Transforming Your Life

Transforming Your Life: What’s Next?

Rheanni Lightwater - Medical IntuitionTransformation Games can help you to identify problems, navigate change and clarify what’s really a priority for transforming your life.  Simply relax and gaze at the Intuitive Learning Circles while you contemplate the questions, positive affirmations and ideas. Your intuition will come forward and give you the help that you seek…

Welcome to the I Ching Reading and Transformation Game for:

Transforming Your Life in The Year of the Ox

This year’s Chinese Horoscope animal is the Yin Metal Ox, which began on February 12th and will continue January 31st, 2022. Recent Years ruled by the Ox are 1949, 1961, 1973, 1985, 1997, 2009 and 2021. Future years will be 2033, 2045 and 2057.

Transforming Your Life“When Ox is positive, she’s very, very positive. But when she’s negative, she’s horrid.”

A major challenge with Ox energy in 2021 is figuring out how to synergize your efforts with situations, people and projects that are genuinely productive, life affirming and actually heading in the same direction you would like to go!

If you’re feeling confused, distracted and/or frustrated, you may be flooded by destructive energies in your environment. Luckily, you can make the decision to consciously surround yourself with life affirming energies that will help you re-connect with your Soul and your Psyche will joyfully follow.

To help you, this Transformation Game has been put together to increase your awareness of the different energies involved and how you might use them in a healthy way to keep you clear and on track!

Reversing the Flow of Life Force in the Year of the Ox ~

As you gaze at this Circle that accesses your personal energy flow, see if you currently need some increased self-awareness around an important aspect of flow in your life. Ask yourself:

“Would it benefit me to get inner guidance about my environment (feng shui ) for creating career, money, health, home or dwelling, business opportunity or a love relationship?”


Make sure that you’re aware of the current flow of the Tao – or “gateway through which all things move.” Use some positive affirmations to help you get there:

“I choose to notice the flow of the Tao.”

“I have correct awareness of the prevailing energy in my environment.”

Mind Body Integration

Mind Body IntegrationFor best results, be sure you look at each symbol both crossed over the midline of the body and uncrossed so that you gather up all the unconscious information about your situation.


Open Your 4th Chakra So You Can Be Inspired By Your Inner Guidance ~

Use this Reiki Chakra Key to balance and open your Heart Center. 

“My heart is open to the flow of MODERATION and joy available in this situation.”

“I am centered and radiating ___________.”

“My heart is empowered and aligned with my highest good.”


When beginning new things, it’s easy to get off track. Mistakes are bound to happen because this New Paradigm is a new path for everyone. We all probably need to go back and make adjustments to some decisions we’ve made and/or plans about how things are supposed to work.

It will help to cultivate true kindness and patience towards your Self to make the changes necessary. Gently look at the next Circle and adjust your decisions to the reality you’re facing:

“I decide to be kind and patient with myself as I learn about this new time.”

“I make choices that will lead me to the path my Soul would like me to take.”

“I let go of _________. I prepare for __________. I take care of __________.”


“I utilize healthy communication and healing to help me on my path.”


“I clear and empower my Throat Chakra to speak my new intentions kindly, honestly, and for the highest good.”


Focus in on the open, blank space in the middle of this Circle. Send your energy to it using these positive affirmations:

“I use my energy wisely – to fuel life affirming goals.”

Old Soul

“I make a conscious choice to focus my energy on genuinely joyful situations, projects and activities.”

Make a list of things or experiences you would like to create that would be genuinely joyful for you at this time.


“I decide to detach from destructive energies and negativity. I send them to the Light to be transformed.”

Imagine a soothing, cooling balm of liquid healing pouring over you – releasing you from negativity.

Once, you feel better, are there any objects or furnishings that you need to rearrange or move out of your space?


“I let go of the nightmare and transform my life.”

The Essential Human*Note: If you have a copy of The Essential Human, now would be a good time to use it to detach your psyche from harmful energies or conflict-ridden situations.

Once you’ve done that, you’ll probably feel quite a bit better.

If you’re willing, there are several other decisions you could make that could really improve how you’re navigating the energy. 

Let’s continue with several principles that are bound to be helpful as you transform your life.

Priority #1: Stay focused and calm.

The year will have many challenges – sometimes too many! Keeping a calm and peaceful mindset will help you stay aware of possible danger. Ask yourself:

“Am I calm? Focused? Is there something I need to be aware of for my own good?

“Clarity of thought and good boundaries create the best conditions for success.”

 Priority #2: Keep Your Choices Down to Earth and Do-able.

Keeping your perception realistic sets you up for success and keeps you on track.

“I let go of fantasies and unrealistic ideas.”

“I focus on what’s really possible for me to create in my current situation.”

“I perceive my situation as it really is.”

“I decide that being calm and positive are healthy qualities to nurture.”


Priority #3: Stay Grounded In Your Own Garden.

It can be pretty easy to wander off into other people’s gardens looking for things that arn’t really meant for us. This is co-dependent behavior. Don’t buy into it!

“I tend to my own garden and allow others to tend theirs. I am positioned correctly to receive the benefits of my own efforts and thrive.”


Priority #4: Release Irritations and Don’t Take Things Personally.

We may have a tendency to internalize all the stressful irritations that are a part of learning and adapting to any new situation. Use this Circle to help you open up and release anything that’s bugging you. Imagine those bugs all flying up to the Sun!

Once you’ve done that and you feel clear, ask yourself, “Is there anything irritating me about my physical environment?”


Priority #5: Be the One Driving in Your Own Driver’s Seat.

Life is too short to let other people or other agendas be in charge of how you’re living your life. Have the Courage to say “no” when you need to.

Stop second guessing and make a choice about what’s most important for you right now.

“What is most important right now?”

“Do I have some intentions that conflict with each other? If so, can I tell what they are? What can I do to clear the conflicts?

Am I in a suitable position to be successful? If not, what would help?”


Now it’s time to dissolve mental and emotional patterns that pull you off track. Use this symbol for dissolving destructive blueprints to identify and let go of any societal or familial patterns that interfere with transforming your life. See them disappear as you send them to the Sun:

“I dissolve the destructive energies or old patterns of ____________, etc. ”


I decide to get grounded and follow the path that’s most beneficial to me.”


Once the patterns are cleared, close the pathways or trajectories that lead to trouble.

“All harmful pathways are sealed and healed.

I follow the direction of healthy protection.”

Transforming your life is an opportunity to go within and expel deep patterns of neglect that prevent us from creating more sustainable systems for health, relationships and prosperity. 

You can use this opportunity to plant beneficial karmic seeds for these new systems and any other useful resources that you may need in the near or distant future.


Once you begin to take responsibility for how you’re using your energy, you can bring sustainable choices into your world and benefit everyone!

Rheanni Lightwater - Finding Moderation in the New Paradigm

Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKT lives and practices in Santa Fe, NM. She specializes in mind body healing with family and relationship clearing using Kinesiology, the Intuitive Learning Circles™, Reiki as a Master/Teacher, Hypnotherapy and Shamanic Clearing Techniques.

Schedule a session with Rheanni via Zoom or in person when you visit Santa Fe, New Mexico. Call her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, MST, Monday through Friday to schedule or Email:

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This Transformation Game should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

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