Reform Your Plan For the New Paradigm

It’s time to co-create a New Paradigm based on equality, cooperation and sustainable prosperity! Play a Transformation Game using the Three of Pentacles from the Tarot and the Intuitive Learning Circles to help you reform your plan. 

Transformation Game - Reform your Plan
* Illustration by Norbert Losche’ – Cosmic Tarot

If you’re like most people, you’ve been experiencing an unprecedented amount of change and are realizing that you need to review and reform your plan and assumptions about your life. Whether it’s an overall life trajectory or more specific plans about health, business or even creative projects, now is an opportune time to look at them and recalibrate.

This Transformation Game is part of Plans for a New Paradigm, a coaching program that has been put together to help you evaluate what’s working and what isn’t based on our new circumstances.

Use the Circle in this picture to help you focus on some initial questions to see if this Game would be useful to you:

“What are you building or trying to build?”

“Do you need to reform your plan in any way?”

“Do you have a solid plan? If so, is that plan sustainable?”

“Would you like a new plan that your Soul can really get behind?”

It could be that there’ve been so many changes, you need to scrap your old plan and start over! Hopefully, that’s not the case. However, it’s possible you simply need to focus in on your situation from a different angle or through a different filter.

Transformation Games can help you to identify problems, navigate change and clarify what’s really important to you. Simply relax and gaze at the Intuitive Learning Circles while contemplating the accompanying positive affirmations about how your plan is working for you. Your intuition will come forward and give you the help that you seek. Examples:

“I reclaim and balance my five senses.”

“I focus them to be present and aware of my current needs.”

“I use them to become aware of confusion, conflicts and self sabotage.”

“I gain clear awareness of beneficial resources, solutions, opportunities and _________.”


An important note about Mind Body Integration ~ 

Retrain Your Mind for Mind Body IntegrationThe brain and body communicate through different channels when a part of you is crossed over the center of your body. As you go through the steps, cross and uncross a hand or foot over the midline of your body when you gaze at each Circle. Use a soft focus and breathe patiently. This will help you integrate your thinking more fully so that you can be more creative. Let any negative self-talk go by breathing through it.

Feel free to move at anytime in any way to help you embody your experience!


Okay, so let’s take a look at how you’re currently perceiving your plan…

Step One: When evaluating your needs, Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs works well to help you position your priorities accurately. Each level is naturally structured to give your plan the greatest stability and efficiency.  Let’s take a look at the different levels:

Reform Your Plan - Hierarchy of NeedsBriefly, the first level needs are physiological and biological. The second level is about safety and protection. The third level encompasses love and belonging. The fourth level focuses around self-esteem. At the top of the pyramid lies the fifth level needs for personal growth and self-actualization.

Are you currently seeing your needs correctly? Are they positioned correctly?

The triangle may be upside down or out of focus. The levels could be out of order or missing entirely. It might not even seem that it’s your plan at all! Use this Circle to help you create or rearrange them in your mind so that your plan is most likely to meet your current needs.

Do that both crossed and uncrossed.

 

Step Two: Make sure that your plan is actually for you, based on what you need now, in present time.

Relax and let your 3rd Chakra get connected, open and balanced at your solar plexus (the area where your ribs go up in the front).

Your Essential Self is most efficiently located there to help you manifest, create happiness and maintain health.

 

 

In stressful times, it’s pretty common for the Essential Self to get closed off, misplaced or dissociated.

You can correct that now.

Make sure that you have a sense of your Essence facing forward and up right.

 

Step Three: Use this Chart to confirm and empower your connection to your Soul Resources.

“I am utilizing my true Soul Resources to manifest the best results.” 

“I exist and am empowered to reform my plan for the highest good.”

Confirm that you’re using your Soul Color, your preferred Element and your Power Animal to help you reform your plan.

 

Step Four: Once you’re re-centered, clarify what your plan is really about.

Ask yourself: “Is this about a state of being or something specific I want to accomplish?

Is this really my plan, or someone else’s?

How sustainable do I want this to be?

Is there something about the way things have been that I don’t want to go back to?

How would I really like my plan to help me and those I care about?

Am I currently using my time, finances and efforts productively?”

Make note of your answers.

 

Step Five: Uncover your awareness of any danger.

Gaze at this Circle that accesses your unconscious awareness of possible dangers that could be a problem for you now or in the future. Imagine that you can gather up that inner library of wisdom and see what you come up with. Take your time and let the information emerge. Ask yourself:

“Is there something happening that shouldn’t be? Am I missing something? Is anything or anyone involved creating a problem? If so, where are they and how are they affecting me?”

“How much harm is this situation causing for me and for others?
“Am I contributing to the harm and if so, can I tell how?”
“Is there a particular action to take that would help?”
“Is there anything else that I need to prepare for?”

Step Six: Check for Assumptions that are sabotaging your efforts.

“Am I operating under any false assumptions? I.e. Am I assuming that something can only work one way? Am I being right about something?”

“Am I willing to let it go and allow something better to come in?”

 

Step Seven: Bring in your emotional filter and notice what you’re feeling in this situation.

“Are any emotions throwing me off? Am I caught up in any negative attitudes?” 

“If so, what are they and what is it about them that doesn’t feel right?”

“Am I feeling my emotions or someone elses?”

“Is there a better filter I could use that could help me be happier?”

“Do I believe that I have the power to change my emotional filters?”

“What is the best course of action?”

 

Step Eight: Reform outcomes you have agreements with that are no longer desirable.

If there are, this is a good time to release your agreement with them with this Soul Contract Circle. Be sure to release any agreements you have to punish or be hard on yourself for any reason.

Reform Your Plan by Releasing Agreements

“I let go of complications, bad timing, self-sabotage, poor boundaries, intolerance, distractions, ______________, etc.

“I detach from harmful emotional filters and outcomes that no longer fit.”

“I free myself from the burdens of guilt, shame, blame or debt. I stop contributing to harmful patterns.”

“My new agreement is to follow the guidance of my Soul. I forgive myself for any mistakes made and start again with integrity and a clean slate. I _______.” etc.

 

“I am encouraged and inspired to make new plans that will genuinely benefit me and those that I love in our new situation.”

 

“I make clear decisions about what I want to let go of for good and not return to.”

“I’m sure I want to let go of _______________.”

 

“I’ve learned my lessons about _______________.”

 

“I definitively decide to _______________.”

 

Step Nine: Are there methods or modalities you’ve been using (or not using) that need to be re-evaluated?

Can you identify what they are?

 

Step Ten: What have you learned over the course of recent events that you want to integrate into your consciousness?

Use this Circle to help you reorganize and reform your plan around this new level of awareness.

 

Step Eleven: Imagine what could happen if you created your new plan around a central intention that brings you joy – like actualizing your true heart’s desire…

 

Does your intention, as you currently understand it bring you joy?

Bring the energy into your center first and then imagine your new intention radiating out into the world around you.

 

 

What does your heart tell you that you need to do?

 

Step Twelve:  Dissolve your connection to any old plans, pathways, beliefs or barriers that are harmful.

It may help to imagine the patterns like big, black clouds that you can send to the Sun to be transmuted. Keep visualizing until they are completely gone and you can see yourself standing in an open field with a beautiful, blue sky:

“I let them go. I couldn’t call them back, even if I tried.”

 

Step Thirteen: Determine if it’s possible for your plan to be grounded in a New Paradigm of co-operation, equality and sustainable prosperity.

If it can’t, what would need to happen?

If it can, put both feet on the ground and see if the Circle can help you get your energy organized in a coherent and meaningful way. Once it feels organized, you should be able to ground. Take all the time that you need.

 

Step Fourteen: Now that you’ve reformed your plan, close the pathways in your mind that lead back to ways of being that no longer serve you.

“I close the door on all harmful pathways, leaks, gaps and holes.

I follow the direction of healthy protection.”

Closure for Reform your Plan

Congratulations!

Having a clear plan that genuinely reflects your true heart’s desire is a key concept for living and prospering in the New Paradigm!

It’s a good idea to relax, go for a walk or exercise to help you integrate all this. Later, you may want to go into greater detail about your plan. When that happens, you’re welcome to continue your inquiry with the extra-intuitive activities below.

When you’re ready, continue the game for more information.

Relax and let this Circle help you balance your senses so you can reform your plan from a fresh point of view.

“I bring my senses into balance and see things realistically.”

River Medicine

 

“I focus on what really matters.”

Fish Medicine

This is a good time to write down specifics because you’ve had time to clear away  extraneous mental and emotional clutter.

You could also draw, sketch, doodle or journal your desires via a stream of consciousness.

Any kind of artwork can help to bring the right brain in for creative inspiration from your Soul!

 

Once you’re ready, use this Circle to help you look at your general situation from an objective standpoint.

Slow down and place the words or images that represent your plan in the center, open space of this Circle. Let your consciousness rearrange itself both crossed and uncrossed over the midline of your body.

Can you tell what the main stepping stones are for your new plan?

Starlight Medicine

What actions will you need to take realistically?
Is there something that needs to be removed?
Does something need to be added? Re-arranged? Re-organized?
Are there other preparations that need to be made?
Write the information down, so that you don’t forget.

 

Next, calmly assess the details of your situation from an objective, cause and effect standpoint to see what’s really needed to reform your plan effectively.

For example, sometimes we want to take a specific action, but it really isn’t for us to do….

“Is there a particular action I want to take, but it isn’t meant for me to do?”

“Would I actually be causing myself or other people harm if I were to do it anyway?”

Old Soul
Sun Medicine

“Is there something I’m meant to do and not taking action on? if so, on a scale of 1 – 10, how important is it to my Soul?”

 

Get into even more detail by playing a “what if” game.

“If I take this action, that response is liable to occur.”

Mapacho Medicine

Take your time, and go through the different scenarios you may be considering. Sort them into “no”, “maybe”, and “yes” categories.

Be sure to let go of any intentions that are a definite “no”.

This final Circle is about having reciprocity and the give and take of Nature.

For example, are you including yourself in the equation or leaving yourself out of receiving the benefits of your plan? Have you incorporated enough fun and enjoyment into your plan?

Ask your Soul:

“Am I positioned to receive the benefits of my plan?”

“How can I have more fun in this situation?”

Otter Medicine

Make a note of what ever answer comes back. From your solar plexus, send your energy to the center of the Circle like throwing a ball into a hoop and imagine it coming back to you. Relax and play with that for awhile!

As you play with the energy, some fun activities or ideas may come to you.
If you practice this regularly you will be building a new pattern of reciprocity to go with your new plan.

 

The Essential HumanNote – If you have a copy of The Essential Human, now would be a good time to use Future Pacing on page 140 to help you access more beneficial ingredients from the Field of Potential to create the “soup” of your life. Choose new ingredients from the archetypes #1 – 42. Use this affirmation:

“I release harmful ingredients and access beneficial ingredients.”

The purpose of Future Pacing is to reform your plan by projecting a more preferred outcome into the future. By freely choosing ingredients such as self-worth, self-love or self-confidence from the collective unconscious, you can create a better future.

You can also do this to prepare for your new plan and improve its potential outcome.

Remember that if you’re not consciously choosing a new awareness of the world and how you want to be in it, you will revert back to old ingredients and old patterns. Making no choice is still a choice!

Thank you for playing Reform Your Plan. Now is a good time to go for a walk or relax!

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Rheanni Lightwater - Retraining the MindRheanni Lightwater CHT, CKT lives and practices in Santa Fe, NM. She specializes in learning difficulties and mind body healing  using Kinesiology, the Intuitive Learning CirclesReiki as a Master/Teacher, Hypnotherapy and Shamanic Clearing Techniques.

Schedule with Rheanni via Zoomor in person when you visit Santa Fe, New Mexico. Email your request to: soulresources@gmail.com or text her at (505) 271-4612 to schedule an appointment between 10:00am – 5:00pm, Monday through Friday, Mountain Standard Time.


Disclaimer:
Reform Your Plan should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment of any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Cut Through Stagnation

Rheanni Lightwater - Cut Through StagnationTransformation Game - Cut through Stagnation

Welcome to Soul Resources FREE Transformation Game that uses the Intuitive Learning Circles to help you cut through stagnation and release the epigenetic patterns of apathy and inertia.

When you play, you’re strengthening a New Paradigm in our collective consciousness for greater joy and sustainable prosperity!

Our Transformation Games can help you to identify problems, change your focus to positive solutions, ground yourself and get in the present. We’re getting help from the I Ching, an ancient book of change that follows the flow of the cosmos. Simply relax and gaze at the Circles while contemplating positive affirmations. Your intuition will come forward and give you the help that you seek.


Are you concerned about how the pervasive pattern of inertia and foot dragging in our society is preventing us from finding viable solutions to violence, poverty, environmental issues and equality? 

Play a Transformation Game for I Ching Hexagram #12 that helps you to successfully Cut Through STAGNATION!

So, let’s get started:

This symbol represents a lazy, apathetic energy that blocks energetic REPAIR and REFORM. It clogs our vision and loves to masquerade as grief (think of the wolf in sheep’s clothing and crocodile tears). One of the goals of playing this Transformation Game is to cut through STAGNATION and the illusion created from this destructive pattern.

The false narrative of ‘thoughts and prayers’ or blaming the victim after a devastating act of violence is an expression of this apathetic energy. Those who utilize it want to keep the status quo intact, so they spread it on thick to block appropriate action. The grief, the excuses, the feigned hurt feelings, the finger pointing, guilt, shame and righteous indignation. You’ve been there, right? We’ve all been there. In fact, we’ve all been there for years! 

Unfortunately, when nothing is done, we resort to comforting ourselves with things. Comfort food, comfort drinks, comfort distractions. We self-medicate. We feel shut down, trapped and hopeless. Like being in a kind of psychic mud hole. Nothing gets done and nothing changes for the better.

Take a moment to meditate on the symbol and really get a feel for it. Once your unconscious mind identifies it, you’ll have a much easier time recognizing and dispelling it.


Mind Body Integration

Mind Body IntegrationFor best results, look at each symbol both crossed over the midline of your body and uncrossed so that the correction is more complete.

 


1. All right. Now that you’ve identified the energy, let go of any agreement you have to be trapped by it for any reason. Use the Intuitive Learning Circle below with these affirmations to release any unconscious connections you have to this toxic energy:

“I disconnect from this energy. I release all agreements to mistake it for a real solution or true comfort. I have no need of it.

Instead, I choose to expel it entirely. I now cut through STAGNATION caused by this energy.”

My new agreements are:

“I connect with energetic action to repair and reform the current situation. I am determined to take good care of myself and my resources.”

 

2. Let this symbol help you identify and expel the thoughts and energy of violence. Use these affirmations if they help:

“I expel the thoughts and intentions of violence and safely send them to the light.”

 

Cut through stagnation and violence

Epigenetic Healing - Divine Nature Activated3. Clear epigenetic information with the next few images from Divine Nature Activated. Allow the positive affirmations to help you shift your energy. Relax and take your time.

Imagine that you can cut through stagnation and “stuck” energy and that you can then connect with a light filled DNA strand that comes directly from your Source.

“I ask for assistance in disabling the destructive fire within myself.”

 

“I now connect with creative fire.”

 

“I hold the victory of Love in my mind. I am protected in times of fear and violence.”

 

“I clear away the smoke screen and cut through stagnation in all aspects of my life.”

 

 

4. Finish this section by visualizing the toxic pattern can be peeled off of you with the help of this symbol.

“I remove destructive energy from my body, mind and spirit and send it to the Sun. I am clean and clear.”

 

5. Now it’s time to visualize the destructive mental/ emotional blueprints of inertia and apathyinertia and foot-dragging and send them to the Sun to be transformed:

 

“I dissolve this imprint of STAGNATION and any connection I have ever had to it.”

“I clear my field of destructive mental and emotional patterns and send them to the Sun.” 

6. If you have a copy of Divine Nature Activated, this would be the time to see if you have any additional epigenetic patterns to clear that would be related to STAGNATION. Ask for numbers between 1 – 72.

 

7. With this Circle, find any whirlpools or drains that could suck you back into the STAGNATION or any old patterns of danger. See the drains close up completely.

 

8. Check for any energetic opening(s) that leave you open and vulnerable to the destructive patterns and close them completely.

“All pathways to apathy or violence are closed – sealed and healed.”

“I follow the direction of healthy protection.”

 

9. You’re almost finished with the game now, please take a minute to refocus and strengthen your auras before you go!

Be sure that you spend all the time you need with this Circle. Your auras are an important part of having good health and protection.

“My auras are strengthened, repaired  and refocused.”

 

 

Congratulations!

You have lifted yourself out of the mud and detached from the epigenetic pattern of apathy. Go out and relax in nature, take a walk… celebrate!

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Rheanni Lightwater -Find out about Rheanni’s Intuitive Readings and Clearings (Long Distance or in Person)

Mind body healing and intuitive readings are available with Rheanni (Ray-ah-nee) online over Zoom or in person when you visit Santa Fe, NM. Call or text her at (505) 271-4612. Appointments are scheduled to take place between 10:00am – 5:00pm, Monday through Friday, Mountain Standard Time.

Disclaimer:
This Transformation Game should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Karmic Entanglements That Tap Into Adversity

A Transformation Game for Handling Karmic Entanglements ~

Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKP
Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKP, Reiki Master Teacher

TKuan Yin's Transformation Gamesransformation Games can help you to identify problems, navigate change and clarify what’s really important to you. Simply relax and gaze at the Intuitive Learning Circles™ while contemplating the accompanying positive affirmations. Let them help you clear karmic entanglements that pull you into harmful situations.

Relax and follow the directions… your intuition will come forward and give you the help that you seek!

Welcome to our Transformation Game for clearing karmic entanglements that tap into the Tarot card, Nine of Swords and the I Ching Hexagram #47 ADVERSITY.

Transformation Game - Karmic Entanglements
* Illustration by Norbert Losche’ – Cosmic Tarot

This process is much like a past life regression. You will have the opportunity to clear karmic entanglements that have outlived their purpose and become a burden to your evolution.

It’s important to clear all Soul Contracts and agreements. If they aren’t resolved completely, the karma is still entangled and your mental continuum continues to behave as if the agreement were still in force. This causes a lot of unnecessary suffering for you and those around you.

What Are Karmic Entanglements?

Let me give you an example: A woman who was having trouble feeling settled in her life decided to try playing the game. While going through it, she glimpsed impressions from another life, seeing bare feet and a beat up old suitcase. Later on while she was dreaming, she saw herself clearly living a past life as a Hungarian orphan in Nazi Germany.

In her dream of that life, she was continually used as a slave and moved from place to place without being able to feel safe. She was eventually turned into a work camp and lost her life without having any control at all.

As the woman brought herself back into her present life, she realized she was still operating under the cultural agreements that were in force back at that time.

Through the safety of this simple Transformation Game, she could release the shame, guilt and collective karma that was forced upon her. Gently, it brought her patterns of lack and uncertainty into consciousness so that she could relax and choose to move into a happier, more productive life.

Easy Steps to Play the Game:

  1. Select an issue that’s causing a blockage in your mental continuum. Use it as a springboard to accelerate your spiritual growth and prepare you for your next step on your healing journey.
  2. Follow directions to release your connection to negative influences from the past.
  3. Read each step with its question or affirmation, one at a time.
  4. Think about it while looking with a soft gaze at the Intuitive Learning Circle that goes with it.
  5. Remember to RELAX! The Circles and symbols help you to access a light hypnotic trance where you can access your akashic records and gently clear harmful karmic entanglements so you can make room for positive, proactive change.
MIND BODY INTEGRATION

Mind Body IntegrationFor best results, look at each symbol both crossed over the midline of the body and uncrossed so that the correction is more complete.

 


When you gaze softly at the Intuitive Learning Circles, you are using self-hypnosis to clear out interference and reorganize how you use your energy. You may experience subtle energies running through you, or the Circles may move, rotate or even change color. That means that they’re working! Just keep breathing and relax. When you release your agreement with negative karma, fear or falsehood, you could be detaching from old family patterns, outdated religious vows, or even a larger, collective entanglement like racial slavery. Not only will you feel better in the days and weeks that follow, you’ll be clearing away obstacles to happiness!

So, let’s get started!

Step One:

What is a situation in your life that distresses you? Gaze softly at the Circle below and relax as you contemplate that thought…

“What is distressing me?”

 

 

Step Two:

As you gaze at this symbol, imagine that you are scanning for information in your unconscious mind.

“Is this situation interfering with me on a karmic level?”

“Am I interfering with others on a karmic level?”

“Am I taking on karma from others?”

“is this actually my issue? Someone else’s? Is this a collective pattern?”

 

 

Step Three:

Use this Intuitive Learning Circle that accesses agreements being held deep within your nervous system. With it, you can release karmic agreements you may have with others that keep you entangled with them. Imagine that the agreements are like contracts being thrown into a fire and burning up.

“I release all cultural agreements that connect me with societal patterns such as racism, sexism, injustice and prejudice.”

“I release any debt, curse or obligation that is secretly affecting me.”

“I let go of any judgement or harm I’m unwittingly participating in.”

“I release my agreements with ________________,” etc.

 

 

Step Four:

Now it’s time to handle the thoughts behind the entanglements. Use the Circle below to gather past thoughts and beliefs about this situation. Are you tapping into someone else’s thoughts or emotions in any way? Are you resonating with an energy that is causing you harm? If you are, use the Circle below to see if you can pull yourself out of harm’s way by disconnecting from that energy. 

 

 

Step Five:

Are you feeding harmful karma with your energy? Take a few minutes to sort things out.  

“I detach my energy from this karmic debt. I release the concept of ‘owing others and others owing me’. All debts are forgiven.”

 

 

Step Six:

Are you preoccupied with the harm that so many people are participating in? Don’t inadvertently feed it by trying to fix, rescue or take the blame for it.

“I disassemble my tendency towards self-destruction. I now make a commitment to my higher good.”

The Essential Human* If you have a copy of The Essential Human, now would be a good time to use Emotional Corrections A – E between pages 97 and 101 to access and balance energies you’re pulling from the ‘field of potential’.

Going through this process will help you draw on the kinds of spiritual / emotional ingredients that will redirect your energy towards creating true freedom and sustainable prosperity.

 

 

Step Seven:

If there is karma of your own that needs to be cleared, use this symbol for dissolving destructive blueprints to send the karmic imprints from your mental continuum to the Sun to be purified. Include blueprints related to racism, injustice and prejudice.

Then, dissolve the mental and behavioral patterns that you have to take on or try to control other people’s responsibilities and/or karma.

 

 

Step Eight:

Make sure you’ve recovered yourself and back in your body.

“I am fully present in the here and now.”

Continue to relax and let your 3rd Chakra get connected, open and balanced at your solar plexus (the area where your ribs go up in the front).

Your Essential Self is most efficiently located there to help you manifest, create happiness and maintain health.

In stressful times, it’s pretty common for the Essential Self to get closed off, misplaced or dissociated. You can correct that now.

 

“My senses are intact. 

 

Adjust the volume to your senses.

“I perceive things as they really are – in the here and now.”

 

Step Nine:

Bring closure to the karma, by closing any openings that lead back to past.

“All holes are sealed and healed. 

I follow the direction of healthy protection.”

Congratulations! You’re ready to approach your situation more objectively, with a different perspective – without all those karmic entanglements!

If you like, you can optimize this process by consciously shifting your focus to what you want to do now. Use the following sequence of Circles to help you. Simply gather your energy into the center of each Circle to facilitate the change:

“I focus my thoughts on productive activities that are in my positive self interest.”

 

“I connect to my better angels and true prosperity which allows prosperity for all.”

 

“I forgive myself completely and reclaim my innocence.”

“I forgive others and the Creator so I can move beyond the illusion of separation.”

 

Seal and heal all remaining entanglements with suffering and ignorance.

Congratulations! Your new awareness makes it more possible for miracles to occur! Be sure to take some time to integrate. Go for a walk. Enjoy the healing that comes from Nature.

While you walk, consider the following positive affirmations:

“I am a Divine Child of the Universe. I am beautiful, innocent and can trust that I’m fully supported.”

 

*Please note that we are all infinite beings in an infinite universe – as new circumstances or events change, we may encounter new karmic entanglements and Soul Contracts, even with the same people we just cleared. However, you can use this process as many times as you need to.

 


Rheanni Lightwater - Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKT lives and practices in Santa Fe, NM. She specializes in mind body healing with family, environment and relationship clearing using Kinesiology, the Intuitive Learning Circles, Reiki as a Master/Teacher, Hypnotherapy and Shamanic Clearing Techniques.

Schedule with Rheanni via Zoom or in person when you visit Santa Fe, New Mexico. Call or text her at (505) 271-4612 to schedule an appointment between 10:00am – 5:00pm, Monday through Friday, Mountain Standard Time.

Disclaimer:
This Transformation Game should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment for any ailment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Feng Shui Assessment

Invest in a Feng Shui Assessment For Your Home to Enhance Your Health, Happiness and Prosperity ~

Feng Shui (pronunced “fung shway”) is a Chinese term that means “wind and water” symbolizing the natural flow of “chi” or life energy that flows through our environment and supports life. Predating Taoism and Confucianism, this ancient art of flow and placement in one’s environment has been used to facilitate balance and well being in every important aspect of life. It has also been used to ensure that we are in the “right place at the right time.”

Certain changes in your life may cause an imbalance that would benefit from a Feng Shui Assessment or Re-assessment including:

  • Health – illness, accidents, sudden sensitivity to environment, death.
  • Relationship Changes – engagements, marriage, births, divorce, children or other family members moving out or in.
  • Safety – serious or frequent injury, robbery, assault or other forms of violence.
  • Financial – sudden downturn in business, loss of job, difficulty holding a job or changing careers, bankruptcy.
  • Moving or remodeling.
  • General changes of direction – in lifestyle, livelihood, personal health and goals.

As you can see, a feng shui assessment can be very useful anytime you’re going through a significant change. Even a change of seasons. The process we use at Soul Resources helps you to change the energy and optimize your chances for success in all areas of your life.

An effective Feng Shui clearing can literally clear the energy running through your home or office. The process can also help you to correct instability and “take apart” destructive patterns that are causing you and your family harm. Once the imbalances are corrected in your environment, personal growth and health is enhanced. Your sense of timing improves, chaos is reduced and changes in life direction are supported.

Rheanni Lightwater specializes in Covid Safe Space Clearing and Feng Shui Assessments in Santa Fe NM and also serves the Albuquerque, Rio Rancho and surrounding New Mexico area.

Rheanni Lightwater - Feng Shui Assessment
Reiki Master, Hypnotherapist, Medical Intuitive

and also serves the Albuquerque, Rio Rancho and surrounding New Mexico area.

Enjoy her colorful Feng Shui Healing Art to enhance the chi and empower your intentions.

What can an Intuitive Feng Shui Consultation do for you?

• Set up an overall atmosphere that is welcoming, warm and comfortable.

• Establish clear goals and positive input to enhance all major aspects of your life and personal growth: career, self-cultivation, health, family, wealth and prosperity, reputation, love and marriage, creativity, children, helpful people and travel.

• Bring a more harmonious flow into your environment so that you increase productivity and more easily achieve your goals.

• Provide tips and assistance in each bagua area to make significant life changes such as: getting married, having children and new career directions.


Success Stories 


Your environment has a profound affect on your mood, health and prosperity.
Experience the difference.

How does the energy in your home or office measure up?

~ Do you feel safe?
~ Is the atmosphere open & welcoming?
~ Does it feel peaceful?
~ Can you relax & be comfortable?
~ Can you have fun there?
~ Are people getting along well?
~ Is it orderly & convenient?
~ Do you feel prosperous?
~ What about happiness – does it make you smile inside?
~ Is the atmosphere warm & cheerful?
~ Is there flexibility to grow & expand?
~ Does it feel healthy?

If you answered “no” to three or more of these questions, you can significantly benefit from a feng shui consultation.


Appointments ~

The objectives of each Feng Shui consultation are unique, based on your individual needs. For that reason, Rheanni offers a complimentary 15 minute interview to determine if this kind of session would be effective for you. After that, you will be asked to fill out a Client  Feng Shui Intake Form to clarify your concerns and goals.

Client  Feng Shui Intake Form

Clearing and Set Up Sessions are $120.00 per hour, + NM Sales Tax. An average session takes between 1 1/2 to 3 hours. Follow up recommendations are billed at $60.00 per hour.

If a property is being prepared for selling, Realtors need only be present to open up the house and provide any pertinent information. Owners are encouraged to be present.

Properties outside of the Santa Fe area require a reasonable fee to accommodate the time and distance traveled.

Some services can be provided online over Zoom. Call Rheanni at (505) 271-4612 (Mountain Standard Time) to see if this option will work for you.

Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKP

business (505) 271-4612
Soul Resources, LLC – Santa Fe, New Mexico email: info@
soulresourcesllc.com


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Self-care for Grief, illness and Loss

A Soul Oriented Solutions Formula: Self-care for Grief ~

Rheanni Lightwater - Self-care for Grief
Many people are experiencing deep levels of grief and mourning over events happening both near and far. Feelings of anxiousness, distress and even PTSD can come on suddenly and be very overwhelming. What are some things that can bring some relief and self-care for grief?

This brief exercise from RESOLVE uses affirmations and the Intuitive Learning Circles™ to quickly help you when you are:

  • Grieving
  • Recovering from abuse – past or present
  • Dealing with a serious or long-term illness
  • Preparing for surgery
  • Coming to terms with tragedy, loss or death.

Here’s an example of how the Circles can help you relax:

“I bring my senses into balance.”

“I focus them so that I can feel calmer and more aware of what’s important.”

“I use them to help me be more aware of where I am and what I’m doing.”

“I focus on thoughts and actions that are in my best interest.”

 

Next, you can begin self-care for grief by allowing this Soul Prayer Chart to help you reclaim your connection to Creator and Soul through your heart center. It can help to put both feet flat on the floor and place your hands on your heart with this first symbol. Simply gaze softly at the image while you contemplate the positive affirmations that go with it for for a minute or so. Relax and breathe. Here’s some suggestions:

“I reclaim my power and fill my heart with courage, faith and determination.”


Strong emotions or insights may come up. The image may move, rotate, vibrate or change color. Don’t worry. That happens sometimes. It just means they are working to help you feel better.
Once the energy calms down a bit, you can move on to the remaining Circles with each of their affirmations to complete the process.

You might want to journal some of your thoughts so that you can speak with a trusted counselor or friend about what comes up. So, get out some paper and something to write with as you go through the steps.

Mind Body Integration

Mind Body IntegrationFor best results, look at each symbol both crossed over the midline of the body and uncrossed so that the correction is more complete.

Feel free to move at anytime in any way to help you embody your experience!


Step One: Asking for Help

Breathe in deeply, all the way to your belly while you look at this Circle and then exhale. Breathe in through your nose, if you can. Do that several times.

If you could ask for something that would help you feel better, what would that be?

 

Step Two – Support

Imagine that you can bring healing and release into all parts of your body, mind and spirit while you continue to breathe and gaze softly with this next symbol.

Miracles - Channels of Love

 

Step Three ~ Peace

What do you think is the main difficulty or burden you’re dealing with right now?
Are you ready to let go of that burden and find a solution? 
If not, why not? Be sure to respect your process.

 

 

Step Four – Release

Where are you holding tension?

You can release the tension around anything that’s bothering you right now. Your shoulders are dropped. Your jaw is relaxed. Rub them if you like. Keep melting the tension until it’s all gone.

 

Step Five – Soul Vision

Consider what your Soul would tell you about this situation. Connect with the Love that comes from within as much as you are able to. Allow your heart to open to it.

 

Step Six – Remove Your Burdens

Imagine that you can send all those burdens to where ever they need to go to resolve themselves. Imagine the heaviness lifting up and off of you.

You have done the best that you can under the circumstances.

 

Step Six – Rebalance

Breathe again.
Feel a calmness coming over you.
You feel calmer and calmer with every breath.

 

Step Seven – Cleansing

Send away any illness or pain that you’re experiencing. Send it to the Sun or wherever it needs to go to heal.

 

Step Eight – Faith

Fill yourself with strength and the knowledge that you are loved. 

 

 Let yourself rest now. You might feel tired or sad. That’s okay. It means that you’re feeling safe enough to really let go and rest.

Closure for Mind Body Healing

Some people have gotten extra support out of going through this self-care for grief exercise every day for twenty-one days. It helps to retrain your mind to think more positively and keep you on track toward your full recovery.


RESOLVE - Self-care for GriefSelf-care for Grief, Illness and Loss is one of seven self-care formulas and mind exercises from RESOLVE, a handbook for staying true and following through in difficult times by Rheanni Lightwater.

 

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Disclaimer:
Self-care for Grief should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment of any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Healthy Priorities Based on Respect for Earth

A Healing Meditation from Intuitive Learning Circle – Respect for Earth ~

Sometimes things don’t turn out the way we expected or the way we hoped…


For example, in the 1950’s, scientists invented the premier pesticide, DDT which, at the time, was a boon to food manufacturers. What they didn’t know was that this ‘miraculous’ invention and the completely unrestricted use of it was going to throw the ecology of nature seriously out of balance.

To make matters worse, once they finally admitted there was a problem, they proceeded to invent a complicated series of compensations and hazards that have led us to where we are today (DDT was listed as #14 in The 50 Worst Inventions – Time Magazine).

Unintended Consequences

In our rush to “fix” things, we often incur unintended consequences. Of course, we can’t know everything in advance, however, it might be a good idea to slow down and look at things more carefully. That’s what this sequence of Circles can help with.

Start by thinking about your relationship with Nature. Breathe several times while you gaze softly at the Circle. Intend for all the energy around you and in you to slow down.

“I imagine everything is moving in slow motion.”

 

Bring your senses into balance. Some may be turned up too high, some may be too low. Use the chart to help you equalize your perception, like taking a walk in the woods or resting next to a mountain stream.

“I take the time to focus my senses and perceive things as they really are.”

 

Sometimes we can get too nostalgic about idealized memories from the past or immobilized by fearful visions of the future. Make sure you’re in the here and now.

“I get my feet back under me and notice the time. I am in the present*.”

*It can help to open and close your hands to get more present.

Create a healthy intention that comes from your center. What kind of relationship do you really want with Nature? What is the most important thing? Take all the time that you need.

“I go within to find a healthy intention that comes from my heart and is in the highest good.”

Write your intention down so that you remember it. Include additional insights that come to you.

Congratulations! Now you’re in a better place to ask for help!

 

A Prayer for Healthy Priorities and Respect for Earth

Most of us like to believe that we can learn from our mistakes. Mistakes can be forgiven, especially when we can admit to them and make amends. Unfortunately, the status quo is determined to stay in denial and double down on their intentions to disrespect nature and dominate it.

Common sense says, “Go another way. You’re following a dangerous path.”

But the status quo puts its foot down and says NO!

Toxic Patterns of Patriarchy“Nature is here to be exploited and sacrificed for the almighty dollar.”

and

“We want whatever we want, when we want it.”

The drive towards death and self-destruction is real and must be dealt with. But how can we find solutions that will work? Most of the time, we react to problems by jumping on board a quick solution – any solution – and then try to change the situation by force. 

Intuitively, our hearts know that forcing things won’t work in the long run. Ultimately nature takes its course and we have to face the truth:

“Our problems cannot be solved from the same mental position they were created from. A transformation of consciousness is required to get from where we are to where we want to be.” ~ SOS – Soul Oriented Solutions, Rheanni Lightwater

SOS - Inner Guidance

Beyond Thoughts and Prayers ~

Yes. Let’s offer a prayer of respect for Earth – for a change of path, for sustainable prosperity and healthy priorities. And then, let’s go beyond that and dissolve the mental, spiritual and emotional patterns that keep us bound to greed and disrespect.

Those patterns go deep into the collective history of humanity. They express themselves through unconscious attitudes and behaviors that create so much strife in our families, our spiritual institutions, our educational systems and our politics. The infrastructure of our lives is falling apart and it’s time to let the death wish go.

We all hold pieces of information that keep us bound to the old paradigm of disrespect and unsustainable greed. What piece of hidden information are you holding? What is your heart ready to let go of?

Let’s use a quick Transformation Game to help us find and release old agreements from the collective unconscious that are supporting this kind of insanity.

Simply gaze at the Circle below and imagine burning your agreements to those hidden agendas.

“I cut my ties to any hidden agenda I still hold to poisoning the water or disrespecting the land.

“I release any agreement that I would help anyone to desecrate the Earth.”

“I release agreements to ____________________.”

“I decide to forgive myself for exploiting the Earth or abusing her in any way.”

“I form a new, clear intention to join with nature’s resources and respect the Earth.”

 

Respect for Earth

“I respect the water, the animals, plants, air and the elements.

That includes my relationships and my Self. I respect my own health.”

What else do you want to respect?

 

Dissolve Destructive Mental and Emotional Patterns that Block Healthy Priorities ~

Imagine all those hidden agendas, the death wish, the push for power and control, the greed and especially the compensations that made things even worse – like a huge, black snake consuming everything in its path. This symbol for dissolving destructive blueprints will help us clear the negative pattern – out of our minds at least.

Simply see the snake dissolving or send it to the Sun until your mind is clear and your heart feels light.

Next, take a deep breath and relax your body. Allow your Soul to download its resources. Receive its wisdom and insight for these chaotic times:

“I am filled with the wisdom of my spirit.”

This is a good time to move around and stretch if you want to.

 

Make a Course Correction ~

Imagine that your Soul is gently turning you in the direction that’s best for you at this time. 

 

This is your way. Your path. The way that your heart is guided to follow that includes respect for the Earth.

Now is a good time to get out into nature. Take a walk or do something you enjoy. The time you take for yourself now will help you move beyond thoughts and prayers and into fully embodied action.

Before you go – Close the doors to this healing meditation so that you don’t keep recycling finished business!

Closure for Mind Body Healing

Use the affirmations to help you:

“I seal and heal all pathways that lead back to suffering.

“I follow the direction of healthy protection.”


 

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Rheanni Lightwater - Learning from Danger

Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKT lives and practices in Santa Fe, NM. She specializes in feng shui and  mind body healing with family, environment and relationship clearing using Kinesiology, the Intuitive Learning Circles™, Reiki as a Master/Teacher, Hypnotherapy and Shamanic Clearing Techniques.

Schedule with Rheanni via Zoom, FaceTime or in person when you visit Santa Fe, New Mexico. Call her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, MST, Monday through Friday to schedule.


Disclaimer:
This Transformation Game should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment for any ailment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Staying Empowered Even When Things are Falling Apart

A Transformation Game To Help With Staying Empowered ~

Transformation Game - Staying EmpoweredDuring difficult times, staying empowered is essential to long term success. Social paradigms and relationships from the past are in various stages of falling apart and it’s important that you don’t fall apart along with them. You can recenter yourself and refocus your energy by going through this I Ching Reading* and Transformation Game from Kuan Yin.
To help you better connect with her assistance, she uses the Intuitive Learning Circles ™ to communicate with you through meditation, affirmations and visualization. Simply relax and gaze at the Circles while contemplating Kuan Yins words. Your intuition will come forward and give you the help that you seek.

Mind Body IntegrationMind Body Integration

For best results playing a Transformation Game, look at each Circle both crossed over the midline of the body and uncrossed so that the correction is more complete.

 

 


Welcome to the I Ching Reading and Transformation Game for The TOWER and Hexagram #23 – Deterioration

Transformation Game - Staying Empowered

Staying Empowered (even when things are falling apart) ~

“If you’re experiencing a situation where there’s a great deal of societal upheaval and discord, the situation may well be in the flow of the I Ching Hexagram #23 – DETERIORATION. Other signs or symptoms would include:

  • incompetence,
  • arguments,
  • blow ups and break ups,
  • power grabs or
  • illness due to being in a toxic environment.

If this fits what you’re going through, be extra cautious about how you spend your energy, time or money. Reckless expenditures, whether they be financial, emotional or spiritual, are much more likely to result in loss at this time. 

The best thing to do when dealing with deteriorating situations is to step back and get perspective from your Soul. Take care of yourself very sensibly and examine your reactions carefully. Be generous and kind to those you care about.

Remember that confusion is the ideal atmosphere for tricksters, abusers and despots. The ego runs rampant and doesn’t want to let go. Meditate, gather  and remind yourself that all things must end. There will eventually come a change for the better. 

If you deal with DETERIORATION with an attitude of revenge or resentment, you will deplete yourself by giving the situation more fuel, which is probably exactly the reaction your ego wants. Your good intentions are better served by keeping yourself centered and grounded. 

Here is some help through a Transformation Game called Staying Empowered.”

Gently gaze at the Intuitive Learning Circles™ one at a time and consider the question or affirmation that goes with each Step. This self-care process helps you to become aware of what’s bothering you, so that you can make a different choice about how to use your energy more productively and in tune with your Inner Guidance.

 Step 1:

What is a situation around you now that is in the flow of DETERIORATION? Trust the message that comes through from your deepest, wisest guidance.

 

Step 2:

What truth are you having trouble communicating in this situation?

RCK Throat Chakra Healing

 

Step 3:

What is the feeling that tends to pull you into that situation?

G 39 Emotional Healing

Once you’ve identified what you’re feeling, take a moment and relax into it.

“I accept that this feeling is present and that eventually it will change. All things change eventually.”

The more you relax and accept, the faster and easier it will be for you to make corrections on the deeper levels you’re looking for.

Step 4:

Epigenetic Healing - Divine Nature ActivatedThe next few symbols are from Divine Nature Activated and will help you release negative conditioning and stimulate some epigenetic healing. The key is to relax as much as possible while looking at each symbol. It can help to imagine that an old, broken DNA strand is falling apart while a vibrant and cohesive DNA strand is relaxing, healing and filling up with light.

When using these symbols, it’s important to relax and breathe as you use each affirmation:

“I let go of seeing myself as weak or powerless. I reclaim and maintain my connection to the Divine.”

 

 “I let go of rigid ideas that have changed or proven to be false. I don’t have to be right.” 

“I let go of needing to control the situation so that I can focus on solutions that are truthful and serve my highest good.”

 

“I let go of societal patterns of fear, violence and corruption. I hold the victory of love in mind.”

DNA - Guidance from Angelic Realms

 

“I see myself outside of the pattern of intolerance. I acknowledge and respect my fellow brothers and sisters.”

 

“I ask the Divine to lead me to common ground.”

 

Step 5:

Now that you’ve cleared that energy, ask your inner guidance:

“Are there any aspects of me that have become scattered or disempowered?”

If there are, call them back now.

 

Step 6:

It’s time to get more present and heart centered: 

“I am fully present inside my body. I organize my awareness around ________.”

 

“The light in my heart center is strong and radiating out into the world.”

If you’re having trouble, it can help to take several deep breaths. Inhale on the count of 4. Exhale on the count of six. Open and close your fingers. If you feel a strong emotion come up, go back to Step #4 and repeat the process of relaxing and dissipating the negative DNA patterns.

 

Step 7:

Now that you’re fully present, ask your deepest wisest guidance:

“What is an action I can take that will help me with staying empowered?”

Take as much time as you need to reorganize your thoughts and energy around positive action.

 

 Step 8:

Staying empowered is much easier when you don’t let things stick to you. Consciously let go of any issues that aren’t yours and peel off any sticky energy that comes from your deteriorating situation.

“I let go of whatever doesn’t belong to me. I send it back to where it needs to go to resolve itself.”

 

Step 9:

Dissolve destructive blueprints using these affirmations:

“I allow my mind to let go of any attachments to the past or the future that I’m still holding onto. I see those patterns like dark clouds dissolving into a clear, blue sky.”

“I dissolve negative templates, attitudes and behaviors that cause me harm.”

 

Step 10. AurasThis is the final step to your game, but it’s very important!

You will want to keep your auras close to your body whenever you want to stay empowered. That’s because your auras provide protection. When they’re strong and focused, they can repel toxicity and keep your energy from mixing up with other people.

So, to finish this game, gaze softly at this Circle for as long as you need to repair and refocus them. Use this affirmation if you like:

“My auras are very strong and focused. I naturally keep them close to my body.”

 

Congratulations!

Staying empowered is essential in times of DETERIORATION. Remember the transformation isn’t complete until you’ve taken the action you were guided to take in Step #7. If you like, you may go through this healing meditation again around other issues that are falling apart.  Be sure to rest though and take good care of yourself!


For More Help Navigating the Flow – Check Out Todays Intuitive Reading >

 

 


Rheanni Lightwater - Learning from Danger

Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKT lives and practices in Santa Fe, NM. She specializes in mind body healing with family and relationship clearing using Kinesiology, the Intuitive Learning Circles™, Reiki as a Master/Teacher, Hypnotherapy and Shamanic Clearing Techniques.

Schedule with Rheanni via Zoom, Skype or in person when you visit Santa Fe, New Mexico. Call her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, MST, Monday through Friday to schedule.


Disclaimer:
This Transformation Game should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment for any ailment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Trauma Resolution and Somatic Education Author

Rheanni Lightwater is an award winning author and somatic educator who has created a unique method for trauma resolution and teaching self-care called  the Intuitive Learning Circles™.

Rheanni Lightwater - trauma resolution and somatic educatorMs. Lightwater’s background is primarily in the creative arts and alternative health field utilizing Bio Somatic Education, Kinesiology, Hypnotherapy, Reiki, and Energy Medicine.

In 1991, Ms. Lightwater began her private practice in bodywork and massage and continued her interest in trauma resolution with Cranial Sacral Therapy, Lomi Lomi, BioSomatics and Structural Integration. Later, she received Certification in Hypnotherapy, Kinesiology and became a Master Teacher in Reiki, Karuna® Reiki and Grail Reiki.

As an Educator, Rheanni has taught extensively about mental, emotional and spiritual issues relating to trauma resolution, PTSD, soul retrieval and abuse.

Animal Totems for Inner GuidanceAs a result of studying the indigenous healing practices of Tibet, Japan, Hawaii and Peru, Ms. Lightwater developed a unique understanding of the subtle human energy field. During a visit to the Amazon in 2001, she participated in numerous ceremonies with the Shipibo shamans. Her experiences there gave birth to the Intuitive Learning Circles™ and other healing symbols. Soul Prayer Charts and Gifts from the Rainforest are the first two collections in the series.

In 2008, Ms. Lightwater received First Place in the New Age Category of the New Mexico Book Awards for her first edition of Soul Oriented Solutions. She has won awards numerous times since then.

Intuitive Learning Circles ™

Over the years, Rheanni has developed hundreds of healing symbols and researched various applications for them in medical clinics, detox centers, business settings, workshops, schoolrooms, online classes and in individual sessions. She has become an expert in helping people dealing with serious illnesses, heavy metal poisoning, chemical sensitivity, immune deficiency and a wide range of trauma and stress induced disorders. The positive response to the Circles show them to be very effective in shifting dysfunctional brain patterns in both children and adults, freeing them from destructive thoughts and behaviors that contribute to serious illness, learning difficulties and emotional distress.

In addition, Rheanni has instructed other Somatic Educators, Acupuncturists, Chiropractors, Yoga Instructors, Massage Therapists, Hypnotherapists, Naturopathic and Allopathic Physicians in Energy Medicine and how to develop their own clairvoyant skills.


Resolve for Somatic Educator

In her latest book, RESOLVE, Rheanni continues the Soul Oriented Solutions series with simple exercises that provide mental, emotional and spiritual resilience in times of uncertainty and radical change.

RESOLVE was named a winner in the New Mexico – Arizona Book Awards.

What the EXPERTS are saying:

“What I love about Rheanni’s approach is its simplicity. I don’t need to go to therapy for years or rehash trauma from the past to create positive change in my life. Instead I can look at a picture and read a short paragraph and then let life do the rest. Her methods only take about 5 minutes and are available to me at any time and in any place. They bring instant stress relief with long-term healing impact.”  ~ Pi Luna – Artist & Business Coach for Creatives

“Combining healing insights from many sources, Ms. Lightwater has created a system of powerful yet easy to use visualization tools that, used in conjunction with breathing and meditation prompts, allow both mind and body to relax, expand and generate positive energy…”  ~ Victoria Erhart, Reading New Mexico

“This process is like coming up from underwater and taking a fresh breath.” ~ Cornelia Sachs, Eutony Movement Practitioner

Whoever uses this work will find it beneficial for their growth in unfolding more of who they are. Old emotions come up as well as memories that need new perspectives, which the exercises handle beautifully.  In a way, they are washed away and lifted to higher grounds, leaving behind gifts of healing and new beginnings.” ~ D.G.Villena-Mata, Ph.D., Fellow and Diplomate in Traumatic Stress

See the entire collection of Ms. Lightwater’s work:


The Essential HumanSOS Soul Oriented SolutionsGifts from the Rainforest

RESOLVESoul Prayer Charts

Untangling Family Relationship Issues

Mind Exercise: Clearing Emotional Entanglements from Family Relationship Issues

Family Relationship IssuesEmotional entanglements that come from family relationship issues can be very stubborn and you may feel powerless to free yourself from them.

Sometimes there’s so much going on the dynamics of a person’s childhood, it seems impossible to let go of all the conditioning and allow something different to happen in adult life. 

However, there is a way through to free yourself and get some relief using the Intuitive Learning Circles™ and positive affirmations with your imagination.


Untangling Family Relationship Issues

Step One: Think about the relationship issues in your life that never seem to get better.  No matter what you do, the pattern just keeps returning over and over again. How frustrating! They could be relationships in love, friendship or career. They could be about communication, equality, finances, or access to power. Just about anything!

Use this Circle to help you visualize the nature of the issues from a larger perspective. Are you willing to finally learn from this situation and let it go?

If you are, how would you describe your experience?

You might want to quickly journal your answer to help you express it later through writing, art, music, movement or sharing your story with others. Go ahead and get a feeling for it.

Is there any kind of meddling, interference or co-dependance going on?

Family Relationship Issues - Meddling

If you can get a sense of what it is, write that down too.

 

Step Two: When dealing with any kind of pain, breathing always helps. Gaze softly at the Circle and breathe in on the count of three. One…two…three.
Exhale to the count of six. One…two…three…four…five…six.
Do this as many times as you like. Breathing in and letting go. 

Imagine that the pain around the relationship issues you’re dealing with is like a huge iceberg. Visualize it melting, moving and breaking apart until your energy relaxes. There may be more than one iceberg. Feel free to move at any time and in any way to help you embody your experience. Continue until you feel a palpable release of tension.

Use this Circle to help you clear away any debris or garbage that’s leftover after the ice has melted. You can imagine a broom (or shovel) just sweeping it all away to the Sun!

 

Step Three: In Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs, the second level needs are safety oriented. They include protection from the elements, security, order, law, stability and freedom from fear. Family relationship issues often involve these needs. Second level needs are primarily processed through the 2nd Chakra (located approximately 2 – 3 inches down from your navel).

Gaze softly at the Second Chakra Key below for a minute or so. Then ask yourself: “Are these relationship issues having a negative affect on my safety and security needs? Are they causing a problem in any of my current relationships? Are they interfering with my relationship with myself? Is my Second Chakra holding some of that energy?” 

Am I having difficulty accessing information, connection or trust? Do I need chakra healing here? if so, what would help me to bring my 2nd Chakra in balance?

 

Step Four: Empower your needs and your ability to manifest your highest good. Imagine you can open your heart and get connected to your Divine Power. Take all the time that you need (and be sure you gaze at the symbol both crossed and uncrossed over the midline of your body for greater mind/body integration).

“I exist and am able to resolve these issues within myself.”

 

Step Five: Now we’re going to clear some emotional entanglements around this situation. Meditate on the Circle below and imagine that you’re on your path, looking to create healthy relationships, yet for some reason, you can’t see your way. Perhaps the path is blank, crowded or dark or has you feeling anxious and unsafe. Maybe it’s filled with junk, obstructions or debris. Maybe it doesn’t seem to be there at all! How frustrating it is to feel like this when you would really like to have things be different for you now!

Ask yourself, “What do I need to do to make my path clear?” Gather up unconscious information.

 

 

It may help to bring your senses into balance. 

“I reclaim and balance my five senses.”

“I focus them to be aware of my path and my current needs around relationships.”

“I use them to perceive how I sabotage myself in my relationships and what I need to let go of.”

“I open my senses to possible solutions, resources, opportunities and _________.”

 

The Essential HumanStep Six: Let’s suppose that by going through the following sequence of symbols from The Essential Human, you’ll be able clear up your path and see what you need to do to help yourself.

 

Look at this symbol for a few moments and imagine that you’re untangling a messy string of lights that could light up your path. Stay with it until the lights are all straightened out and ready to be hung.

 

 

Imagine that your path is blocked with dozens of little children fighting and bullying each other. As you look at this symbol, imagine that you’re ringing a bell or blowing a horn. As if awakened from a nightmare, the children change their demeanor. Some start to play quietly with each other. Some leave entirely and some of them come up to you and say “hi” nicely.

 

Now you’re walking through a garden party where lots of couples are dancing.  Suddenly, the center of the garden is filled with a pile of wriggling snakes, ruining everyone’s time! Use the symbol and ring the bell again. You can see the snakes disappearing into thin air. If there are any openings that the snakes got in through, see them close completely. Life has returned to the party!

 

Now imagine that you come upon a library that represents all the information your family uses to create relationships. Use this symbol to detach from the denial, the resistance, the lies and neglect around your family’s relationship issues.  Use this affirmation to clear away any falsehood:

“I remove all false information. I now perceive the truth about me.”  

“I reclaim my________, ________, ________, etc.”

 

Look at the Circle and ask your heart, “Am I present and in my own heart space? Or am I somewhere else?

Consciously decide to be present, in your own body, your own heart space, using your own energy.

 

Look at this Circle and ask yourself, “Am I accessing my own karma or someone else’s to create relationships? Has someone dumped their karma on me? Is someone accessing my karma without my permission?”

 

Affirm to yourself: “I decide to use only my karma to create my relationships. I naturally deflect and repel other people’s karma and return it to them.

“I reclaim my karma. I am on my own path and in charge of how my karma is used.”

 

“Since I don’t know how this suffering came to be, I let it go and forgive all transgressions.”

 

Step Seven: Now that you’ve cleared some major entanglements and karma, it’s time to address any assumptions, misunderstandings or harmful decisions that might affect you going forward. Begin by adjusting the volume to your senses. Some may be turned up too high or some too low. 

“I see things as they really are.”

“I see my path as it really is.”

 

Relax and let go of any harmful assumptions that come to you through your family or ancestral line.

 

From this new perspective, what did you misunderstand about relationships?What did you decide about yourself and others?

What would you like to change? Be sure to write your new decisions down, so that you’ll remember.

 

Step Eight: With this symbol, imagine the all the obstructions and misunderstandings dissolving away until your pathway for healthy relationships is completely clear. Do that both crossed and uncrossed.

 

Step Nine: Put it all together now. How has this exercise changed your awareness? 

What might you do differently now to create the relationships you really want?

 

Make an agreement with yourself to follow through on the information you’ve gained through this exercise. Then close the door on all pathways that might lead you back to suffering.

“All doors are sealed and healed.”

“I follow the direction of healthy protection.”

 

Finally, check in with your Second Chakra again for a minute or so. Ask yourself: “Is the original relationship issue still having a negative affect on my safety and security needs? Is my Second Chakra holding energy from that situation now?”

“Does my chakra need balancing now? Do I need Epigenetic Healing from Divine Nature Activated? What else might help me?”

 

Congratulations! You have made some progress with emotional healing and entanglements from your family relationships. The next time you encounter the issue, notice if the dynamics have changed for you.

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