautiful, violet flame.

“I let go of all Soul Agreements that are harmful or interfere with healthy boundaries or spiritual guidance.  
I don’t need to go through others to connect with my Divinity.
I let go of interference with others. 
I allow the necessary changes to take place.”

You may want to release harmful connections with a project, a belief system, a person or an organization that’s no longer serving your needs. Release them by surrendering those Soul Contracts into the fire. Affirm your own authority and ability to say “no.”

“I release and expel all harmful thoughts and belief systems that interfere with direct communication and connection to my heart and Soul.

 

Free your mind and spirit from the patriarchal imprint of control, greed, hatred, prejudice and fear.

“I choose to create Common Ground through cooperation, equality and sustainable prosperity instead.”

 

Decide to connect through Joy and Gratitude, rather than Greed and Revenge.

When your chakras can source from a positive life force, Divine Connection is possible and preferable.

“I decide to connect through Joy, rather than fear or hatred.” 

 

Reclaim Your Personal Power ~

“I am free to choose autonomy and divine connection to my Soul.”

Release Attachments ~

Because of the sheer amount of information and interference we encounter everyday, we need to address the possibility that various aspects of our subtle energy field may be damaged or struggling with attachments.

Use this Key to relax and meditate on for as long as you like. Like a healing balm, imagine that a loving coat of peace and comfort is pouring down over you.

“My energy system can easily and effectively neutralize interfering energies and detach from them.”

 

Correct Reversals and Blockages ~

When we’re under extreme stress, it’s not uncommon for the chakras and/or meridians to start running in reverse or shut down entirely. Relax and let this symbol help you make corrections to problems including deformations, reversals and misdirections.

“I repair any glitches, holes or blockages in my energy system.”

Take all the time you need with this.

Connect the Hara Lines ~

Whenever working with chakras, you may need to repair and/or strengthen hara lines for improved communication and healing.
The hara lines are like tiny webs of light that connect the chakras throughout your body. Sometimes they’re broken or damaged because of trauma, illness, toxicity or sudden changes in the sympathetic nervous system (fight or flight).
This Circle gives extra energy to the hara lines that surround and connect with your Crown Chakra.

“I repair and strengthen my hara lines.”
“My chakras are connected properly to my Soul
through a golden web of light.”

This Circle also helps us navigate where we are and to organize our consciousness around being present.

“I am present inside of my body. Everyone else is outside.”

 

Adapt to the Generative Life Energies Available in the New Paradigm ~

It helps to know that you can close down many harmful energies left over from the old paradigm that may be running rampant through your body, mind and space.

“I have protection.”
“I close down all harmful energy channels.”

Once they’re closed, you’ll find that your chakra centers are more open and receptive to the generative life force (chi) that is available in the New Paradigm. You can “install” this symbol like an adaptive filter for you to function better with the lighter, quicker energy of Air.

“My mind is open and clear to receive generative life force.”

 

Let Go of Any Remaining Ties That Connect You To Abuse~

“I let go of those bridges that lead me back to trauma, control or abuse.”


 

Check Back Into Your Connection to Spiritual Guidance Again ~

How are you experiencing your spiritual guidance now? Is it more direct? Is there anything you would change or improve on it?

 

Ground the Benefits ~

Take a moment and get grounded so that you can actualize this new connection with your Crown Chakra.

Congratulations!

You are learning to manage your self-determination in a conscious, balanced and beneficial way. Now would be an excellent time to go for a walk out in Nature or exercise.

Be sure to move your body and breathe deeply!


 


About the Author of Clear Your Crown Chakra ~

Rheanni Lightwater
Rheanni Lightwater – Reiki Master Teacher

Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKT live and practices in Santa Fe, New Mexico and has 25+ years experience in the art and science of mind body healing. Contact her for a private session if you still feel like you need support.

Ms. Lightwater’s mission is to assist people in creating healthy balance and harmony in their lives through energy medicine, hypnotherapy and feng shui clearing. Sessions are available online or when you visit Santa Fe. Contact her at 505-271-4612 MST or email: info@soulresourcesllc.com.


Disclaimer: Clear Your Crown Chakra should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment of any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Emotional Stress and Memory

Can Emotional Stress Affect Your Memory?

Especially when the stakes are high, you need to remember the important things. However, people often times have memory problems when they’re under a lot of emotional stress, especially if they’re highly sensitive. Why is that and what can be done to help?

Emotional Stress If this sounds like you, you are probably overwhelmed by the uncertainty and ungrounded by the sheer amount of information that you feel you have to process. You might be experiencing symptoms like the ones below. 

  • Processing difficult news 
  • Feeling weak or mentally exhausted
  • Disoriented due to grief or sudden loss
  • Picking up on other peoples pain
  • Noticing an increase in forgetfulness
  • Getting confused more easily than usual

If you are, you’re not alone and you can easily get some relief by going through the Emotional Stress that Affects Memory Exercise out of our Soul Oriented Solutions series.

Directions: Start by confirming that this is the best formula for you with the SOS Symbol.

SOS - Soul Oriented Solutions for Emotional Stress
SOS Symbol

Next, go through this short mind exercise to understand how emotional stress might be causing memory lapses in your case and what you can do to help yourself. Read each step and then gaze softly at its Circle, one at a time.

Give yourself permission to look at the Circles in any way or from any angle that you like. All you have to do is stay relaxed. If you’re drawn to focus on the center of a Circle, great!

If you come up with a message, an image or instinctively want to trace over the lines, let your imagination guide you. A playful approach reduces stress and opens up possibilities so you can look at your situation from different perspectives.

Developing intuition in this way enhances your personal growth and can keep those creative juices flowing for better mind function.

Caution: the use of this exercise is not intended take the place of appropriate medical and/or psychiatric care. If you are having prolonged or increasing bouts of memory loss, seek the appropriate medical help.

Mind Body Integration

Mind Body Integration - Self-care for lossFor best results, look at each symbol both crossed over the midline of your body and uncrossed so that the correction is more complete.

Feel free to move at anytime in any way to help you embody your experience!


Stress That Affects Memory ~

How Are You Experiencing Disorientation?

1. We’re going to look at several possible reasons why emotional stress might be affecting your memory. One reason could be that you are disoriented due to a sudden recent change. You might also be picking up on other people’s stress. Another possibility could be that your mind has been exposed to an overwhelming amount of information. It helps to be aware what is involved.

Let this Circle help you gather up any important information involved. Your unconscious mind knows what’s pertinent and what’s not.

You might want to jot down any impressions you notice. However, don’t be surprised if nothing definite comes to you. There may not be any words because the unconscious mind is not linear. 

Just make note of what your experience is for now.

 

What is a Clear Intention That will Help?

2. To help bring your mind into focus, establish a simple and clear intention for this exercise.

“I improve mental acuity and brain function.”

Go ahead and meditate on the center open space of this chart with that intention in mind. Breathe deeply and relax. Don’t try to make anything happen. A relaxed mind will lead you to a more relaxed body!

When the energy of the chart slows down, you’re ready to move onto the next step.

 

What Would You Like to Shine Light On?

3. The pineal gland is an important part of your brain because of its main function of regulating light and darkness through its production and secretion of melatonin. In addition, the pineal contains light-sensitive cells that control the circadian cycle of sleep and wakefulness.
Melatonin also supports healthy memory function and reproductive cycles.

Relax and breathe for a minute or two and let this Chakra Key help you clear toxins from your pineal gland so that your natural rhythms and cycles can come into better balance.

 

How Would You Like to Feel?

4. The hypothalamus is a part of your brain that regulates homeostasis. Through it, you have the ability to maintain inner balance and a calm state of mind. It also regulates a variety of functions including your physical development, digestive health and metabolism.

Allow this Chakra Key to help you clear and balance your hypothalamus.

 

What Would You Like to Remember?

5. The hippocampus is actually two structures located on either side of the temporal lobe that are involved with memory development, verbal, spacial and directional skills.

Repeat what you just did in the previous steps. Relax and breathe while you gaze at this Chakra Key to clear out toxins and bring both areas of your hippocampus into balance.

Once you’ve really relaxed with it, check in with a question:

“Is there something I’ve forgotten that’s important? More than one?”

Make a note of it and continue with your mind exercise.

 

What Would Bring You More Ease?

Emotional Stress and the Third Eye6. There’s another part of your brain function that taps into the wisdom of your Soul. Some call it the Third Eye Chakra. Through it, the pineal, hippocampus and hypothalamus can connect and work together to enhance learning and create coherent thoughts. Intuition and common sense can then blossom and communicate meaningful insights to you.

Keep relaxed and gaze softly at the Circle with each affirmation:

“My common sense and intuition are working together.”

“I receive meaningful insights about my situation.”
“My mind helps me to reduce stress and integrate joy into my life.”

 

What Needs to Get Connected?

7. Keep relaxed and gaze softly at the Circle with each affirmation:

“My mind is connected and balanced to create improved mental acuity and brain function.”

“I improve my comprehension and understanding.”
“I connect with solutions.”

 

What Would Support You?

8. It’s possible that you’re dehydrated or not getting the right nutrition. While you gently focus on this Circle, ask yourself:

“Is there something I could eat or drink that would help me?”
“Is there something I’m eating or drinking too much of?”

 

 Is There Something That You Need To Let Go Of?

9. If there is, let this Circle help you open up and let it go.

Just keep letting go and release all that emotional stress. See yourself relaxing under an afternoon Sun. Take all the time you like. It’s okay to let go and rest.

 

What Would Help Your Emotional Stress?

10. Is there something that you could do to help your mental emotional stress?
Is there something it would be best to stop doing?
Use this Circle to consider actions you could take that would help in this situation. Make sure they would be genuinely helpful to you now.

Is there anything you could do or stop doing that would be genuinely helpful to others?

 

What Is Your heart Saying?

11. It could be that things are just moving too fast and your mind is trying to keep up. Take a moment to slow down and tune into your heart. Ask yourself:

“What is my heart telling me?”
“Am I worried about something (physical, financial, family issue, etc)?”

“Is there anything I can do that could actually help the situation?”
“What have I been doing? Has that helped?”
“What do I feel?”

 

How Will Life Be Better Without This Emotional Stress?

12. Your physical body is the foundation for your vitality and your instinct to take care of yourself. Clearing energy, especially in your lower body, will give you strength and support to make necessary changes. Put both feet on the floor to help you ground. Take whatever time you need.

Once you feel stronger, ask yourself:

“What, if anything, am I forgetting about my physical health?
“Is there something I need to remember?”

There’s always more than one way to do things, what new way comes to mind in this case?

 

What Would Keep You Grounded?

13. A strong connection to the Earth gives you support to make the necessary changes and stay balanced at the same time. Put both feet on the floor to help you ground.
If needed, go back to Step 7 and connect with your other chakras.
Take whatever time you need.  

“What do I need remember?”
“Do I need to change anything?”
“Do I have the connections and resources I need to resolve this stress?”
“What would be involved? Is anything missing?”

 

Ask For Blessings On Your Life Path.

14. Finish by balancing out your Life Path Chakras. They help you stay on your own path and tune into the promptings of your Soul – a very important thing to remember!

“I open up to my potential and stay positive.”

“I stay true to my Souls path.”

You may want to sit with this for quite a while.
Plan to take a walk or relax for a bit out in Nature once you feel ready.
Releasing emotional stress takes time and space!

 



 

Specialized Energy Clearing with the Author of Soul Oriented Solutions

Rheanni Lightwater - Emotional Stress
Rheanni Lightwater, Reiki Master Teacher

If you feel that Emotional Stress that Affects Memory has helped, but hasn’t addressed all of your needs, Rheanni Lightwater, BFA, CHT, CKP has 25+ years experience in the art and science of mind body healing. Contact her for a private session if you still feel confused or overwhelmed.

Ms. Lightwater’s mission is to assist people in creating healthy balance and harmony in their lives through energy medicine, hypnotherapy and feng shui clearing. Sessions are available online or when you visit Santa Fe. Contact her at 505-271-4612 MST or email: info@soulresourcesllc.com.


Disclaimer:
Emotional Stress should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Stuck in the Past

How to Change Negative Thoughts In the New Paradigm ~ 

Are you stuck in the past? At any point during a typical day, you may need to release a negative thought, compulsion or worry that you’ve held onto that no longer serves you. You can gently let go and adapt to some better behavior by starting with a short quiz using the Intuitive Learning Circles.

Part I: What is Going On?

Are You Being Bothered By Worry or Negative Thoughts?

As you gaze at the Circle below, go ahead and deliberately find a problem that you’re stuck on and don’t know how to change.

“I find the negative thoughts about ____________ and free myself of them.”

Stuck in the Past

“My new intention is to aim for balance,
health, happiness and ____________.”

Notice how sticky this is and how much energy is involved in the struggle!


Mind Body IntegrationMind Body Integration

For best results, look at each symbol both crossed over the midline of the body and uncrossed so that the correction is more complete.


What Else Is Going on?

Other things might be happening. Sometimes there’s a karmic entanglement with other people, groups or power structures. Are you involved in a situation where you need to separate yourself out from controlling or harmful manipulations? If so, use this affirmation:

“I release and let go of harmful entanglements.”

 

Is Your Health or Prosperity Being Affected Negatively?

Are you being distracted? Have you placed your hopes in a losing proposition? Are you stubbornly holding onto ideas or structures that are actually blocking you? Are you trying to do too many things? If you are, ask your heart:

“What can be done about it?”

 

Are There Any Other Dangers That You Ought to be Aware Of?

There are always those who would love to take advantage of our blind spots. You could be stuck because you are being exploited in some way. Your energy might be getting drained. A person or group could be trying to dump their problems or just interfere with your plans. The easiest ways for them to succeed is either by seducing you with flattery or trying to get you mad through insults and intimidation. Don’t buy into these ploys!

“I identify danger and determine how to deal with it effectively.” 

 

Part II: How Can You Help Yourself?

Now that you have a better idea about what’s going on, you can gently let go and adapt to some more effective ways to handle your situation. If you’d like to do that, continue with this simple Mind Exercise using the Intuitive Learning Circles.

When You’re Stuck in the Past, Change Your Agreements.

Imagine you can gently untie those agreements or burn them in a cleansing fire.

“I decide to let go of worry or negative thoughts about _________ (patiently take it one subject at a time).”

“I stop buying into controlling or fearful manipulations.” 

“I let go of ___________ and behaviors that threaten to entangle me with ________. I stop buying into flattery, distractions, lies and ___________.”

 

Getting Unstuck From the Past ~

The old paradigm or Piscean Age that we’ve recently left was governed by the element of Water. The way things worked then will not work in the new energy that is governed by Air (Aquarius). Releasing any agreements to stay stuck in the quagmire of stagnant water and emotions will be very helpful:

“I let go of old, heavy, stagnant or destructive flows of Water.”

“I adapt to the lighter, quicker, generative flow of Air.” 

 

Use Gratitude Rather than Greed:

Worry generally comes from a negative place. You can source from a different place.

“I decide to source my responses from a place of Joy and Gratitude rather than fear, greed or vengeance.”

 

Connect with the New Paradigm Rather than the Old:

The Earth itself is changing and we can change how we’re relating to it.

“I decide to let go of old imprints of exploitation and integrate with the imprint of creating Common Good on Common Ground.”

 

Ask for Help from Your Soul.

Manifesting effectively under this new influence of Air will require many new skills that only a true connection with our Divine Nature will be able to help us with.

“I ask my Soul for help, especially in regards to ___________.”

“I connect with the clear electro-magnetic signature of my Soul.”

“I erase signatures & interferences that block integrity, like old graffiti markings. I release them to the Light.”

 

Gather Up Your Senses to Function Accurately with Your Soul.

Be sure you’re using your senses to correctly assess what’s really going on and the changes you’re going to need to adjust to. Begin by relaxing with this Reiki Chakra Key for a minute or so to connect with your senses and Rational Thought Chakras. They are essential to help you accurately determine what spiritual or physical shifts are necessary and what would be effective.

“I gather up all of my senses and use them to get present and perceive my concerns clearly.”

“I use them to shed light on my blind spots.”
“I use them to discern the difference between helpful and harmful energies.”
I use my senses to discern __________________.”

If you sense that you’re dealing with some hateful energies, you may want to go to Resources for Healing Hate>

 

Part III: Recalibrate Your Energy

Toxic Attachments May Keep You Stuck in the Past ~

Various parts of your energy field may be damaged or struggling with negative energies like smoke, chemicals, illness or other attachments that inhibit your health. Use this Key to relax and meditate on for as long as you like. Like a healing balm, imagine that a loving coat of peace and comfort is pouring down over you.

“My chakra system can easily and effectively neutralize interfering energies and detach from them.”

 

Correct Reversals and Blockages ~

When we’re under extreme stress, it’s not uncommon for the chakras and/or meridians to start running in reverse or shut down entirely. Relax and let this symbol help you make corrections.

“I repair any reversals, holes or blockages affecting my energy or mindset.”

Take all the time you need to let your energy smooth out.

 

Calm Your Nervous System ~

The same could be happening in your nervous system. Use this Soul Prayer Chart to help you smooth out discordant energies that exacerbate your anxiety and stress. Gently detach from the rhythms of survival, pushing, struggling, fear and completion. Tune into the rhythm and calm of your parasympathetic nervous system.

“I come into harmony with the rhythm of my Soul.”

Breathe, become still and access that place of peace.

 

Clear Shadow Energies with an Infusion of Divine Light ~

Radiate light throughout your auric bodies with the full power of the Divine and Angelic Realms. Keep your attention on the strength and beauty of the light rather than the darkness.

Paying too much attention to problems only creates more of them.

Allow the Light from the Divine and your Soul to cleanse and heal you completely from within.

“I ask the Divine to remove attachments, negativity and dark energies from my subtle energy field.” 

Do this both crossed and uncrossed over the midline of your body.

Finish Your Business ~

You’re almost finished now, yet there’s still some business that keeps you stuck in the past. These thoughts keep stinging you for a reason!

What do you still need to realize about your situation? Look at it from a distance. Have you been trying to force something? Have you been trying to make something true that just isn’t? Do you need to pull back from a dangerous energy or situation? Do you need to detach from a negative tendency of your own? If so, go ahead and do so with the help of this Circle.

Do you need to find a safer route to your destination?
Most importantly, are you leaving yourself open to negative energies? If so, use this Circle to gently detach and close them off.

Connect the Hara Lines ~

You may need to repair and/or strengthen hara lines for centering and improved healing. The hara lines are like tiny webs of light that connect the chakras to your center and extend throughout your body. Sometimes they’re broken or damaged because of trauma, illness, toxicity or sudden changes in the sympathetic nervous system (fight or flight).
This Circle gives extra energy to the hara lines that connect your chakras.

“I repair and strengthen my hara lines.”
“My chakras are connected properly with my Soul
through a beautiful web of light.”

This Circle also helps us navigate where we are and to organize our consciousness around being present. “I am present and inside of my body. External pressures and harmful energies are outside.”

 

Turn It Around ~

Now it’s time to make sure you’re tapping into positive energy and the new generative energies that are available in the New Paradigm.

“I decide to tap into positive energies and nurture myself.”

“I am open to being nurtured in new ways.”

 

Utilize Generative Energy Flow ~

I embrace the new generative flow and use it to support my health, my prosperity and my happiness.” 

“I close the energy channels are causing harm.”

 

Dissolve Destructive Blueprints ~

Use this symbol to help you surrender any mental/emotional patterns that may be blocking positive thoughts, input and outcomes.

Patiently, bring in the Light and let it clear your energy field. Release your thoughts and worry until the darkness is all gone. The Light is transmuting, transforming and completing this stage of your Souls journey.

Please note: Never send destructive energies into the Earth, she already has too much to handle now. Use the Earth for planting seeds of happiness and life – not death!

 

Bring Closure to Old Pathways and Embrace Protection ~

Remember to close the pathways in your mind that lead back to suffering.

If those pathways remain open, all kinds of trouble (karma, issues, illness or confusion) can continue to pass back and forth through the opening without your awareness. This can manifest in sudden and mysterious illnesses, mental confusion, issues with prosperity or chronic states of overwhelm.

“I choose healthy boundaries and to be done with this sticky situation.”

“All holes, doors or passageways are sealed and healed.”

“I follow the direction of my Souls protection.”

Be sure to see them closed completely both crossed and uncrossed over the midline of your body.

 

Check Back Into Your Mosquito Mind Again ~

Remember the problem you started out this exercise with…

How are you seeing it? Is there another issue involved that keeps you stuck in the past?

If so, you can go through the exercise again later, with that issue in mind.

 

Finish With Closing Insights from Your Inner Guidance ~

Is there anything else that you need to know? Is there anything to change or prepare for?

 

Congratulations!

You are learning how to manage your energy effectively in the New Paradigm.

New Paradigm

Now would be an excellent time to take a break and do something completely different. Go out for a walk in Nature, stretch or play a word game. After all, variety is the spice of life…plus, a break will help you to integrate what you’ve learned.

Whatever you do though, be sure to breathe deeply!



Specialized Energy Clearing with the Author of Soul Oriented Solutions

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Rheanni Lightwater, Reiki Master Teacher

If you feel that Stuck in the Past has helped, but hasn’t addressed all of your needs, Rheanni Lightwater, BFA, CHT, CKP has 25+ years experience in the art and science of mind body healing. Contact her for a private session if you still feel worried or overwhelmed.

Ms. Lightwater’s mission is to assist people in creating healthy balance and harmony in their lives through energy medicine, hypnotherapy and feng shui clearing.

Schedule with Rheanni via Zoom, FaceTime or in person when you visit Santa Fe, New Mexico. Call or text (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, MST, Monday through Friday to schedule or email: info@soulresourcesllc.com


Disclaimer: This Mind Exercise should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment of any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Intentions | Power Circle Tutorial – A

Clarify Your Intentions In the New Paradigm ~

A Mind Exercise to Let Go of the Old and Bring In New Intentions From Your Soul.

As we move into new ways of being and behaving, there are always challenges that come in the form of old agendas, intentions and agreements that have to be reformed in order to create beneficial conditions that are free of all the internal conflict that comes from lack of clarity.

This Happiness Power Circle is designed to help you handle the initial confusion and hesitancy in your mind.

What can we do when things don’t turn out the way we expected or the way we hoped?

In the 1950’s, scientists invented the premier pesticide, DDT which, at the time, was a boon to food manufacturers. What they didn’t know was that this ‘miraculous’ invention and the completely unrestricted use of it was going to throw the ecology of nature seriously out of balance.

To make matters worse, once they finally admitted there was a problem, they proceeded to invent a complicated series of compensations and hazards that have led us to where we are today (DDT was listed as #14 in The 50 Worst Inventions – Time Magazine).

Our intentions have consequences.

The “Malaise”

Folks tend to react to problems by RETURNING to the malaise of the old paradigm for a quick fix solution – mostly because it seems familiar. It could also be a “get rich quick” or an “I’m going to show you” solution. The underlying intention there is to make things happen in whatever way they want them to.

Unfortunately, in a rush to “fix,” “get rich” or “get back at someone”, we inadvertently repeat the very intentions we’ve sworn to overcome.

There are six general categories of intentions that could be causing some trouble for you. Let’s examine them:

  1. Intentions that have already been completed or are out-dated. If intentions that are irrelevant or contradictory to your current needs aren’t cleared up and released, they will cause unnecessary confusion, hardship and conflict. Realizing that you are living under different conditions and now have different needs is the key remedy here.
  2. Assumptions that we know what’s going on and are right. This conditioned behavior will keep us from listening to what others are telling us and prevent us from learning at a time when we really need both of those things. Realizing that you are stuck in a stagnant mindset and need some fresh input and energy will help you loosen up.
  3. Intentions that are sourced out of fear, like spite, paranoia or a rebel identity. If everything and everyone is out to get you, it will be very difficult to manifest a peaceful, prosperous outcome. Ask yourself if you’re cutting off your nose to spite your face. If you are, cultivating a willingness to change and softening your edge will help.
  4. Get rich quick or fantasy intentions that aren’t well thought out. Intentions that are contradictory with how things actually work create harm, even if unintentional. Unintended consequences are irritating at best and disastrous at worst. Use cause and effect thinking to sort this out. “If I do (don’t do) _______, what is most likely to happen?” Pay attention to how things work out in Nature.
  5. Too many Intentions or intentions that are in direct conflict with each other.  More is not better. Too much information causes chaos and confusion. In this case, it’s best to start over. Clear the slate and reorganize around your true priorities.
  6. Allowing malignant motivations to poison your intentions. An intention that’s motivated by perfection, revenge or resentment will have a completely different result from one that is motivated by joy, self-love and respect. Make a choice to empower your intentions through your heart connection with the Divine. 

This tutorial will help you to honor what has been, while effectively clearing the way for a new paradigm to be created based on equality, Soul co-operation and sustainable prosperity!

 

Part I: Begin with some Positive Affirmations to Get Help from Your Deepest, Wisest Self

“I ask to free myself from harmful intentions, so I can follow inner guidance. I create greater harmony, peace and _____________ .”

Old Soul

 

“I follow my Inner Guidance to create Freedom.”

Contemplate this Mandala for several minutes to illuminate your current situation. Is something missing or out of place?

“I ask for __________ and ___________.”

 

Clear through the tangle of distractions, falsehoods and wishful thinking.

“I align myself with the truth of what’s really needed.”

“I listen to my true heart’s desire and establish that as my guiding light.”

 

Part II: Identify Harmful Intentions So That You Can Release Them

Imagine you can softly gaze into the center of #40 Mapacho Medicine and see ancient intentions like eggs or seeds waiting to be activated.

Not only do you see your own intentions and prayers, but also cultural, ancestral goals that no longer have life affirming motivations behind them.

Visualize them like ingredients in a soup that is spoiling your genuinely desired outcome. Imagine you can scoop out any unpreferred intentions and send them to the Sun:

“In this exercise, I remove or reform any out of date intentions that are harmful to me.”

“I release other peoples intentions for me.”

“I intend that all harmful energies and intentions be sent to the Light and purified.”

 

Don’t be surprised if those old intentions and ingredients bring up some uncomfortable fixated feelings. There could also be memories, physical tension or inner conflicts.

Gaze softly at #32 Condor and relax. Imagine the lines are softening up like wet spaghetti noodles. Gently melt those conflicts away (this medicine is also good for when your mind goes blank). Here are some useful affirmations:

“I consciously relax any fixations or let them melt.”

“I see the pieces breaking down – dissolving into nothingness.”

“I free my mind and energy to perceive differently.”

Once you’ve done that, it would be a good idea to go back to Mapacho and see if some other old intentions need to  be cleared away.

Be prepared to see things differently.

 

Imagine that you can send #11 Raccoon up and down your spine to unlock your connection to any agreement that’s keeping any harmful intention going. Here are some suggested affirmations:

“I release my agreement to hold onto lies, outdated agreements or anything that is harmful to me.”

“I let go of being used or abused.”

“I let go of any agreement to contribute to harmful practices such as _________(blocking myself, etc.

“I let go of fantasies, complications, control, sabotage, etc. ________.”

“My new agreement is to _______. I do my best to learn how to love myself and experience what that really means.”

Go back to Mapacho and clear old intentions again.

 

By acknowledging your Spiritual Self with #49 Old Sol, you can reconnect and allow your Soul to be in charge of how and what you manifest.

Old Soul“I let go of the idea that I know what’s supposed to happen here.”

“I let go of other peoples agendas and plans for me.”

“I follow the guidance of my Soul and Higher Self.”

“I acknowledge that surrendering to the wisdom of my Soul and Higher Self is the best plan.”

“In accordance with my highest good, I let go of any plans, tendencies or life trajectories that are harmful to me.”

“I realign my goals, plans and intentions to be in harmony with my Souls purpose.”

 

Clear any karma with #37 Seed that interferes with having a clear, direct intention in the present. That includes karma that you may have taken on from others, including ancestral traumas, curses, grudges, etc.

“I let go of karma that actually belongs to others.”

“I release any karma I have to hold or internalize other peoples intentions, emotions, etc.”

“I transmute my negative karma and set it right.”

“I use my beneficial karma to create beneficial intentions for the New Paradigm.”

Ask yourself: “Do I have the karma to successfully manifest my intention?”

If not, what do you need to do?

It would be a good idea to go back to Mapacho again and clear away old intentions.

 

Imagine that #24 Dissolving Destructive Blueprints from Soul Prayer Charts for can help you identify and dissolve any toxic imprints or patterns that may be perpetuating harm. As you meditate on the symbol, consciously visualize toxic energy clearing out of your thoughts and mind and going to the Sun.
That way, you can be sure that you’re not dumping debris on others or our precious Earth!
You’ll know you’re done when the energy calms down.

“I dissolve any entanglements with harmful or outdated intentions.”

 

Please note: Never send destructive energies into the Earth, she already has too much to handle now. Use the Earth for planting seeds of happiness and life – not death!

Seal and heal all holes, leaks or pathways that compromise safety and protection with #8, Piranha. These openings may be in your mind, your energy field or in the space around you.

“All holes and harmful pathways are sealed and healed.”

“My intention is to spontaneously close holes and harmful pathways whenever it is needed.”

 

Close the “Bridge to Nowhere.” Free yourself from harmful ties or chords.

“I let go of a harmful connections and obligations to engage with dangerous or abusive situations.”

Let yourself move around a bit so you can let go of excess tension.

 

Part III: Organize Around Your Cleared Intention:

Allow your Heart Center to reorganize itself to properly resonate with and communicate your true heart’s desire with #1 Animal Spirits.

“I am positioned correctly to succeed in the New Paradigm.”

“I am connected and empowered to live in harmony with the Circle of Life.”

“I come from the heart and communicate with my true Guides, my Psyche, my Soul, my Power Animal and my Higher Self.”

Ask your heart:

“Are there any remaining intentions that would interfere?”

If so, go back to Mapacho and clear out interfering intentions one more time.

 

Confirm your readiness to begin manifesting your intention in alignment with prosperity and your highest good. With this symbol, check your response:

“I create greater self-love and ___________ in the New Paradigm.”

“With this intention in mind, am I  ready and willing to create happiness in alignment with my highest good?”

If you get a “yes,” great! You’re ready to start actively manifesting your intention by engaging with our Power Circle Game!

If you get a “no,” go back and reevaluate until you find an intention that truly resonates with the statement above.

Other considerations:

  • Sometimes the timing is wrong, is that happening now?
  • Sometimes we need to rest after finishing a big project, could that be happening here?
  • Other times, something is stuck or we need to wait for the right time to start.

Clarify Your Intentions is part of Gifts from the Rainforest

Available exclusively From Soul Resources LLC:

Animal Totems for Inner Guidanceby Rheanni Lightwater

MANIFEST HAPPINESS IN ALIGNMENT WITH THE CIRCLE OF LIFE

Inspired by Design Therapy from the native tribes of the Amazon, the forty-nine Intuitive Learning Circles and animal totems from Gifts from the Rainforest are healing and divination tools for anyone who wants to accelerate their spiritual growth and intuition.

♦ Find emotional healing  ♦ Deal with repetitive habits & attitudes that keep you stuck  ♦ Develop common sense  ♦ Learn to trust your gut instincts.  ♦ Receive messages from plant, animal & nature spirits.


Disclaimer:
The Intuitive Learning Circles should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment of any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.


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Rheanni Lightwater, Reiki Master Teacher

If you feel that Clarify Your Intentions has helped, but hasn’t addressed all of your needs, Rheanni Lightwater, BFA, CHT, CKP has 25+ years experience in the art and science of mind body healing. Contact her for a private session if you still feel off track or overwhelmed.

Ms. Lightwater’s mission is to assist people in creating healthy balance and harmony in their lives through energy medicine, hypnotherapy and feng shui clearing. Sessions are available online or when you visit Santa Fe. Contact her at 505-271-4612 MST or email: info@soulresourcesllc.com.

 

Navigate Decline Through Wisdom

Intuitive Reading from the I Ching or Book of Change – Navigate DECLINE.

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Rheanni Lightwater, Reiki Master Teacher & Feng Shui Consultant

In this intuitive reading, Soul Resources offers a variety of SOS formulas and Transformation Games using the Intuitive Learning Circles and the I Ching to help us navigate DECLINE using wisdom and moderation. 

The I Ching

I Ching Workbook - R. L. WingThe original intent of the I Ching was based on an Eastern philosophy of observation and marking changes in natural and human events. Through many centuries and contributions from shamans and master teachers, including Lau Tzu and Confucius, the Book of Change was developed into a full philosophy for applying beneficial human conduct to varying circumstances. The Art of Feng Shui is part of that philosophy.

The Chinese Zodiac 

Its the Chinese Year of the Black Yang Water Tiger.

2022 Year of the Tiger - Navigate Decline through StrengthThe Chinese Zodiac animal that has dominated the energy of 2022 is the ferocious TIGER. There is no ignoring the arrogance, sudden changes and contradictory behaviors that he’s so well known for.

If we’re not careful, he threatens to pull us into a whirlpool of resentments and past conflicts, clawing away at each other with no end in sight!

The Tiger comes around every twelve years and his more positive qualities are: Confident, Courageous, Steadfast and Strong. What might we do to call upon that kind of energy instead?

The Tarot Major Arcana Card for 2022 –

VI: The Lovers Suggest a Potential for Unity ~

In numerology, the year 2022 breaks down to the number 6.  2 +2 +2 = 6. The Number VI Card of the Tarot is THE LOVERS representing unity, consciousness and purification.

Perhaps we can tap into the positive aspects of this archetype and utilize it to create more harmonious relationships.

Exploring the I Ching Energy 

Ever since 2009, Kuan Yin has offered her assistance through the I Ching and specially chosen Transformation Games, Mind Exercises and Self-care Formulas to help us navigate whatever changes were required. 

Todays Intuitive Reading

As a time-honored and respected guide in the Healing Arts, her aim has always been to help us stay calm and navigate the chaotic transition from the old paradigm into the New Paradigm with clear minds and hearts. 

Now, Kuan Yin wants to help us navigate DECLINE, which is the general trend in the Universe. *Caution! Her advice, as always, is direct and to the point!

The Availability of Life Force is in a General Trend of DECLINE – Hexagram #41. The original text states:

“The pendulum swings once again, this time moving into a general DECLINE. Although the DECLINE points to the beginning of a later flowering, the way you handle this current decrease in resources is of great importance. This decrease is in accordance with the forces in the cosmos and therefore perfectly natural and completely unavoidable. You will ultimately benefit, however, from any sacrifices you must now make.

Accept the DECLINE and respond appropriately by simplifying your life. A sincere and simplified approach to life will prevent you from making serious mistakes and will improve your sense of timing. If you find the DECLINE unacceptable and continue the pretense of more opulent times you will fall into error and out of touch with reality.

Simplicity at this time is genuinely good for your inner development. You must now alter certain attitudes by curbing your instincts and passionate drives. Even in your innermost Self you must economize in accordance with the current DECLINE of the life force. If you normally function with a great deal of tension, it is time to modify your behavior. Become conscious of any extravagant emotional reactions. By sacrificing any indulgences that occur at the instinct level, you can now benefit the higher aspects of your nature.”  ~ Hexagram #41 DECLINE, The I Ching Workbook by R. L. Wing

Navigate Decline Through Strength ~

“Since the arrival of the Aquarian Age (Air), and the decline in Piscean energies (Water), your bodies and psyches have been challenged to adjust to the transition. Human beings have no template for what’s happening, therefore, there’s much confusion and running around in circles.

When there’s a general DECLINE in available life force flowing through the Tao like this, it’s best to stop spending your energy and resources on no win situations or other wasteful, time-consuming projects. The time is ideal for letting go of mistaken ideas or other dilemmas that have been haunting you.

When What You’re Doing Isn’t Working, Stop and Find Another Way ~

The Element of Air - Todays Intuitive ReadingThe best way to approach any dilemma at any time is to find a completely new way of handling yourself. If you’re willing to lift your thinking up and out of the swamp you’ve been collectively stuck in, new solutions and answers to what ails you can emerge from the lighter, quicker energy channels that are available.

The new energy of Air (Aquarius) is the perfect medium for new thoughts, concepts and ideas to make their way into the collective.

The biggest obstacles seem to be:

  •  stubborn attachments to revenge,
  •  unreasonable expectations about wanting everything, whenever you want them without reasonable limitations, and
  • cynical refusal to cooperate with eachother for the common good.

These obstacles are buried deep within your collective psyches. The times are indeed difficult. Yet, if you are willing to be helped and have an open attitude, opportunities will begin to present themselves.”

Advice for Difficult Beginnings ~

Access good advice and helpful underlying principles for these difficult times from Kuan Yin. Reviewing her suggestions here will assist you if you’re particularly confused or if whatever you’re working on is just not working.


Soul Resources to Navigate DECLINE using wisdom

SOS - Soul Oriented Solutions
SOS Symbol

As always, Kuan Yin offers her support and resources through a collection of Transformation Games, Mind Exercises and Self-care Formulas designed to help you go within and find answers.

Gaze softly at the SOS symbol and ask for a number between 1 – 9.

Scroll down to that number in the list of games and exercises below and check out what that process has to offer you.


Transformation Games and Mind Exercises to Navigate Decline ~

1. Find Moderation In the Midst of DECLINE.

The ancient Chinese text describes finding MODERATION as the best way to make progress amidst chaos and Kuan Yin emphatically agrees. If you’ve been thrown off by recent events, this Transformation Game will help you get back into balance. When you’re able to walk the middle road between extremes, you’ll be surprised how much easier things get.

2. Handle Irritations Before They Handle You.

There’s more than enough things to be irritated about. Don’t let them get you down or drain your energy. This exercise is for when you’re ready to figure out what you need to do to stop making a bad situation worse and head in a healthier direction.

3. Resolve Shock and Confusion.

Your brain may feel like a computer that has too many tabs open! It could be the result of all the shocking events that have happened and are likely to continue. When your life is getting repeatedly disrupted and you’re feeling scattered, surprised, scared or vulnerable, use this exercise.

4. Clear Karmic Entanglements that Tap Into Adversity.

Use self-hypnosis to clear out interference and reorganize how you use your energy with this popular Transformation Game. Releasing your agreements with hatred, fear or falsehood will help you detach from old family patterns, outdated religious vows, or even a larger, collective entanglement like social unrest.

5. Be Open to Changing with the Changes.

In Hexagram #49 CHANGING, the ancient text states: “The forces at work in the situation are in conflict, leaving the path open to change. Yet the work of bringing about such a change is as difficult as it is important. Stay open to the possibilities with this Transformation Game.


SOS to Navigate Decline ~

If you are struggling with the massive amount of stress and loss going around and through you, Join us! Sign up for our series – SOS – Navigating Loss and Compassion Fatigue.

SOS Self-care Formulas and Mind Exercises can help you access calm and inner wisdom when things get chaotic:

6. Overwhelm Help. Whenever you’re so overwhelmed by events that you’re just ready to collapse in anger or grief, Overwhelm Help is the #One go-to self-care formula we offer that helps. Get back into balance in just a few short minutes. 

7. Dispelling Self-doubt and Projections. To make decisions about what’s best for you now, you want to be able to distinguish between a thought or a memory and the reality of what’s really happening in the present. This self-care formula can help you clear away some of those projections and see things more clearly, from your own viewpoint.

8. Develop Healthy BoundariesIt’s a valuable skill to know how to shift your energy and develop healthy boundaries. This Self-care Formula uses affirmations and the Intuitive Learning Circles to help you learn to consciously close off the pathways to negative thoughts or emotions and shift into a more positive mindset.

Chakra Healing and Clearing ~

Recommended Transformation Games and Mind Exercises to Keep You Moving with the Flow, Rather than Against it.

9. Advanced Chakra Healing.

The sheer amount of blocked or stuck energies indicates that we need to find innovative methods for handling radical energy reversals and be conscious about it.

Kuan Yin has helped put together a whole medicine cabinet of Transformation Games and Self-care Formulas that specifically address our chakras and their accompanying psychological challenges. See the full selection and explanation here>


Coming Soon

Online Groups for SOS – Navigating Loss and Compassion Fatigue.

If you are looking for group energy medicine sessions for our PTSD Series of Self-care Formulas and Mind Exercises, Rheanni will be offering Private and Group Coaching – Online Events through Zoom: 

Event Dates will be announced on July 23rd.  – To inquire, call or text Rheanni at: (505) 271-4612 to schedule or email: info@soulresourcesllc.com


About the Author of Navigate Decline

Rheanni Lightwater - Adapting to Change

Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKT specializes in online mind body healing using Reiki, Hypnotherapy, Energy Medicine and the Intuitive Learning CirclesSpecialized protocols include Advanced Energy Recalibrations for:

  • Enhanced Immune Response
  • Respiratory and Circulatory Health
  • Overstimulated Nervous System and Immune Response
  • Digestive and Intestinal Health
  • Sleep Difficulties and Nightmares
  • Chemical Sensitivities and Static Electro-magnetic Clearing
  • Trauma and Compassion Fatigue

Long distance intuitive readings are available with Rheanni (Ray-ah-nee). Find out about her online Intuitive Readings and Clearings.

Schedule with Rheanni via Zoom, FaceTime or in person when you visit Santa Fe, New Mexico. Call or text (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, MST, Monday through Friday to schedule or email: info@soulresourcesllc.com


Disclaimer:
Navigate Decline should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment of any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Nourish Healthy Relationships

Did you know that you instinctively know the difference between toxic and healthy relationships?

The Solar Plexus Chakra is key to knowing whether or not a relationship is nourishing or toxic to you. Healthy RelationshipsYour gut feeling is the best lie detector and has all the information it needs about healthy relationships – as long as you’re present and paying attention! It’s just that for some reason, the information is being blocked from your conscious awareness and you can’t see the signs.

Take a moment and relax with this Reiki Chakra Key for your solar plexus to help you get present. Use the positive affirmations if they helps or come up with one of your own.

“I am present and open to my gut instincts. I trust myself.”

“I am _____________________.”

Your Essential Self is most efficiently positioned and grounded there to help you manifest, create happiness and maintain your health.

In stressful times, it’s pretty common for the Essential Self to get closed off, misplaced or dissociated. You can correct that now with this Soul Prayer Chart.

Make sure that you have a sense of your Essence facing forward and up right.

 

There are several ways that gut instinct gets blocked. Two that are particularly relevant in times like these are being in too much of a hurry and getting distracted. 

Distractions keep us from taking good care of ourselves, because if we’re always busy, busy, busy and not paying attention to our basic needs, we’re asking for trouble.

Of course we have all kinds of excuses that make it seem all right.  “I ran out of time… I have to get this done… there’s too much going on…” etc.

Check your response to these statements and notice if you get stuck on either of them: 

“I get distracted.”

 “I get in too much of a hurry.”

So, let’s slow down and think about the source of your relationship trouble. Relax into it. Is there a particular person, group or relationship system that seems to be at the core of the problem?

Healthy Relationships

Sadly, many of us we spend too much time or energy on toxic relationships that aren’t particularly good for us. You know the kind of people I’m talking about:

  • the wolf in sheep’s clothing that uses flattery to charm and disarm you.
  • the whiners that are oh, so good at making you feel sorry for them.
  • the wunderkinds who go out of their way to impress you.
  • or bullies that just want to intimidate and make you miserable.

Are you attracting a lot of that? 

If your answer is “no” count yourself lucky. You must have very good relationship karma!

If your answer is “yes,” go ahead and continue this extra-intuitive mind exercise to see what might be going on…


Slow Down and Focus

Let’s see what’s going on for you by experiment with one of our Intuitive Learning Circles for slowing down and focusing on what’s really important.

“I slow down and focus on what I need when it comes to my  _______ relationships.”

If you’re thinking about a particular relationship, it’s worth your time to really slow down and ask yourself a couple of honest questions:

“What is my concern about this particular relationship?”

Clarify the nature of the relationship – friend, business associate, boss, family, lover, etc.

“What is the confusion about?”

 

 

Check for Good Boundaries

Most relationships have their own irritations, resistances and rough patches. Where is the irritation in this relationship? What is it about?

Are you taking something personally or internalizing something that isn’t yours? Are you being codependent in some way?

If so, use this Circle to help you open your energy up wide and let those irritations go. Send it all to the Sun!

What else what might you do to soothe the situation?

 

Examine Emotional Reactions

Sometimes people trigger certain emotional responses in us that come out of our childhood conditioning or earlier relationships. A certain tip of the head or tone of voice can be very potent.

Most of the time, the people in our relationships have no idea about what’s happening. You may have very little power over them. However, you can be responsible for your own reactions. Ask yourself:

“What is the main emotion or emotions I’m feeling when around this person?” 

“Does it happen only in certain situations?”

“Does this relationship remind me of another person? A painful experience?”

Could you be experiencing a harmful attitude, a phobia or an obsession?

 

Clear the Clutter

Sometimes we attract disturbing or stressful situations because our minds are cluttered up with disturbing, stressful thoughts.

Imagine that you can use this Circle to clear out the landscape of your mind. Sweep all that junk and chaos out of your head and send it to the Sun! You might be surprised at how much clutter there is!

That’s one of the reasons people like to meditate. It’s a great way to develop a regular habit of clearing debris out of the mind!

 

Evaluate How You’re Using Your Energy to Nourish Yourself.

Now that you’re present, focused and clear, you can get some accurate information about how to nourish yourself. If you follow the directions, you can get all kinds of answers that could really help you make a big improvement in your happiness. All you have to do is relax and gaze softly at the center open space of this Circle while you ask yourself a few questions. Use a scale of one to ten to evaluate what’s going on (one being lousy and ten being great!). Be sure to listen to your gut and be receptive to the answers that come.

On a scale of one to ten:

Ask yourself when it comes to this person:

“How is this person nourishing me- Emotionally?
Professionally?
Intellectually?
Spiritually?
What, if anything, is missing?
Is there a beneficial exchange
of energy?
Have I closed myself off
in some way?
What, if anything, could be done to improve the relationship?

 

Release or Renegotiate Agreements

Most rules about relationships are rooted in old ideas and systems that we grew up with as children.

In the New Paradigm, a lot of those old agreements and assumptions cause problems and keep us from having truly nourishing relationships.

In this particular relationship, what agreements need to be amended, reformed or let go of entirely?

“I let go of ___________.”
“I reform ________.”
“I amend my agreement to ______.”
“I stop participating in ________.”
“I uproot ______,  _______, &_________.”

 

Release the Mental/ Emotional Patterns

Imagine that this symbol for Dissolving Destructive Blueprints can help you identify and dissolve any toxic imprints or patterns that may be perpetuating harm. You might see them as a dark cloud dissolving into the pure light of the Sun.

“I release the blockages and entanglements that keep me from  experiencing healthy nourishment.”

“I release patterns that keep me from experiencing joy.”

Please note: Never send destructive energies into the Earth, she already has too much to handle now. Use the Earth for planting seeds of happiness and life – not death!

 

Let Go of Old, Outdated Intentions

Gaze softly into the center of this Circle and see ancient intentions like eggs or seeds waiting to be activated.Not only do you see your own intentions and prayers, but also cultural, ancestral goals that no longer have life affirming motivations behind them.

Visualize them like ingredients in a soup that is spoiling your genuinely desired outcome.Imagine you can scoop out any unpreferred intentions and send them to the Sun:

“I let go of all intentions that would contradict my highest good or cause conflict in how I’m nourishing myself.”

 

Release the Karma 

Release any seeds of karma that perpetuate habits and beliefs that keep you from nourishing yourself properly and send them to the light.

“I plant new karmic seeds for good things that will support my new choices. I nourish those seeds with love, light, fresh water and healthy nutrition.”

 

Close the Door on Suffering and Unhealthy Pathways

Now it’s time to close the door on all that toxicity and move in the direction of nourishing yourself appropriately. 

Closure for Mind Body Healing

“I close the door on any drain or strain on my time, space, attention or energy.”

Congratulations! You’ve just set the stage to let go of harmful energies and emotions and begin moving in the direction of NOURISHING yourself appropriately.  Be sure to take time to rest and relax. Take a walk or get out into nature if you can!

 

For More Help Navigating the Flow – Check Out Todays Intuitive Reading >

 


Specialized Energy Clearing with the Author of Soul Oriented Solutions

Rheanni Lightwater - Emotional Stress
Rheanni Lightwater, Reiki Master Teacher

If you feel that Emotional Stress that Affects Memory has helped, but hasn’t addressed all of your needs, Rheanni Lightwater, BFA, CHT, CKP has 25+ years experience in the art and science of mind body healing. Contact her for a private session if you still feel confused or overwhelmed.

Ms. Lightwater’s mission is to assist people in creating healthy balance and harmony in their lives through energy medicine, hypnotherapy and feng shui clearing. Sessions are available online or when you visit Santa Fe. Contact her at 505-271-4612 MST or email: info@soulresourcesllc.com.


 

Disclaimer:
This game should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment of any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Emotional Drama

Detaching From Emotional Drama

There are times when you know that you’ve gotten caught up in emotional drama and the best thing for you is to simply let go and “let it be.”

SOS - Detaching from Emotional DramaHowever, “letting it be” in the midst of the kind of emotional drama that’s going around now is not always all that simple!

We’re often advised by well meaning folks to “just take some deep breaths,” “meditate,” “get present by looking at your hands,” “look around at your surroundings” or “go for a walk.” These are all very helpful and certainly not bad advice.

And yet…

What if you’ve tried all that and the tightness, the doubt, the negative thoughts, the nightmares – the intense emotional drama keeps coming back like a magnet and sticking to you like glue? 

As you gaze softly at this Reiki Chakra Key for your Third Eye, ask yourself:

“What is stressing me out?”

 

You may feel like you’re powerless, but it doesn’t have to be that way.

 


Choose to Detach

Sometimes it pays to get really creative with sticky, complicated emotions. This mind exercise is a creative way to use your natural Soul Resources proactively.

Start by gazing softly at the symbol below and just let your mind wander. You can conduct an unconscious search throughout the underlying cogs and mechanisms of your mind. You might even be able to find where the glitch is.

At some point, your attention will settle on an unresolved emotional drama.

Give a name to the emotional drama that’s sticking to you right now. Have fun with it. Take whatever name comes to you without judgement.

The name of my emotional drama is “_________________”.

Continue your inquiry:

“What is the false narrative that I’m believing
about myself in this situation?”

 

Use this Circle of #1 Animal Spirits to help you communicate with “_____________”.

Ask: “What are you doing here?” and “How can I help?”

Don’t jump to any conclusions or make concessions. You are merely gathering information.

 

Ask another question using #14 Otter: “What emotional pattern are you sending my energy to?”

The pattern is called “________________________________”.

On a scale of 1 -100, what percentage of your energy are you currently sending to the pattern?

 

If you don’t want your energy to contribute to that emotional pattern anymore, use this #32 Condor and call on her creative Life Force to let go of old habits and behaviors.

Mind Body IntegrationSend your energy like a laser beam directly to the center of the pattern. Do that both crossed and uncrossed over the midline of your body until the pattern has completely dispersed.

Are unrealistic demands, shame or blame part of that emotional pattern? If so, use #18 Parrot Medicine to find those projections and break them apart. After all, they’re only reflected thoughts. Shatter those thoughts like mirrors in a House Of Mirrors – or echos in a huge Echo Chamber.

You’d be surprised at how many projections there are out there!

Take a deeper gander at how often people, organizations, social systems and the media project their expectations on you. No wonder you’re feeling anxious or doubting yourself!

 

Ask the medicine from #9 Lizard to get more information:

“Am I holding onto abusive persons, activities or obligations? Am I ready, willing and able to let them go?

This is where it can help to open and close your hands. Move your body around and shake it off. In your mind, see yourself leaving the situation and settling down in a safe place – where you are free from the emotional drama!

 

Get some extra help from this symbol to neutralize that sticky attachment you’ve been feeling…

“I detach from destructive energies; including those that come from family members, co-workers, organizations, illnesses, and ________________.”

 

Once you’ve released the stickiness, you want to make sure that this particular pattern doesn’t come back again. Use this image to help you dissolve any destructive mental or emotional patterns from your mindset.

This is a positive way to use projections! Visualize any dark, threatening or heavy energies lifting up and away from you, going to the Light. Project that clarity out into the past, present and future!

 

Relax and let the systems that support the pattern collapse… it’s time to let them go completely.

 

Resolve to stop the energy drain from your body, mind and spirit.

“I close the door on any drain or strain on my time, space, attention or energy.”

 

Close the door in your mind that leads to any harmful pathways that are better for you to stay away from.

“All holes are sealed and healed.”

“I follow the direction of healthy protection.”

 

Finish by redirecting your energy to your life, health, happiness and peace of mind… 100%!

Congratulations! 

You now have a powerful and creative way to deal with emotional drama. Now is a great time to take a deep breath and go for a walk out in nature (always a good idea)!



Specialized Energy Clearing with the Author of Soul Oriented Solutions

Rheanni Lightwater -Emotional Drama
Rheanni Lightwater, Reiki Master Teacher

If you feel that Detach from Emotional Drama has helped, but hasn’t addressed all of your needs, Rheanni Lightwater, BFA, CHT, CKP has 25+ years experience in the art and science of mind body healing. Contact her for a private session if you still feel overwhelmed or need help with better boundaries.

Ms. Lightwater’s mission is to assist people in creating healthy balance and harmony in their lives through energy medicine, hypnotherapy and feng shui clearing. Sessions are available online or when you visit Santa Fe. Contact her at 505-271-4612 MST or email: info@soulresourcesllc.com.


Disclaimer:
This Mind Exercise should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment of any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Reduce Confusion

Do You Need to Reduce Confusion?

Welcome to an energy clearing that uses the Intuitive Learning Circles to help you reduce confusion and set things right by activating your imagination and renegotiating key agreements about your identity.

Reduce Confusion About Your Identity

If you are in the process of changing your career, where you live, your relationships or your priorities, you’re finding out how much energy old identities hold and how hard it can be to let them go. The stories we keep up about ourselves are powerful and take a lot of energy.

Perhaps you’re making changes in your family life. Maybe the career you invested so much in is no longer relevant. You may want to retire or even wonder whether the whole way you’ve been thinking about yourself is harmful to your well being.

So often, when we want a change, we think it will just happen automatically!

It’s easy to forget that you had agreements around those relationships or activities and they literally structured how you went about your day. The habits, memories and intentions that came with them helped you generate your life up until this point and have become part of your identity. That identity could also have roots in collective, past life or ancestral experiences. Regardless of how they got there, they are all important and need to be tended to, even the difficult ones!

To Reduce Confusion it’s important to examine Soul Contracts and other agreements to see if they need to be either:

  • Kept
  • Released completely or
  • Re-negotiated to adjust to what’s needed now.


You may say, “I don’t have time for this right now. There’s too much going on. It doesn’t really matter, does it?”

Yes, it does matter, because you matter. Your relationships matter. What you do matters. In fact, when there’s a lot going on, that’s the very best time to examine who you are and who you want to be at this pivotal time in your life.

If you just barge forward into what you think you want now without handling your agreements, you’ll simply go back to what you’ve always done before. The times are too significant to just return to the old status quo! That will just make things harder for everyone – especially you!

If you’re willing to slow down just a little, and make your agreements a priority now rather than later, you can free up a lot of repressed or suppressed energy. Even more importantly, you’ll be amazed at how much conflict and confusion you can bypass altogether!

When you can be fully present and without attachments to the old story, whatever your future holds will have much less baggage.

A wise person once said, “when one door closes, another one opens.” and  “what you put out, comes back to you.” The principles behind re-negotiating healthy agreements absolutely concur with those ideas. If we don’t change our agreements – especially institutional, cultural agreements – the old stories will keep coming back to us even when we thought we had outgrown them!

The intention of this mind exercise is to acknowledge who you’ve been and where you’ve come from by examining your agreements with respect so that you are truly free and open to create your new identity!

In this experience, you’re going to create a ceremony for reducing confusion and preparing for a prosperous new beginning by using your imagination, intuition and common sense to paint a new picture. All you need to do is relax and gaze softly at the Circles while you follow the directions that go along with each one. If you want, bring along something to write on or draw with!


Mind Body Integration

Mind Body Integration - Self-care for loss

For best results, look at each symbol both crossed over the midline of your body and uncrossed so that the correction is more complete.

Feel free to move at anytime in any way to help you embody your experience!


Begin by bringing in your Soul and Higher Self to oversee the process of reducing confusion around your identity.

Old Soul

 

Breathe deeply and open up communication with your heart and Soul. Doing this will help you to know what’s truly important to you about making this transition safely and effectively.

 

Prepare to Release Your Current Conception of Yourself

This Reiki Chakra Key can help you be more clear about what you would like to change so you can reduce confusion. Relax with it and start with how you’re seeing yourself in your current situation. Is there something about what you see that you’ll like to change?

Personality Chakra Key

Now, take a few moments to imagine how you would prefer to see yourself.

 

Enlist a Healing Balm That Will Help You Detach and Mend Any Wounds.

Use this Key to soften the energy around how you’ve been seeing yourself. Like a healing balm, imagine that a loving coat of peace and comfort is pouring down over you – helping you to let go.

Release Attachments Key

If you like, go back up to the Personality Chakra Key and see if anything has changed.

 

The Importance of Agreements

The mind works through agreements. Transitioning out of an identity and setting up a new life goes so much easier when you release agreements with the parts of your life that are over and done with.

That includes the contracts or agreements around relationships: the people, the places and the organizations that you’re going to be moving beyond. Those relationships may not be over, but surely they are going to change! Free up your energy with this Circle and let go of those agreements.

“I let go of all Soul Agreements that are complete – over and done with.  I allow the necessary changes to take place.”

See completed debts, vows and resentments burn up like old contracts in a beautiful, violet flame.

If you’ve completed an important project with a person, an organization or a special place, acknowledge it by releasing that contract into the fire. This would include places you used to frequent, raising any children, building a career, finishing school or being in a relationship of any kind.

You have completed that project successfully and what you did with that mattered!

 

You also have agreements with yourself that need to be released or renegotiated in order to reduce confusion about who you are now.

You may have made an agreement with yourself about yourself when you were younger. You could have decided that certain things just weren’t going to be possible for you, so why try? You may have given way your power, your space or even your body! If those agreements are still operating somewhere in your psyche, you can release them now with this Circle.

Your nervous system holds the energy of those agreements. To let go, start at the bottom of the line and the bottom of your spine.

As you move up, you can imagine locks unlocking – freeing each vertebrae from the chains of outdated, oppressive agreements – all the way up to the top of your spine. Be sure to do that both crossed and uncrossed. Here’s some suggested affirmations:

I let go of finished agreements around the identity of __________.”

“I let go of being abused, disempowered, confused or _________. I am free of any enslavement. My Soul is now in charge of who I am and how I behave.” 

I release agreements that interfere with my health, my productivity, prosperity and self-confidence.” “I decide that my body and mind is no longer a place for _______ or ________.” “I utilize my gifts and talents to create ________ and ________.” Etc. You get the idea!

 

Reduce Confusion by “Setting Things Right”.

A helpful metaphor for setting things right is to think of your life like a puzzle. That puzzle consists of many pieces – like your karma and other aspects of your Soul or Essential Self, including various skills, dreams, talents and gifts.

If you don’t have all your puzzle pieces or if you’ve gotten your pieces mixed up in someone else’s puzzle, things won’t come together correctly.

Think about it. If you have a box of puzzle pieces from five different puzzles, it’s going to be very difficult to sort out what really needs to happen. Whose puzzle is it?

Even worse, what if you realize that you’re not working on your puzzle at all? That would really explain your confusion! Until you’ve set things right, you will continue to be confused and unable to put it all together.

Use these positive affirmations to help you set things right:
“My life is a puzzle that I’m putting together. I’m willing to set things right in accordance with what I need now.”

“I decide to release any puzzle or puzzle pieces that don’t belong with me and call back what does.” Visualize the transfer taking place.

“I work on my puzzle and allow others to work on theirs.” Visualize your true puzzle coming together, with every piece in place!

 

Get Completely Present So That You Can Make Sense of Things.

Relax and let your 3rd Chakra get connected, open and balanced at your solar plexus (the area where your ribs go up in the front).

Your Essential Self is most efficiently located there to help you manifest, create happiness and maintain health.

In stressful times, it’s pretty common for the Essential Self to get closed off, misplaced or dissociated. You can correct that now.

If you need extra help, go back up to the Release Attachments Key.

 

Now You’re Ready to Clear Up Old Baggage.

With this new awareness, you can go into more detail. Consciously let go of anything that doesn’t really belong to you and needs to be returned. A lot of this is energetic in nature so, it’s best to imagine those things going to the Light. If you think of something that you actually, physically need to return to someone, make a note of it and plan to return it.

“I decide to reduce confusion by returning anything that belongs to someone else. That includes their confusion! All debts, confusions and misunderstandings are set right.”

Do that both crossed and uncrossed.

 

Establish Autonomy.

You can do the same with people. Maybe there are a few people that still cling to you for reasons of their own. It could be neediness, fear, anger, jealousy, co-dependence or any kind of pain and suffering. They need their energy to help themselves, so send it back to them or wherever it belongs so that everyone is free to move on.

 

Establish Reciprocity.

As part of setting things right, you need to reciprocate. For example, there could be some people that you cling to as well. You will want to reclaim your authority by recalling all parts and/or functions that have attached to others, yet really belong with you.

“I call back all parts or functions that have attached to others for any reason.”

Include your personal power, your principles, your energy, dreams, special abilities, talents and gifts. You will need these things as you create your new identity.

Forgive Old Debts.

If you’re willing to let go of any harmful intentions, grudges or resentments, you’ll be doing everyone a favor – especially you! Remember, what you put out comes back to you, so it’s in your own best interests to forgive yourself and put those conflicts to rest by letting them go to the Light.

If you like, you can imagine a beautiful Light opening up to you with a place for you to surrender your resentments and disagreements. All debts are forgiven.

 

Repair Any Reversals or Glitches in Your Energy System That Would Prevent Resolution.

Use this chart to help you make corrections. Relax and sense your overall energy. If it feels jagged, reversed or disjointed, stay with the Key until the energy smooths out. Do this both crossed and uncrossed over the midline of your body.

 

Release Any Old, Out of Date or Harmful Intentions.

Now is a good time to clear up any old intentions and unconscious attachments that go along with it.
Deeply relax as you gaze into the center open space of this Circle for the grandmother of tobacco – Mapacho. Imagine any prayer, wish, intention or agenda that may be keeping you attached to your old identities.

See them like wisps of smoke, clearing the way to reveal forgotten seeds of desire, aversion and ignorance, including other harmful intentions such as ancestral curses, filial and financial obligations and outdated societal vows.

These could include intentions from past lives or earlier in this life. You might be carrying them for others because of a family identity of “fixer,” “rebel” or “scapegoat” (this might explain why certain people or situations keep coming back time after time).
It is tremendously beneficial to clear them out now, so that you don’t inadvertently reignite them when you move forward with your new choices.

 

Now It’s Time to Call Back Lost or Confused Aspects of Your Essence.

This is like a Soul Retrieval. Use this chart to call back all parts of your Essence that may have gotten lost or fragmented along the way in your life.

“I reclaim my Essence with appreciation and gratitude.” 

Energy Medicine for the New Paradigm

Note: It’s worth it to think back on any special places or experiences you’ve released your agreements with. A fragmented part of yourself could very likely be stuck or wandering around in those places. Call them back so that you can live in wholeness!

 

Clear Destructive Emotional or Mental Patterns.

There are probably many old patterns that need to be cleared away by now. Use this symbol to dissolve any harmful mental or emotional patterns that are ready to be transmuted. See those attachments or behavioral structures like a large cloud bank that you can consciously send to the Light. Dissolve them into pure sunlight – the darkness all gone.

Please note: Never send destructive energies into the Earth, she already has too much to handle now. Use the Earth for planting seeds of happiness and life – not death!

 

When One Door Closes, Another One Opens.

Before moving on, bring completion to this process. Let this Circle help you close those old doors and pathways so that you can reduce confusion and your new path can become clear.

“All old doors, holes or pathways are sealed and healed.

I follow the direction of healthy protection.” 

 

Shine Light on Who You Really Are

Opening up to the Light will help you bring in a new vision of who you can be and what is possible for you to experience.

“I let the Light shine in.”

“I see myself _________, ________ and ___________.”

 

Center Yourself in your Solar Plexus Chakra.

Your Essential Self functions best when it’s unified and positioned in your Solar Plexus Chakra.

Envision your Self standing upright and facing forward to enhance your gut instinct.

“I position myself correctly to manifest my Soul’s purpose.”

“I am standing upright and facing forward so that I can do my very best.” 

 

Search for any of the old habits and behaviors of your old identity and close the drains that they’ve been stealing from your time, energy and environment.

“I close down all harmful energy channels.”

 

“My mind is open and clear to receive generative life force.”

 

Express Gratitude By Getting Grounded.

Finally! Thank all the people, places and experiences that have been a part of your life. Whether you liked them or not, they have helped you become who you are today. Put both feet on the floor and get grounded in the New Paradigm based on equity, cooperation and sustainable prosperity.

This is a good time to find and follow through on a simple action that you know will help you reduce confusion and move on.


Rheanni Lightwater

Rheanni Lightwater is a Reiki Master, Hypnotherapist and Medical Intuitive who specializes in Past Life Clearing and Soul Retrieval in Santa Fe NM. She also serves the Albuquerque, Rio Rancho and surrounding New Mexico area. Rheanni can work with you online through Zoom. 

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Disclaimer:
This Mind Exercise should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Saying Goodbye to a Longtime Home

Are you Moving On and Need Help Saying Goodbye?

Welcome to a space clearing that uses Feng Shui and the Intuitive Learning Circles for saying goodbye with respect and without attachment.

Saying Goodbye to a Longtime HomeIf you are in the process of moving, you may be surprised how hard saying goodbye to the place you called “home” is.

Home is so much more than a building. It includes the people, the community, the memories and intentions that have helped you generate your life up until this point. They are all important, whether you liked them or not!

You may say, “I don’t have time for this right now. I’ve got to get moved out. I’ll do it later.” Or, you might be involved in a longer transition and say, “My old house is going to become a rental or sold later. I don’t have to deal with that now.”

It’s also possible that you simply need to leave behind some old memories or ways of being so you can gather yourself more fully into the present.

Whatever your situation, going through a renegotiation and space clearing like this now, rather than later, will make your whole transition so much easier. Not only that, if you can be fully present and without attachments, whatever your future holds will have much less baggage and confusion.

A wise person once said, “when one door closes, another one opens.” The principles and customs of Feng Shui absolutely concur with that sentiment. The intention of this exercise is to facilitate that movement by saying goodbye with respect. That way, your mind is clear and you are truly free – open to embrace your future, whatever that involves!


Saying Goodbye ~

In this mind exercise, we are going to create a ceremony for saying goodbye and preparing for a prosperous new beginning by using our imaginations to paint the picture! All you need to do is relax and gaze softly at the Circles while you follow the directions that go along with each one. Bring along a piece of paper and something to write on or draw with.

Mind Body Integration

Mind Body Integration - Self-care for loss

For best results, look at each symbol both crossed over the midline of your body and uncrossed so that the correction is more complete.

Feel free to move at anytime in any way to help you embody your experience!


Begin by bringing in your Soul and Higher Self to oversee the process of saying goodbye.

Old Soul

 

Breathe deeply and open up communication with your heart and Soul. Doing this will help you to know what’s truly important to you about making about this transition.

 

The Importance of Agreements

The mind works through agreements. Saying goodbye and setting up a new life goes so much easier when you release all agreements with  the parts of your life that are over and done with.

Mentally release your Soul contracts or agreements around this building and any past significant buildings in your life. Visualize actual contracts with the property, the land, the city and the community and burn all that is over and done with. Include the people and organizations that you’re saying goodbye to. These relationships may not be over, but surely they are going to change! Use this Circle to let go of those agreements.

“I let go of all Soul Agreements that are complete – over and done with.”

See old debts, vows and resentments burn up like old contracts in a beautiful violet flame.

If you have completed a project in this home, acknowledge it by letting that contract be released into the fire. This would include raising children, building a career, being in relationship of any kind.

If you have experienced trauma here, that is also a significant part of your life.

Saying goodbye is a conscious acknowledgment of what has been important to you.

 

Pull up any energetic stakes or ties that you may have planted on your turf.

Note: This process may happen incrementally, depending on your timeline for moving…

Begin with your current home and the land it’s on. What was your original intention when you moved into this place? It’s very helpful to uproot any completed or outdated intentions and send them to the Light, so that something different can happen more easily.

Once you do that, you may notice that you still have ties to other places you’ve lived, especially childhood homes. Now is a excellent time to pull up those stakes as well. If you can engage your imagination and see those stakes going to the Light, your move forward will be much easier and more joyful!

Next, expand your awareness to other places that have been special to you in your environment – favorite or significant places like restaurants, parks, schools, even doctors offices. You will be able to tell when you’re ready to address a particular attachment because you will feel that pull – that painful tug on your heart.

You can uproot your attachment and feel even better about all these places. That’s because you can now connect with them through Love rather than suffering and pain.

Clear Your Baggage and Set Things Right.

With this new awareness, you can consciously let go of anything that would be better to not take with you.  Of course that means physical objects like furniture, clothes and accessories, however, a lot of baggage is energetic in nature. Luckily, you can surrender them to Spirit.

It can be difficult to let go. Sometimes the heart just closes down. Allow this Circle to help you relax and open your heart again.

“I surrender what needs to be surrendered.”

 

“I let go of what needs to be released.”

 

As you’re finding out, preparing to move is an excellent time to set things right emotionally and spiritually. You’d be surprised how moving can bring up other issues or problems that aren’t really yours and need to be returned. When that happens, it’s best to imagine those things going to the Light. If you think of something that you actually physically need to return to someone, make a note of it and plan to return it.

“I return anything that belongs to someone else. All debts and confusions are set right.”

 

You can do the same with people. Maybe there are a few people that still cling to you for reasons of their own. It could be neediness, anger, jealousy, co-dependence or even guilt! It’s time to send them back to wherever they came from, kindly but firmly, so that the both of you are free to move on.

 

Gather Up Your Power

As part of setting things right, you need to reciprocate. For example, you could be clinging to some people as well! You will want to reclaim your authority by recalling all parts and functions that belong with you. You don’t want to leave things behind that other people will have to deal with. Use this affirmation to help you:

“I call back all energetic parts of myself so that I can move forward in wholeness.”

Include your personal power, special abilities, talents and gifts. If you can take back any harmful intentions, grudges or resentments, you’ll be doing everyone a favor – especially you!

 

Now It’s Time to Call Back Your Essence.

This is like a Soul Retrieval. Use this chart to call back all parts of your Essence that may have gotten lost or fragmented during your life in this home (or anywhere else, for that matter).

“I reclaim my Essence with appreciation and gratitude.”

Energy Medicine for the New Paradigm

Note: It’s worth it to recall those people or special places you released your agreements with. A fragmented part of yourself could very likely be wandering around, feeling a bit lost. Call them back so that you can live in wholeness!

 

Get Grounded and Centered in your Solar Plexus Chakra.

Your Essential Self functions best when it’s unified and positioned in your Solar Plexus Chakra. Envision your Self standing upright and facing forward to enhance your gut instinct.

Clear Destructive Emotional or Mental Patterns.

Dissolve any harmful mental or emotional patterns with this symbol. See those attachments like a large cloud bank that you can consciously send to the Light or see them dissolve into pure sunlight – the darkness all gone.

Let the Sun safely transmute, transform and complete this stage of your journey.

Please note: Never send destructive energies into the Earth, she already has too much to handle now. Use the Earth for planting seeds of happiness and life – not death!

It’s also very helpful to use both of the symbol above and below to clear the entire space while you’re smudging with your favorite cleansing plants, woods or resins.

If there’s been any illness, loss or disease involved with your environment, use this symbol to send that energy to the Light as well.

When One Door Closes, Another One Opens.

Before moving on, bring completion to the process of saying goodbye. Let this Circle help you close those old doors and pathways so that your new path can become clear.

“All old doors, holes or pathways are sealed and healed.

I follow the direction of healthy protection.” 

 

Express Gratitude By Relaxing and Getting Grounded.

Finally! Thank all the people, places and experiences that have been a part of your life. They have helped you create who you are today.

This is a good time to find and follow through on a simple action that will mark the end of Saying Goodbye.


Feng Shui for Your Life


Rheanni LightwaterRheanni Lightwater is a Reiki Master, Hypnotherapist and Medical Intuitive who specializes in Space Clearing and Feng Shui in Santa Fe NM. She also serves the Albuquerque, Rio Rancho and surrounding New Mexico area. Rheanni can work with you online through Zoom or FaceTime. 

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Disclaimer:
This Mind Exercise should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.