Making Clear Priorities to Create Happiness

Are You Making Clear Priorities Through Your True Spiritual Self, or the Ego? A Transformation Game on How to Stay Clear of Other Peoples Agendas.

Making Clear Priorities

One of the biggest components of learning how to live a happy life is making clear priorities for yourself based on the needs and desires of your own true Self. That means that you have to figure out ways to keep yourself clear of other people’s agendas and attitudes. 

This can get complicated because most people allow their egos to be in control of their mind, their decisions and their bodies. That gets to be a real problem because the egoic critical mind is often very angry, easily distracted and based on fear. Here is a comparison that I like to use:

“The ego doesn’t like to take chances; the heart and soul thrive on them.
The ego idealizes the past; the heart and soul live in the present.
The ego fears the future; the heart and soul embrace it.” ~ Gifts from the Rainforest, Rheanni Lightwater

Blockages to HappinessThere’s also a “collective ego” that tries to control societal agendas on the basis of suffering, struggle and pain. Some people would call that the “hive mind” or groupthink. If we comply and give into the groupthink, happiness is in very short supply because it’s based solely on external conditions. How much do I have and how much can I get? Under that paradigm, our only hope is to try and control how things work out for us. If we rebel, we have to fight against everything and resist. Either way, the basic premise we are reacting from is unhappiness and dissatisfaction.

This Game is associated with Hexagram #18 REPAIR from The I Ching or The Book of Change.

“Stop now and think about it. Your problems may seem to be overwhelming; things appear to be out of hand. Yet the hexagram REPAIR bodes great success. Through work you have the opportunity to totally eliminate the past indifference that has created the present uncomfortable situation. Work hard. You can see the problems clearly. The timing is excellent for making amends. Do not be afraid to take assertive action…Your own past attitude has allowed the damage to occur, making you uniquely equipped to REPAIR it.” The I Ching Workbook, R.L. Wing

Is it really possible to REPAIR the ego based model peacefully and let our spiritual Selves be in charge? How can we free ourselves from the suffering of the ego mind and respond from a place of self-love instead?”

Awareness of Our True Priorities Might Be a Good Place to Start

In this short game, you have the opportunity to examine whether you are making clear priorities for yourself based on self-love or based on suffering and struggle.

Simply gaze at each symbol with a soft focus and relax. Then engage with the questions or positive affirmations that go with each one. In this way, you can connect with your spiritual Self and get intuitive answers that come from the Soul.

A Transformation Game for Making Clear Priorities

Know When Making REPAIRS Is Needed ~

There are several reasons why we might be unconsciously tapping into the ego mind. Most of us have at least one “blind spot.” For some reason, we’ve been conditioned to listen to the ego rather than our true Spiritual Selves. Let’s see if we can remedy some of that by gazing softly at this Reiki Chakra Key, together with these positive affirmations:

“I repair my blind spot. I take ownership of my senses.”

“I use them to be present and aware.”

“I use them to sense what will keep me safe, productive and well.”

“I can clearly sense true spiritual guidance and my soul’s purpose.”

Electro-magnetic frequencies can block clear guidance and knock your senses out of balance.  

Gaze softly at this Circle and take a moment to bring your senses into balance so you can calm down and perceive things more clearly. 

Imagine you can adjust the volume in your head. Take all the time you need.

Once your senses are adjusted, it’s easier to tell what’s really going on.

Test Your Level of Awareness ~

Now you can use this Circle to safely check into how collective groupthink might be affecting you. As you gaze softly, use this simple affirmation:

Am I aware of any societal attitudes and agendas that cause me harm?”

“if so, am I fighting or complying with my ego and the collective ego?”

“I release all agreements that the ego (collective or personal) is in charge of my life, my body, my decisions or how I express myself.”

“My spiritual Self is in charge of my happiness, my karma and how I use my energy.”

Next Step – Slow Down Your Thinking ~

Relax and gaze softly at the center open space of this Circle while you repeat a few positive affirmations to yourself. If there’s a question, just be open to your gut response.

“I slow down because things may be moving too fast for me to be making clear priorities. “

“I’m willing to admit if I don’t know what’s going on. Asking for help is a blessing.”

“Is my inner guidance sending me a warning? An opportunity?”

“Am I being misguided? Do I need to let go of something?”

“Does intuition want to redirect my attention to something else?”

“In either case, am I willing to listen and learn?”

Deal with Shock or Inner Conflicts ~

You may be experiencing shock that’s interfering with your ability to shift your thinking and concentrate on what really matters. Negative groupthink relies on shock to maintain control and manipulation. Relax and use this affirmation to help you release whatever you’re fixated on.

“I let go of fixations that are trapped in my mind. I let all rigid thoughts soften and melt away.”

Make New Decisions ~

What new decisions do you need to make for yourself? For example:

“I let go of decisions I have to screw myself or let myself be screwed.”

“I let my spirit lead me rather than my ego. I make decisions that come from my deepest wisdom.”

Other new decisions could be:

“I am loyal and true to my spiritual Self. My needs are a priority.”

“I have faith in my Self. I take good care of my Self.”

“I ________________________________.”

Reveal Your True Priorities ~

Allow the medicine of this Circle to redirect your thoughts to what your true priorities are. 

“Who and what is most important to me at this time in my life?”

“What is my natural place in this  situation – where do I belong?”

“Am I in the New Paradigm of self-love or the old paradigm based on suffering and struggle*?”

*If you are still in the old paradigm, you may be caught up in another attitude or agenda. You can go back to the beginning of the game and play again as many times as it takes for you to free yourself.

Clear the Mental and Emotional Blueprints ~

We all have family patterns and social conditioning that contribute to the tendency to get caught up in ego agendas and groupthink.

You can use this symbol for dissolving destructive blueprints to identify them in your unconscious mind and clear them out. Just imagine the harmful thoughts, emotions and attitudes are like dark clouds, dissolving away or disappearing into the Sun.

REPAIR Your Communications ~

We’re nearly done now. Use this Circle to help you communicate your priorities from the center of your being! Use this affirmation to help you:

“I communicate my priorities with ease. My intention is clear.”


Finally! It’s time to close the door on all those misuses of your time, attention and energies.

“I close the door on harmful agendas and groupthink.

I seal and heal any drain or strain on my time, space, attention or energy.

I follow the direction of healthy protection.

I trust the wisdom of my Soul and true spiritual Self.”


You have gone through a process of making clear priorities based on your spiritual Self rather than the ego. It’s time to go out and celebrate your new freedom by doing something that’s truly important to you!

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Rheanni Lightwater - Clear Perception

Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKT lives and practices in Santa Fe, NM. She specializes in mind body healing with family and relationship clearing using Kinesiology, the Intuitive Learning Circles™, Reiki as a Master/Teacher, Hypnotherapy and Shamanic Clearing Techniques.

Schedule with Rheanni via Zoom, Skype or in person when you visit Santa Fe, New Mexico. Call her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, MST, Monday through Friday to schedule.

This Transformation Game should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment of any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.