How To Turn Things Around

Welcome to Part II of How To Do the Right Thing and Turn Things Around 

In Part I of this game, you examined your part of a CONFLICT and now you think you’re ready to turn things around.
Let’s evaluate where you are with it…

Do you still have the feeling that you’re about to do something you’ll regret?
Are you concerned that you’re not doing something you really ought to do?
Do you feel like you’ve straightened out your thinking so you can do the right thing?
How does that feel?

Do the Right Thing and Turn Things Around

If you feel good about what you’ve done so far, congratulations.
One door has been closed so that another can open!


Part Two: Help Me Turn Things Around!

Now that you’ve let go of your part of the CONFLICT, it’s time to empower the RESOLUTION.

Before you begin, let’s just make sure that you’re centered and truly ready to empowered to get help in the New Paradigm.

Ask Otter Medicine to help you get centered within yourself.

Are you clear now about what you’re asking yourself to do? Take what ever time you need to re-orient yourself. Conflicts can really pull you in a lot of different directions. Are you facing True North and heading towards the Light?

Are you going for joy or something else? Ask yourself:

“In this situation, what do I really want to do?”

Otter - Turn Things AroundOnce you have it, place the words or image for what you want in the center, open space of Otter’s Circle and begin sending energy from your solar plexus to it.

Once you’ve got that, Otter will reciprocate and send energy back to you.

Have you added fun to the ingredients? What about gratitude, respect, objectivity, harmony and trust?

You may not have them right now, but you can include them in your request if you’re open to receiving them.

Now you’re ready to continue with How to Turn Things Around:

Remember that your resolution is not necessarily a resolution for others. You cannot resolve other people’s issues for them. That’s something only they can do for themselves.

Gaze softly at Fish Medicine and contemplate your situation again. Where are you with it now? Ask yourself:

“Am I still in troubled waters here? What direction am I heading?”

Are you heading down into the darkness, going around in circles or do you feel empowered to move onward and upwards?
Is something holding you or pulling you back against your free will?
If you could request anything at all, without restriction, what would it be?

“What do I need to help me do the right thing?”

 

It will really help you to open up to generative, life energy that comes from the Element of Air in the New Paradigm. Allow your Essence to be filled with Divine Protection.

“I am open and clear to receive generative life force.”
“I close down all harmful energy channels from the past.”


Get centered and ask your Essential Self:
“Am I willing to connect with new lines of communication?”
Make corrections again if need be.

Are you grounded in the New Paradigm?

Do you have adequate protection?

Would you like a good dose of courage and confidence?
If so, add them to your request.

 

While we’re improving the line of cooperative communication, would you like your Throat Chakra to be open and balanced out so that your words are strong and RESOLUTE? Ask for it! After all, saying the right thing and doing the right thing are inter-related.

Here are some powerful suggestions:
“I dedicate the power of my voice to Love, life and balanced prosperity.”
“I direct my words towards those who can and will benefit.”

“I communicate the right words to the right people at the right time.”
“I am inspired to say the right thing.”

Is there anything else that you’d like to articulate?

 

Would you like your Soul to help you shine some light on peaceful, prosperous solutions?

Contemplate the Divinity Chakra Key and make note of the different impressions you get.

 

The Essential Human

If you would like these things and you have a copy of The Essential Human, you might want to go through Calibrating the Meridians to Higher Frequencies on p. 106.

These affirmations work well:

“I exist and am empowered to make the changes needed to turn things around.”

“I have the strength to RESOLVE this CONFLICT for myself.”
“I let other people handle their own part.”

 

Let a strong connection between your thinking and your spiritual guidance to protect and support you in your new RESOLUTION.

Keep relaxing with this symbol until you feel very protected from above.

 

Finally! It’s time to make a RESOLUTION to overcome your difficulties and turn things around by making progress in a unified and productive direction. Gently formulate some positive affirmations about how you can follow through now and do things in a way that will really benefit you. Write them down so you remember to follow through! For example:

“I make a RESOLUTION to relax and grow in the direction of my general good.
I look to my Soul to help me to do the right thing.”

“In this situation, doing the right thing is ___________and _____________.”

“I can turn things around by __________ and ______________.”

See yourself taking the appropriate actions. Remember that actions speak louder than words.

Congratulations!

It isn’t always easy to turn things around, yet if you’re willing to make a change for the better – anything is possible!


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Turn Things Around should not be considered as an exclusive method of conflict resolution. Soul Resources LLC and Rheanni Lightwater are not licensed to practice medicine. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment for any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered educational and complementary to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Negative Thoughts That Keep You Stuck

Many people are feeling stuck and unhappy because they’re trying to control or avoid negative thoughts they’re having about themselves and the world around them.

The object of this mind exercise is to clear basic misconceptions about our negative thoughts and how “real” we think they are.

Negative Thoughts that Keep You StuckYou know the kind of thoughts we’re talking about – the ones that keep running through our minds again and again until we think we’re going to go batty! Or the kind that we just want to push away. The more we fight them or stuff them, the stronger they become until they start running our lives.

The truth is, thoughts are only concepts and have no power unless we give it to them. So, in the simplest terms, whenever we try to fight, control or sweep negative thoughts under the carpet, we are actually causing ourselves more suffering.

An example would be when you’re struggling with an event or something someone said and are spending a lot of time trying to figure out why you’re feeling so upset by it. Another example would be a repetitive need to prove that whatever happened was wrong.

The compulsion to repeat negative thoughts fosters a negative karmic loop

Negative Thoughts & Negative KarmaBy rerunning the conflict over and over in our minds, we feed a karmic feedback loop and continue to suffer as if that memory were actually existing now in the present. Perhaps it helps us to feel justified in our position, even though simply letting it go would give our minds more room to focus on things we actually want to have happen, which would help us be happier.

By giving a memory or a thought that amount of power, we actually limit ourselves and stay locked into the past. Our decisions and projections become fixated and immovable. This preoccupation with how real we think our thoughts are actually causes us to miss opportunities to be present and happy. Life energy or chi’ gets diverted and used to feed negativity, rather than our true potential.

Focus your thoughts on what makes you happy ~

When you can change your focus, your mind has the room integrate any positive changes that have taken place and decide what you like about them and what you want to continue or discontinue. In essence, you are creating an opening for happiness. Of course, you will still need to take action on those new thoughts! However, when you continually think negative thoughts about what you’re unhappy or dissatisfied with, you’re mentally digging yourself into an even deeper karmic cycle of dissatisfaction and unhappiness.

If it feels like something like this is going on in your mind, you might like to try playing a simple Mind Exercise using the Intuitive Learning Circles to help you loosen the grip of painful, repetitive thoughts and let go on a DNA level so that you can start using your energy to fuel happiness rather than suffering.

Gently gaze at each Circle one at a time and consider the question or affirmation that goes with it. The process helps you to become aware of what kind of thinking is bothering you and make a different choice about it by relaxing and letting go.

Mind Body Integration

Mind Body IntegrationFor best results, look at each symbol both crossed over the midline of the body and uncrossed so that the correction is more complete.

 


Step 1:

Give yourself permission to relax with #49 Old Sol for a moment and get some help from your Higher Self that will give you distance from a negative thought, experience or memory that’s taking up a lot of space in your mind. 

Old Soul

Notice how easy it is to “rerun” this thought process over and over again and how it never really takes you anywhere positive or productive.

 

If something like that is happening, your mind has become blocked by a fixation. Luckily, Condor Medicine can help you release the feedback loop and take a gentler approach to what’s bothering you. Take several relaxing breaths while gazing softly at the Circle. Imagine all the lines softening or melting. Use deep relaxing breaths to help you.  

“I imagine that the block is loosening and the thoughts in it are moving around differently.”

Once the thoughts start moving, you may notice a whole constellation of related thoughts and feelings about yourself or others in the background.  Take several more minutes and let them start moving differently too.

Continue breathing and softening until the negative energy has stopped.

 

Since your chakras are wheels of light that facilitate the inward and outward movement of energy that rides on vibration, they are literally part of how our bodies “breathe.” Every organ, gland or joint has a constellation of chakras that brings the vibration of life into that area and releases toxins. That includes toxic thoughts that might be hanging out in your aura or the environment around you. When the motion of a chakra is stuck or withheld, you’ll know because your breathing will stop or become shallow.

Emotional Calm

To remedy this, meditate on this Soul Prayer Chart for Oxygen. Breathe deeply and imagine that the space around you is actually relaxing and softening.
“I allow all affected chakras to resonate once again with the breath of life.”

You are now in a position to be more objective as you continue to Step 2 of the exercise.

 

Step 2:

Use these affirmations with the Circles below to imagine that you can change the energy in your mind by allowing open and positive energy to fill that “head space.”

Affirm your autonomy with Wasp Medicine:

“I pull my energy back from harmful memories or experiences so that I can be more objective and learn from them.”

 

Continue to relax your body with Butterfly Medicine and affirm:

“I tap into helpful, life affirming energy to nourish my mind and thinking processes.”

“I am filling myself and my space with life affirming thoughts and energy.”

“I acknowledge the thoughts and energies that are helpful and recognize those that are harmful.”

 

Use this symbol for Divine Protection to close down old and unhealthy channels of energy that have been carrying negative thoughts to you.

“I close down old energy channels that are still open to the chaos and negativity of the old paradigm.”

Stay with it until you feel centered and protected with beneficial energy flowing through you.
Once you’ve got that, you’re ready to access life affirming channels of communication that come to us through the Element of Air. To help you, visualize all the lines coming together into the center wheel of this symbol.

Do that both crossed and uncrossed until it feels complete.

Now it’ll be easier to raise your vibration with the Medicine of Rainforest Tree:

“I let go of any beliefs that I am stuck, trapped or powerless. I make room for inspiration, self-respect and new ways to think about ‘happiness’ and what that would mean for me.”

Then do the same for the space around you. You don’t have to keep putting up with negative thoughts running around in your space and cramping your style! After all they’re just thoughts and don’t “belong” to anyone.

Imagine those old thoughts are like leaves that you’ve been holding onto. See yourself letting them go now while a warm breeze blows them up and away. Watch them disappear into the Light.

 

 

Step 3:

As long as we agree with negative and repetitive thoughts, we can’t be open to new visions of who we have the potential to be. See if Raccoon Medicine and these affirmations will help you to free up your mind:

“I release any agreement to buy into or maintain unhappy thoughts.”
“I release agreements that thoughts define who I am or what I can do.”
“I let go of harmful agreements with anyone involved with these thoughts.”
“I let go of any agreements I have to be controlled by others.”

“My new agreements are to live in the present and love who I truly am, etc.”
“I reclaim my power and free will. I protect myself.”
“I look for, find and utilize productive, workable solutions that nourish me.”
“I am a kind and powerful person who _____________.”

 

Step 4:

The next few symbols are from “Divine Nature Activated” and will provide us with epigenetic healing down to our DNA. The key is to relax as much as possible while looking at each symbol. It can help to imagine an actual DNA strand relaxing, healing and filling up with light – much like this picture.

“I ask the Divine to assist my consciousness in connecting with Hope.”

 

“I’m ready and willing to sort through what’s in my highest good.”

 

“I see myself self as the Divine sees me without these negative thoughts.”

 

“I let go of any compulsive need to be right or to keep the conflict going in my own mind.”

“I welcome thoughts that offer positive solutions.”

 

“I ask the Divine to lead me away from conflict, towards Common Ground.” 

 

“I am a Divine Child of the Universe.
I am beautiful, innocent and trust that I am fully supported.”

Check to see if there are any other symbols needed from Divine Nature Activated to make appropriate corrections.
Ask for numbers between 1 – 73.

 

Finish with this Soul Star Detachment Key to remove any especially sticky energies. Like a healing balm, imagine that a loving coat of peace and comfort is pouring down over you – soothing your body and mind.

“I easily and effectively detach from harmful, sticky energies.”

 

Step 6:

Connect and empower your ability to follow through by relaxing into this Soul Prayer Chart for Divine Connection.

“I am empowered to manifest a positive frame of mind.
I exist and what I say and do matters.”

“I connect with the power of joy and gratitude that comes from my heart.”

 

Step 7:

Notice what’s caught your attention about this exercise. It may be initially confusing. All the wheels in your mind could be going every which way! Take a minute or two to step back and objectively contemplate your situation. Let Llama’s Circle help you synchronize those wheels or pull the ones that don’t belong out completely. A question may come to you and if it does, go ahead and ask your question while looking at the Circle, like:

“What’s going on here? What kind of decisions have I been making?”
“What have I decided about myself?”
“Have I decided that things only work in one particular way?”
“What have I been putting out and is that really what I want to get back?”

“I let go of lies and falsehood. I stop trying to figure them out.”
“I let them go and make room for more positive, productive thoughts.”
“My thoughts and decisions begin to work for me and make sense.”
“They fit with each other and my life becomes happier.” 

 

Step 8.

Imagine that all the negative behaviors are like a huge hole in the ground that you’ve been getting lost in. Fly Medicine will help you deconstruct them.

“I deconstruct the hole that I habitually fall into. I stop holding space for negative habits and karma that are keeping me stuck.” 

“I fill in the leftover void with positive life force and energy.”

 

Imagine that all the negativity in your mind is lifting up into the sky like a host of dark clouds and disappearing into the Light.

Continue looking at this symbol for dissolving destructive blueprints until all clouds are completely gone.

“I dissolve all negative thoughts like a black cloud that dissipates into the Sun.”

Once you’ve done that, make sure you’ve gotten all the negative attachments. Use the symbol to collapse any underground drains or channels like old sewage pipes:

“I collapse any other negativity or attachments that might be poisoning me or draining my energy.”

Close down any harmful doors or pathways that could lead you back to those negative places or thoughts with Piranha Medicine.

 

Step 9:

Finish with this Soul Prayer Chart to repair and refocus your auras.

Be sure that you spend all the time you need with it. Your auras are an important part of having good health and protection!


Congratulations!

You’ve just let go of an old mental pattern that’s been sabotaging your happiness and prosperity for a long time. After you’ve rested, you may want to go through this mind exercise again around other negative thoughts or memories that are troubling you. Be sure to take good care of yourself though by drinking enough water, etc. It’s always wise to be gentle with ourselves when integrating personal growth.

 


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This mind exercise 
should not be considered as an exclusive method of handling stress. Soul Resources LLC and Rheanni Lightwater are not licensed to practice medicine. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment for any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered educational and complementary to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Four Seasons

Staying in Sync  with the Four Seasons ~

Self-care and Personal Growth through Gifts from the Rainforest:

Four Seasons from Gifts from the Rainforest46. The Four Seasons – Each season reminds us to follow the natural cycles of life. Staying in sync with them brings harmony to body, mind and spirit.

Are you out of sync?

Are you worrying about the future or stuck in the past?

What would help you remedy that so you can enjoy being in the present?

Healing Action: Bring yourself into the present by becoming aware of your body and your environment. Come back into alignment with the natural cycles of Life.


The Circle of Life

All of life follows a natural cycle of
birth, growth, decay and regeneration.
However, the ego becomes impatient and
wants to see immediate results.
It longs for the green of summer all year long.
The creatures of the rainforest
laugh because they know this is folly.
The plants cry because they know
the danger in this kind of thinking.
Allow the seasons to teach you
how to reconnect to the joy and fulfillment
that is available in each moment.
There is no time but now.
Bring yourself into harmony with what is.

 


Mind Body IntegrationMind Body Integration

For best results, gaze softly at the Circle both crossed over the midline of the body and uncrossed so that the communication is more complete.

Intuitive Learning Circles help you access your inner guidance and self-confidence to make proactive changes. Simply relax and gaze at the Circles while contemplating its message and positive affirmations. Your intuition will come forward and give you the help that you seek.


Further Exploration into the Healing Circle of the Four Seasons:

Four Seasons

This Circle of Life beckons you to step into the simplicity of being here now. The small mind thinks that doing so would be too difficult. Why is that?

Perhaps it fears the loss of control that comes with being open and receptive. After all, birth, death and rebirth seem like scary things, yet if we cling to these fears, we will never taste the sweetness of life. 

A fearful mind organizes itself around dissatisfaction and all the reasons why things couldn’t possibly work out. It loves to fixate on all the reasons not to do something rather than the benefits that could be reaped from moving forward. The fear of approaching winter causes it to hoard. It idealizes the birth of spring and yet resists the change that’s required. It makes up stories about how things would be so much better if others just conformed to its way of doing things. It likes to take snapshots. It doesn’t like the chaos of change.

We could be much happier if we would relax and organize around the natural circle of life that accepts change and goes with it. Watch how the plants and animals handle this and you will come to understand that you can never go back to the way you were yesterday. By the same token, you can never know exactly what the future holds. 

The Circle itself can help you know whether or not your environment needs to adapt though a good feng shui treatment or space clearing. Just contemplate the environment you’re concerned about and gaze softly into the Circle. When you’re ready, ask: ”Is the layout and flow in my environment in sync with Nature or out of sync? If it’s not, what might help?”

Life is best experienced in the present. Accept that you and your environment are constantly changing.


The Four Seasons is an excerpt from Gifts from the Rainforest

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Inspired by Design Therapy from the native tribes of the Amazon, the fifty-eight Intuitive Learning Circles and spirit animals from Gifts from the Rainforest are self-healing tools for nature lovers who want to accelerate their spiritual growth and intuitive guidance.

♦ Find emotional healing  ♦ Deal with repetitive habits & attitudes that keep you stuck  ♦ Develop common sense  ♦ Learn to trust your gut instincts.  ♦ Receive messages from plant, animal & nature spirits.


Disclaimer:
The Intuitive Learning Circles 
should not be considered as an exclusive method of handling stress. Soul Resources LLC and Rheanni Lightwater are not licensed to practice medicine. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment for any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered educational and complementary to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

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