Reduce Confusion

Do You Need to Reduce Confusion?

Welcome to an energy clearing that uses the Intuitive Learning Circles to help you set things right and reduce confusion by releasing and/or renegotiating key Soul Contracts and agreements.


If you are in the process of changing your career, where you live, your relationships or your priorities, you’re finding out how much energy old identities hold and how hard it can be to let them go. The stories we hold about ourselves are powerful and hold a lot of energy.

Perhaps you’re a Mom and the kids have left home. Maybe the career you invested in is no longer relevant. You may have retired or decided that the whole way you’ve been doing relationships is harmful to your well being.

So often, when we want a change, we want it to happen quickly!

However, it’s easy to forget that you had agreements around those relationships and activities. They literally structured how you went about your day. The memories and intentions that came with them helped you generate your life up until this point and have become part of your identity. That identity could also have roots in past life or ancestral experiences. Regardless of how they got there, they are all important and need to be tended to, even the difficult ones!

To Reduce Confusion it’s important to examine Soul Contracts and other agreements to see if they need to be either:

  • Kept
  • Released completely or
  • Re-negotiated to adjust to what’s needed now.

You may say, “I don’t have time for this right now. I need to move on. It doesn’t really matter, does it?” Yes, it does matter, because you matter. Your relationships matter. What you do matters. If you just barge forward into what you want to do now, without handling your agreements, you’re going make things harder for everyone – especially yourself. If you are willing to slow down just a little, and do it now rather than later, you can free up a lot of repressed or suppressed energy. Even more importantly, you’ll be amazed at how much conflict and confusion you can bypass altogether!

When you can be fully present and without attachments to the old story, whatever your future holds will have much less baggage.

Reduce ConfusionA wise person once said, “when one door closes, another one opens.” and  “what you put out, comes back to you.” The principles behind negotiating healthy agreements absolutely concur with those ideas. The intention of this mind exercise is to acknowledge who you’ve been by saying goodbye with respect so that you are truly free and open to create your new identity!

In this experience, you’re going to create a ceremony for reducing confusion and preparing for a prosperous new beginning by using your imagination, intuition and common sense to paint the picture. All you need to do is relax and gaze softly at the Circles while you follow the directions that go along with each one. Bring along a piece of paper and something to write on or draw with.


Mind Body Integration

Mind Body Integration - Self-care for loss

For best results, look at each symbol both crossed over the midline of your body and uncrossed so that the correction is more complete.

Feel free to move at anytime in any way to help you embody your experience!


Begin by bringing in your Soul and Higher Self to oversee the process of tending your agreements.

Old Soul

 

Breathe deeply and open up communication with your heart and Soul. Doing this will help you to know what’s truly important to you about making this transition safely.

 

The Importance of Agreements

The mind works through agreements. Transitioning out of an identity and setting up a new life goes so much easier when you release agreements with the parts of your life that are over and done with.

That includes the contracts or agreements around relationships: the people, the places and the organizations that you’re going to be moving away from. Those relationships may not be over, but surely they are going to change! Free up your energy with this Circle and let go of those agreements.

“I let go of all Soul Agreements that are complete – over and done with.”

See old debts, vows and resentments burn up like old contracts in a beautiful, violet flame.

If you’ve completed an important project with a person, an organization or a special place, acknowledge it by releasing that contract into the fire. This would include places you used to live in, raising any children, building a career, finishing school or being in a relationship of any kind.

You have completed that project successfully and what you did with that mattered!

 

You also have agreements with yourself that need to be released or renegotiated in order to reduce confusion about who you are.

You may have made an agreement with yourself about yourself when you were  younger. You may have given way your power, your space or even your body! If those agreements are still operating somewhere in your psyche, you can release them now with this Circle.

Your nervous system holds the energy of those agreements. To let go, start at the bottom of the line and the bottom of your spine.

As you move up, you can imagine a lock unlocking – freeing each vertebrae from the chains of outdated, oppressive agreements – all the way up to the top of your spine. Be sure to do that both crossed and uncrossed. Here’s some suggestions:

“I let go of being abused, confused, disrespected. My Soul is in charge.” 

I release agreements that interfere with my productivity and self-confidence.” “I decide that my body and mind is no longer a place for _______ or ________.” Etc. You get the idea!

 

Reduce Confusion by “Setting Things Right”.

A helpful metaphor for setting things right is to think of your life like a puzzle. That puzzle consists of many pieces – like your karma and other aspects of your Soul or Essential Self, including various skills, dreams, talents and gifts.

If you don’t have all your puzzle pieces or if you’ve gotten your pieces mixed up in someone else’s puzzle, things won’t fit correctly.

Think about it. If you have a box of puzzle pieces from five different puzzles, it’s going to be very difficult to discern what really needs to happen. Until you set things right, you will be confused and unable to put it all together.

Use these positive affirmations to help you set things right:
“My life is a puzzle that I’m putting together. I’m willing to set things right.”

“I decide to release any piece that does not belong with me and call back the pieces that do. I decide that everyone can easily make the changes their Soul’s want to make.”

 

Open and Balance Your Third Chakra.

Relax and let your 3rd Chakra get connected, open and balanced at your solar plexus (the area where your ribs go up in the front).

Your Essential Self is most efficiently located there to help you manifest, create happiness and maintain health.

In stressful times, it’s pretty common for the Essential Self to get closed off, misplaced or dissociated. You can correct that now.

 

Now You’re Ready to Clear Up Old Baggage.

With this new awareness, you can go into more detail. Consciously let go of anything that doesn’t really belong to you and needs to be returned. A lot of this is energetic in nature so, it’s best to imagine those things going to the Light. If you think of something that you actually, physically need to return to someone, make a note of it and plan to return it.

“I decide to reduce confusion by returning anything that belongs to someone else. That includes their confusion! All debts and confusions are set right.”

Do that both crossed and uncrossed.

 

Establish Autonomy.

You can do the same with people. Maybe there are a few people that still cling to you for reasons of their own. It could be neediness, fear, anger,  jealousy, co-dependence or any kind of pain and suffering. They need their energy, so send  it back to wherever it belongs so that everyone is free to move on.

 

Establish Reciprocity.

As part of setting things right, you need to reciprocate. For example, there could be some people that you cling to as well. You will want to reclaim your authority by recalling all parts and/or functions that have attached to others and really belong with you.

“I call back all parts of myself that have attached to others.”

Include your personal power, your energy, dreams, special abilities, talents and gifts. You will need these things as you move into your new identity.

Note: If you’re willing to take back any harmful intentions, grudges or resentments, you’ll be doing everyone a favor – especially you! Remember, what you put out comes back to you, so it’s in your own best interests to put those conflicts to rest.

 

Heal the Wounds.

Use this chart to relax and mend any wounds that are associated with setting things right. Like a healing balm, imagine that a loving coat of peace and comfort is pouring down over you.

 

 

Now It’s Time to Call Back Your Essence.

This is like a Soul Retrieval. Use this chart to call back all parts of your Essence that may have gotten lost or fragmented along the way in your life.

“I reclaim my Essence with appreciation and gratitude.”

Energy Medicine for the New Paradigm

Note: It’s worth it to recall any special places you released your agreements with. A fragmented part of yourself could very likely be wandering around in those places. Call them back so that you can live in wholeness!

 

Get Grounded and Centered in your Solar Plexus Chakra.

Your Essential Self functions best when it’s unified and positioned in your Solar Plexus Chakra. Envision your Self standing upright and facing forward to enhance your gut instinct.

 

Clear Destructive Emotional or Mental Patterns.

Dissolve any harmful mental or emotional patterns with this symbol. See those attachments or behavioral structures like a large cloud bank that you can consciously send to the Light. See them dissolve into pure sunlight – the darkness all gone.

The Light can safely transmute, transform and complete this stage of your journey.

 

When One Door Closes, Another One Opens.

Before moving on, bring completion to this process. Let this Circle help you close those old doors and pathways so that you can reduce confusion and your new path can become clear.

“All old doors, holes or pathways are sealed and healed.

I follow the direction of healthy protection.” 

 

Download Important Soul Information.

Next, take a deep breath and relax your body. Allow your Soul to download its resources – its wisdom and insight for your journey:

“I am filled with the wisdom of my spirit.”

This is a good time to move around and stretch if you want to.

Express Gratitude.

Finally! Thank all the people, places and experiences that have been a part of your life. Whether you liked them or not, they have helped you become who you are today.

This is a good time to find and follow through on a simple action that you know will help you reduce confusion and move on.


Rheanni Lightwater

Rheanni Lightwater is a Reiki Master, Hypnotherapist and Medical Intuitive who specializes in Past Life Clearing and Soul Retrieval in Santa Fe NM. She also serves the Albuquerque, Rio Rancho and surrounding New Mexico area. Rheanni can work with you online through Zoom or FaceTime. 

Call to make your appointment today:


Disclaimer:
This Mind Exercise should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Saying Goodbye to a Longtime Home

Are you Moving and Need Help Saying Goodbye?

Welcome to a space clearing that uses Feng Shui and the Intuitive Learning Circles for saying goodbye with respect and without attachment.

If you are in the process of moving, you may be surprised how hard saying goodbye to the place you called “home” is.

Home is so much more than a building. It includes the people, the community, the memories and intentions that have helped you generate your life up until this point. They are all important, whether you liked them or not!

You may say, “I don’t have time for this right now. I’ve got to get moved out. I’ll do it later.” Or, you might be involved in a longer transition and say, “My old house is going to become a rental or sold later. I don’t have to deal with that now.”

It’s also possible that you simply need to leave behind some old memories or ways of being so you can gather yourself more fully into the present.

Whatever your situation, going through a renegotiation and space clearing like this now, rather than later, will make your whole transition so much easier. Not only that, if you can be fully present and without attachments, whatever your future holds will have much less baggage and confusion.

A wise person once said, “when one door closes, another one opens.” The principles and customs of Feng Shui absolutely concur with that sentiment. The intention of this exercise is to facilitate that movement by saying goodbye with respect. That way, your mind is clear and you are truly free – open to embrace your future, whatever that involves!


Saying Goodbye ~

In this mind exercise, we are going to create a ceremony for saying goodbye and preparing for a prosperous new beginning by using our imaginations to paint the picture! All you need to do is relax and gaze softly at the Circles while you follow the directions that go along with each one. Bring along a piece of paper and something to write on or draw with.

Mind Body Integration

Mind Body Integration - Self-care for loss

For best results, look at each symbol both crossed over the midline of your body and uncrossed so that the correction is more complete.

Feel free to move at anytime in any way to help you embody your experience!


Begin by bringing in your Soul and Higher Self to oversee the process of saying goodbye.

Old Soul

 

Breathe deeply and open up communication with your heart and Soul. Doing this will help you to know what’s truly important to you about making about this transition.

 

The Importance of Agreements

The mind works through agreements. Saying goodbye and setting up a new life goes so much easier when you release all agreements with  the parts of your life that are over and done with.

Mentally release your Soul contracts or agreements around this building and any past significant buildings in your life. Visualize actual contracts with the property, the land, the city and the community and burn all that is over and done with. Include the people and organizations that you’re saying goodbye to. These relationships may not be over, but surely they are going to change! Use this Circle to let go of those agreements.

“I let go of all Soul Agreements that are complete – over and done with.”

See old debts, vows and resentments burn up like old contracts in a beautiful violet flame.

If you have completed a project in this home, acknowledge it by letting that contract be released into the fire.

This would include raising children, building a career, being in relationship of any kind.

Saying goodbye is a conscious acknowledgment of what has been important to you.

 

Pull up any energetic stakes or ties that you may have planted on your turf.

Note: This process may happen incrementally, depending on your timeline for moving…

Begin with your current home and the land it’s on. What was your original intention when you moved into this place? It’s very helpful to uproot any completed or outdated intentions and send them to the Light, so that something different can happen more easily.

Once you do that, you may notice that you still have ties to other places you’ve lived, especially childhood homes. Now is a excellent time to pull up those stakes as well. If you can engage your imagination and see those stakes going to the Light, your move forward will be much easier!

Next, expand your awareness to other places that have been special to you in your environment – favorite or significant places like restaurants, parks, schools, even doctors offices. You will be able to tell when you’re ready to address a particular attachment because you will feel that pull – that painful tug on your heart.

You can uproot your attachment and feel even better about all these places. That’s because you can now connect with them through Love rather than suffering and pain.

Clear Your Baggage and Set Things Right.

With this new awareness, you can consciously let go of anything that would be better to not take with you.  Of course that means physical objects like furniture, clothes and accessories, however, a lot of baggage is energetic in nature.

Preparing to move is an excellent time to set things right emotionally and spiritually. You’d be surprised how moving can bring up other issues or problems that aren’t really yours and need to be returned. When that happens, it’s best to imagine those things going to the Light. If you think of something that you actually physically need to return to someone, make a note of it and plan to return it.

“I return anything that belongs to someone else. All debts and confusions are set right.”

 

You can do the same with people. Maybe there are a few people that still cling to you for reasons of their own. It could be neediness, anger,  jealousy, co-dependence or any kind of pain and suffering. It’s time to firmly send them back to wherever they came from, so that the both of you are free to move on.

 

Gather Up Your Power

As part of setting things right, you need to reciprocate. For example, there could be some people that you are clinging to as well! You will want to reclaim your authority by recalling all parts and functions that belong with you. You don’t want to leave things behind that other people will have to deal with. Use this affirmation to help you:

“I call back all energetic parts of myself so that I can move forward in wholeness.”

Include your personal power, special abilities, talents and gifts. If you can take back any harmful intentions, grudges or resentments, you’ll be doing everyone a favor – especially you!

 

Now It’s Time to Call Back Your Essence.

This is like a Soul Retrieval. Use this chart to call back all parts of your Essence that may have gotten lost or fragmented during your life in this home (or anywhere else, for that matter).

“I reclaim my Essence with appreciation and gratitude.”

Energy Medicine for the New Paradigm

Note: It’s worth it to recall those special places you released your agreements with. A fragmented part of yourself could very likely be wandering around in those places. Call them back so that you can live in wholeness!

 

Get Grounded and Centered in your Solar Plexus Chakra.

Your Essential Self functions best when it’s unified and positioned in your Solar Plexus Chakra. Envision your Self standing upright and facing forward to enhance your gut instinct.

Clear Destructive Emotional or Mental Patterns.

Dissolve any harmful mental or emotional patterns with this symbol. See those attachments like a large cloud bank that you can consciously send to the Light or see them dissolve into pure sunlight – the darkness all gone.

Let the Sun safely transmute, transform and complete this stage of your journey.

Please note: It’s very helpful to use both of the symbol above and below to clear the entire space while you’re smudging with your favorite cleansing plants, woods or resins.

If there’s been any illness, loss or disease involved with your environment, use this symbol to send that energy to the Light as well.

When One Door Closes, Another One Opens.

Before moving on, bring completion to the process of saying goodbye. Let this Circle help you close those old doors and pathways so that your new path can become clear.

“All old doors, holes or pathways are sealed and healed.

I follow the direction of healthy protection.” 

 

Express Gratitude.

Finally! Thank all the people, places and experiences that have been a part of your life. They have helped you create who you are today.

This is a good time to find and follow through on a simple action that will mark the end of Saying Goodbye.


Rheanni Lightwater

Rheanni Lightwater is a Reiki Master, Hypnotherapist and Medical Intuitive who specializes in Space Clearing and Feng Shui in Santa Fe NM. She also serves the Albuquerque, Rio Rancho and surrounding New Mexico area. Rheanni can work with you online through Zoom or FaceTime. 

Call to make your appointment today:


Disclaimer:
This Mind Exercise should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Take Good Care of Yourself Through Moderation

During this pandemic, we’re all learning what we need to do to take good care of ourselves. The path of MODERATION is often the key.

Rheanni Lightwater
Rheanni Lightwater Reiki Master Teacher Medical Intuitive

There is no shortage of information and advice out there about what we should and should not do to take care of ourselves. Early on in my experience as a medical intuitive, I discovered that there is no “one way” to protect ourselves or heal that works for everyone. We are all unique individuals with our own strengths, weaknesses and preferences – our own karma, if you will.

I also learned that what works today may not work tomorrow. That has to do with circumstances; something may have suddenly changed that has to be dealt with. A shock may cause you to loose your footing and get off balance. Or, there may be some other spiritual or emotional blockage that needs to be released before a clear solution can appear. There could be underlying toxins in the system, the timing may not be right or the body could be so challenged by something like the coronavirus that it’s unable to communicate properly.

So, given all the variables present in this extremely difficult time, how can you take good care of yourself?

A New Perspective from an Old Friend

Transformation Games - Take Good Care of YourselfKuan Yin is a time honored and respected spiritual guide in the healing arts. She has been helping us to transition from the old paradigm based on greed and fear to a new paradigm of equality, co-operation and sustainable prosperity. Her advice on how to take good care of yourself springs from the I Ching, an ancient book of change and divination that follows the flow of the cosmos. Because of that, her insight comes from a different perspective than ours.

Introduction: Kuan Yin’s Readings and Transformation Games can help you get present and see things through a new perspective – one that comes from your innermost knowing. Simply relax and gaze at the Intuitive Learning Circles while contemplating Kuan Yins words. Your intuition will come forward and give you the help that you seek. Here’s an example:

“I connect with my five senses to perceive what I need now to be healthy.”

“I use them to become aware of confusion, lies, conflicts and self sabotage.”

“I use them to discern the difference between healthy life force and an invading energy.”

“I gain clear awareness of beneficial resources, solutions, opportunities and _________.”

 

Note: As you gaze at a Circle, it may move around, change color or spin. The lines may disappear and reappear again. That’s okay. It just means that they’re working with your subconscious mind to help you make needed changes. You’ll know the adjustment has been made when the energy subsides. Take all the time that you need. Your Soul is in charge!

Now, let this Circle help you balance all of your senses so that you are listening to your own body, instead of all that discordant noise from the outside world! The volume may be turned up too high, or it could be too low.

Take several breaths and relax. Breathing into your belly and exhaling long and slow. This is helpful to every part of your nervous system.

“I listen to my heart. I notice my breath. I move my body around and stretch.”

“I activate my intuition and use it in balance with other aspects of learning, such as common sense, logic, observation and instinct.”


Mind Body Integration

Mind Body IntegrationFor best results, look at each symbol both crossed over the midline of the body and uncrossed so that the correction is more complete.

Feel free to move at any time in any way to help you embody your experience!


Next, make sure that you are fully present.

Continue to relax and let your 3rd Chakra get connected, open and balanced at your solar plexus (the area where your ribs go up in the front).

Your Essential Self is most efficiently located there to help you manifest, create happiness and maintain health.

In stressful times, it’s pretty common for the Essential Self to get closed off, misplaced or dissociated. You can correct that now.

 

This next Circle calls in the unique energy signature of your Soul so that you can synchronize with your environment appropriately.

When you use your own energy signature, you can easily distinguish your energy from the energy of those around you. This is great for your health and for healthy boundaries!

Imagine that you can “plug in” at your Solar Plexus Chakra to relieve irritability, strengthen your immune system and clear out extraneous confusion. Use these affirmations to help you:

“I am plugged in and my life flows with ease.”

“I know who I am and what is important to me.”

Divine Nature Activates ChakrasTo complete the Introduction, use this Reiki Chakra Key to gently connect & balance your 4th Chakra, just up about 4 – 5 inches from the solar plexus.

The Fourth Chakra is also known as the Heart Chakra because it’s the center of our spiritual connection – the bridge between our bodies and our spirit.

It also regulates both the respiratory and circulatory processes. When it’s properly balanced, the energy has a green vibration with a positive charge; like a beautiful light, radiating out.

As you softly gaze at this Key, keep breathing until you sense positive energy radiating out from your heart  center:

“My Heart Chakra is connected, open and balanced. Its light is radiating out.”

 

Once you feel open and relaxed, you’ve tuned up your energy and you’re ready to start playing the game!

Get out a pen and some paper. You may want to journal what comes up.


Welcome to the I Ching Reading and Transformation Game for:

Hexagram # 15 – Moderation – How to Take Good Care of Yourself in the New Paradigm

Transformation Game - Take Good Care of Yourself

“In difficult times, it’s usually best to move with the flow of MODERATION, Hexagram #15, where ‘The predominant forces … are in the process of balancing extremes and harmonizing interests.’ ~ The I Ching Workbook, R.L. Wing

The ancient Chinese text describes MODERATION as the best way to make progress by disengaging from harmful extremes and following the truth and guidance that comes from within. In almost any situation, if you’re able to walk a moderate and middle road, there will be improvement in whatever you undertake.

Finding Moderation and Following that Path ~

As a general rule, MODERATION is a sensible flow to follow whenever there’s so much chaos and confusion that it’s hard for you to tell what’s going on. In the midst of chaos, unpreferred karma (cause and effect) can be easily triggered. For many people, soul contracts have been completed and need to be released to prevent unnecessary health problems. Generally, people are probably either:

  1. Falling into a downward spiral of mental, emotional, physical and/or spiritual health.
  2. Experiencing a lot of obstinate refusal to change. 
  3. Getting pulled back into regressive patterns from the past.
  4. Pulling oneself together into a centered position of empowered authority.

As you softly gaze at this Circle that accesses karmic seeds, see if you’re currently experiencing one of these situations. Ask yourself:

“Am I generally experiencing situation #1, 2, 3 or 4?”

It could easily be a mix, depending on your mindset and what stage of the karma you’re living through.

Whatever it is, you can take good care of yourself by letting go of any karmic agreement that is complete – over and done with or that’s causing you harm in any way. This game will help you do that. 


Let Go So You Can Bring In New Ways to Take Good Care of Yourself.

Use this Soul Contract Circle to help you identify and release the agreements. It can be helpful to imagine that each agreement is like a lock attached to every vertebrae of your spine. To let go, start at the bottom of the line and move up your spine – unlocking any harmful agreements as you go all the way to the top of your neck. Here are some examples:

“I unlock any agreement to sacrifice my health or place myself in harms way.”

“I let go of any lies, poor guidance or assumptions that block my ability to heal.”

“I discontinue activities or beliefs that put me at risk.”

“I release pathways, false concepts and patterns of behavior that lead to conflict, confusion, hardship, over-indulgence or ________, etc.”

 

Reclaim Your Power:

“I decide to gently integrate healthier patterns that upgrade my happiness and well-being – in accordance with my highest good.”

“I exist and am empowered to take good care of myself.”

Take all the time you need to really relax with this one.

 

Clear Out the Clutter:

This is a good opportunity to clear your inner garden of any outdated intentions or energies that interfere with your health or happiness.

As you look at this Reiki Key, allow your heart center to clear out any hurtful entanglements or conflicts. Include old energies or grievances with family, friends or business relationships. Clear out harmful agendas from social institutions, religious practices, cults or partisanships. Release attachments to completed projects, places you’ve lived, outmoded forms of transportation, communication, consumerism or business, etc.

By letting go of all that clutter, you free up a lot of energy that’s better spent on your health and vitality.

 

Make Commitments to Your Good Health and Well-being:

Because of the chaos involved, there aren’t many guarantees out there. Making any kind of reliable prediction is next to impossible. You’re going to need all the presence and energy you have to help you during times such as these. Gently look at the next Circle while you affirm these positive affirmations:

“My new agreement is to stay present in my body and follow my inner guidance – calmly and honestly.”

“I am flexible and able to adapt to what’s needed.”

“I notice disturbances in my health. I ask for and receive reliable help when I need it.”

“I make wise choices about my health and well-being.”

“I let go of ______.   I prepare for ______.

I take care of ______.   I am open to ______.”

 

Strengthen Your Energy Field:

“I decide to build an attraction field for _________, _________, _______.” Suggestions: excellent health, healthy boundaries, nourishment, equality, good company, cooperation, sustainable prosperity, etc.

 

Focus On Your Priorities:

Use this Circle to help you shift your focus to what really matters.

“I make a choice to focus my attention on hope, health, sustainable prosperity and ______________.”

 

Develop Healthy Reciprocity:

Take time to organize your energy properly so that you can manifest your intentions.

“I nurture my body, mind and spirit healthfully, in alignment with my highest good and my highest good is returned to me.”

 Once you feel in the flow, ask yourself: “Are there any habits or behaviors that would be helpful for me to change?”

 

Nourishment:

Consider how well you’re nourishing yourself and make notes so that you’ll remember.

“Are there any foods, especially herbs, teas, vegetables or fruits that would benefit me? Am I getting enough fresh water? Is there anything to stay away from?

Is there anything I’m consuming that’s causing a problem?”

“Am I approaching my circumstances correctly? If not, can I tell what’s needed?”

 

Oxygen:

Relax for a few minutes to consciously breathe and relax. Imagine what kind of exercise you could do that would be most helpful today.

“Am I getting enough oxygen through breathing, fresh air and exercise?”

Emotional Calm

“Do I need more relaxation? If so, what might help me?”

 

Sunlight:

Your body needs sunlight to stimulate good health and keep your immune system strong.

“Am I getting enough sunlight to make Vitamin D-3?”

“If not, what would help me with this?”

 

Evaluate Your Current Actions or Intentions.

“Are there any activities I’m planning that would be dangerous?”

If so, can I tell what they are? How can I follow a more MODERATE and beneficial path?”

 

Let Go of Destructive Patterns:

Now it’s time to dissolve mental and emotional patterns that pull you off track. Use this symbol for dissolving destructive blueprints to identify and let go of self-sabotage or any societal or familial pattern that still affects your health in a negative way. See them disappear as you send them to the Sun:

“I dissolve destructive energy and any connection I have ever had to it.”

“I dissolve ___________________.”

Close the Pathways to Suffering:

Once the patterns are cleared, close the door to pathways that lead to  extremes, unnecessary suffering or danger.

“I decide to close the door on harmful pathways. I follow the direction of healthy protection.”

 

Ground:

In order to actualize the benefits of what you’ve done with this game, it’s important to get grounded. Put both feet on the ground and let this Circle help you get grounded in a new paradigm of equality, cooperation and sustainable prosperity.

 

Finish with Gratitude:

At this point, you’re probably feeling much calmer and more in balance. Finish with this affirmation:

“I am grounded in gratitude and appreciation for the help I receive.” 

Congratulations!

Take Good Care of Yourself

“Learning how to take good care of yourself at this time is an opportunity to go within and expel deep patterns of fear and conflict. May we all arise from those patterns, much as a beautiful lotus arises from the muck and mire at the bottom of a pond.” ~ Kuan Yin

Now is a good time to move around or take a nice walk if you can. Enjoy being out in the Sun and fresh air.

Note: Go through this game as often as you need to, especially if you’re experiencing health challenges.



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Rheanni Lightwater, Reiki Master Teacher

If you feel that How to Take Good Care of Yourself has helped, but hasn’t addressed all of your needs, Rheanni Lightwater, BFA, CHT, CKP is an expert in the art and science of mind body healing. She has 23+ years experience in dream tending, energy medicine, hypnotherapy and feng shui clearing. Contact her if you still feel exposed, lost, or overwhelmed.

Ms. Lightwater’s mission is to assist people in creating healthy balance and harmony in their lives. Sessions are available online or when you visit Santa Fe. Contact her at 505-271-4612 MST or email: info@soulresourcesllc.com.


Disclaimer:
This Transformation Game should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Trauma Resolution and Somatic Education Author

Rheanni Lightwater is an award winning author and somatic educator who has created a unique method for trauma resolution and teaching self-care called  the Intuitive Learning Circles™.

Rheanni Lightwater - trauma resolution and somatic educatorMs. Lightwater’s background is primarily in the creative arts and alternative health field utilizing Bio Somatic Education, Kinesiology, Hypnotherapy, Reiki, and Energy Medicine.

In 1991, Ms. Lightwater began her private practice in bodywork and massage and continued her interest in trauma resolution with Cranial Sacral Therapy, Lomi Lomi, BioSomatics and Structural Integration. Later, she received Certification in Hypnotherapy, Kinesiology and became a Master Teacher in Reiki, Karuna® Reiki and Grail Reiki.

As an Educator, Rheanni has taught extensively about mental, emotional and spiritual issues relating to trauma resolution, PTSD, soul retrieval and abuse.

Animal Totems for Inner GuidanceAs a result of studying the indigenous healing practices of Tibet, Japan, Hawaii and Peru, Ms. Lightwater developed a unique understanding of the subtle human energy field. During a visit to the Amazon in 2001, she participated in numerous ceremonies with the Shipibo shamans. Her experiences there gave birth to the Intuitive Learning Circles™ and other healing symbols. Soul Prayer Charts and Gifts from the Rainforest are the first two collections in the series.

In 2008, Ms. Lightwater received First Place in the New Age Category of the New Mexico Book Awards for her first edition of Soul Oriented Solutions. She has won awards numerous times since then.

Intuitive Learning Circles ™

Over the years, Rheanni has developed hundreds of healing symbols and researched various applications for them in medical clinics, detox centers, business settings, workshops, schoolrooms, online classes and in individual sessions. She has become an expert in helping people dealing with serious illnesses, heavy metal poisoning, chemical sensitivity, immune deficiency and a wide range of trauma and stress induced disorders. The positive response to the Circles show them to be very effective in shifting dysfunctional brain patterns in both children and adults, freeing them from destructive thoughts and behaviors that contribute to serious illness, learning difficulties and emotional distress.

In addition, Rheanni has instructed other Somatic Educators, Acupuncturists, Chiropractors, Yoga Instructors, Massage Therapists, Hypnotherapists, Naturopathic and Allopathic Physicians in Energy Medicine and how to develop their own clairvoyant skills.


Resolve for Somatic Educator

In her latest book, RESOLVE, Rheanni continues the Soul Oriented Solutions series with simple exercises that provide mental, emotional and spiritual resilience in times of uncertainty and radical change.

RESOLVE was named a winner in the New Mexico – Arizona Book Awards.

What the EXPERTS are saying:

“What I love about Rheanni’s approach is its simplicity. I don’t need to go to therapy for years or rehash trauma from the past to create positive change in my life. Instead I can look at a picture and read a short paragraph and then let life do the rest. Her methods only take about 5 minutes and are available to me at any time and in any place. They bring instant stress relief with long-term healing impact.”  ~ Pi Luna – Artist & Business Coach for Creatives

“Combining healing insights from many sources, Ms. Lightwater has created a system of powerful yet easy to use visualization tools that, used in conjunction with breathing and meditation prompts, allow both mind and body to relax, expand and generate positive energy…”  ~ Victoria Erhart, Reading New Mexico

“This process is like coming up from underwater and taking a fresh breath.” ~ Cornelia Sachs, Eutony Movement Practitioner

Whoever uses this work will find it beneficial for their growth in unfolding more of who they are. Old emotions come up as well as memories that need new perspectives, which the exercises handle beautifully.  In a way, they are washed away and lifted to higher grounds, leaving behind gifts of healing and new beginnings.” ~ D.G.Villena-Mata, Ph.D., Fellow and Diplomate in Traumatic Stress

See the entire collection of Ms. Lightwater’s work:


The Essential HumanSOS Soul Oriented SolutionsGifts from the Rainforest

RESOLVESoul Prayer Charts

Intuitive Readings for the New Paradigm

Intuitive Readings with Rheanni LightwaterI use Intuitive Learning Circles™ in my Intuitive Readings.

Rheanni Lightwater – Intuitive and Reiki Master ~

Intuitive Readings are a powerful form of energy clearing and mind body healing that improves self-confidence and productivity. Personal Intuitive Readings can change the direction you’re heading, transform your life and redirect how you are using your energy.


Intuitive Readings with Animal Totems and Nature Spirits help you get back in touch with nature, develop your intuition and strengthen your instincts.

Animal Totems for Inner GuidanceIn the jungle, shamans wake up every morning and connect with Nature. This is a beautiful practice that gives them power, focus of mind and reaffirms their connection with the Earth and the Creator.

We can follow their example using animal totems for inner guidance from the Gifts from the Rainforest series of Shamanic healing.

Look at the Circle for Raven Medicine with a soft focus and breathe deeply.  Use the affirmation:

“What kind of changes would it be good to know about?”


One of my favorite books of divination is the I Ching or Book of Change.

Intuitive Readings with the I ChingThe best thing about the Book of Change is that it’s uniquely equipped to help you understand your timing and the nature of your problems in relation to the ebb and flow of Nature itself.

Intuitive Readings that consult the Tao (or natural flow of life) can be very instructive about how to best handle challenging situations and make the best decisions for you.

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Angelic Guidance is available to provide hope, healing and assistance for those who genuinely request it.

Intuitive Readings - Guidance from Angelic Realms

Access to your Guardian Angel and the Angelic Realms is especially helpful if you have trouble asking for and accepting help. Our society programs us to feel separate and unlovable. This often leads to alternating feelings of stubborn resistance and hopelessness.

Intuitive readings with Angels are for you if you’re ready to take a more cooperative approach to finding grace and accepting your Divinity.


Intuitive Readings can utilize Reiki Chakra Keys to find out if the chakras are properly activated, aligned and functioning to create health and vitality.

Reiki Chakra Keys

Healthy chakras channel energy into and out of the body, which facilitates elimination of toxic materials. Additionally, some chakras are being activated to support our human evolution and awareness. If you are having difficulty activating new chakras or keeping them cleared and balanced, you could be experiencing a great deal of pain and have difficulty eliminating physical, emotional and spiritual toxins.

Since the primary chakras correspond with various organs and systems, a lot of information can be gleaned from intuitive readings using the chakras as an indicator. Find out more about a Grail Reiki healing >


 

Awakening the Essential Human is a unique type of energy medicine for the New Paradigm for emotional imbalances that could be causing physical, mental or spiritual dis-ease.  

Awakening the Essential HumanThe existence of the Essential Self is discussed in many cultures and disciplines. Other names would be the Authentic Self, the Psyche, the Golden Child or the Basic Self. Regardless of what it’s called, you can think of it as your “I am,” your true essence and direct connection with the rest of the cosmos through your Higher Self.

The Essential Human intuitive readings aim to transform harmful attitudes, emotions and energy patterns that may be stuck in your light body.


Here is the SOS symbol from Soul Oriented Solutions.  I use it all the time to access true help and assistance in times of trouble.

SOS - Soul Oriented SolutionsIt’s especially good at helping highly sensitive people make choices for healing emotional issues, fine- tuning your intuition and listening to your gut feelings.

I use this symbol in several self-help books that Soul Resources publishes – the Soul Oriented Solutions series. Consult with your Soul to find a solution.

Ask yourself: “What kind of reading or process would help me the best?”


About Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKP

Intuitive Readings with Rheanni LightwaterRheanni is a Reiki Master/Teacher and Medical Intuitive. She uses Reiki as the energetic foundation for all her mind body healing sessions including the Intuitive Learning Circle™ method.

During a session with Rheanni, you can experience many kinds of mind body healing including, chakra balancing, soul retrieval, inner child healing, trauma resolution, past life, epigenetic and trans-generational clearing.


Learn more: Mind Body Healing with Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKP

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Long Distance Intuitive Readings and Consultations

Santa Fe, New MexicoIntuitive readings are available online or in person when you visit Santa Fe, NM.
Call (Ray-ah-nee) to schedule at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00 am and 5:00pm.
The Time Zone in Santa Fe is Mountain Standard Time. Or you can send an email to soulresources@gmail.com.
Include a brief overview of the general situation you are dealing with.
During the session, have your internet connection available and your questions written down so that everything you want to know is covered. Sessions over SKYPE or ZOOM are available and encouraged. Rheanni’s SKYPE name is rheanni.lightwater .

Disclaimer:

Intuitive readings are not a substitute for professional medical care and diagnosis. I can not give you a diagnosis and I can’t prescribe. If you are ill or injured, please seek the assistance of a qualified medical practitioner.

How To Develop Healthy Boundaries

SOS Self-care Formula #4: Develop Healthy Boundaries

SOS - Develop Healthy BoundariesMany people, especially those who are highly sensitive or empathic, want to learn how to develop healthy boundaries because they are so open to thoughts and energies coming from other people. Sometimes those thoughts get attached in their minds and spin around, causing a great deal of discomfort.

If the pathways remain open, all kinds of trouble (karma, issues, illness or confusion) can pass back and forth between people without their awareness. If left unchecked, this type of attachment can eventually manifest in negativity, sudden and mysterious illnesses, mental confusion, issues with prosperity or chronic states of overwhelm.

It’s a valuable skill to know how to shift your energy and Develop Healthy Boundaries.

Self-care Formula #4 from SOS – Soul Oriented Solutions uses affirmations and the Intuitive Learning Circles to help you learn to consciously close off the pathways to busy or negative thoughts and shift into a more positive mindset. Here’s an example of how it works. Simply gaze softly at the Circle while you contemplate each of these positive affirmations:

“I reclaim and balance my five senses.”

“I focus them to be present and aware of appropriate boundaries.”

“I use them to become aware of intrusive thoughts, attachments, illness and confusion so that I can let them go.”

“I focus on a hopeful future and productive actions that will benefit my health and happiness.”

Use Develop Healthy Boundaries when you are:

  • Agitated or feeling out of sync
  • Distressed by recent news
  • Getting negative or anticipating hardship
  • Feeling claustrophobic
  • Unable to meditate or sit still
  • Obsessed with a particular person or situation.

Here’s how it works: Find a quiet place if possible, where you won’t be disturbed for about twenty minutes. Follow the sequence of symbols while you read their accompanying instructions. Gaze gently at each Circle for about two minutes. A longer or shorter time may be necessary.

Mind Body Integration

Mind Body IntegrationFor best results, look at each symbol both crossed over the midline of the body and uncrossed so that the correction is more complete.

Let yourself breathe and relax as much as possible. Don’t worry if the images move around or change in any way. That just means the Circles are working and that your mind and body are relaxing.
Be sure to go through the entire formula and at the end, give yourself time to rest and integrate.

Developing a quiet mind and light heart changes your perspective and that makes it easier to accomplish your goals.


Step 1. Begin by consciously breathing in on the count of three and slowly exhaling on the count of five. It’s helpful if you can breathe in through your nose. Do that three or four times while you gently focus on the Circle.
Continue breathing and bring your awareness to your tailbone.

Balance – What do you need to get in balance about?

 

Step 2. Keep breathing with your belly soft and relaxed.
Let your shoulders drop.
Gaze softly at the Circle and imagine you can turn down the feelings or thoughts that are turned up too high, just like the volume on a radio dial. Be sure to do that both crossed and uncrossed.

Calm – What are some thoughts that relax you? What thoughts give you hope?

 

Step 3. See if you can collect any noisy thoughts or distractions into the center of this Circle. You may sense something like a web or a bunch of strings that have gotten all tangled up with each other. Or, you may get a sense of an open, gaping hole. Whatever it is, bring it all into the center.

Gathering – Are there any distractions to let go of?

 

Step 4. Now that you have all the distractions gathered up, let the next Circle help you close that gaping hole or any other open pathways between you and all those noisy thoughts.
Keep closing the hole until all pathways are completely sealed and healed.

Protection – Is there anything you need to say goodbye to?

 

Step 5. Now you’re ready to shift your attention. Breathe in and exhale. Beauty is everywhere. Consciously turn your attention to it.
Take your time and let the Circle help you call the most majestic, inspiring scene into your mind that you can imagine. Form a mental picture of what it’s like. Imagine the sounds and how it would feel to be there.

Beauty – What is a beautiful place you remember or would like to go to?

 

Step 6. Come back to your breathing again and notice how calming it is.
You can sense the steady rhythm of your heart.
The gentle expansion and contraction of your lungs.
Breathing in and letting go. Learning to trust.

Trust – What do you trust? Could anything be done to increase your sense of trust?

 

Step 7. Give yourself permission to slow down and sense your own energy. Turn your attention to what really matters to you. Can you name what’s most important?
Let the Circle help you lift any falsehood or pressure you may feel right up off of you and send it to the Sun. Without all that pressure, it’s easier to know what your true priorities are.

Intention – What’s important to you now?

 

Step 8. Gather your resources and get present in your body. Put your feet on the ground and feel your connection with the Earth.
If you like, you can stretch or move around in any way that feels good.
Flexing your fingers and toes can really help you become more aware.

Presence – What do you feel in your body?

 

Step 9. Imagine with each new, relaxing breath you are able to fill your heart with compassion and understanding for yourself. You can forgive yourself.
Let any heaviness you feel lift up and out of you.
Dark clouds are dissolving into blue skies and sunlight. Your mind is clear and your heart is filled with courage.

Courage – What is something you can do that expresses love?

 

Step 10. Before you finish this formula, make a commitment to stay centered and follow through on your priorities. Your health and happiness are important.
You can easily deflect foreign energies, other people’s thoughts or expectations.
It’s genuinely joyful to have a quiet mind and a light heart.

Resolution – What other joyful decisions can you make?

 

Step 11.  Use the Circle to help you finish closing any remaining pathways that would lead you back to the noise and distractions of the external world.
Close the doors and seal the leaks – as if they were never there.
You are calm. Your mind is able to rest now.

Completion – How do you feel now?

Be sure to give yourself time to rest and integrate. Now is a good time to take a walk or go out into Nature to help this all settle.



SOS Soul Oriented Solutions Develop Healthy Boundaries

Quieting a Busy Mind is one of nine self-care formulas and mind exercises from SOS Soul Oriented Solutions, a self-help journal for your inner journey from emotional stress to self-love by Rheanni Lightwater.

 

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Rheanni Lightwater - Develop Healthy Boundaries
Rheanni Lightwater, Reiki Master Teacher

If you feel that Develop Healthy Boundaries has helped, but hasn’t addressed all of your needs, Rheanni Lightwater, BFA, CHT, CKP is an expert in the art and science of mind body healing. She has 23+ years experience in dream tending, energy medicine, hypnotherapy and feng shui clearing. Contact her if you still feel exposed, lost, or overwhelmed.

Ms. Lightwater’s mission is to assist people in creating healthy balance and harmony in their lives. Sessions are available online or when you visit Santa Fe. Contact her at 505-271-4612 MST or email: info@soulresourcesllc.com.


Disclaimer:
How to Develop Healthy Boundaries should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment of any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Santa Fe Intuitive Consulting

Santa Fe Intuitive Rheanni Lightwater Santa Fe Intuitive Learning Circles

Santa Fe Intuitive Consultant Rheanni Lightwater BFA, CHT CKP teaches Reiki, Grail Reiki, Hypnotherapy, Kinesiology and Feng Shui/Space Clearing.

Santa Fe Intuitive Trainings and Private Sessions are available online or in person. Call her at (505) 271-4612 or email: soulresources@gmail.com


Education and Training

Rheanni is Certified in Hypnotherapy, Regression Therapy, Biosomatics, Cranial sacral work, Integrative Kinesiology, Reiki, Grail Reiki and Space Clearing. She has been in the Healing Arts since 1991.

Santa Fe Intuitive: In My Words,  Rheanni Lightwater, BFA, CHT, CKP

The phrases I use most often when describing what I do are ‘freedom and choice,’ ‘being joyful,’ ‘personal responsibility’, ‘sustainable prosperity’ and ‘clearing the way for your heart’s desire’. During an initial consultation, I’ll want to know what you want to have happen and if I can assist you in getting there. I see my role in the healing process as a teacher who can guide you through some of the more difficult transitions of your life. I offer a safe, learning space for you to discover how powerful and capable you are.

I believe in the innate healing capabilities of the human spirit. When I first began studying the area of self-healing and soul retrieval in 1998, I already had eight years of bodywork experience working with people who had suffered from traumatic experiences. I saw everything from emotional and physical abuse, to sexual abuse and post-traumatic stress. I learned how the body forms patterns of contraction and hyperextension to compensate and protect itself from pain. I found out that the memory of a traumatic event is held in the tissue and perpetuated through stress messages that are routinely sent through the central nervous system like a continuous feedback loop.

It became apparent to me as I worked with ptsd, that most people’s impulses and immediate reactions to situations are based on their past experiences. Bits of important movements and memories become frozen through trauma or shock, leaving the person in a state of amnesia. I also noticed that people with this kind of amnesia can be highly sensitive and often have difficulty following through on their goals and hopes for the future. 

I have observed recurring episodes where physical and mental symptoms would erupt, seemingly without warning. However, these episodes are almost always triggered by an event or person that brings back memories of a past traumatic event. It seems that the mind and body are definitely working together on some unknown level to sabotage any efforts made towards full recovery. 

As a part of my own journey, I have also been working through my own learning disabilities resulting from traumatic early life situations. I have suffered from dyslexia for as long as I could remember. My mind would often go blank and anxiety attacks were frequent and debilitating.

One day, I decided that no matter what, I would find a way to bridge the gap between the limited life I was living and the life I dreamed of having. I decided that I would search every avenue that might bring me into contact with that unknown level where mind and body meet and rectify the damage that had been done. At the time, the books all said that victims of trauma and abuse could never fully recover, that they would at best, just learn to live with it. I wasn’t willing to settle for that answer.

I pursued every modality available to me, including Hypnotherapy, Hanna Somatics, Cranial-sacral Therapy, Structural Integration and dozens of other forms of bodywork. I learned about Homeopathy and put myself in the care of a fine Homeopathic Nurse Practitioner in Los Angeles.

Anything that held promise, I investigated tirelessly. I came into contact with various forms of indigenous healing – Hawaiian, Peruvian, Chinese, Tibetan and Native American – just to name a few. I meditated, learned kinesiology and got attuned to Reiki. In 1998, I began writing about what was working and why. I studied soul retrieval, dreams and symbology, shamanism and theories about the collective unconscious. Each modality was helpful in its own way, yet I kept having trouble holding ground. I would do all right for a while, but then I’d fall back into the same old patterns.

It wasn’t enough for me to just escape from unwanted thoughts and feelings. I had learned that problems cannot be solved from the same mental position they were created from. During intensive shamanic journeys it became clear that a transformation of consciousness was required to get from where I was to where I wanted to be and that my emotional healing was inextricably interwoven with how I was relating to my environment. What I needed was a way to retrain myself to adapt to the changes happening all around me. I needed to be stronger,  more resilient and able to access  inner resources I didn’t know I had. That is when the Intuitive Learning Circles™ came into being and my intuitive abilities came in full force. 

Rheanni Lightwater, Santa Fe Intuitive Using KinesiologyIn 2002, I started working as a medical intuitive at a Naturopathic Detoxing Clinic in Tigard, Oregon that specialized in helping highly sensitive people detox from exposure to harmful chemicals, electro-magnetic poisoning and heavy metals. I was asked to come up with energy medicine protocols that would assist people in detoxing quicker and easier.  I succeeded with the Re-balancing Cellular Resonance process using the Intuitive Learning Circles™. Soon, the Doctors started sending me home with the patients to find out what they were reacting to in their environment. That is when I discovered how important Feng Shui and space clearing is to living a happy, healthy life. 

Now, my husband Bob and I are here in Santa Fe, New Mexico and I am excited to share what I know with this extraordinary community. Out of my search for wholeness, peace and self-love, I humbly offer the mind body healing, intuition training and self-help books of Soul Resources LLC. 


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Disclaimer: Santa Fe intuitive consultations are not a substitute for professional medical care and diagnosis. I can not give you a diagnosis and I can’t prescribe. If you are ill or injured, please seek the assistance of a qualified medical practitioner.