Unearthing Emotional Conflict

A Transformation Game for Handling Emotional Conflict ~

Transformation Games help you to identify problems, navigate change and clarify what’s really important to you. Simply relax and gaze at the Intuitive Learning Circles while contemplating the accompanying positive affirmations that help you unearth emotional conflict using the I Ching and the Tarot.*

Relax and follow the directions… your intuition will come forward and give you the help that you seek!

Welcome to our Transformation Game about Hexagram #6 – Conflict

Transformation Game - Emotional Conflict
* Illustration by Norbert Losche’ – Cosmic Tarot

Sometimes the reason we’re experiencing emotional conflict is because we’re being dragged into unhealthy patterns from the past. These could be societal expectations, a family pattern or it could be an unhealthy, entangled relationship you have with your own self or another individual.

The I Ching says about CONFLICT:

“You may be facing a major disillusionment in your life as you begin to realize that what you believed to be a universal truth is only your subjective view of the situation. You will have to reconsider your premise more realistically. The need for an inner adjustment yielding a more harmonious outlook is indicated.” ~ Hexagram #6 CONFLICT, The I Ching Workbook, R. L Wing

Hexagram #52 MEDITATION has another caution about conflict, “If you attempt to force stillness upon restless desires you will only create inner conflict and resentment. This can be dangerous. Attempt internal composure through relaxation and MEDITATION.”

INTRODUCTory Quiz: Are You Experiencing Emotional Conflict?

To find out if either of these scenarios are happening for you, gaze softly at the Intuitive Learning Circle and ask yourself:

“Am I tangled up with someone else’s belief or desire?”

“Is an entanglement or misunderstanding pulling me into the Old Paradigm of greed and inequality?”

“Am I in danger of being dragged into an unhealthy trajectory that isn’t my Soul’s path?”

“Do I have a restless desire that’s coming to the surface at this time?”

If the answer you get is”no,” that’s great! Your Soul is in charge and you’re staying grounded in the New Paradigm of equality, personal responsibility and sustainable prosperity!

However, if the answer you get is “yes,” “maybe,” or “sometimes,” you may be losing your footing, getting confused or even worse, weakening your connection with your Soul. What can you do?


Part I. Determine What’s Involved and How You Can Heal it.

1. Some Inner Conflicts Are Caused by Old Intentions that Need to be Released.

Living in the Aquarian Age is very different from the Piscean Age and you will have different priorities now. For example, sacrificing or taking on other people’s pain to heal it is no longer a viable pathway to healing. In the New Paradigm, you help to heal the world when you heal your Self.

If old intentions are not cleared out consciously, they can fester under the surface and interfere with what you really want to create. Help yourself now and prevent trouble later:

“I clear away unhealthy, outdated or compromising intentions.”

“I ask to become aware of intentions that are in CONFLICT with each other.”


2. Identify Delusions and Projections That Can Cause Emotional Conflict.

Take a few moments with this Circle to relax and contemplate your situation. How are you seeing your Self in it?

Whatever comes up, does it seem like an accurate reflection of what’s really happening? Ask yourself:
“Am I operating under a false idea that’s being projected onto me?”
“Am I being tempted by lies about who I am or what I really want?” 

If you are, use this Circle to help you burst the bubble around whatever falsehood you’re dealing with. Note – There may be quite a few!


3. Identify Mistaken Ideas That Can Cause Emotional Conflict.

See if you can center yourself so you can find out exactly what’s causing problems for you right now.  Gaze softly at the Circle below and imagine you’re looking at yourself objectively. Ask yourself these questions:
“What is the biggest challenge I’m facing right now? What am I telling myself about it? Is that the truth?

“Am I sending energy to a mistaken idea or false premise that’s interfering with my truth or ability to succeed?”


4. Get Specifics About This Particular Emotional Conflict.

Ask yourself if your energy is actually tangled up with someone or a group of people around this issue. If so, can you tell who it is?


Are harmful or controlling thoughts being directed towards you?

Are you giving yourself a hard time with your own thoughts or negative self-talk?

If so, what is the nature of those thoughts? If this was a book, what would it be called?

Are you ready to be done with this yet?


Is there an energy drain or harmful habit involved?

If so, close the drain down to the best of your ability.


Are you able to protect yourself and stay in control of your own space?

If not, release your agreement to hold space for others or their problems in your energy field.

“My space is my own and my Soul is in charge of it.”
“I allow others their own space.”


Is the conflict you’re concerned about affecting your health or safety? Is it affecting your ability to prosper?

If so, can you tell in what way?


5. Make a Decision to Detach From Harmful Influences.

If the answers you get are distressing to you, it’s time for your Soul to either: reclaim your personal authority and detach from the conflict. Or, RESOLVE your inner conflict so that your energy can stabilize and ground in the New Paradigm.

If you need to detach, choose aspects of your Essential Self from The Essential Human. Ask for numbers between 1 and 42.

Note – Once you’ve detached, the conflict may still be there, but you’ll be relating to it differently.

Examples: Relax and use this sequence of symbols and positive affirmations to help you detach…

“I decide to detach from past resentments and the conflicts they create – in the past, now and in the future.”


“I let go of the confusion around this conflict. I now choose thoughts that support my freedom and happiness.”


“I stop focusing on this conflict. I now turn my attention toward helpful and productive solutions.”


“I let go of the tyranny of this conflict and call on my Soul to pull me back into the Light.”


6. Decide to Reconnect with your Soul.

“I decide that my Soul is now in charge. I let go of mistaken ideas, flattery, coercion, shame, blame, guilt and punishment. I let go of the desire to take things personally or waste my energy on lies or emotional conflicts.”

“I learn from past mistakes and they are forgiven.”



“I reclaim full connection with my Soul.”

“My Soul helps me detach from false, harmful influences and clears them away.”

“I follow the guidance and integrity of my Soul.”


7. Dissolve Destructive Mental and Emotional Patterns:

Imagine all those emotional conflicts and the ways you get caught up in them are like a huge storm cloud trying to surround and engulf you. This symbol for dissolving destructive blueprints will help your Soul clear the negative pattern. All you have to do is breathe and have the following intention as you gaze softly at the image:

“I surrender all the patterns of this emotional conflict and any ways that I attach to them to the Light.”

“I release shame, blame, falsehood, entrapment, gullibility, guilt and ____________.”

Simply see the cloud ascending up to the Light until it has disappeared into it. Then, visualize yourself standing in the middle of your own personal garden, filled with beauty and brightly colored flowers.

Please note: Never send destructive energies into the Earth, she already has too much to handle now. Use the Earth for planting seeds of happiness and life – not death or emotional conflict!


8. Say Good-bye to Old Pathways of Conflicts.

Before you go – close the doors to all that conflict so you don’t keep recycling finished business! Use these positive affirmations to help you:

“I seal and heal all pathways that lead back to conflicts, punishments and suffering.”

“I follow the direction of healthy protection.”


Part II: Reclaim your Integrity and Sense of Inner Peace.

Confirm that You’re Utilizing Your Soul’s Unique Vibration.

Return to the clarity of your Soul and allow it to connect with your true Essence, especially in your solar plexus area.

To do that, gently look at the Chart and breathe deeply. Remember a time when you were very happy and had successfully manifested an important physical goal. Notice if a particular color or felt sense comes to mind. What color or felt sense will show you the way?

Relax into it and let it integrate into your solar plexus. See if you can make it stronger and more vibrant. If so, that is your Soul Color.

“I recognize my unique color vibration.”
“I utilize it to help me maintain my integrity and healthy boundaries.”


Return to Your Best Position.

Emotional conflict could cause trouble in your Third Chakra, located at the solar plexus (in the front where your ribs go up) where your Essential Self resides.

Built up emotional toxins can leave your Essence vulnerable to energetic attack, especially if you’ve been in the habit of taking on other people’s pain.

The Essential Self may even disassociate and move to some other location because it doesn’t feel safe.

Take a minute or so to handle this with kindness. Remember that when you heal yourself, you heal the world.

Gaze softly at the Reiki Chakra Key for chakra healing so that your Essential Self can re-open the chakra, clear out the junk and get balance again. That way, your Essence (or Psyche) will feel safe to return and access its power effectively.

Use this Soul Star Chakra Key to help you clear out the gunk!


Make a Heart Centered Course Correction:

Imagine that your Soul is opening your Heart center and connecting with it. Feel the light within you getting stronger and allow your Soul to make the necessary changes. This is your garden. Your way. The way that your heart is guided to create – free of this emotional conflict.

“I allow the Light in my Heart to radiate out into the World.”


Connect the Hara Lines.

Whenever working with chakras, you may need to repair and strengthen hara lines for improved communication and healing. The hara lines are like tiny webs of light that connect the chakras throughout your body. Sometimes they’re broken or damaged because of trauma, illness, toxicity or sudden changes in the sympathetic nervous system (fight or flight). These affirmations will help you:

“I repair and strengthen my hara lines.”
“My chakras are connecting with my Soul through a beautiful web of light.”
“I am inside of my body. Everything else is outside.”

“I reorganize my consciousness around inner peace and positive solutions.”


Repair and Refocus Your Auras.

At the end of any epigenetic clearing, your auras need to be refocused, repaired and strengthened. Ask your Soul and Guardian Angel to assist you in finding and healing the areas in need.

“I refocus and repair my auras.” 
“My auric field is strong and organized to create, sustain and protect my health and spiritual autonomy.”


Let Yourself Get Grounded in the New Paradigm.

Finally, take a deep breath and place both feet on the ground. Feel the resonance in your body and energy field as you connect with the Earth.

“I relax and release discordant energies so that I can ground.”

Take note of where you feel this new awareness moving through your body. Allow yourself to enjoy it.


Now is a good time to get out into nature. Go for a walk or do something you enjoy. The time you take for yourself now will help you move beyond emotional conflict and into fully embodied action.


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Rheanni Lightwater - Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKT lives and practices in Santa Fe, NM. She specializes in mind body healing with family, environment and relationship clearing using Kinesiology, the Intuitive Learning Circles, Reiki as a Master/Teacher, Hypnotherapy and Shamanic Clearing Techniques.

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