Resolve for a New Paradigm

July, 2020 Intuitive Reading from the I Ching or Book of Change.

In this intuitive reading for July 1st – July 24th, 2020, Soul Resources offers a variety of SOS formulas and Transformation Games using the Intuitive Learning Circles and the I Ching to help us all stay calm, clear and balanced while we create RESOLVE for a New Paradigm…

Resolve for a New Paradigm

Gaining a Larger Perspective on the Current Flow

2020 is the Year of the Yang White or Golden Rat in the Chinese Zodiac. Ironically, exactly 300 years ago was also a Year of the White Rat when the ship “Grand Saint Antoine” brought the last major outbreak of bubonic plague to the City of Marseille, France. Unfortunately, the theme of large cycles of collective karma around responsibility and illness is difficult to miss.

The Rat is generally described as active, fertile, filled with energy and industrious, however, his darker side seems to be more predominant this year as it was in 1720. Historically, Rats attract clutter, spread disease and generally insert themselves into situations where they can do serious damage. 

Although we’ve already witnessed unprecedented confusion and mixed messages, 2020 is really teaching us how to stay flexible and change with the changes! 

I Ching Intuitive Reading for July 1st – July 24th, 2020.

The I Ching Energy quickly passed through Hexagram #47 ADVERSITY at the beginning of June, providing just the kind of energy where dangerous and tragic situations could erupt suddenly with little or no provocation. Luckily, it was very short-lived and then moved into #43,  RESOLUTION for a couple of weeks.
Now, it’s gotten volatile again, spurred on by all the astrological events and lack of unified leadership.
Yes, things are difficult, yet how you handle irritations, intense social change and inner conflict can still make a difference. 
Please, remain aware of the potential for explosive situations that could appear almost out of nowhere.

What is the best thing to do in times such as these?

Let go of preconceived ideas that cause division and resolve to use this difficult time to progress into a New Paradigm based on equality, sustainable prosperity and cooperation for the Common Good ~

On June 20th, we settled into the flow of  Hexagram #6, CONFLICT. Here is part of the text that I think will be most relevant between July 1st though the 19th:

“At a time when social unity is most important, it is significantly lacking. There are misunderstandings brought about by basic philosophical differences and they cannot be overcome by forceful measures. Avoid controversial topics unless there is present a wise mediator who is trusted by all concerned… 

…weigh all of the possible difficulties and oppositions at the beginning of your endeavors. Such careful considerations are the only way to end debilitating CONFLICT which can bring your efforts to a standstill. As it is, you cannot engage in confrontation with your adversaries, for this would lead to misfortune. All such aggressive or cunning strategies will come to evil.

In questions of power or politics, it would be in your best interests to place the CONFLICT before an impartial authority who can make an unprejudiced decision. In this way you can bring discord to a halt before it becomes injurious…

…Business matters cannot be brought to fruition at this time…It would be best to hold back major changes or innovations until the time is more auspicious…

Hold back and re-examine your original feelings…

Your adversary is superior in strength.”

~ Hexagram #6 Conflict, The I Ching Workbook by R. L. Wing


~ Important Self Care During this Time of Pandemic

To stay balanced, RESOLVE to take good care of yourself.  Here is a mind exercise that can help you you stay aware of your needs and monitor your health.

RESOLVE to handle your irritations, adjust to social change and deal with your inner conflicts.

Additional support is available through SOS…

 

~ The extent of what’s happening and the ramifications to our collective future is unfathomable. Just about everyone you know is in some kind of grieving process. Stay connected to hope and healing. Take time out to gently accept and grieve your losses. SOS – Self-care for Grief, Illness and Loss

~ Movements of social and political change will continue throughout the Summer. There will be many manipulative agendas and power grabs happening, so make it a priority to hold on to your personal power and stand your ground with  SOS – Grounding in the Truth.

~  The space you live and work in can give you a place to center yourself and be grounded in. It gives you a sense of belonging and support.  If you’re not experiencing that where you are now, you can do something about it or at least open up to some helpful possibilities by going through SOS – Setting Up a Safe Space.


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What’s Next? Chakra Clearing and Self Care Games for Todays Intuitive Reading.

Recommended Transformation Games and Mind Exercises to Keep You Moving with the Flow, Rather than Against it.

Because the chakras react to and reflect other subtle energy systems, an imbalance in one of the seven Primary Chakras is usually an indicator of a deeper imbalance affecting many people. Therefore, we’re using the Primary Reiki Chakra Keys to help you identify what needs correction and bring new meaning to the old axiom: “When I heal myself, I help to heal the world.”

Directions: Gaze at each Circle and ask: “Is this chakra balanced?” If the answer is no, click through to the game or exercise and see if it helps.

Retrain Your Mind to Go for Joy

The healing recommended on this level is associated with the Root Chakra. This Mind Exercise helps you to release external expectations and create a foundation for greater joy, freedom and balance into the framework of your life in the New Paradigm. 

I Ching Readings Today - The Root Chakra

Find out more about the First Chakra>

Nourish Yourself for Better Immunity

The balancing recommended on this level is associated with the Second Chakra. This Transformation Game  has a lot of information about how you’re NOURISHING yourself through your emotions, digestion and important projects.

I Ching Readings Today - The Second Chakra

Find out more about the Second Chakra>

Know When Someone Is Lying ~

The healing recommended on this level is associated with the Third Chakra. Having courage to face the truth is one of the most important things we can develop in ourselves. When you know if someone is lying, you can change directions and get back on track with your goals, not someone elses!

!I Ching Readings Today - Third Chakra

Find out more about the Third Chakra>

Unearthing Emotional Conflict ~

The healing recommended on this level is associated with the Heart Chakra. With this Transformation Game you can strengthen the light that lives within  and allow your Soul to help you make necessary changes in your life. 

I Ching Readings Today - Fourth Chakra

Find out more about the Fourth Chakra>

Simplify Your Life ~

The healing recommended on this level is associated with the Throat Chakra. With this favorite Transformation Game, you can access your true voice and ask for genuine help from your Soul resources to simplify your life and balance your priorities.

I Ching Readings Today - The Throat Chakra

Find out more about the Fifth Chakra>

Develop Your Precognition ~

The healing recommended on this level is associated with the Third Eye. There are times when you need to turn your intuition and instincts way up. As we navigate this pandemic, this Mind Exercise will help you develop your ‘spidey senses’ and stay away from trouble. 

. I Ching Readings Today - The Third Eye Chakra

Find out more about the Sixth Chakra>

Clear Electro-magnetic Debris ~

The healing recommended on this level is associated with the Crown Chakra. Keep your energy clear and balanced with this Mind Exercise that helps you balance chakra polarity throughout your system and release electro-magnetic interference.

I Ching Readings Today - The Crown Chakra

Find out more about the Seventh Chakra>

Thank you for joining with us for Todays Intuitive Reading and being a part of the movement into the New Paradigm!

Please share if you know someone you think could benefit.


Rheanni Lightwater - Todays Intuitive ReadingResolve for a New Paradigm is put together by Rheanni Lightwater and inspired by – The I Ching Workbook by R. L. Wing.

If you would like more help, find out about Rheanni’s Intuitive Readings and Clearings (Long Distance or Visit Santa Fe)

Long distance intuitive readings are available with Rheanni (Ray-ah-nee). Call her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, Monday through Friday to schedule.

Disclaimer:
Resolve for a New Paradigm should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment of any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Stingray Medicine-Animal Totems

Protection and Boundaries through Stingray Medicine

Self-care and Personal Growth through Gifts from the Rainforest

Stingray Medicine - Gifts from the Rainforest#13 Stingray Medicine repels influences that are causing us harm. Keeping your attention on the truth allows you to separate from ignorance and doubt.

Are you under attack? If so, what would help? Is there something you need to do to protect your energy?

Healing Action:  Create protection for your personal space. Access information about your internal bagua map. Position yourself correctly. Protect yourself by activating the shaman’s “Ring of Fire.”

What does Stingray Medicine suggest I do to help me handle my current challenges?

Respecting the Stingray

The stingray swiftly and surely repels its predators.
It is not malicious, yet it leaves no room for error or indifference.
Those who are ignorant of its powerful presence will promptly learn to be cautious and distance themselves from his territory.
There are times on our spiritual journey when nothing less than stingray medicine is called for.
Separate yourself from error, ignorance, doubt, and indifference in whatever form it takes. There is no error in this.
Listen to stingray when he says:
“Keep your eyes looking forward on all that is good and true and repel the rest.”

Mind Body IntegrationMind Body Integration

For best results, gaze softly at the Circle both crossed over the midline of the body and uncrossed so that the communication is more complete.

Intuitive Learning Circles ™ help you access your inner guidance, identify problems and make proactive changes. Simply relax and gaze at the Circles while contemplating its message and positive affirmations. Your intuition will come forward and give you the help that you seek.


Further Exploration into Stingray Medicine:

Stingray Medicine

The message that Stingray has to share is about protection and the importance of maintaining healthy boundaries in the situation you are inquiring about. Are you sure that you are able to exercise your free will? What would happen if you could say “no” without guilt or excuses?

Examine your intentions and see if they line up with what is happening. If you are confused by what you see, ask your heart, “how can I properly communicate what I want?”

When you send a clear and unified message, there can be no confusion about what you intend to do. If someone is interfering with your intentions, put out a clear warning and suggest an alternate path for them to take.


Stingray Medicine is an excerpt from Gifts from the Rainforest

Available exclusively From Soul Resources LLC:

Animal Totems for Inner Guidanceby Rheanni Lightwater

OPEN YOUR HEART AND MAKE FRIENDS WITH STINGRAY MEDICINE

Inspired by Design Therapy from the native tribes of the Amazon, the forty-nine Intuitive Learning Circles™ and animal totems from Gifts from the Rainforest are healing and divination tools for anyone who wants to accelerate their spiritual growth and intuitive abilities.

♦ Find emotional balance  ♦ Deal with repetitive habits & attitudes that keep you stuck  ♦ Develop common sense  ♦ Learn to trust your gut instincts.  ♦ Receive messages from plant, animal & nature spirits.


Disclaimer:
The Intuitive Learning Circles should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment of any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Snake Medicine | Animal Totems

Transcendence through Snake Medicine

Self-care and Personal Growth through Gifts from the Rainforest

Snake Medicine - Animal Totems#7 Snake Medicine announces transcendence and initiation into a new stage of life. By peeling away the mask that no longer suits us, we honor the old and celebrate the new.

What have you outgrown?

Healing Action:  Make a positive shift in your appearance. Let go of old, negative habits. Shed old personalities.

Snake Sheds its Skin

The snake renews itself periodically by shedding its skin,
revealing a new and more vibrant version of itself.
Like the snake, you have transcended
the limitations of who you thought you were.
Your appearance no longer suits you.
Peel away the mask that hides your beauty.
Honor the old.
Celebrate the new.

Mind Body IntegrationMind Body Integration

For best results, gaze softly at the Circle both crossed over the midline of the body and uncrossed so that the communication is more complete.

Intuitive Learning Circles ™ help you access your inner guidance, identify problems and make proactive changes. Simply relax and gaze at the Circles while contemplating its message and positive affirmations. Your intuition will come forward and give you the help that you seek.


Further Exploration into Snake Medicine:

Gifts from the Rainforest #7 Snake Medicine
Snake Medicine

There are two sides to this Circle. Take a few moments to evaluate your behavior. You have activated your spiritual will and are now moving toward a higher purpose for you and your world. You may want to revisit lost hopes and see if you desire to incorporate them back into your life.

The way to do this is to bring all levels of yourself into alignment with the truth by addressing the following forms of extravagance and ignorance:

  1. Complete unfinished business.
  2. Clear up debts that you owe or are owed.
  3. Speak up regarding issues that have been bothering you.
  4. Be done with petty dramas and ego games.
  5. Come back into your power.

If you do these things, you will set yourself right with the natural flow of the Universe. The ego may object, often very loudly, however you now recognize that the ego is not to be trusted when it comes to matters of integrity and/or personal power. These are significant blocks that have hindered inner transformation up until this point. If you ignore them, your energy will be drawn back into feeding negativity and fear.

Once you have re-channeled your energy to love, truth, and freedom, you will have new energy to accomplish your dreams.

Or…

You are dealing with your shadow side and healing disloyalty within yourself. Shed any lies that you may have been telling yourself. These lies come in the forms of denial, jealousy, judgment or vengeance, which have created imbalance and illness within you.

Shamans often refer to this kind of healing as “uncrossing your path”, and the truth is, we always do it to ourselves, usually by following someone else’s path, rather than our own. Successfully making this transition into loyalty will expand the possibilities regarding where you can go. It may benefit you to let go of ideas that you have laid claim to. Ideas are like air – they are everywhere, traveling freely, belonging to no one. Claiming ownership over them poisons the body, mind and spirit. If you like an idea, apply it to your life and pass it on. If you don’t like it, just let it go.

See yourself and your situation as it really is. In that way you will rid yourself of indecision and move forward into your higher good.


Snake Medicine is an excerpt from Gifts from the Rainforest

Available exclusively From Soul Resources LLC:

Animal Totems for Inner Guidanceby Rheanni Lightwater

OPEN YOUR HEART AND MAKE FRIENDS WITH SNAKE MEDICINE

Inspired by Design Therapy from the native tribes of the Amazon, the forty-nine Intuitive Learning Circles™ and animal totems from Gifts from the Rainforest are healing and divination tools for anyone who wants to accelerate their spiritual growth and intuitive abilities.

♦ Find emotional balance  ♦ Deal with repetitive habits & attitudes that keep you stuck  ♦ Develop common sense  ♦ Learn to trust your gut instincts.  ♦ Receive messages from plant, animal & nature spirits.


Disclaimer:
The Intuitive Learning Circles should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment of any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Intuitive Reading for May 2020

Soul Resources Intuitive Reading from the I Ching or Book of Change.

Rheanni Lightwater - Intuitive Reading for May 2020
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In this intuitive reading for June 2020, Rheanni offers a variety of self-care formulas and Transformation Games using the Intuitive Learning Circles to help us all stay calm, clear and balanced while we navigate this pandemic…

Gaining a Larger Perspective on the Current Flow

2020 is the Year of the Yang White or Golden Rat in the Chinese Zodiac. Ironically, exactly 300 years ago was also a Year of the White Rat when the ship “Grand Saint Antoine” brought the last major outbreak of bubonic plague to the City of Marseille, France. The theme of large cycles of collective karma around responsibility and illness is difficult to miss. The Rat is generally described as active, fertile, filled with energy and industrious. However, his darker side seems to be more predominant this year as it was in 1720. Historically, Rats attract clutter, spread disease and generally insert themselves into situations where they can do serious damage. 

Grounding in the TruthAlthough we’ve already witnessed unprecedented confusion and mixed messages, 2020 is really teaching us how to take back our power and stand our ground! 

Concerns for the rest of this year will continue to revolve around keeping your environment clean, your thinking clear and your heart strong. Our collective karma for illness and unhealthy patterns of neglect have been activated. How you decide to take care of yourself is up to you!

By the way, all this fits in perfectly with 2020 being the Year of the Emperor within the Tarot system. The Emperor is about male authority and the effective (or ineffective) ways that we manage our physical reality. It’s easy to see how dangerous the Rat’s out of control enthusiasm mixes with the concept of personal responsibility. 

Todays Intuitive Reading for June 1 – 3, 2020.

The I Ching Energy is passing through Hexagram #47 ADVERSITY where dangerous situations can erupt suddenly with little or no provocation. Are you listening to your intuitive hits? Take good care of yourselves…
“When faced with adversity, remain emotionally stable and optimistic. Hold your fears in check. If you indulge in insecurities, you will succumb to to the overwhelming urge of the times and lose yourself in losing.”  ~ Hexagram #47 Adversity  The I Ching Workbook, R. L. Wing

What is the best thing to do in times such as these?

~ Kuan Yin still recommends staying on the path of MODERATION to take good care of yourself.

~ Important Self Care During this Time of Pandemic

SOS - Healthy BoundariesSOS - Illness & LossSOS- for Emotional Shock

 

 

 

 

~ The extent of what’s happening and the ramifications to our collective future is unfathomable. Everyone you know is in some kind of grieving process! Respect your needs by taking time to gently grieve your losses so you can stay connected to hope and healing. SOS – Self-care for Grief, Illness and Loss

~ There have been so many truly shocking events recently. As these shocks continue to pile up one upon each other, it’s easy to overlook how the weight of each experience could be negatively affecting your overall mental, emotional and physical health. This formula helps you gently process and release shock so that your immune system can stay strong. SOS – Resolving Shock and Confusion.

~ Although we’re practicing social distancing, it’s quite easy to tap into collective fears and emotions about everything that’s going on, especially if you’re a highly sensitive person. There’s never been a better time to keep yourself clear with SOS – Develop Healthy Boundaries.

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Intuitive Reading for May: Please Check Out the Chakra Healing and Self Care Games Below to Support Your Health and Well-being.

Recommended Transformation Games and Mind Exercises to Keep You Moving with the Flow, Rather than Against it.

Because the chakras react to and reflect other subtle energy systems, an imbalance in one of the seven Primary Chakras is usually an indicator of a deeper imbalance affecting many people. Therefore, we’re using the Primary Reiki Chakra Keys to help you identify what needs correction and bring new meaning to the old axiom: “When I heal myself, I help to heal the world.”

Directions: Gaze at each Circle and ask: “Is this chakra balanced?” If the answer is no, click through to the game or exercise and see if it helps.

Navigate Your Karma

The healing recommended on this level is associated with the Root Chakra. In this Mind Exercise, you can shift your perception about the karma we’re all living through with this pandemic. 

I Ching Readings Today - The Root Chakra

Find out more about the First Chakra>

Evaluate How Well You Are Nourishing Yourself

The balancing recommended on this level is associated with the Second Chakra. For example, your second chakra is deeply connected to your emotions, your digestion and immunity. To get information about how you’re NOURISHING yourself on these levels and what you might do to improve, play this Transformation Game.

I Ching Readings Today - The Second Chakra

Find out more about the Second Chakra>

Rebalance and Reform Your Plan ~

The healing recommended on this level is associated with the Third Chakra. If you are like most people, you’ve been experiencing a lot of change and may realize that you need to get centered again and reform some of your plans. Whether it is a business plan or overall life trajectory, this Transformation Game can help you evaluate what’s working and what isn’t based on your new circumstances.

!I Ching Readings Today - Third Chakra

Find out more about the Third Chakra>

Balance Heart Polarity and Clear Pathogens ~

The healing recommended on this level is associated with the Heart Chakra. The Heart Center is your go to place when you need to stabilize and organize your energy. Keep it clear and balanced with this Mind Exercise that helps you balance chakra polarity and release electro-magnetic interference.

I Ching Readings Today - Fourth Chakra

Find out more about the Fourth Chakra>

Communication Help for Doing The Right Thing ~

The healing recommended on this level is associated with the Throat Chakra. If you’re struggling with certain people, it may be because of mixed messages or unresolved issues from your past. By playing this Transformation Game, you can begin to understand what’s motivating you so you can do the right thing to resolve the situation.  

I Ching Readings Today - The Throat Chakra

Find out more about the Fifth Chakra>

Develop Your Precognition ~

The healing recommended on this level is associated with the Third Eye. There are times when you need to turn your intuition and instincts way up. As we navigate this pandemic, this Mind Exercise will help you develop your ‘spidey senses’ and stay away from trouble. 

. I Ching Readings Today - The Third Eye Chakra

Find out more about the Sixth Chakra>

Clear Electro-magnetic Debris ~

The healing recommended on this level is associated with the Crown Chakra. If you’ve been having trouble with your sleep or connecting with your inner guidance, you can go through this mind exercise to help you focus and re-connect with your natural rhythms.

I Ching Readings Today - The Crown Chakra

Find out more about the Seventh Chakra>

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Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKP
Rheanni Lightwater CHT, Reiki Master Teacher

The intuitive reading for May is put together by Rheanni Lightwater and inspired by – The I Ching Workbook by R. L. Wing.

If you would like more help, find out about Rheanni’s Intuitive Readings and Clearings (Long Distance or Visit Santa Fe)

Long distance intuitive readings are available with Rheanni (Ray-ah-nee). Call her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, Monday through Friday to schedule.

Disclaimer:
Todays Intuitive Reading should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment of any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Learning How to Change

Are You Changing with the Changes?

If you’re like most of us, you’re overwhelmed by the speed and amount of confusing changes taking place. In one day, you might feel panicked, shut down or frustrated by others who don’t seem to know how to change. So much of “normal” life is gone. You may feel threatened and just want to get away. You could be ready to fight due to any number of conflicts – both inner and outer. Or you might be resisting the whole situation with every fiber in your body!  

The 64 Hexagrams in the I Ching or Book of Change have much to teach us about the importance of being flexible and knowing how to change. 

For example, in Hexagram #29 DANGER, it says:

The situation is one of real DANGER, caused by and manifested in the affairs of man... Acting with integrity and confidence is the key to surmounting the DANGER.”

In Hexagram #49 CHANGING, the ancient text states: 

“A struggle is occurring …the time of CHANGING suggests that although you may not know what to do, you know that something must be done. Your best course is to alert yourself by paying careful attention to the shifting moods of those around you. Take stock of the general feelings running throughout society. This may help you determine your own personal imperatives and the support you can expect in carrying them out.”

In Hexagram #51 SHOCKING, the text says, “The only thing predictable about what is coming is its SHOCKING unpredictability… Examine yourself to see if you have in your heart an acceptance of the sudden forces of the cosmos. Only with this attitude can you behave correctly.”

Transformation Game: Learning How To Change in a Changing World.

You can discover how to change more gracefully and let go of the gridlock by going through this Transformation Game. When you slow down and take the time to go within, you can gain a deeper understanding of what you’re really struggling with. Not only that, you can find the motivation to change how you’re responding in a more effective way!

Directions: Simply gaze at the Circle while contemplating the positive affirmations. Breathe deeply and allow yourself to relax as much as possible.

“I reclaim and balance my rational senses.”

“I focus them to be present and keep tuning into my body to determine what I need.”

“I use them to notice my environment so I can reject, repel or avoid harmful thoughts and energies.”

“I focus on actions that benefit my health, happiness and  _______________.”


An important note about Mind Body Integration ~ 

Retrain Your Mind for Mind Body IntegrationThe brain and body communicate through different channels when a part of you is crossed over the center of your body. As you work with the Circles, cross and uncross a hand or foot over the midline of your body. Use a soft focus and breathe patiently. This will help you access your resistances more fully so that you can release more. Let any negative self-talk go by breathing through it.

Feel free to move at anytime in any way to help you let go!


Once you feel ready, see if you can slow down and let yourself focus on one thing at a time.

“I continue to relax and breathe while my thoughts slow way down.”

Gently, bring your awareness to a specific area of your life that’s caught in any kind of conflict. What do you notice? You might want to make note of some of the impressions you get.

 

Empower your ability to choose in this situation.

“I exist and what I do matters.”

“I bring myself into alignment with my highest good.”

 

Now you’re ready to go through the rest of the game in the same way by asking yourself questions while you gaze softly at each accompanying Circle. Take your time, the answers might not come right away. The Circles are helping your mind to clear away mental and emotional clutter.

“In this particular situation, how am I dealing with change?” 

Am I stuck on something? Shut down? Is it possible that I’m being too hard on myself? What is the concern?”

 

If you’re stuck, you might be able to deal with it fairly easily by using this Circle that clears conflict, resistance and fixated thinking.  

Imagine that you can use the Circle like a bull’s eye to dissolve, melt or send a laser beam to break up any conflicts or fixations you may be experiencing.

If you’re judging yourself too harshly, use the Circle to help you break up those rigid thoughts!

 

Continue with your investigation about how to change…

“Am I taking anything personally?”

You can usually tell if you’re internalizing something because you’ll start to experience physical, mental, emotional or even spiritual irritation.

“I stop taking this personally and let it go. I turn to more positive ways of dealing with this particular situation.”

 

Think about what you can learn from this situation.
“The most important take away for me in this situation is ________.”
“I am learning ____________.”
Be sure to write this down.

For a much deeper integration, trace around the circle clockwise with your eyes, both uncrossed and crossed, while you consider your take away thought.

Then, do the same as you trace your eyes around the square in the same direct, both crossed and uncrossed.

The Essential Human*Note: if you have an updated copy of The Essential Human, you might want to go through Evaluate Your Current Health Priorities (on page 10) to help you disengage from emotional turmoil held on both the personal and collective level.
Ask what effect emotions are having on your psyche. Ask yourself:
“Is my physical, mental or spiritual health affected by an emotional imbalance?” 

Choose from the archetypes #1 – 42. Use this affirmation:
“I detach from emotional turmoil and access beneficial emotions instead.”

 

Next, imagine that you can release any old agreements, assumptions or obligations that are keeping you stuck in the gridlock. Visualize them like contracts, burning up into nothingness with a violet flame. Here are some suggestions:

“I let go of outdated agreements to resist or to take on someone else’s conflict as my own.”

“I let go of the need to hold onto anyone or anything harmful in this situation.”

“I let go of ________. I detach from ________. I remove ________.” Etc.

 

Make some new decisions that support how to change more appropriately, like: “I choose to see this situation in a positive light.” or… “I am capable and my Spirit helps me to handle change… I am free to change in accordance with my highest good… I allow other people to handle their own issues…”, etc.

 

Connect with the Third Chakra at your Solar Plexus and let it open up. Relax and let the tightness go. Deep breathing is your best friend in times of accelerated change! Move around or stretch if you like.

 

Keep breathing and give yourself a good dose of courage with the help of this Circle:

“I surround myself with courage, strength and determination.”

 

Imagine that this Circle can help you find the seeds of resistance you’re feeling. They’re probably not even yours! Let them go to wherever they belong.

Return your attention to your own beneficial seeds of karma. Place them in your Heart center and nurture them gently.

 

Now it’s time to dissolve your connection to any confusion or conflict. Use this symbol for Dissolving Destructive Blueprints and send all the patterns into the Light.

“I dissolve the mental, emotional and spiritual connections to these patterns of conflict.”

Take your time and visualize them dissolving like dark clouds into bright sunshine!

 

Next, seal and heal all leaks, holes or pathways that lead to back to any resistance or unnecessary suffering:

“All holes are sealed and healed. I follow the direction of healthy protection.”

 

Are you grounded in the New Paradigm of cooperation and sustainable prosperity? If not, put your feet flat on the ground and let your energy organize around it now.

 

Finally, let your mindset align itself with gratitude and grace:

“I am grateful to be changing with the changes.”

Congratulations!

It’s rarely easy to let go of conflict, but once you know how to change with the changes, your situation is bound to improve! The I Ching leaves you with this thought:

“Remove discordant elements as they appear, throw out outmoded or stifling policies when they once again create problems, and establish far-reaching clarity about the future whenever the opportunity presents itself.” ~ The I Ching Workbook, R.L. Wing

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Todays Intuitive Reading


Rheanni LightwaterTransformation Games have been put together by Rheanni Lightwater, CHT, CKP.

If you would like more help, find out about Rheanni’s Intuitive Readings and Clearings (Long Distance or Visit Santa Fe)

Long distance intuitive readings are available with Rheanni (Ray-ah-nee). Call her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, Monday through Friday to schedule.

Disclaimer:
This Transformation Game should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment of any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Electro-magnetic Poisoning and Chakra Polarity

Welcome to a Powerful Clearing for Your Primary Chakras

and several additional chakras that will activate a stronger connection to your Spirit above and to Mother Earth below! We’re going to use Reiki Chakra Keys to help you clear electro-magnetic poisoning and other pathogens from your energy system while you balance the polarity of each chakra for increased energy. 

Rheanni Lightwater, Medical Intuitive

This is a great healing meditation to go through while moving or stretching. I love to do it while I’m riding a recumbent bike. Lately, because of the increased pathogens in the atmosphere, I‘ve been guided to go through it on an “as needed” basis. One common sign that you need this formula would be if your electronics start going haywire. Your own unstable polarity could be interacting with your equipment! If you’re a highly sensitive person like me, you might want to go through it as a daily self-care routine…


Transformation Game: Clearing the Polarity of Your Chakras ~

There are hundreds of chakras located throughout the human body. Aside from the seven basic chakras that are well known, there are secondary spiritual chakras activating new levels of consciousness and essential chakras that govern the proper functioning of your body. That means, every organ, gland and joint has at least one chakra. When the polarity of one or more of these chakras go out of sync with the others, you may feel unstable or off balance physically, mentally, emotionally or spiritually.

Electro-magnetic poisoning and virus’s like the coronavirus can cause the chakras to go out of balance.

Electro-magnetic Poisoning and the ChakrasWhen you spend a lot of time around technology, it’s easy to build up a toxic load of EMF’s in your energy system.  As a Medical Intuitive, I see this process beginning when electro-magnetic debris starts zapping around and jamming up the flow of energy in the chakras. If this “shock to the system” isn’t cleared regularly, highly sensitive people  can eventually experience what’s known as electro-magnetic poisoning. The online magazine, Healthline lists possible reactions to EMF’s including: disturbances in your sleep, including insomnia, headache, depression and depressive symptoms, tiredness and fatigue, dysesthesia (a painful, often itchy sensation), lack of concentration, changes in memory, dizziness, irritability, loss of appetite and weight loss, restlessness and anxiety, nausea, skin burning, tingling and changes in the electrical activity of the brain.

Although the symptoms are vague and hard to diagnose, people suffering from electro-magnetic poisoning can experience significant disturbances in their mental health and physical wellbeing.

So, how can we expel electro-magnetic poisoning?

Fixation and Electro-magnetic PoisoningFirst, you want to make sure that your energy system is cleared of all the little  “shocks” and fixations.

  • On a mental level, these fixations often show up as rigid or dogmatic thinking.
  • Emotionally, you can get stuck in a low vibration, like fear.
  • On a physical level, the fixations show up as chronic tension derived from conflicts  we’re holding onto.
  • Spiritually, you might be clinging to dogma that’s preventing you from being as happy as you could be.

If you’ve been feeling stuck in any of these behaviors, this could be one reason!

To shake those fixations up a bit, imagine that you can use the Intuitive Learning Circle below like a bull’s eye and send a laser beam to the center of the Circle with these positive affirmations: 

“I release agreements to buy into extreme thinking or rigid behavior.”

“I relax my chakras to help me make beneficial changes. I see myself getting unstuck.”

“I let go of electro-magnetic poison in accordance with my highest good.”

“I release chronic tension from my body. I let go of conflicts.”

Take your time and move around if you feel the need. Be sure to breathe deeply and often!

Once you’ve done that, you should feel your system beginning to relax. Next, set a simple intention about polarity. For example:

“This is a clearing for me to balance my chakra system so that it’s flowing in harmony with life affirming polarity.”

Start going through the different Circles for the chakras in the order laid out below. Spend approximately a minute or two meditating on each symbol. The Reiki Chakra Keys are helping you to shift harmful polarity and let go of electro-magnetic poisoning. I’ve used them myself to help me move viral energies out of my system!

You’ll probably feel a lot of energy moving. That’s all right, it simply means the symbols are working with Reiki energy to cleanse toxins out of your chakras and then balance them.

As you meditate on each Key, consciously visualize the toxic energy clearing out of you and going to the Sun. That way, you can be sure that you’re not dumping debris on others or our precious Earth. You will know you’re done when the energy calms down. Then you can move on to the next Key. At the end of the sequence, additional Circles from Gifts from the Rainforest will help you get your energy settled and grounded.


So, let’s get started with Part One!

Begin with the Fourth Chakra Key (Heart): Think about someone or something that you love very much. Feel that tender feeling in the center of your chest. This is where the Fourth Chakra is located and its energy radiates out, like a star with “Yang” energy.

A balanced and clear Fourth Chakra vibrates with the color GREEN. This is the center of your Being and the focal point for a healthy chakra system in the New Paradigm. It’s often called the Heart Chakra (please note that you have other chakras that bring energy in and out of your actual physical heart and their polarity generally runs more Yin or receptive). To balance the polarity in your 4th chakra, gaze at the Circle while using this positive affirmation:

“This chakra is connected and flowing with life affirming polarity.”

Primary Chakras - The 4th Chakra

Visualize any electro-magnetic debris going to the Sun.

 

Next, gaze at the Fifth Chakra Key for the chakra located at your Throat:

“This chakra is connected and flowing with life affirming polarity.”

A balanced and clear Fifth Chakra vibrates with the color BLUE. Visualize any blockages or heaviness going to the Sun.

 

Continue with the Sixth Chakra Key for your Third Eye at the center of your forehead:

“This chakra is connected and flowing with life affirming polarity.”

A balanced and clear Sixth Chakra vibrates with the color Purple. Send toxic energy out and to the Sun.

 

At the top of your head is the Seventh Chakra Key, often called the Crown Chakra:

“This chakra is connected and flowing with life affirming polarity.” 

Primary Chakras - The Seventh Chakra

A balanced and clear Seventh Chakra vibrates with the color WHITE. Feel the toxic energy moving up, out of the Crown Chakra like a fountain and going to the Sun. Continue until you feel calm and stable.

 

Keep moving up now and imagine an energy center located about 2″ up from the top of your Crown Chakra. This is what I call your Soul Chakra and it connects you with your Soul energy coming from the Divine Mind:

“This chakra is connected and flowing with life affirming polarity.”

A balanced and clear Soul Chakra vibrates with your unique Soul COLOR. Let the positive energy of your Soul calm and strengthen your entire system. It helps for you to think about activities and things you’ve created that fill you with joy!

 

Just above your Soul Chakra is the Divine Mind Chakra, which transmits Divine Love energy through your unique connection with Divine Source.

“I connect with my Divine Mind Chakra to receive pure, Source energy.

Grail Reiki Healing - Divine Mind Chakra

Your LifePath Chakras are positioned on either side of the Crown Chakra about one inch out. These chakras carry your potential coming into this lifetime.

“These chakras flow with positive, life affirming polarity.”

When the polarity between these two chakras are positive and balanced, a treasure chest of gifts is unlocked that can help you on your path. Keep breathing!

Take a moment to dissolve any buildup of toxins with this symbol.

Consciously visualize the toxic energy clearing out of you and going to the Sun.

You will know you’re done when the energy calms down.

Then you can move on to the second part of the clearing!

Part Two:

Now that you’ve balanced the upper chakras, let’s move down to the center of your body to the Third Chakra, located at your solar plexus (the soft area where your ribs go up):

“This chakra is connected and flowing with life affirming polarity.”

A balanced and clear Third Chakra vibrates with the color YELLOW. Remember to let the chakra relax and release any stuck or fixated energy, sending it to the Light.

 

About 2″ below your navel is the Second Chakra:

“This chakra is connected and flowing with life affirming polarity.”

Primary Chakras - The Second Chakra

A balanced and clear Second Chakra resonates with the color ORANGE. Visualize any toxic energy or entanglements going to the Light.

 

Next, let’s clear your First Chakra located at the base of your pelvis (sometimes called the Root or Sacral chakra):

“This chakra is connected and flowing with life affirming polarity.”

Primary Chakras - Root Chakra

A balanced and clear Root Chakra vibrates with the color RED. Visualize any heaviness, illness or toxic energy expelling to the Sun.

 

Now its time to connect with the Earth Chakra, located directly below your feet:

“I connect with Mother Earth and am grounded in pure, Source energy.

A balanced and clear Earth Chakra vibrates with your unique energy signature or Soul Color. Consciously feel your feet joyously connecting to the ground.

 

As we finish this clearing, let’s strengthen the hara lines that connect all the chakras, like a beautiful web of life.

“The hara lines between my chakras are mending, healing and strengthening.

Imagine that these tiny lines are healing themselves throughout your body and reorganizing around optimal health.

 

Finally, take a moment to let everything blend and flow together while you keep your feet on the floor to finish grounding.

“My chakras are flowing together in harmony with life affirming polarity.”

Congratulations!

You’ve balanced the polarity of the seven primary chakras and connected additional chakras that will enhance your health, intuition, personal growth and creativity. Now, your energy will be much clearer – more stable and grounded. Remember, a person whose energy is balanced and grounded benefits everyone. Be sure to take some time to relax and rest.

Go through this process as often as you need to. Let it help you stabilize and navigate recent downloads from the Universe. Important things are happening!


This Transformation Game uses healing symbols and affirmations from Grail Reiki and Reiki Chakra Keys for advanced chakra balancing and clearing.

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Chakra clearing for electro-magnetic poisoning should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment of any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Self-care for Grief, illness and Loss

A Soul Oriented Solutions Formula: Self-care for Grief ~

Rheanni Lightwater - Self-care for Grief
Many people are experiencing deep levels of grief and mourning over events happening both near and far. Feelings of anxiousness, distress and even PTSD can come on suddenly and be very overwhelming. What are some things that can bring some relief and self-care for grief?

This brief exercise from RESOLVE uses affirmations and the Intuitive Learning Circles™ to quickly help you when you are:

  • Grieving
  • Recovering from abuse – past or present
  • Dealing with a serious or long-term illness
  • Preparing for surgery
  • Coming to terms with tragedy, loss or death.

Here’s an example of how the Circles can help you relax:

“I bring my senses into balance.”

“I focus them so that I can feel calmer and more aware of what’s important.”

“I use them to help me be more aware of where I am and what I’m doing.”

“I focus on thoughts and actions that are in my best interest.”

 

Next, you can begin self-care for grief by allowing this Soul Prayer Chart to help you reclaim your connection to Creator and Soul through your heart center. It can help to put both feet flat on the floor and place your hands on your heart with this first symbol. Simply gaze softly at the image while you contemplate the positive affirmations that go with it for for a minute or so. Relax and breathe. Here’s some suggestions:

“I reclaim my power and fill my heart with courage, faith and determination.”


Strong emotions or insights may come up. The image may move, rotate, vibrate or change color. Don’t worry. That happens sometimes. It just means they are working to help you feel better.
Once the energy calms down a bit, you can move on to the remaining Circles with each of their affirmations to complete the process.

You might want to journal some of your thoughts so that you can speak with a trusted counselor or friend about what comes up. So, get out some paper and something to write with as you go through the steps.

Mind Body Integration

Mind Body IntegrationFor best results, look at each symbol both crossed over the midline of the body and uncrossed so that the correction is more complete.

Feel free to move at anytime in any way to help you embody your experience!


Step One: Asking for Help

Breathe in deeply, all the way to your belly while you look at this Circle and then exhale. Breathe in through your nose, if you can. Do that several times.

If you could ask for something that would help you feel better, what would that be?

 

Step Two – Support

Imagine that you can bring healing and release into all parts of your body, mind and spirit while you continue to breathe and gaze softly with this next symbol.

Miracles - Channels of Love

 

Step Three ~ Peace

What do you think is the main difficulty or burden you’re dealing with right now?
Are you ready to let go of that burden and find a solution? 
If not, why not? Be sure to respect your process.

 

 

Step Four – Release

Where are you holding tension?

You can release the tension around anything that’s bothering you right now. Your shoulders are dropped. Your jaw is relaxed. Rub them if you like. Keep melting the tension until it’s all gone.

 

Step Five – Soul Vision

Consider what your Soul would tell you about this situation. Connect with the Love that comes from within as much as you are able to. Allow your heart to open to it.

 

Step Six – Remove Your Burdens

Imagine that you can send all those burdens to where ever they need to go to resolve themselves. Imagine the heaviness lifting up and off of you.

You have done the best that you can under the circumstances.

 

Step Six – Rebalance

Breathe again.
Feel a calmness coming over you.
You feel calmer and calmer with every breath.

 

Step Seven – Cleansing

Send away any illness or pain that you’re experiencing. Send it to the Sun or wherever it needs to go to heal.

 

Step Eight – Faith

Fill yourself with strength and the knowledge that you are loved. 

 

 Let yourself rest now. You might feel tired or sad. That’s okay. It means that you’re feeling safe enough to really let go and rest.

Closure for Mind Body Healing

Some people have gotten extra support out of going through this self-care for grief exercise every day for twenty-one days. It helps to retrain your mind to think more positively and keep you on track toward your full recovery.


RESOLVE - Self-care for GriefSelf-care for Grief, Illness and Loss is one of seven self-care formulas and mind exercises from RESOLVE, a handbook for staying true and following through in difficult times by Rheanni Lightwater.

 

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Self-care for Grief should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment of any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Heartfelt Communication Using Your Intuition

Intuition is Learning to Listen with Your Heart


You could say that heartfelt communication is something many people would like to achieve. In the best of times it happens naturally by opening your heart and listening to its promptings. Unfortunately, when life takes a difficult turn or tragedy happens, the heart and throat centers can shut down, leading you to feel cut off and at a loss for words. Repeated trauma and other violations of the spirit take their toll. Perhaps it’s the shock of disappointment or the panic one feels when the world gets turned upside down. Opening up again may take time and some extra encouragement, especially for introverted, shy or highly sensitive people.

Yet, with a little help, your heart can heal and your throat can relax again. By practicing heartfelt communication with yourself first, you strengthen your intuition, which is like having an inner guidance system. When you go one step further and act on your intuition, you can:

  • Re-examine your relationship with yourself, your family and the world around you
  • Reclaim an inner peace that helps you remain objective
  • Recalibrate your ability to adapt to major changes
  • Resource new ways to nurture cooperation and appreciation
  • Resolve to be free from apathy and indifference
  • Reframe your interactions with the planet and the beings that live here together
  • Renew your hope and faith in the power of Love to heal and create.

Heartfelt Communication Changes Negative to Positive

A Transformation Game using the Intuitive Learning Circle™ method.

The Intuitive Learning Circles use messages from animals and nature to facilitate your learning and access inner peace.

Animal Totems - Heartfelt Communication

Many cultures claim that messages from the animal world inform and offer us guidance, a very special kind of “medicine”. The Intuitive Learning Circles™ have their own Animal Totems and our Heartfelt Communication Meditation gives you an opportunity to try out the Circles and receive the animal medicine that goes with each one.

*For best results, place both feet on the ground and gaze gently at each Circle to receive your own message.

Step One:

Let’s start by introducing you to the very first Intuitive Learning Circle™ from “Gifts from the Rainforest“.

Animal Spirits Medicine

Animals are our partners in creating an abundant and peaceful life on our planet. By observing their behavior and the role they play in their environment, we can adapt to and make the most of the circumstances in our lives. This Intuitive Learning Circle helps us to adapt and take ownership of how we use our energy. It also helps us to set things right by listening to the wisdom of our hearts. If you gaze gently at the Circle, you can tune in and receive your own answers to the questions below.

Relax and breathe as you would in a state of meditation. Think of a person or group that you would like to improve your communications with.

What do you really want to communicate to this person or group? Write it down.

Step Two:

Electric Eel Medicine

The message of Electric Eel is always about grounding. Being grounded in the truth about who we are and what we’re doing. Use this medicine to scan your body and pay attention to any areas that feel blank or void when it comes to communicating with this person or group. Once you feel the blank area, Electric Eel will help you fill in the void with positive energy and purpose. It can also help you change the polarity of your throat and heart chakras so that they can open up again.

Once you feel more open and grounded, look at what you wrote down. Is this really what you want to communicate?

Do you think that this message, as it is, will evoke the response you’re really looking for?

Is there a more positive message to send?

Step Three:

Epigenetic Healing - Divine Nature activatedThe next symbol is from Divine Nature Activated and will help you release negative conditioning on an epigenetic level. The key is to relax as much as possible while looking at the symbol. It can help to imagine that an old, broken DNA strand is falling apart while a vibrant and cohesive DNA strand is relaxing, healing and filling up with light.

When using these symbols, it’s important to relax and breathe as you use each affirmation:

“I cut through the smoke screen of conflict, doubt, fear and confusion.”

“The airwaves are clear so I can hear the true guidance of my heart.”

“I call on the power of Love to assist me in times of fear and violence.”

“I hold the victory of Love in mind.”

“I know how to communicate the correct message in a safe, respectful manner.”

“I remember my connection to Universal Love.”

“I communicate with honesty and sincerity.

“I release any negative conditioning I may have to feed the seeds of violence and fear.”

Visualize those seeds moving up, out and away from you… send them to the Sun to be transformed!

“I decide to feed the seeds of  ________ instead.” 

Once you’ve released the negative epigenetic conditioning, be sure to refocus and strengthen your auras using this Circle. Your auras protect you and are an important part of your physical, mental, emotional and spiritual health. Take all the time you need using these affirmations:

“I decide to take good care of myself.”

“My auras are completely repaired and refocused. I strengthen my mental capacity for heartfelt communication.”

Step Four:

Dissolve any karma that you may have for harmful or ineffective communication with this symbol for dissolving destructive blueprints.

“I dissolve the destructive energy of harmful communication and any connection I have ever had to it.”

See it dissolve like a dark cloud, dissipating into the pure light of the Sun.


“I close the door on any harmful or manipulative communication.”

Closure for Mind Body Healing

Step Five:

Starlight Medicine

Now you’re ready to reform and clarify your message! Starlight aligns our individual consciousness with Universal Truth to achieve clarity and order. This medicine supports compassionate action, clarity of direction and alignment with your spirit. Continue to relax as you gaze at the Circle and allow it to help you re-frame what you really want to communicate. That way, your words will have a more desirable impact.

“What I really want to say is _________________________________.”

 

Congratulations!

You have taken the time to consider the true impact of your words and re-framed any confusion or negativity into more heartfelt communication. Be sure to take some time to relax. Take a walk and integrate what you’ve come up with.

 

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Disclaimer:
This Transformation Game should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Setting Limitations for Strong Boundaries

Are You Setting Limitations That Are Strong Enough to Maintain Healthy Boundaries in Times of Social Upheaval?

As we enter into the New Paradigm of equality and personal responsibility, setting LIMITATIONS becomes more and more essential to our health and well-being. 

Transformation Game - Setting LimitationsAs a part of that growth, sometimes we have to ask ourselves unpleasant questions. In this game we’re going to address some particularly painful ones:

“Am I being dumped on or scapegoated? If so, how am I contributing to the problem?”

“What can I do about it (without creating more drama) in a non-violent, yet effective way?”

Welcome to the I Ching Reading and Transformation Game for: Hexagram #60 Setting LIMITATIONS for Strong Boundaries ~

“Extravagant behavior and lack of restraint has led you into a state of difficulty. If you are now feeling regret over this and not busy placing the blame elsewhere, you will avoid further mistakes.” ~ The I Ching Workbook, R.L. Wing

When people choose to blame others and you happen to be in their crossfires, you are liable to be dumped on. This tendency is especially common among highly sensitive people.

In this context, when someone is being “dumped on” (or scapegoated), it means that they’re consciously or unconsciously taking on responsibility for other people’s feelings, karma, behavior, etc. This method of coping is usually learned early on in life and can cause great suffering for the “dumpee.” In contrast, it creates quite a bit of freedom for the “dumper.”

Sometimes dumpers just feel overwhelmed and are looking for relief, as in the case of a small child. However, some people never learn to handle their own feelings and go around unconsciously looking for someone to shame, blame and/or dump their issues on. Unfortunately, some people are actually narcissistic and dump on purpose to further their quest for power and control. A big, red flag is when they want you to feel sorry for them. “Poor me. I have it so hard!” Watch out… that means the energetic dump truck is pulling up to your driveway!

Another technique is flattery and adulation. “You’re so wonderful! Your work is so amazing… you’re such a great healer, mother, artist, etc.” Don’t fall for it, you’re about to be covered with energetic ick and ook from the ethers!

The truth is, unless you want to spend your life cleaning up after others, rather than living your own dreams, you’re going to have to start setting limitations.

All forms of dumping are an abuse of power based on co-dependence and a desire to escape responsibility. In addition, there are certain situations where dumping is more likely to happen.

If you feel you are in such a situation and want to do something constructive to help yourself, you can go through this Transformation Game on Setting Limitations. Simply relax and gaze at the Circles while contemplating the questions or positive affirmations that go with them. Your intuition will come forward and give you the help that you seek.

Begin By Gaging Your Willingness to Change:

If you’re willing to examine your personal habits and are setting LIMITATIONS for yourself that are healthy and life affirming, you can learn to stop being a dumpee. To get started, ask yourself:

“Have I been willing to let other people dump on me? Have I allowed it to happen a lot in the past?” 

“Am I willing to stop this tendency in myself?”

If you have a tendency to be caught off guard by others, now is the time to set stronger LIMITATIONS. Ask your Self, “Am I currently experiencing situations where:

1) There’s a lot of incompetence or my privacy is being disrespected?

2) People are noncooperative, argumentative or easily offended?

3) There is poor health or breakups in friendship or family relations?”

If so, setting LIMITATIONS is definitely called for.

In cases such as these, forceful displays of power will absolutely backfire. Realize that you’re being baited. Do nothing to aggressively confront people in regard to those particular situations and be very conservative with any investment of energy, time or money. Doing so would probably result in a nasty bout of dumping.

The best things to do when dealing with the “dumper/dumpee” dynamic is to stay calm, accept what’s happening and take care of yourself very sensibly. Don’t take the bait. Be generous and kind to those you care about and trust, while you stay out of their business. Find new avenues of behavior that genuinely support your well-being.

Let me repeat…

If you don’t want to be dumped on, don’t engage in dramatic emotional exchanges. That’s because whenever you’re caught up in emotional turmoil or flattery, you’re in an excellent energetic position to be dumped on. And that’s true regardless of whether the emotion is positive or negative.

To help yourself, gaze softly at this symbol and imagine that your karmic seeds for harmful or co-dependent habits are burning up.

“I purify my karmic tendency towards co-dependence and self-destruction. I now make a commitment to my higher good.”

 

“I let go of feeling sorry for myself or others. I decide to embrace healthy self-care.”

 

Tell your neurological system that you are done with behavior that puts you in harm’s way – like shaming and blaming yourself or continuing to hang out with people who have dumped on you multiple times.

“I release my agreement to ____________________________.”

“I release any agreement I have to hate myself. I detach from harming or disrespecting myself in any way.”

Include situations like buying into gossip, conflicts, contradictions, obligations, “duty”, exaggerated self-importance, lies, trickery or someone else’s delusional suffering.

Release Fixations:

You may be experiencing shock that’s interfering with your ability to sense what’s really going on. Relax and use this affirmation to help you release whatever is causing conflict in you.

“I stop gripping on _____________.”

“I release the conflict around _______________ or anything else that causes me harm. “

You can use this Circle like a telescope to help you find fixations in your mind and energy field. Once you find one, use the symbol to send a laser beam to break it apart or melt it like an iceberg in the Sun. There may be more than one.

Next, bring your senses into correct balance so that you can accurately scan your body and energy field for other dense and hardened energies. You can even do it for the immediate space around you. Break up any fixations that you find!

 

“I adjust the volume on my senses so that I can perceive correctly.”

 

Communicate with Your Soul:

Open the connection to your spirit through your Heart Chakra. Allow your energy to connect with what’s true for you. Acknowledge that there may be some interference that’s blocking you from the truth.

“I let go of pleasing others. I now connect with the truth and the positive input of my Soul.”

“I exist and what happens to me matters.”

Setting Limitations On How You Contribute to the Problem:

Slow down and use this Circle to help you become aware of ways you are approaching things that aren’t working for you. If you let your thoughts slow down, you can begin to sense what is contributing to your problems. The very awareness of how you’re tied into the problem reveals possible solutions.

“I slow down and take things one at a time… is there something about this situation that I’m missing and need to know?”

 

“I clarify my awareness of what I’m doing to contribute to unhealthy boundaries.”

 

Dissolve any harmful thoughts or emotions that keep you in the dark. It might help to imagine those patterns like dark clouds that obstruct the light. See the darkness dissolve and dissipate into sunlight and clear blue skies.

“I dissolve the confusion and chaos. I let go of needing to please others. I let go of the need to_______________.”

Before you continue, seal and heal any holes that may have been hidden behind in the darkness. These positive affirmations work very well:

“I seal and heal all ways that others dump on me. I am safe.”

“I now head in the direction of my Souls true purpose.”

Be sure to do that both crossed and uncrossed over the midline of your body.

 

“I understand the part I have played in this situation.”

 

In this lighter, clearer mind space, ask yourself:

“What makes sense to do next?” or “How can I best protect myself in this situation?”

Congratulations! You’ve taken an important first step towards protecting your Self from being dumped on. Taking the time now to understand how you have unknowingly contributed to your own suffering is truly a gift of self-love.

Extra-intuitive Activities

The following extra-intuitive activities aren’t required, but they can really help you prevent future suffering…

Note: At any point during the rest of this Transformation Game, you may need to go back to the Release Fixations section to look for and clear additional fixations. 

Setting Limitations On What You’re Attracting:

If you’re approaching situations with an attitude of “I’m going to fix this,” or “I’m supposed to rescue this person or change how they are thinking / behaving,” you’re setting yourself up to fall into the dumper/dumpee trap. To avoid it, stay centered and focused on your own integrity.

The Essential Human* If you have a copy of The Essential Human, now would be a good time to use Emotional Corrections A – E between pages 97 and 101 to access and balance energies you’re pulling from the ‘field of potential’.

Going through this process will help you draw on the kinds of spiritual / emotional ingredients that will support your integrity.

“I am focused on my own integrity.”

 

Setting Limitations on What Kinds of Situations You Participate In:

Put your feet on the floor and ground in the New Paradigm – a consciousness of equality, personal responsibility and sustainable prosperity.

 

Once you’re feeling grounded, ask for the very best.

“I now access healthy nourishment and support for my Souls true purpose.”

 

Imagine that you can form strong, healthy boundaries with this affirmation:

“I am surrounded with courage and determination. I reject and repel shame, blame, frustration, jealousy, impatience, panic and _________.”

Congratulations!

The fact that you have taken the time now to strengthen your boundaries and protect yourself will serve you well throughout your life.

Closure for Mind Body Healing


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Rheanni Lightwater - Sustainable Prosperity in the New Paradigm

Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKT lives and practices in Santa Fe, NM. She specializes in mind body healing with family and relationship clearing using Kinesiology, the Intuitive Learning Circles™, Reiki as a Master/Teacher, Hypnotherapy and Shamanic Clearing Techniques.

Schedule with Rheanni via Zoom, Skype or in person when you visit Santa Fe, New Mexico. Call her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, MST, Monday through Friday to schedule.


Disclaimer:
This Transformation Game should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.