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Do the Right Thing – Conflict Resolution
How To Do the Right Thing and Turn Things Around
Do you ever have the feeling that you’re about to do something that you’ll regret? Do you get concerned that you’re not doing something that you really ought to do? If you could straighten out your thinking and do the right thing, what would it be?
You can help yourself find emotional healing by taking this quick relationship quiz…
You may be having difficulty interacting with relationships around you because of mixed messages or unresolved issues from your past. By taking the time to go within and find out what your thinking really is, you can understand what’s motivating you and take action to resolve the situation.
Help Me Do The Right Thing!
Note: This exercise is associated with the I Ching Hexagrams #6 CONFLICT, #38 CONTRADICTION and #43 RESOLUTION:
The way to play this game is to relax and breathe deeply while you meditate on the questions and suggestions that accompany the Circles. This first one will help you to slow down and let yourself focus on one thing at a time.
“I slow down and relax.”
“I am able to focus on my priorities.”
Once you’re relaxed, go through the rest of the quiz in the same way – asking yourself the questions while you gaze softly at the accompanying Circle. Take your time, the answers might not come right away. The Circles are helping your mind to clear away mental and emotional clutter.
“What do I want to do?”
“Am I holding onto a past decision that’s in CONFLICT with what I really want to do now? If so, can I tell what it is?”
“What is my motivation here? Is there an agreement I have with myself or anyone else involved that’s causing a conflict?”
“What do I need to do to remain loyal to myself?”
“What things have I been thinking to myself about this situation?”
“Is that really true?
Do I need to amend my thinking in some way?
What might help me respond better in this situation?”
“What would help me connect better with my Soul so that I can do the right thing?”
Sometimes the CONFLICTING energy around us contributes to glitches or reversal in our energy fields. Use this Correction Key to smooth out any rough energy.
Keep relaxing until you can begin to feel the calming energy of your Soul coming through.
Once you’ve got a better connection, contemplate your situation again.
“What is the real danger here? How am I getting thrown off?”
Is there a fear or some kind of emotional distress involved?
Am I picking up someone else’s situation or my own?
If there is and you have a copy of The Essential Human, you might want to go through the Emotional Corrections A – E on pps. 97 – 101 to clear it up.
“I take responsibility for handling my own part in this situation.”
“I let other people handle their own part.”
Is there something that you need to manage better or think about differently?
Do you need to shine some light on a real solution?
Do you need to re-examine your motivations?
If so, imagine that you can do just that!
Continue your inquiry:
“Am I anticipating a problem? What am I afraid will happen?”
Relax for a few minutes and let the Circle help you calm down with this affirmation: “I relax and let go of any fears. I’m open to a positive outcome.”
Are you holding onto a family assumption or expectation that you need to let go of? If so, relax and let go of any entanglements.
“I let go of harmful assumptions and expectations.”
“I let go of family pattens of CONFLICT and CONTRADICTION.”
“What do I need to do for this to change for the better?”
“Is there something that would be best for me to refrain from doing?”
Release any old agreements, assumptions or grudges that could be keeping this CONFLICT going. Visualize them like contracts, burning up into nothingness.
“I let go of outdated agreements, assumptions, contradictions, compulsions, obsessions or taking things personally.”
“I let go of the need to hold onto the conflict in this situation.”
Make some new agreements that support a healthy resolution, like:
“My Soul is in charge. I accept and forgive myself for what I’ve done in the past. I choose my words wisely now.”
“I decide to accept the other party as they are and respond appropriately.”
“I decide to use the cooperative, life affirming energies of the New Paradigm to RESOLVE this situation effectively.” Etc.
Make a RESOLUTION to overcome your difficulties by making progress in a unified and productive direction. Gently formulate some positive affirmations about how you can follow through now and do things in a way that will really benefit you. Write them down so you remember to follow through! For example:
“I make a RESOLUTION to relax and grow in the direction of my general good.”
“Am I willing to do what would be required for this to change in a positive, meaningful way?”
If you are willing, gather up your Soul resources and Free Will.
If you’re not, this is a good opportunity to explore what’s happening.
Let your Throat Chakra open and balance out so it can support your words in your new RESOLUTION.
After all, saying the right thing and doing the right thing are inter-related!
Next, let your thinking balance out and support you in your new RESOLUTION.
Keep relaxing between these two chakras until you can clearly see yourself taking the appropriate actions. Remember that actions speak louder than words!
It’s time to bring RESOLUTION to the various mental and emotional behaviors that have fed your CONFLICT. Use this symbol to dissolve destructive blueprints that have been causing you harm.
“I release the mental/emotional patterns of reacting out of fear, obligation, dread, revenge or disdain.”
“I dissolve the underlying patterns of worry, guilt or ___________ and send them to the Light.”
Take your time and visualize them dissolving like dark clouds into the pure, light of the Sun.
Please note: Never send destructive energies into the Earth, she already has too much to handle now. Use the Earth for planting seeds of happiness and life – not death!
Once the patterns are dissolved in your mind, seal and heal any leaks or attachments that may lead you back into CONFLICT.
“All holes are sealed and healed. All pathways that lead to CONTRADICTIONS and CONFLICT are closing.”
“I follow the direction of my Soul’s protection and intended path.”
Congratulations!
It isn’t always easy to do the right thing in relationships, yet if you’re willing to make a change for the better – anything is possible!
This Mind Exercise is Part of Animal Totem Tracks for Self-healing
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Transformation Games have been put together by Rheanni Lightwater, CHT, CKP.
Long distance intuitive readings are available with Rheanni (Ray-ah-nee). Call her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, Monday through Friday to schedule.
Disclaimer:
Do the Right Thing should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment of any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.
Beginning Reiki in Santa Fe
Beginning Reiki in Santa Fe is about Self-healing. Join us for Reiki Attunements and Trainings:
Activate your self-healing abilities and integrate body, spirit and mind with Reiki in Santa Fe. Learn about the history of Reiki and the Usui Lineage using self-treatments and chakra healing so that you can take care of yourself everyday!
Rheanni Lightwater has been a Reiki Master/Teacher since 2000 and always includes an advanced chakra activation and integration to prepare you for your beginning Reiki Attunement.
Beginning Reiki in Santa Fe is a 1 day training where you receive your First Degree Attunement, explore the history of Reiki, and learn how to give yourself a Reiki treatment to balance your chakras and subtle energy field.
Investment: $250.00
In addition, you will receive mentoring and a copy of Rheanni’s award winning self-healing manual, Reiki Chakra Keys that will help you clear emotional and energy blockages while you develop your intuition.
Reiki Chakra Keys and Online Mentoring are Available Separately
Rheanni makes it a practice to meet with all prospective students beforehand to make certain that she is a good fit as a Reiki instructor and that the student understands how the Attunement process works.
Call for your free, initial consultation with Rheanni: 505-271-4612 or email [email protected]
What interested beginning Reiki students should know…
Reiki is not taught in the way other healing techniques are, it’s transferred to the student by the Reiki Master through a ceremonial Attunement/initiation process. We believe that this process must be done in person and under the correct circumstances for the Attunement to be passed to the student successfully. Each Reiki practitioner and Reiki Master will attract to him/her those people of like vibration. Therefore, it’s recommended that you meet with and trust whomever you’ve chosen to attune you. All attunements from Soul Resources LLC are done in person.
The attunement process opens your crown, heart and palm chakras to the life force healing energy available, thus creating a link between you and the Reiki Source. In our practice, that link is your Higher Self.
The Reiki Attunement is a powerful spiritual experience, which may assist in personal growth and transformation. Self-healing and your highest good is the priority and when you heal yourself .
A true Reiki attunement will remain with you for life, whether you consciously use it or not. Your intuition and spiritual energies may become more focused as you advance through the different levels. Be aware: an Attunement may induce a cleansing process of body and mind.
USUI REIKI, GRAIL REIKI and REIKI – DO SOUTH AFRICA
Reiki is dynamic and constantly evolving. The Japanese word “DO” means a “way” or lifestyle and we believe that Reiki is a life-style. This lifestyle incorporates the Reiki Ideals of Dr. Usui and the individual’s need for their own spiritual growth.
The Reiki ideals are as follows:
Higher sources as well as one’s own Higher Self guide Reiki energy. Tune into this source and trust your intuition.
As we work on healing ourselves, we help to heal others and our planet, this is true empowerment.
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If you’re interested in Reiki, you might enjoy this Transformation Game with Reiki Deva, Kuan Yin – Chakra Balancing with Reiki!
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How Well Are You Nourishing Yourself?
Evaluate How You’re Nourishing Yourself in the New Paradigm ~
Kuan Yin has been helping us through these I Ching Readings to transition from the old economic paradigm based on greed and fear to a new paradigm of co-operation and balanced prosperity. Today, her advice about NOURISHING comes from the I Ching, an ancient book of divination that follows the flow of the cosmos. Because of that, her advice and instruction comes from a different perspective than ours.
To help you better connect with her assistance, she uses the Intuitive Learning Circles to communicate with you through meditation, affirmations and visualization. Here’s an example that could help you tune into how your nourishing yourself:
“I reclaim and balance my five senses.”
“I focus them to be aware of my own body and how I’m taking care of myself.”
“I gain clear awareness of what beneficial energies and actions could nourish me in present time.”
“I become aware of blockages and new ways to remedy them.”
MIND BODY INTEGRATION
For best results playing a Transformation Game, look at each Circle both crossed over the midline of the body and uncrossed so that the correction is more complete.
Kuan Yin’s I Ching Readings and Transformation Games can help you to identify problems, change your focus to positive solutions, ground yourself and get in the present. Simply relax and gaze at the Circles while contemplating Kuan Yins words. Your intuition will come forward and give you the help that you seek.
Welcome to the I Ching Reading and Transformation Game for: Hexagram # 27 – Nourishing
Did you know that your body knows a lot about what it needs and how well you’re nourishing yourself?
Part One: Physical and Emotional Nourishment
For example, your Second Chakra is deeply connected to your emotions, your digestion and immunity. It has a lot of information about how you’re NOURISHING yourself on these levels and what you might do to improve. However, during times of high stress or illness, communication can get blocked from your conscious awareness, making it hard to hear what your body is trying to tell you. Take a moment and relax with this Reiki Chakra Key for your Second Chakra to help you tune in and listen. Use the affirmations if they help or come up with one of your own.
“I allow free flowing, life affirming energy to nourish my Second Chakra.”
“I get clear information about my health and how well I’m nourishing myself.”
There are several ways that the Second Chakra can get blocked. One is inappropriate nourishment. Perhaps you’re eating the wrong foods for you at this time or you could be taking in toxic elements from your environment, including pollution, chemicals, electro-magnetics, illness or other harmful energies.
See if this Circle can help you bring your awareness in to check for those energies. Yes or no, are you picking up:
Any foods that are causing problems?
A problem in the water you’re drinking?
Something in the air that you’re breathing?
Disturbing frequencies, electro-magnetics, chemicals, illness or
other harmful energies?
Make notes for yourself so that you don’t forget and can do some research.
You may need to clear your primary chakras of harmful electro-magnetic frequencies. If so, go here>
There might be some kind of karmic entanglement, an emotional conflict or outright danger in your environment. Could any of those issues be present for you right now?
Could you be trying to process somebody else’s emotions?
If so, ask yourself a few pertinent questions:
What would be the purpose in processing someone else’s emotions?
Is continuing to nourish yourself in this way a good idea?
How long has it been going on?
How much damage has been done?
Are you ready and willing to put a stop to it now?
Your Second Chakra could also get blocked if you’re over-indulging in something that’s generally good for you when taken in moderate amounts.
To better determine if something like that is happening with you, experiment with Sloth, one of our favorite Intuitive Learning Circles for slowing down and focusing on what’s really important. Use this medicine to focus in on how you are nourishing yourself.
“I slow down and turn my attention towards my basic needs.”
So, How Are You Currently Seeing Your Needs?
You can use Maslov’s Hierarchy of Needs as a model to help you assess your priorities. Are they in balance?
The triangle may be upside down, distorted or out of focus. The levels could be out of order or a level could be missing entirely. It might not even seem that it fits at all! Use the symbol to the upper right corner of the pyramid to help you set things right.
“I set things right so that how I nourish myself physically and emotionally actually fits my current needs.”
You may need to change some agreements about how you prioritize your needs. For example, you might have an unconscious agreement to sacrifice your health or wellbeing for others. Or, you may have a tendency to cut yourself off from genuinely helpful people and resources. Of course, you may choose to do that. However, it’s a different matter if you’re inadvertently harming yourself against your will! See any agreements that contradict your highest good burning up in a beautiful violet flame.
“I release all agreements to revert back to the past or harmful ways of being.”
“I let go of martyrdom or sacrificing any part of my health or wellbeing.”
“I decide to connect with genuine help and find better ways to take care of myself.”
Make other new agreements that would be helpful to you now…
“It would benefit me to ______________.”
Please note: There have been a lot of changes in the general energy and in how we need to adapt to it. Old ways of functioning are passing out of existence and other, more beneficial ways need to be strengthened. This is a good time to release your agreements with those old ways as well…
“I release all agreements to nourish or support the patriarchal imprint of control, hatred, exploitation and inequality.”
“I decide to strengthen and nourish the Common Good based on Common Ground.”
“I close down harmful energy channels that drain my vitality, like no win situations, assumptions and diminishing returns.”
“My mind and body are open and clear to receive generative life force.”
“I release all agreements to source from or attach to the channel of fear, greed and revenge.”
“I now source from and integrate with Joy and Gratitude.”
Now that you’ve made those updates, you’re ready to continue…
Evaluate How You Are Nourishing Yourself.
Now that your priorities are clearer, you can get more accurate information about how to nourish yourself. If you follow the directions, you can get all kinds of answers that could really help out. All you have to do is relax and gaze softly at the center open space of this Circle while you ask yourself a few questions.
Use a scale of one to ten to evaluate what’s going on (one being lousy and ten being great!). Be sure to listen to your body and be receptive to the answers that come.
Use a scale of “One” to “Ten”:
“How am I nourishing myself nutritionally? Am I taking in too much of something? Is there something I’m not getting enough of? Is there something I need to put some LIMITATIONS on?
What about how I’m emotionally nourishing myself?
What about nourishing my spiritual connection?
Am I giving myself positive, helpful mental input?
How well am I taking care of my body’s needs for exercise, rest, fresh air?”
Use this Symbol to Consciously Bring in Your Soul’s Unique Energy Signature.
“I relax and align myself with the true signature and imprint of my Soul.”
“I clear away imprints that obscure who I really am, like old graffiti markings.”
“I recognize my true signature, just as I recognize my signature on a document.”
Continue Your Evaluation and Consciously Put Together a New Awareness.
Bring together the puzzle pieces that come directly from your Soul. For help, ask yourself:
“Am I missing anything? What could I really use?”
“What do I need to do to put this all together?”
“What is the best way to proceed?”
Keep crossing and uncrossing your arms or legs until some clear guidance comes. Also, make a note of the guidance that comes so that you don’t forget.
Complete Part One:
Energetically Clear Out Your 2nd Chakra.
Take all the time you need.
“I clear out any unwanted or harmful energies.”
“I give myself an energy boost!”
Connect with New, Life Affirming Channels of Communication.
Install this symbol like a sort of filter for the Second Chakra.
“I adapt to the generative flow of chi’ available
in the New Paradigm to the best of my ability.”
“I close down harmful energy channels from the past.”
“I connect to new, life affirming channels of communication.”
Congratulations! You’ve just set the stage to let go of harmful energies and emotions and begin moving in the direction of NOURISHING yourself appropriately. Be sure to take time to rest and integrate this process. Take a walk or get out into nature if you can!
In this first part, we’ve aimed to clear things up enough for you to get a general picture of how you’re nourishing yourself and what you need to do to improve your experience.
In the Part 2 we’re going to take a look at how some of your projects are nourishing you!
This Mind Exercise is Part of Animal Totem Tracks for Self-healing
Find out about Intuition Training for Personal Growth with us!
You are invited to Sign Up for the Intuitive Learning Circle Ezine
Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKT lives and practices in Santa Fe, NM. She specializes in mind body healing with family and relationship clearing using Kinesiology, the Intuitive Learning Circles, Reiki as a Master/Teacher, Hypnotherapy and Shamanic Clearing Techniques.
Schedule with Rheanni via Zoom or in person when you visit Santa Fe, New Mexico. Call her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, MST, Monday through Friday to schedule.
Disclaimer:
This game should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment of any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.
