Setting Limitations for Strong Boundaries

Are You Setting Limitations That Are Strong Enough to Maintain Healthy Boundaries in Times of Social Upheaval?

As we enter into the New Paradigm of equality and personal responsibility, setting LIMITATIONS becomes more and more essential to our health and well-being. 

Transformation Game - Setting LimitationsTo assess our own responsibility, sometimes we have to ask ourselves unpleasant questions. In this Transformation Game we’re going to address some that may be a little sensitive:

“Am I being dumped on or scapegoated? If so, how am I contributing to the problem?”

“Is my energy field resilient enough to repel interference?”

“What can I do about it (without creating more drama) in a non-violent, yet effective way?”

Welcome to the I Ching Reading and Transformation Game for: Hexagram #60 Setting LIMITATIONS for Strong Boundaries ~

“Extravagant behavior and lack of restraint has led you into a state of difficulty. If you are now feeling regret over this and not busy placing the blame elsewhere, you will avoid further mistakes.” ~ The I Ching Workbook, R.L. Wing

When people choose to blame others and you happen to be in their crossfires, you’re liable to be dumped on energetically, even if you’re not directly involved with the situation. This tendency is especially common among highly sensitive people.

In this context, when someone is being “dumped on” (or scapegoated), it means that they’re consciously or unconsciously taking on responsibility for other people’s feelings, karma, behavior, etc. This method of coping is usually learned early on in life and can cause great suffering for the “dumpee.” In contrast, it creates quite a bit of freedom for the “dumper.”

Sometimes dumpers just feel overwhelmed and are looking for relief, as in the case of a small child. However, some people never learn to handle their own feelings and go around unconsciously looking for someone to shame, blame and/or dump their issues on.

Unfortunately, narcissistic people actually dump on others purposely to further their quest for power and control. A big, red flag for that is when they want you to feel sorry for them. “Poor me. I have it so hard!” Watch out… that means the energetic dump truck is pulling up to your driveway!

Another way that unsuspecting people get dumped on is through flattery and adulation. “You’re so wonderful! Your work is so amazing… you’re such a great leader, healer, mother, artist, etc.” If you’re wise, you won’t fall for it, because you’re about to be covered with energetic ick and ook from the ethers!

The truth is, unless you want to spend your life cleaning up after others, rather than living your own dreams, you’re going to have to start setting limitations.

All forms of dumping are either: inexperience (as in the case of a small child) or an abuse of power based on co-dependence coupled with a desire to escape responsibility. The examples mentioned are merely situations where dumping is far more likely to happen.

If you feel you are in such a situation and want to do something constructive to help yourself, you can go through this Transformation Game on Setting Limitations. Simply relax and gaze at the Circles while contemplating the questions or positive affirmations that go with them. Your intuition will come forward and give you the help that you seek.

Begin By Changing Your Perspective and Willingness to Change:

If you’re willing to examine your personal habits and are setting LIMITATIONS for yourself that are healthy and life affirming, you can learn to stop being a dumpee. To get started, take a look at this perception changer from Soul Prayer Charts.

Pull away from your current perspective and, like a camera being guided by your Soul, come at this situation from a different angle that provides a solution. Give yourself time to adjust to this new perspective and explore the possibilities with your imagination.

 

Next, ask yourself:

“Have I been willing to let other people dump on me? Have I allowed it to happen a lot in the past?” 

“Am I willing to stop this tendency in myself and find a solution?”

If you have a tendency to be caught off guard by others, now is the time to set stronger LIMITATIONS. Ask your Self, “Am I currently experiencing situations where:

1) There’s a lot of incompetence or my privacy is being disrespected?

2) People are displeased with you, noncooperative, argumentative or easily offended?

3) There is poor health or breakups in friendship or family relations?”

If so, Setting LIMITATIONS and improved oversight is definitely called for.

What Not to Do…

In situations like these, forceful displays of power will absolutely backfire. Realize that you’re being baited. Do nothing to aggressively confront people in regard to those particular situations and be very conservative with any investment of energy, time or money. Doing so would probably result in a nasty bout of dumping.

The Best Things To Do when dealing with the “dumper/dumpee” dynamic is to:

  1. Stay calm and stand your ground by rejecting whatever is being dumped.
  2. Notice what’s happening and take care of yourself very sensibly.
  3. Don’t take the bait of getting into a fight. Remove yourself from the situation.
  4. Be generous and kind to those you care about and trust, while you stay out of their business.
  5. Find new avenues of behavior that genuinely support your well-being.

Let me repeat…

If you don’t want to be dumped on, don’t engage in dramatic emotional exchanges. That’s because whenever you’re caught up in emotional turmoil or flattery, you’re in an excellent energetic position to be dumped on. And that’s true regardless of whether the emotion is positive or negative.

To help yourself, gaze softly at this symbol and imagine that whatever has been dumped on you is being returned to where ever it belongs.

Then imagine your own karmic seeds for harmful or co-dependent habits are being purified through fire.

“I purify my karmic tendency towards co-dependence and self-destruction. I now make a commitment to my higher good.”

 

Detach from the collective “herd mentality” of self-pity.

“I let go of feeling sorry for myself or others. I decide to embrace self-responsibility and healthy self-care.”

 

Release Your Agreement with Abusive, Codependent Behavior.

Tell your neurological system that you are done with behavior that puts you in harm’s way – like shaming and blaming yourself or continuing to hang out with people who have dumped on you multiple times.

“I release my agreement to ____________________________.”

“I release any agreement I have to let myself be abused in this way. I detach from harming or disrespecting myself now and in the future.”

Include situations like watching too much media, buying into gossip, conflicts, contradictions, obligations, co-dependence, exaggerated self-importance, lies, trickery or someone else’s delusional suffering.

 

Release the Conflicts:

Relax and use this affirmation to help you release whatever might be causing conflict in you.

“I stop gripping on _____________.”

“I release the conflict around _______________ or anything else that causes me harm. “

You can use this Circle like a telescope to help you find fixations in your mind and energy field. Once you find one, use the symbol to send a laser beam to break it apart or melt it like an iceberg in the Sun. There may be more than one. Break up any fixations that you find!

Find Empowerment Through Your Soul:

Open the connection to your spirit through your Heart. Allow your energy to reorganize in accordance with what’s best for you at this time. Acknowledge that there may be some interference that’s blocking you from the truth.

“I acknowledge that my energy needs to be recalibrated to connect with the truthful and positive influence of my spirit.”

“I exist and what happens to me matters.”

 

Dissolve any harmful thoughts or emotions that have kept you in the dark.

It might help to imagine those patterns like dense clouds that obstruct the light. See the darkness dissolve and dissipate into sunlight and clear blue skies.

“I dissolve the confusion and chaos. I let go of needing to please others. I let go of the need to_______________.”

You may need additional help from Soul Prayer Charts. If so, go here>

Once you have successfully cleared all the dumped energy and harmful patterns, seal and heal any holes that may have been hidden behind in the darkness. These positive affirmations work very well:

“I seal and heal all ways that others dump on me. I am safe.”

“I now head in the direction of my Souls true purpose.”

 

Be sure to do that both crossed and uncrossed over the midline of your body!

 

Setting Limitations On How You Contribute to the Problem:

Use this Circle to help you become aware of ways you have been approaching things that haven’t been working for you.

If you let your thoughts slow down, you can begin to sense what’s contributing to your problems.

The very awareness of how you’re tied into the problem reveals possible solutions.

“I slow down and consider my situation carefully.

Is there something about this situation that I’m missing and need to know?

Do I understand the part I have played in this situation?”

 

In this lighter, clearer mind space, ask yourself:

“What makes sense to do next?” or “How can I best protect myself in this situation?”

Congratulations! You’ve taken an important first step towards protecting your Self from being dumped on. Taking the time now to understand how you have unknowingly contributed to your own suffering is truly a gift of self-love.

Extra-intuitive Activities

The following extra-intuitive activities aren’t required, but they can really help you prevent future suffering…

Note: At any point during the rest of this Transformation Game, you may need to go back to the Release Fixations section to look for and clear additional fixations. 

Setting Limitations On What You’re Attracting:

If you’re approaching situations with an attitude of “I’m going to fix this,” or “I’m supposed to rescue this person or change how they are thinking / behaving,” you’re setting yourself up to fall into the dumper/dumpee trap. To avoid it, stay centered and focused on your own integrity.

The Essential Human* If you have a copy of The Essential Human, now would be a good time to use Emotional Corrections A – E between pages 97 and 101 to access and balance energies you’re pulling from the ‘field of potential’.

Going through this process will help you draw on the kinds of spiritual / emotional ingredients that will support your integrity.

“I am focused on my own integrity.”

 

Setting Limitations on What Kinds of Situations You Participate In:

Put your feet on the floor and ground in the New Paradigm – a consciousness of equality, personal responsibility and sustainable prosperity.

 

Once you’re feeling grounded, ask for the very best.

“I now access healthy nourishment and support for my Souls true purpose.”

 

Imagine that you can form strong, healthy boundaries with this affirmation:

“I am surrounded with courage and determination. I reject and repel shame, blame, frustration, jealousy, impatience, panic and _________.”

Congratulations!

The fact that you have taken the time now to strengthen your boundaries and protect yourself will serve you well throughout your life.

Closure for Mind Body Healing


More about Reiki Chakra Healing >

For More Help Navigating the Flow – Check Out Todays Intuitive Reading >

 


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Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKT lives and practices in Santa Fe, NM. She specializes in mind body healing with family and relationship clearing using Kinesiology, the Intuitive Learning Circles™, Reiki as a Master/Teacher, Hypnotherapy and Shamanic Clearing Techniques.

Schedule with Rheanni via Zoom, Skype or in person when you visit Santa Fe, New Mexico. Call her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, MST, Monday through Friday to schedule.


Disclaimer:
This Transformation Game should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Do the Right Thing – Conflict Resolution


How To Do the Right Thing and Turn Things Around

Do you ever have the feeling that you’re about to do something that you’ll regret? Do you get concerned that you’re not doing something that you really ought to do? If you could straighten out your thinking and do the right thing, what would it be?

Do the Right ThingYou can help yourself find emotional healing by taking this quick relationship quiz.

You may be having difficulty interacting with relationships around you because of mixed messages or unresolved issues from your past. By taking the time to go within and find out what your thinking really is, you can understand what’s motivating you and take action to resolve the situation.

Help Me Do The Right Thing!

Note: This exercise is associated with the I Ching Hexagrams #6 CONFLICT, #38 CONTRADICTION and #43 RESOLUTION:

The way to play this game is to relax and breathe deeply while you meditate on the questions and suggestions that accompany the Circles. This first one will help you to slow down and let yourself focus on one thing at a time.

“I slow down and relax.”

 

Once you’re relaxed, go through the rest of the quiz in the same way – asking yourself the questions while you gaze softly at the accompanying Circle. Take your time, the answers might not come right away. The Circles are helping your mind to clear away mental and emotional clutter.

“What do I want to do?” 

“Have I made a decision in the past that’s in CONFLICT with what I really want to do now? If so, can I tell what it is?”

 

What is my motivation here? Is there an agreement I have with myself or anyone else involved that’s causing a conflict?

“If so, what do I need to do to remain loyal to myself?

 

“What things have I been thinking to myself about this situation? 

Is that really true?

Do I need to amend my thinking in some way?

What might help me respond better in this situation?”

 

“Is there something I could do that would help me connect better with my higher guidance so that I can do the right thing?”

 

“What is the danger here? How am I getting thrown off?”

Is there a fear or some kind of emotional distress involved?

The Essential Human

If there is and you have an updated copy of The Essential Human, you might want to go through the Emotional Corrections A – E on pps. 97 – 101 to clear it up.

 

Is there something that you need to manage better or think about differently?

 

Do you need to open up your mind and shine some light on the real solution?

If so, imagine that you can do just that!

 

Continue your inquiry:

“Am I anticipating a problem? What am I afraid will happen?”

Relax for a few minutes and let the Circle help you calm down with this affirmation: “I relax and let go of any fears. I’m open to a positive outcome.”

 

“Am I holding onto a family assumption or expectation that I need to let go of? 

“I let go of harmful assumptions and expectations.”

“I let go of pushing, forcing and coercive control.”

 

“What do I need to do for this to change for the better?”

“Is there something that would be best for me to refrain from doing?”

 

“Am I willing to do what would be required for this to change in a positive, meaningful way?”

If you are willing, gather up your Soul resources and Free Will.

If you’re not, this is a good opportunity to explore what’s really motivating you.

 

Imagine that you can release any old agreements, assumptions or grudges that are keeping this CONFLICT going. Visualize them like contracts, burning up into nothingness.

“I let go of outdated agreements, assumptions, contradictions, compulsions, obsessions or taking things personally.”

“I let go of the need to hold onto the conflict in this situation.”

Make some new agreements that support your true desire, like:

“My Soul is in charge and I forgive myself. I choose my words wisely. I set the other party free to do things their own way without me.” Etc.

It’s time to bring RESOLUTION to the various mental and emotional behaviors that feed the CONFLICT. Use this symbol to dissolve destructive blueprints that are causing you harm.

“I release the mental/emotional patterns of reacting out of fear, obligation, dread, revenge or disdain.”

“I dissolve the underlying patterns of worry, guilt or ___________ and send them to the Sun.”

Take your time and visualize them dissolving like dark clouds into the pure, light of the Sun.

 

Once the patterns are dissolved in your mind, seal and heal any leaks or attachments that may lead you back into CONFLICT.

“All holes are sealed and healed. All pathways that lead to CONTRADICTIONS and CONFLICT are closing.” 

“I follow the direction of healthy protection.”

 

Make a RESOLUTION to overcome your difficulties by making progress in a unified and productive direction. Gently formulate some positive affirmations about how you can follow through now and do things in a way that will really benefit you and write them down so you remember to follow through! For example:

“I make a RESOLUTION to relax and grow in the direction of my general good.”

 

Chakra Reversals

Finally, let your thinking balance out and support you in your new RESOLUTION.

Keep relaxing with these two symbols until you can clearly see yourself taking the appropriate actions. Remember that actions speak louder than words!

Crown Chakra

Congratulations!

It isn’t always easy to do the right thing in relationships, yet if you’re willing to make a change for the better – anything is possible!

 

Todays Intuitive Reading


Rheanni Lightwater - Do the Right ThingTransformation Games have been put together by Rheanni Lightwater, CHT, CKP.

If you would like more help, find out about Rheanni’s Intuitive Readings and Clearings (Long Distance or Visit Santa Fe)

Long distance intuitive readings are available with Rheanni (Ray-ah-nee). Call her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, Monday through Friday to schedule.

Disclaimer:
Do the Right Thing should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment of any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

How Well Are You Nourishing Yourself?

Evaluate How You’re Nourishing Yourself in the New Paradigm ~

Kuan Yin's Transformation Games - NourishingKuan Yin has been helping us through these I Ching Readings to transition from the old economic paradigm based on greed and fear to a new paradigm of co-operation and sustainable prosperity. Today, her advice about NOURISHING comes from the I Ching, an ancient book of divination that follows the flow of the cosmos. Because of that, her advice and instruction comes from a different perspective than ours.

To help you better connect with her assistance, she uses the Intuitive Learning Circles  to communicate with you through meditation, affirmations and visualization. Here’s an example that could help you tune into how your nourishing yourself:

“I reclaim and balance my five senses.”

“I focus them to be aware of my own body and how I’m taking care of myself.”

“I gain clear awareness of what might be blocking POTENTIAL ENERGY that will nourish me in present time.”

 


MIND BODY INTEGRATION
Mind Body Integration

For best results playing a Transformation Game, look at each Circle both crossed over the midline of the body and uncrossed so that the correction is more complete.

Kuan Yin’s I Ching Readings and Transformation Games can help you to identify problems, change your focus to positive solutions, ground yourself and get in the present. Simply relax and gaze at the Circles while contemplating Kuan Yins words. Your intuition will come forward and give you the help that you seek.


Welcome to the I Ching Reading and Transformation Game for: Hexagram # 27 – Nourishing

I Ching Transformation Game - Nourishing

Did you know that your body knows a lot about what it needs and how well you’re nourishing yourself?

There have been a lot of changes in the general energy and in how we need to adapt to it. One way of functioning is passing away and another needs to be more firmly established.

Section One: Physical and Emotional Nourishment

For example, your Second Chakra is deeply connected to your emotions, your digestion and immunity. It has a lot of information about how you’re NOURISHING yourself on these levels and what you might do to improve. However, during times of high stress or illness, communication can get blocked from your conscious awareness, making it hard to hear what your body is trying to tell you. Take a moment and relax with this Reiki Chakra Key for your Second Chakra to help you tune in and listen. Use the affirmations if they help or come up with one of your own.

“I allow free flowing, life affirming energy in my Second Chakra.”

“I get clear information about my health and how well I’m nourishing myself.”

 

There are several ways that the Second Chakra can get blocked. One is inappropriate nourishment. Perhaps you’re eating the wrong foods for you at this time or you could be taking in toxic elements from your environment, including dangerous frequencies, chemicals, electro-magnetics, illness or other harmful energies.

See if this Circle can help you bring your awareness in to check for those energies. Yes or no, are you picking up:  
Any foods that are causing problems?
A problem in the water you’re drinking?

Harmful frequencies,
electro-magnetics,
chemicals,
illness,
other harmful energies?
Make notes for yourself so that you don’t forget and can do some research.

 

There might be some kind of karmic entanglement, an emotional conflict or outright danger in your environment. Could any of those issues be present for you right now?

Could you be trying to process somebody else’s emotions?

If so, ask yourself a few pertinent questions:

What would be the purpose in processing someone else’s emotions?

Is continuing to nourish yourself in this way a good idea?

How long has it been going on?

How much damage has been done?

Are you ready and willing to put a stop to it now?

 

Your Second Chakra could also get blocked if you’re over-indulging in something that’s generally good for you when taken in moderate amounts.

To better determine if something like that is happening with you, experiment with Sloth, one of our favorite Intuitive Learning Circles for slowing down and focusing on what’s really important. Use this medicine to focus in on how you are nourishing yourself.

“I slow down and turn my attention towards my basic needs.”

 

So, How Are You Seeing Your Needs?

You can use Maslov’s Hierarchy of Needs as a model to help you assess your priorities. Are they in balance?

The triangle may be upside down, distorted or out of focus. The levels could be out of order or a level could be missing entirely. It might not even seem that it fits at all! Use the symbol to the right of the pyramid to help you set things right.

“I set things right so that how I nourish myself physically and emotionally actually fits my current needs.”

 

 

You may need to change some agreements about how you prioritize your needs. For example, you might have an unconscious agreement to sacrifice your health or wellbeing for others. Of course, you may choose to do that. However, it’s a different matter if you’re sacrificing yourself against your will! See any agreements that contradict your free will burning up in a beautiful violet flame.

“I release all agreements to revert back to the past or old ways of being.”
“I let go of martyrdom or sacrificing any part of my health or wellbeing.”

“I am decide to find other ways to take care of myself and be helpful.”

Make other new agreements that would be helpful to you now…

“It would benefit me to ______________.”

 

Evaluate How You Are Nourishing Yourself.

Now that your priorities are clearer, you can get more accurate information about how to nourish yourself. If you follow the directions, you can get all kinds of answers that could really help out. All you have to do is relax and gaze softly at the center open space of this Circle while you ask yourself a few questions.

Use a scale of one to ten to evaluate what’s going on (one being lousy and ten being great!). Be sure to listen to your body and be receptive to the answers that come.

Use a scale of “One “to “Ten”:

“How am I nourishing myself nutritionally? Am I taking in too much of something? Is there something I’m not getting enough of? Is there something I need to put some LIMITATIONS on?

What about how I’m emotionally nourishing myself?

What about nourishing my spiritual Self?

Am I giving myself helpful mental nourishment?

How well am I taking care of my body’s needs for exercise, rest, fresh air?”

 

Use this Symbol to Consciously Bring in Your Soul’s Unique Energy Signature.

“I relax and align myself with the true signature and imprint of my Soul.”

“I clear away imprints that obscure who I really am,  like old graffiti markings.”

“I recognize my true signature, just as I recognize my signature on a document.”

 

Continue Your Evaluation and Consciously Put Together a New Awareness.

Bring together the puzzle pieces that come directly from your Soul. For help, ask yourself:

“Am I missing anything? What could I really use?”

“What do I need to do to put this all together?”

“What is the best way to proceed?”

Keep crossing and uncrossing your arms or legs until some clear guidance comes.

 

Complete This Section by Energetically Clearing Out Your 2nd Chakra.

Take all the time you need.

“I clear out any unwanted or harmful energies.”

“I give myself an energy boost!”

 

Congratulations! In this first section, we’ve aimed to clear things up enough for you to get a general picture of how you’re nourishing yourself and what you need to do to raise your vibration.

In the next section we’re going to take a look at how some of your projects are nourishing you!


 Section Two: Nourishing Yourself with Healthy, Supportive Projects.

It’s important to know if there are any projects that are a problem for you and what the causes might be. 

To do that, let’s utilize another Chakra Key that taps into the wisdom of your Soul, called the Third Eye Chakra. Through it, your mind can communicate meaningful insights to you. Use these affirmations to help you open up:

“My intuition and common sense are connected and balanced.”

“I receive meaningful information about ____________.”

“My mind helps me to find appropriate nourishment from joyful, supportive projects.”

 

There may be blockages in your energy field that are part of the problem. Relax with this Circle and it’s affirmations:

“I repair the glitches, holes and blockages in my energy system.”

“All shut downs and reversals are gently corrected.”

 

Think about a project you’re currently involved in that concerns you. Perhaps there’s a great deal of emotional drama involved with it or the environment may be troubling for you in some way.

See if this next Circle can help you gather up your impressions about the situation and bring your concerns into a clearer awareness.

What emotions do you pick up? What do you notice about the environment around your project? 

 

Do you need to pull yourself back from any part of this project? Do you need to pull your energy out of it entirely?

If so, use this Circle to reclaim any and all parts with appreciation and gratitude..

“I call back all parts of my energy – past, present and future.”

It may be helpful to use The Essential Human to assist you.  Ask for numbers between 1 and 42.

 

Is this project genuinely beneficial to you now? Could it be?

Protection

What do you need to change about how you’re nourishing yourself with it?

 

Is there anything about the situation that needs to change in order for you to be true to yourself?

Are you open to receiving the most beneficial and life affirming energy that is available to you at this time?

Is there anything that needs to be changed? How would you put what you need into words?

 

Imagine that this symbol for Dissolving Destructive Blueprints can help you identify and dissolve any toxic imprints or patterns that may be perpetuating harm. You might see them as a dark cloud dissolving into the pure light of the Sun.

“I release the blockages and entanglements that keep me from  experiencing healthy nourishment.”

“I release patterns that keep me from experiencing joy.”


 

Gaze softly into the center of Mapacho Medicine and see ancient intentions like eggs or seeds waiting to be activated. Not only do you see your own intentions and prayers, but also cultural, ancestral goals that no longer have life affirming motivations behind them. Visualize them like ingredients in a soup that is spoiling your genuinely desired outcome. 

Imagine you can scoop out any unpreferred intentions and send them to the Sun:

“I let go of all intentions that would contradict my highest good or cause conflict in how I need to nourish myself in the New Paradigm.”

 

Release any seeds of karma that perpetuate habits and beliefs that keep you from nourishing yourself properly and send them to the light.

“I plant new karmic seeds for good things that will support my new choices. I nourish those seeds with love, light, fresh water and healthy nutrition.”

 

Finish this exercise by closing the door on all that toxicity and move in the direction of nourishing yourself appropriately. 

Closure for Mind Body Healing

“I close the door on any drain or strain on my time, space or energy.”

“I follow the direction of healthy protection.”

 

Congratulations! You’ve just set the stage to let go of harmful energies and emotions and begin moving in the direction of NOURISHING yourself appropriately.  Be sure to take time to rest and relax. Take a walk or get out into nature if you can!

If you want to find out how well your relationships are nourishing you, check out Nourish Healthy Relationships here>

 

For More Help Navigating the Flow – Check Out Todays Intuitive Reading >


Rheanni LightwaterRheanni Lightwater CHT, CKT lives and practices in Santa Fe, NM. She specializes in mind body healing with family and relationship clearing using Kinesiology, the Intuitive Learning Circles™, Reiki as a Master/Teacher, Hypnotherapy and Shamanic Clearing Techniques.

Schedule with Rheanni via Zoom, FaceTime or in person when you visit Santa Fe, New Mexico. Call her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, MST, Monday through Friday to schedule.


Disclaimer:
This game should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment of any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Open Your Heart and Reunite with Nature

How to Open Your Heart to Rainforest Medicine from Gifts From the Rainforest ~

Open Your Heart through Gifts from the RainforestThere are forty-nine Intuitive Learning Circles™ in Gifts from the Rainforest. Each Circle imparts the teaching and healing medicine of its plant, animal or nature spirit. 

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You can think of them as communication tools to help you access intuition that comes from your Soul.  

Gifts from the Rainforest is the foundational guide for the Intuitive Learning Circle method.


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Below is a Transformation Game that will help you open your heart and make friends with the animal, plant or nature spirit helpers in Gifts from the Rainforest.

Welcome to the I Ching Reading and Transformation Game for Hexagram # 59 – Reuniting with Nature.

How can you open your heart to creative, new ideas when the heart of humanity is struggling to find a new way?

When we are in the midst of a major transition, what can be done to reunify us with our  Souls or “better angels?”

The first thing to consider is what direction are you, personally, heading?

Are you following the promptings of your Soul or something else?

Are you in any kind of danger?

Are you motivated to be reunited with your Divine Nature?

Are you immersed in an emotional quagmire of revenge, resentment, self-pity or cynicism?

Are you willing to look beyond your disappointment and open your heart to a more equitable and balanced future? 

I Ching Workbook - R. L. WingIf you are an artist, leader or anyone looking to create positive change, Hexagram #59 REUNITING from The Book of Change provides an excellent Mission Statement:

“Within the Self, the time of REUNITING is directly connected to your spiritual development. You should now renew your inner faith, in whatever way that has meaning for you… Look for the symbols, rhythms, and patterns that have inspired humanity for all times, and incorporate them into your work. Make a sincere attempt to meet the social responsibility of the artist: REUNITING people with their reality.” ~ The I Ching Workbook, R.L. Wing


Developing a relationship with any of the Helpers in Gifts from the Rainforest is a process that takes time, trust and a sincere intention to ask for and receive their guidance or medicine.

Each Helper has its own medicine, which is explained in the poem and “Further Explanation” sections of the manual. One Helper might have medicine for dealing with difficult people (for example, Parrot #18), while another might help you to focus better, such as Praying Mantis, #6.

The Helpers are like new friends that can really assist you if you’re willing to slow down, open your heart and get to know them. This game will help you to create a healing relationship with whatever Helper you want to get to know next.

Begin by going to Old Sol #49 and reading its message.

Through this Circle, symbolized by the Sun, you can connect with your Higher Self. All the other Circles in this book can only work through your Higher Self or Soul to avoid false guidance.

You will be using “Old Sol” to tell you which Helper would be good to get to know next. You can also use it to confirm guidance that you get or formulate questions and intentions that are important to you.

The next step is to gaze softly at the Circle itself and take several relaxing breaths. It doesn’t really matter what part of the image you’re looking at and it isn’t necessary to figure out what the lines or circles mean. If you find yourself criticizing or doubting yourself, that is your ego trying to interfere with your clear guidance. Just ignore it and bring your attention in to open your heart.

Now that you’ve read the directions, it’s time to ask the question. Look at the Circle and ask your heart:

“Is there an issue or situation that I could use some guidance with right now?”

Old Sol

Answers may come in the form of words, a symbol, an impression or a feeling. What ever comes to you, write it down, even if it doesn’t seem to make sense at first. Also, it’s important to take the the time to listen to your heart. If you’re all up in your head, chasing after thoughts, that’s not really intuition. Gently bring your attention down into your heart area, slow down and listen for quiet, calm messages.


Mind Body IntegrationMind Body Integration

For best results playing a Transformation Game, look at each Circle both crossed over the midline of the body and uncrossed so that the correction is more complete.

If your mind goes blank, go here to clear the blockage.


Once you have an issue, ask Old Sol for a number between one and forty-nine and take the very first number that comes to you. The number you come up with is the number of the Helper and Circle that would be most helpful to you right now. Write the number down, go to that Helper in the book and read about its medicine. Notice if there are any messages that stick out to you.

Next, gaze softly at the Circle (both crossed and uncrossed) and relax. Breathe deeply a few times. Imagine your mind can gather up all the unconscious information it has about this medicine. Now you’re ready to go through the series of Circles in the first section of the game.

Section One: Open Your Heart and Clear Obstacles to Communication

1. Sun #49: To facilitate your connection with your spiritual guidance, keep breathing and gaze with soft eyes at Old Sol while you repeat each affirmation:

“In accordance with my highest good…

Old Soul

… I release all karma or intentions that prevent me from connecting with my Higher Self through my heart.”

“I release all karma or intentions that prevent me from befriending the _________ Helper I have chosen.”

“I release all intentions based on ignorance or harm that would block clear communication.”

 

2. Seed #37: Pretend this Circle is like a communication device. You ask it a question and an answer comes back to you in the form of words, an image, a feeling or a symbol.

This is how you can use the Circles and their Helpers to communicate intuitively with your Soul or Higher Self. Try it out by asking the Seed Helper:

“What is preventing me from following the true guidance of the __________ Helper?”

Make a note of your answers. At this point the answer(s) may or may not make sense to you yet, so just write them down and continue.

 

3. Alligator #3: Now it’s time to uncover whatever thought processes, emotions or behaviors that are blocking a helpful connection. Look into the Intuitive Learning Circle for Alligator and ask the following questions one at a time:

“Can I tell what’s blocking me?”

“Is the blockage a behavior? A habit? An attitude?”

“Is it emotional?”

“Is it conceptual?”

“Is it an attachment?”

“Is there more than one thing blocking me? If so, what are they?”

“Am I perceiving this situation correctly and truthfully?”

4. Snake #7: Read the messages that come from the Snake Helper, and then look at its Circle. What sticks out in your mind? Is there any part of it that catches your attention? If so, write it down because that phrase or idea has important information that could help you understand more about what’s blocking you.

 

Once you’ve done that, look at the Circle and ask your heart:

“How would my life be better if I were friends with the ________ Helper I have chosen?”

Again, write your answer down.

5. Raccoon #11: Many of the Circles work with the nervous system to help you release negative, unproductive agreements and harmful obligations that you might still be reacting to even though you aren’t consciously aware of them. Raccoon is the primary animal totem that handles Soul contracts.

What is a Soul contract? Soul contracts deal with lessons you have agreed to experience on a Soul level so that you can experience who you are more deeply. If a person has completed the lesson, they can move on to other experiences. However, the nervous system will keep repeating the lesson until the person has consciously released the contract and integrated the lesson into their consciousness.

Many times, the ego resists completing the lesson and letting the contract go. Why? Because the ego likes to remain in control through drama, pain, suffering and codependency.

The Raccoon Helper is very powerful because its medicine can bypass the ego and go directly to the nervous system and release completed contracts. Look at the Raccoon Circle and go through this list of potential agreements that might get in the way of clear and honest communication:

A. “I release all agreements, contracts, allegiances, obligations or vows that prevent me from communicating clearly with my Higher Self.”

B. “I release all agreements, contracts, allegiances, obligations or vows that prevent me from communicating clearly with the true spirit of the __________ Helper.”

C. “I release all agreements with lies, deception, hostility or false guidance.”

D. “I release all agreements, contracts, allegiances, obligations or vows that prevent me from benefiting from and utilizing the medicine of the _________ Helper.”

Releasing contracts and agreements of this kind significantly loosens the grip that the ego has on your mind and body. Energy can begin to move differently for you now and negative patterns are more easily changed to benefit you. Use this Soul Prayer Chart for Divine Connection to help you.

“My Heart is open. My Soul is in charge and I am empowered to make friends with this Helper.”

“Working toward common goals will greatly benefit your inner strength; there is no regret in such selflessness.” ~ Line 3 from Hexagram #59 REUNITING: The I Ching Workbook, R.L. Wing

Now it’s time to dissolve mental and emotional patterns that keep you at odds with yourself and your new friend. Use this symbol for dissolving destructive blueprints to identify and disperse any harmful personal, societal or familial patterns that have come up in this process. See them disappear like old cloud banks dissolving into pure sunlight:

“I dissolve all destructive patterns that keep me from reuniting with the truth.”

Once the patterns are cleared, give your heart and Soul some relief through closure.

“All pathways of guilt, blame, suffering and confusion are sealed and healed. I follow the direction of healthy protection.”

Excellent! When you open your heart and reunite with Nature, you are accessing communication with your Soul that offers profound truths and transformation.

Now is a good time to test how well this game has opened up your relationship with your Helper. Go to the Helper that you chose and think about the issue or problem that you wrote down at the beginning of the game. Come up with a simple question, look at the Circle for your Helper and ask it. What answer(s) do you get? Write them down and follow through if needed. 

Tips for asking the totems questions and receiving guidance: 

• Keep your question simple and about one thing at a time. 

• If you don’t get an answer, it may mean that your mind is fixated on a person, an event or something from the past. Mental fixations usually happen because of some kind of emotional or spiritual trauma. If that happens, go to Condor #32, and let its medicine help you to release the fixation. You will know the fixation is cleared when you can come up with an answer to your question. 

• Once you have an answer to your first question, do you have other, related questions you can ask? Go ahead and ask them. 

• Once you’ve finished, put the book aside. Now is a good time to rest, get out into nature, take a walk or otherwise refresh yourself. Allow the answer to percolate while you are doing something else.

Extra Help from The Essential Human

The Essential Human* If you have a copy of The Essential Human, now would be a good time to use Future Pacing on page 140 to help you project a preferred relationship with this Helper out into the future. Choose new ingredients from The Essential Human #1 – 42. Use this affirmation:

“I release harmful ingredients and access beneficial ingredients. I am friends with this Helper.”

Congratulations! Going through this introductory game has helped you to identify and release the ideas, behaviors and beliefs that are getting in the way of good guidance that comes from yourSoul. Now is a good time to go for a walk or get out into Nature so you can integrate what you’ve learned.

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Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKT lives and practices in Santa Fe, NM. She specializes in mind body healing with family and relationship clearing using Kinesiology, the Intuitive Learning Circles™, Reiki as a Master/Teacher, Hypnotherapy and Shamanic Clearing Techniques.

Schedule with Rheanni via Zoom or in person when you visit Santa Fe, New Mexico. Call her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, MST, Monday through Friday to schedule.


Disclaimer:
This Transformation Game should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment of any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Feng Shui for Your Home

How to ADAPT the Feng Shui For Your Home to Go With the Natural Flow of the New Season ~

Feng Shui for Your HomeFeng Shui for your home is very useful at any time there’s a change of season. It’s also good to check in any time significant changes have taken place and make some assessments.

For example, just a few months ago, we were still able to access some of the Water based flow of the Piscean Age. Now, as we’re approaching the Summer Solstice, we find ourselves needing to make changes to adapt to the Air based flow of chi which is much lighter, faster and quick to change. Luckily, there are some Feng Shui principles we can use to help us manage this transition.

Let’s start by changing our agreements with how the flow of Water and Air are supposed to work for us!

“I release my agreements with old ways that are no longer working and adapt to fundamental changes in how the natural flow of chi (life force) is moving.”

Feng Shui for You Home - Water and Air

This transformation is admittedly a challenge, yet it’s one we really need to meet!

On one hand, we want to find ways to calm down and properly direct the flow of Air, which for many is manifesting as wildfires, floods, social unrest and emotional volatility. On the other hand, there are many areas in our environment that are still stagnating in the old water based pattern, which manifests as illness, apathy, resentment and depression. This is a recipe for disaster and it needs to be reversed!

How can we pull ourselves up out of the muck and mire?

I Ching Workbook - R. L. WingThe I Ching or Book of Change is also an invaluable resources as we investigate this change. Like Feng Shui,  it follows the movements and tendencies in the cosmos using a series of sixty-four hexagrams or energy flows. When the Feng Shui for your home goes with the flow of life, it’s easier to create more beneficial circumstances for ourselves. Whenever the I Ching energy is ADAPTING, it’s  a beneficial time to simplify your environment and remove discordant objects or furnishings that don’t work anymore. The text says:

“Rid yourself of old prejudices and opinions (objects and furnishings) that may be controlling your behavior and holding you back… You will find yourself parting ways with former inferior elements in your life as you make contact with worthwhile persons or ideals. By firmly following the superior path you will find what you are looking for, while your strength of character will greatly benefit.”
~ Hexagram #17 ADAPTING, The I Ching Workbook, R. L Wing

If you’re ready to begin assessing the Feng Shui for Your Home, it helps to focus your awareness:

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Rheanni Lightwater, Feng Shui Consultant

I use the Intuitive Learning Circles as mindfulness tools for tuning into my intuition and focusing my “feng shui eyes.” You can easily learn to use them too! All you have to do is relax and gaze softly at the Circles while you gently contemplate the affirmations or questions that go with them.

 

For example, This Reiki Chakra Key accesses the Life Path Chakras, positioned on either side of the top of the head, about one inch out from the Crown Chakra. They carry our potential coming into this lifetime.
When the polarity between these energy centers are negative, we expend a lot of effort to achieve our aims. When their polarity is positive and balanced, things get a lot easier.

Breathe deeply and engage your potential to help you understand the flow of Feng Shui. You can use these positive affirmations to help you:

“These chakras are open and have a positive charge.”

“I am opening up to my potential and following my own life path.”

“I bring ease and flow into how I perceive and use energy.”

 

Next, the Rational Thought Chakra Key and it’s affirmations will help you gather up your senses and focus them on assessing the energy of your environment:

“I connect with my five senses.”

“I fine tune them to be present and aware of my long term goals.”

“I use them to become aware of my environment.”

“I gain clear awareness of helpful or harmful influences in this environment.”

 


Mind Body IntegrationThey say that intuition is easier when all of the senses are balanced. Some may be turned up too high and some may be too low. Relax and allow your eyes to rest gently on the center of the Circle below to balance them.

Take some deep breaths and let your shoulders drop. Adjust the volume to your senses. Do that both crossed and uncrossed over the midline of your body to achieve greater mind body integration and tune into your “feng shui eyes.”

River

 

Next, gaze gently at this Circle to get present and relax. Breathe deeply. Imagine that you’re slowing down, so you can get a more objective “read” on the situation. Use an affirmation like:

“I slow down and bring my attention in, towards what’s truly important about my environment right now.” 

Feng Shui for Your Home
Sloth

Imagine that you can slow the energy around you down, like a slow motion replay you would see on TV. We often miss intuitive information because things are just moving too fast!

[You] “can now benefit from internal stillness. By avoiding thoughts that project too far into the future, and dispelling illusions of what can or will be, you can overcome ego-generated difficulties.” ~ Hexagram #52 MEDITATION, The I Ching Workbook, R. L Wing

So often we miss things that are right in front of us because we’re thinking about how things were in the past or worrying about how things could be in the future. Truth is, we need to be very present with what’s going on right now. There’s a lot of very important things shifting and changing!

Use this Circle for the Four Seasons to get present. Notice where you are right now. Ask yourself:

Am I fully in the present? If not, is part of me lingering in the past? Am I projecting out too much about the future?”

Four Seasons

Feel your hands open and close. Check for the date and time. Move around. Use this affirmation: “I bring myself fully into the present.”

 

ADAPT to the changes by recalibrating your energy to function in accordance with your highest good.

“I am empowered to make the changes needed now.”

 

Finally, in order to get an accurate read, you need to trust your “gut instincts.” In this situation, do you trust your gut feeling?

Divine Perspective

If the answer you get is “no,” you’d be missing a really important aspect of doing an effective Feng Shui assessment. Go here, to get help if you need it.

If the answer you get is “yes,” get something to take notes with and you are ready to get an accurate “read” on your home!

So let’s get started!

Here are five baseline questions, beginning with what needs to be removed. When you remove disturbing influences first, your environment can support you better as it suggests in I Ching Hexagram #18 REPAIR:

“The situation will develop new energy and inspiration once the problems are removed.”

Baseline Check #1: Ask yourself this question while gazing softly at the Intuitive Learning Circle below:

“Under these new conditions, do I need to remove clutter or disturbing influences from my home, yard or office?”

Old Soul
Old Sol

“If so, can I tell what they are and what I need to do?”

Interesting isn’t? You intuitively know somethings up, but need a little help to focus in on the details of what’s actually happening.

You may need to clear your crystals or sacred objects so that you have a fresh start and you probably need to set a new overall intention for your house to adapt to changes in your environment. Get more info…

 

Baseline Check #2: Get a sense if anything needs to be rearranged so you can optimize your chances for success in all areas of your life. Ask yourself:

“Do I need to rearrange something in this environment to let go of stagnant energy from the past? Could I rearrange something that would lighten up the energy? If so, can I tell what it is or what area needs rearranging?”

Praying Mantis

“You can see the problems clearly. The timing is excellent for making amends.” ~I Ching Hexagram #18 REPAIR

 

Baseline Check #3: The third question is about whether or not something needs to be redirected. For example, the Feng Shui in your home may need additional help when the chi goes retrograde and starts to run in reverse. This is more subtle, yet especially important during this transition because the flow is so unstable.

First, release any agreement to inadvertently maintain unhealthy flow.

 

Next, take note of the answers you get when you ask these questions:

“Is something out of order or contradictory? Are there any holes or disturbances in the flow? If so, where is it located?


Is there an area where people get upset easily, feel depressed or are prone to arguments?

Is there a place where water accumulates and causes damage?”

 

Baseline Check #4: The fourth question is about whether or not something needs to be added. This isn’t a question about what’s fashionable, it’s about flow. Many beautiful houses are picture perfect, yet they don’t feel comfortable or welcoming. What’s missing in those cases is a harmonious flow. So, while you gaze softly at this next Circle, think about your environment again, as it is currently. Ask:

“Is anything missing? What might bring more harmony into the space?” 

Can you get an idea of what you might add to make the correction? Make sure you keep in mind the needs of the other people who live or work with you.

“Only through intelligent deliberation can you be certain that the action you take is correct… The correct actions now are constructive rather than combative and lay the foundation for continued growth toward the good.” ~ I Ching Hexagram #18 REPAIR

Baseline Check #5: Finish your assessment by considering these questions about what kind of energy is flowing through your home. You may need to re-source where the chi’ is coming from:

“How well am I taking care of myself? What changes in my environment would most help me during this transformation? How can I best stabilize the energy so that I can properly nourish myself?”

Butterfly

Hopefully, you’ve been writing all of this down… don’t worry if it doesn’t make sense. Intuitive information often doesn’t at first. However, you may very well have dreams and get deeper insights and understanding later.

Congratulations! You now have a lot more information about how Feng Shui for your home or office can help you ADAPT to change and create greater prosperity.

P.S. If you’re interested, here is a special list of Feng Shui Remedies for STAGNATION.


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Some people don’t know that feng shui can also help you to correct instability and “take apart” destructive patterns that are causing you and your family harm. Those patterns may have been a part of the family dynamic for a very long time. 

Once the imbalances are corrected in your environment, personal growth happens more easily and effectively. Good health is supported. Your sense of timing improves, chaos is reduced and changes in life direction are more easily achieved. 

Going through this process can help you evaluate whether or not your home is providing a stable and healthy environment for you. Plus, you could get some inspiration or possible remedies to support your happiness.


Rheanni Lightwater - Feng Shui AssessmentRheanni Lightwater is a Reiki Master, Hypnotherapist and Medical Intuitive that specializes in space clearing and Feng Shui Online, in Santa Fe NM and also serves the Albuquerque, Rio Rancho and surrounding New Mexico area. 


A Feng Shui consultation with Rheanni lasts between one and three hours, depending upon the property and the circumstances surrounding it. Rates are $120.00 per hour. A complimentary initial telephone consultation is available.

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Disclaimer:
This Transformation Game should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Making Clear Priorities to Create Happiness

Are You Making Clear Priorities Through Your True Spiritual Self, or the Ego? A Transformation Game on How to Stay Clear of Other Peoples Agendas.

Making Clear Priorities

One of the biggest components of learning how to live a happy life is making clear priorities for yourself based on the needs and desires of your own true Self. That means that you have to figure out ways to keep yourself clear of other people’s agendas and attitudes. 

This can get complicated because most people allow their egos to be in control of their mind, their decisions and their bodies. That gets to be a real problem because the egoic critical mind is often very angry, easily distracted and based on fear. Here is a comparison that I like to use:

“The ego doesn’t like to take chances; the heart and soul thrive on them.
The ego idealizes the past; the heart and soul live in the present.
The ego fears the future; the heart and soul embrace it.” ~ Gifts from the Rainforest, Rheanni Lightwater

Blockages to HappinessThere’s also a “collective ego” that tries to control societal agendas on the basis of suffering, struggle and pain. Some people would call that the “hive mind” or groupthink. If we comply and give into the groupthink, happiness is in very short supply because it’s based solely on external conditions. How much do I have and how much can I get? Under that paradigm, our only hope is to try and control how things work out for us. If we rebel, we have to fight against everything and resist. Either way, the basic premise we are reacting from is unhappiness and dissatisfaction.

This Game is associated with Hexagram #18 REPAIR from The I Ching or The Book of Change.

“Stop now and think about it. Your problems may seem to be overwhelming; things appear to be out of hand. Yet the hexagram REPAIR bodes great success. Through work you have the opportunity to totally eliminate the past indifference that has created the present uncomfortable situation. Work hard. You can see the problems clearly. The timing is excellent for making amends. Do not be afraid to take assertive action…Your own past attitude has allowed the damage to occur, making you uniquely equipped to REPAIR it.” The I Ching Workbook, R.L. Wing

Is it really possible to REPAIR the ego based model peacefully and let our spiritual Selves be in charge? How can we free ourselves from the suffering of the ego mind and respond from a place of self-love instead?”


Awareness of Our True Priorities Might Be a Good Place to Start

In this short game, you have the opportunity to examine whether you are making clear priorities for yourself based on self-love or based on suffering and struggle.

Simply gaze at each symbol with a soft focus and relax. Then engage with the questions or positive affirmations that go with each one. In this way, you can connect with your spiritual Self and get intuitive answers that come from the Soul.

A Transformation Game for Making Clear Priorities

Know When Making REPAIRS Is Needed ~

There are several reasons why we might be unconsciously tapping into the ego mind. Most of us have at least one “blind spot.” For some reason, we’ve been conditioned to listen to the ego rather than our true Spiritual Selves. Let’s see if we can remedy some of that by gazing softly at this Reiki Chakra Key, together with these positive affirmations:

“I repair my blind spot. I take ownership of my senses.”

“I use them to be present and aware.”

“I use them to sense what will keep me safe, productive and well.”

“I can clearly sense true spiritual guidance and my soul’s purpose.”

Electro-magnetic frequencies can block clear guidance and knock your senses out of balance.  

Gaze softly at this Circle and take a moment to bring your senses into balance so you can calm down and perceive things more clearly. 

Imagine you can adjust the volume in your head. Take all the time you need.

Once your senses are adjusted, it’s easier to tell what’s really going on.

Test Your Level of Awareness ~

Now you can use this Circle to safely check into how collective groupthink might be affecting you. As you gaze softly, use this simple affirmation:

Am I aware of any societal attitudes and agendas that cause me harm?”

“if so, am I fighting or complying with my ego and the collective ego?”

“I release all agreements that the ego (collective or personal) is in charge of my life, my body, my decisions or how I express myself.”

“My spiritual Self is in charge of my happiness, my karma and how I use my energy.”

Next Step – Slow Down Your Thinking ~

Relax and gaze softly at the center open space of this Circle while you repeat a few positive affirmations to yourself. If there’s a question, just be open to your gut response.

“I slow down because things may be moving too fast for me to be making clear priorities. “

“I’m willing to admit if I don’t know what’s going on. Asking for help is a blessing.”

“Is my inner guidance sending me a warning? An opportunity?”

“Am I being misguided? Do I need to let go of something?”

“Does intuition want to redirect my attention to something else?”

“In either case, am I willing to listen and learn?”

Deal with Shock or Inner Conflicts ~

You may be experiencing shock that’s interfering with your ability to shift your thinking and concentrate on what really matters. Negative groupthink relies on shock to maintain control and manipulation. Relax and use this affirmation to help you release whatever you’re fixated on.

“I let go of fixations that are trapped in my mind. I let all rigid thoughts soften and melt away.”

Make New Decisions ~

What new decisions do you need to make for yourself? For example:

“I let go of decisions I have to screw myself or let myself be screwed.”

“I let my spirit lead me rather than my ego. I make decisions that come from my deepest wisdom.”

Other new decisions could be:

“I am loyal and true to my spiritual Self. My needs are a priority.”

“I have faith in my Self. I take good care of my Self.”

“I ________________________________.”

Reveal Your True Priorities ~

Allow the medicine of this Circle to redirect your thoughts to what your true priorities are. 

“Who and what is most important to me at this time in my life?”

“What is my natural place in this  situation – where do I belong?”

“Am I in the New Paradigm of self-love or the old paradigm based on suffering and struggle*?”

*If you are still in the old paradigm, you may be caught up in another attitude or agenda. You can go back to the beginning of the game and play again as many times as it takes for you to free yourself.

Clear the Mental and Emotional Blueprints ~

We all have family patterns and social conditioning that contribute to the tendency to get caught up in ego agendas and groupthink.

You can use this symbol for dissolving destructive blueprints to identify them in your unconscious mind and clear them out. Just imagine the harmful thoughts, emotions and attitudes are like dark clouds, dissolving away or disappearing into the Sun.

REPAIR Your Communications ~

We’re nearly done now. Use this Circle to help you communicate your priorities from the center of your being! Use this affirmation to help you:

“I communicate my priorities with ease. My intention is clear.”

 

Finally! It’s time to close the door on all those misuses of your time, attention and energies.

“I close the door on harmful agendas and groupthink.

I seal and heal any drain or strain on my time, space, attention or energy.

I follow the direction of healthy protection.

I trust the wisdom of my Soul and true spiritual Self.”

Congratulations! 

You have gone through a process of making clear priorities based on your spiritual Self rather than the ego. It’s time to go out and celebrate your new freedom by doing something that’s truly important to you!

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Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKT lives and practices in Santa Fe, NM. She specializes in mind body healing with family and relationship clearing using Kinesiology, the Intuitive Learning Circles™, Reiki as a Master/Teacher, Hypnotherapy and Shamanic Clearing Techniques.

Schedule with Rheanni via Zoom, Skype or in person when you visit Santa Fe, New Mexico. Call her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, MST, Monday through Friday to schedule.


Disclaimer:
This Transformation Game should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment of any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Adapting to Success – Move Beyond Limitations

Are You Having Trouble Adapting to Success Because of Old Conditioning from Your Past? You might be able to clear limitations faster and simpler than you think!

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Rheanni Lightwater

Kuan Yin's Transformation Games - Adapting to SuccessKuan Yin has been helping us through these Transformation Games to transition from the old paradigm based on greed and fear to a New Paradigm of co-operation, equality and sustainable prosperity. Her advice about adapting to success springs from the I Ching, an ancient book of divination that follows the flow of the cosmos. Because of that, her advice and instruction comes from a different perspective than ours.

Kuan Yin’s Transformation Games can help you to identify problems, change your focus to positive solutions, ground yourself and get in the present. Simply relax and gaze at the Circles while contemplating Kuan Yins words. Your intuition will come forward and give you the help that you seek.


Mind Body Integration

Mind Body IntegrationFor best results, look at each Circle both crossed over the midline of the body and uncrossed so that the correction is more complete.

Feel free to move at any time in any way to help you embody your experience!

 


Welcome to the I Ching Reading and Transformation Game for Hexagram # 17: Adapting to Success

“If you sincerely insist upon the very best, the chances are that you will get it. Set your sights high. Good fortune.” ~ The I Ching Workbook, R.L. Wing

Adapting to SuccessExperiences from your past or family of origin have shaped your imagination and fostered limiting beliefs about what is possible. 

If you look around you right now, you may realize that most everything you see has been influenced by the tastes and tendencies that began in your childhood.

In your adult life, you will need to expand your imagination to find a new way to creating the happiness you desire.

Check In: Are You Tuning Into the Kind of Emotional Energy That Will Take You Where You Really Want to Go?

Sometimes people have been conditioned so deeply to be afraid or negative, they aren’t really sure what to do when things are going well. The way you view yourself and what you think you’re capable of is colored by habitual behaviors learned in early love relationships as well as childhood experiences. You may simply be struggling with old programs, entanglements and destructive tendencies.

Regardless of how it came to be, there is a simple way to change the emotional energy you’re tapping into using these Intuitive Learning Circles™ with your imagination!

 

Step One: Adapting to Success Begins with Awareness

Think about how things were communicated to you when you were little. Use this symbol to help you tap into the problem so that you can clear it out. Ask yourself:

“Is there a pattern of dysfunction that’s coming to the surface for me now? If so, is it related to family, society, career, religious upbringing or an old relationship?

The fact that it’s coming up could mean that you’re ready to ADAPT to a healthier mindset and REFORM how you’re doing things. Is that the case here? If you’re not ready, are you willing to respect your healing process and step back?


Bringing up childhood memories can often bring up a lot of confusing and conflicting information. Let this symbol for clearing out shock and fixations help you sort things out a little. Relax and gaze softly at the symbol while you breath deeply both crossed and uncrossed over the midline of your body. Once the energy around the symbol calms down, you will find that you’ve calmed down as well!

Step Two: Clarity About What Success Means

Even if you aren’t ready to clear the energy, you may be able to use your awareness in some other way to benefit you. For example, do you need to protect yourself in some way? Do you need a boost of self-confidence? Would it be good to take a few breaths and slow down? Would some movement be helpful? Gaze at the Circle with soft eyes and ask yourself:

“What does adapting to success mean to me in this situation?”

What’s really important here? What will help me?”

“Am I just getting sucked into an old habit?”

 

Step Three: Access Your Inner Wisdom

Empower yourself to follow your own advice. Let this Circle help you come up with the very best scenario that you can imagine*.

“What is the very best thing I could ask for?”

Old Soul

 

Step Four: Recalibrate Your Energy for Empowerment

Let this symbol help you connect deeply with your heart center. Affirm that you exist and that your spirit can empower your highest good.

 

Step Five: Activate the Power of Your Word

Write down your request, in your own words. Take the time to let those words come from your heart.

Chakra Healing with the Master Chakras

 

Step Six:

Relax and bring your senses into balance.

Then, imagine your request. See it, hear it, taste it, smell it and feel it as specifically as you can.

 

Step Seven:

If you’re having trouble imagining anything or your mind is going blank, you have probably accessed an inner conflict. Gaze softly at this Circle, relax and let the lines get all wavey. Continue to breathe while you gently release the conflict(s). Once the energy calms down, you will either know what you want or know what to do to help you get there. For example, you could go back to Step Three and ask the question again until your request becomes clear or you could Retrain Your Mind To Go for Joy.

Congratulations! You now know what the pattern is and how you would like it to change. This is an important first step in the process of ADAPTING to success.” 


If you’d like, there are a couple other steps you could take that would really improve how you handle success and empower your transition to the New Paradigm. 

Extra-intuitive Activities for Adapting to Success

 


About the Author

Rheanni Lightwater - Adapting to SuccessRheanni Lightwater CHT, CKT lives and practices in Santa Fe, NM. She specializes in mind body healing with family and relationship clearing using Kinesiology, the Intuitive Learning Circles™, Reiki as a Master/Teacher, Hypnotherapy and Shamanic Clearing Techniques.

Schedule with Rheanni via Zoom, Skype or in person when you visit Santa Fe, New Mexico. Call her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, MST, Monday through Friday to schedule or Email: soulresources@gmail.com


Disclaimer:
Adapting to Success should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Escape Critical Mass

Transformation Game to Escape Critical Mass

Rheanni Lightwater, reiki Master Teacher

Kuan Yin's Transformation Game - Escape Critical MassKuan Yin has been helping us through these I Ching Readings to transition from the old economic paradigm based on greed and fear to a new paradigm of co-operation, common ground and sustainable prosperity. Her advice springs from the I Ching (The Book of Change), an ancient book of divination that follows the flow of the cosmos. Because of that, her advice and instruction comes from a different perspective than ours.

To help you better connect with her assistance, she uses the Intuitive Learning Circles ™ to communicate with you through meditation, affirmations and visualization. If you’re unsure about how to use the Circles, you can check out Exploring the Intuitive Learning Circles here >

Kuan Yin’s I Ching Readings and Transformation Games can help you to identify problems, change your focus to positive solutions, ground yourself and get in the present. Simply relax and gaze at the Circles while contemplating Kuan Yins words. Your intuition will come forward and give you the help that you seek.


Transformation Game and I Ching Reading for Hexagram #28: Escape Critical Mass & Prepare for the New Paradigm

“The mindset of the old patriarchy is currently filled with chaos and curses. There is a lot going on, the situation is excessive and you may need to escape CRITICAL MASS soon.

Escape Critical Mass

Calmly prepare to make decisions about your priorities and your next move. Your better angels are ready to guide you. Ask for help and assistance will be given.

Carefully evaluate all of the things affecting you. In social or business affairs make a rapid assessment of your situation. Concern yourself with the care and development of your assets. These are things that you will carry with you, and they should become the foundations of your character.

Any goal that supports stability and equanimity is worth accomplishing. If this is true in your case, a methodical, practical mindset will see you through.

Above all, when CRITICAL MASS is imminent, action must be taken. Whether this is a carefully considered escape or a resolute determination to dispense with what is to come, success surrounds those who remain strong and certain within.” ~ The I Ching Workbook, R L Wing

Mind Body Integration

Mind Body IntegrationFor best results, look at each symbol both crossed over the midline of the body and uncrossed so that the correction is more complete.


Transformation Game: Escape Critical Mass

1. These symbols begin the process of disconnecting from the mindset of inequality and patriarchy.  Use positive affirmations while you gaze softly at the images:

“I dissolve the patterns that bind me to the old, patriarchal paradigm – past, present and future.”

 

“I reject and repel the harmful energy of elitism.”

“I develop caution and mindfulness to help me steer clear of dangerous situations.”

2. Release any unconscious connections you have to the mindset of inequality. Let go of any agreement you have to connect with it or put up with it for any reason. 

“I release all agreements with any false ideas or dogma about what’s in my best interest.

I release all alliances with chaos and curses and detach from them completely.”

My new agreements are: “My Soul is in charge. I am patient and receive clear guidance based on my needs. All action now follows my Soul’s purpose.”

 

“I now choose to move into a new mindset of healthy balance, equality and co-operation with my Soul.”

 

3. The next section uses images from Divine Nature Activated to help you release epigenetic patterns. 

Epigenetic Healing - DNAMentally, imagine that you’re untangling yourself from any confusion, darkness or sticky energy you may be feeling. Once it feels gone, imagine your DNA connecting with positive energy from your Soul.

The more relaxed you are, the better this works, so take your time. Allow the affirmations to help you shift your energy.

Note: DNA and the auras are directly connected. Be sure that you end this game healing and sealing your auras with the last Circle.

Imagine that the toxic pattern of inequality is sticking to you and that this symbol can help you remove it and send it to the Sun.

“I remove harmful communication lines from my energy field and send them to the Sun.

Once your energy feels clearer, take your time with this visualization:

“I now build and strengthen new lines of direct and honest communication with my Soul.”

 

4. Continue with this sequence of symbols – remember to relax!

“I see through the smokescreen of whatever is blocking my ability to move forward in a healthy way.”

 

“I release complexity and return to simplicity. “

 

“I receive the vibration of Universal Love and transform it into compassionate action.”

 

5. Balance and clear your Crown Chakra.  This energy center rests at the very top of your head and connects you with divine inspiration and your true potential.

Do the same with your Root Chakra, the opposite end of your Crown Chakra at the pubic bone. These two chakras work together to maintain stability and wholeness.

 

6. Now it’s time to set things right. Use this symbol for dissolving destructive blueprints to identify and let go of any harmful karma or emotional turmoil that interferes with your connection to your Soul. Dispel any patterns relating to the destructive energies you feel:

“I dissolve the energies that prevent me from unifying with my Soul.”

Seal and heal any holes or pathways that may be open:

“The pathways that lead to suffering are closed.

All holes are sealed and healed. I am protected.”

 

7. Once you feel safe, turn your attention to your beneficial seeds of karma and nourish them with positive life force.

“I nourish a balanced, stable mindset.”

 

8. Finally, let this Intuitive Learning Circle™ help you ground and get centered. Put both feet on the floor and use this affirmation:

“I am firmly grounded and centered in the New Paradigm.

I connect to the truth of who I am.”

 

9. With this Circle, find any energetic whirlpools that might suck you back into chaos or emotional turmoil. Close them completely.

 

10. You’re almost finished with the game now, but you’ve got to refocus and strengthen your auras first!

Be sure that you spend all the time you need with this Circle. Your auras are an important part of having good health and protection.

“My auras are completely repaired and refocused.”

 

Congratulations! You’re grounded in a lot more stability!

Remember Kuan Yin’s closing words – “Above all, when the need to escape CRITICAL MASS is imminent, action must be taken. Whether this is a carefully considered escape or a resolute determination to dispense with what is to come, success surrounds those who remain strong and certain within.” ~ The I Ching Workbook, R L Wing

 

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Rheanni Lightwater - Escape Critical MassFind out about Rheanni’s Intuitive Readings and Clearings (Long Distance or in Person)

Mind body healing and intuitive readings are available with Rheanni (Ray-ah-nee). Call her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, Monday through Friday (MST) to schedule.

Disclaimer:
This Transformation Game should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.

Intuitive Readings for the New Paradigm

Intuitive Readings with Rheanni LightwaterI use Intuitive Learning Circles™ in my Intuitive Readings.

Rheanni Lightwater – Intuitive and Reiki Master ~

Intuitive Readings are a powerful form of energy clearing and mind body healing that improves self-confidence and productivity. Personal Intuitive Readings can change the direction you’re heading, transform your life and redirect how you are using your energy.


Intuitive Readings with Animal Totems and Nature Spirits help you get back in touch with nature, develop your intuition and strengthen your instincts.

Animal Totems for Inner GuidanceIn the jungle, shamans wake up every morning and connect with Nature. This is a beautiful practice that gives them power, focus of mind and reaffirms their connection with the Earth and the Creator.

We can follow their example using animal totems for inner guidance from the Gifts from the Rainforest series of Shamanic healing.

Look at the Circle for Raven Medicine with a soft focus and breathe deeply.  Use the affirmation:

“What kind of changes would it be good to know about?”


One of my favorite books of divination is the I Ching or Book of Change.

Intuitive Readings with the I ChingThe best thing about the Book of Change is that it’s uniquely equipped to help you understand your timing and the nature of your problems in relation to the ebb and flow of Nature itself.

Intuitive Readings that consult the Tao (or natural flow of life) can be very instructive about how to best handle challenging situations and make the best decisions for you.

Learn more >


Angelic Guidance is available to provide hope, healing and assistance for those who genuinely request it.

Intuitive Readings - Guidance from Angelic Realms

Access to your Guardian Angel and the Angelic Realms is especially helpful if you have trouble asking for and accepting help. Our society programs us to feel separate and unlovable. This often leads to alternating feelings of stubborn resistance and hopelessness.

Intuitive readings with Angels are for you if you’re ready to take a more cooperative approach to finding grace and accepting your Divinity.


Intuitive Readings can utilize Reiki Chakra Keys to find out if the chakras are properly activated, aligned and functioning to create health and vitality.

Reiki Chakra Keys

Healthy chakras channel energy into and out of the body, which facilitates elimination of toxic materials. Additionally, some chakras are being activated to support our human evolution and awareness. If you are having difficulty activating new chakras or keeping them cleared and balanced, you could be experiencing a great deal of pain and have difficulty eliminating physical, emotional and spiritual toxins.

Since the primary chakras correspond with various organs and systems, a lot of information can be gleaned from intuitive readings using the chakras as an indicator. Find out more about a Grail Reiki healing >


 

Awakening the Essential Human is a unique type of energy medicine for the New Paradigm for emotional imbalances that could be causing physical, mental or spiritual dis-ease.  

Awakening the Essential HumanThe existence of the Essential Self is discussed in many cultures and disciplines. Other names would be the Authentic Self, the Psyche, the Golden Child or the Basic Self. Regardless of what it’s called, you can think of it as your “I am,” your true essence and direct connection with the rest of the cosmos through your Higher Self.

The Essential Human intuitive readings aim to transform harmful attitudes, emotions and energy patterns that may be stuck in your light body.


Here is the SOS symbol from Soul Oriented Solutions.  I use it all the time to access true help and assistance in times of trouble.

SOS - Soul Oriented SolutionsIt’s especially good at helping highly sensitive people make choices for healing emotional issues, fine- tuning your intuition and listening to your gut feelings.

I use this symbol in several self-help books that Soul Resources publishes – the Soul Oriented Solutions series. Consult with your Soul to find a solution.

Ask yourself: “What kind of reading or process would help me the best?”


About Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKP

Intuitive Readings with Rheanni LightwaterRheanni is a Reiki Master/Teacher and Medical Intuitive. She uses Reiki as the energetic foundation for all her mind body healing sessions including the Intuitive Learning Circle™ method.

During a session with Rheanni, you can experience many kinds of mind body healing including, chakra balancing, soul retrieval, inner child healing, trauma resolution, past life, epigenetic and trans-generational clearing.


Learn more: Mind Body Healing with Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKP

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Long Distance Intuitive Readings and Consultations

Santa Fe, New MexicoIntuitive readings are available online or in person when you visit Santa Fe, NM.
Call (Ray-ah-nee) to schedule at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00 am and 5:00pm.
The Time Zone in Santa Fe is Mountain Standard Time. Or you can send an email to soulresources@gmail.com.
Include a brief overview of the general situation you are dealing with.
During the session, have your internet connection available and your questions written down so that everything you want to know is covered. Sessions over SKYPE or ZOOM are available and encouraged. Rheanni’s SKYPE name is rheanni.lightwater .

Disclaimer:

Intuitive readings are not a substitute for professional medical care and diagnosis. I can not give you a diagnosis and I can’t prescribe. If you are ill or injured, please seek the assistance of a qualified medical practitioner.

Finding Moderation In the New Paradigm

Do You Feel Overwhelmed About What’s Next? Finding Moderation is the Key to Navigating Extremes.

Rheanni Lightwater

Transformation Games - Finding ModerationKuan Yin has been helping us to transition from the old paradigm based on greed and extremism to a new paradigm of equality, co-operation and sustainable prosperity. Her advice about finding moderation springs from the I Ching, an ancient book of divination that follows the flow of the cosmos. Because of that, her insight comes from a different perspective than ours.

Kuan Yin’s Readings and Transformation Games can help you to identify problems, change your focus to positive solutions, ground yourself and get in the present. Simply relax and gaze at the Circles while contemplating Kuan Yins words. Your intuition will come forward and give you the help that you seek.


Welcome to the I Ching Reading and Transformation Game for: Hexagram # 15 – Finding Moderation

Todays Intuitive Reading - Finding Moderation

“In times of difficulty and danger, it’s usually best to move with the flow of MODERATION, Hexagram #15, where ‘The predominant forces … are in the process of balancing extremes and harmonizing interests.’ ~ The I Ching Workbook, R.L. Wing

The ancient Chinese text describes finding MODERATION as the best way to make progress amidst chaos. The suggestion is to disengage from confusing extremes or opinionated attitudes and instead, follow the guidance that comes from within. In almost any situation, if you are able to walk the middle road between extremes, there will be improvement in whatever you undertake.”

Finding Moderation and Following that Path ~

As a general rule, MODERATION is the most sensible flow to follow, especially in the wake of our transition into a new paradigm. Contradictory mindsets and karma (cause and effect) have been triggered and must be dealt with in one way or the other. Most people are navigating through one or another of these general karmic patterns:

  1. Getting sucked into a negative malaise of mental, emotional, physical or spiritual health.
  2. Stuck in frustration or a rebellious refusal to change.
  3. Getting scattered or revisiting regressive patterns from the past, or
  4. Pulling themselves together into a centered position of empowered authority.

Initial Evaluation: As you softly gaze at this Circle, see which of these patterns you are currently experiencing. Ask yourself:

“Am I generally experiencing pattern #1, 2, 3 or 4?”

It could easily be a mix, depending on your mindset and what stage of the karma you’re living through.

Regardless of what’s happening, you can make your life easier by letting go of old agreements or karma that’s over and done with. This game will help you do that.

First, Let’s Address Confusion that’s Caused by Collective Shock.

Let’s face it. The past few years have been filled with one jarring event after another. Shocking events are happening daily. Give yourself and others a break by realizing that you might be caught in a reactive pattern because you’ve received so many shocks to your system. See what happens if you look at this Circle and relax for a minute or so. Breathe deeply and imagine that the unpreferred mindset is melting away like ice melting under the light of the Sun.

You may find that your attachment to those reactive patterns could melt away as well!


Mind Body Integration

Mind Body IntegrationFor best results, look at each symbol both crossed over the midline of the body and uncrossed so that the correction is more complete.

Feel free to move at any time in any way to help you embody your experience!


The Second Step in Finding Moderation.

Release your Agreements with the Old Paradigm.

The old paradigm was built on extreme and oppressive social, religious and moral contracts. Most of us are still functioning out of them to one degree the other because it’s been wired into how we function. In addition, we’re still using the out-dated system of the Patriarchy, which affirms that only certain people have a voice, have rights over the land or their own bodies.

It would be wise to release our agreements with that system and set up new agreements for equal rights in the New Paradigm. This won’t just happen on its own. We need to be proactive and intentional with what we would like to set up.

To Each Their Own – Protect Yourself from Being Scapegoated.

It’s also important to make sure you aren’t taking on anyone else’s karma. In times of increased unrest and confusion, it’s common for people who want to avoid responsibility to systemically dump their problems and karma onto whoever will accept the blame.

You don’t have to take that. Send it back – to each their own!

People who have a tendency to take the blame for others are often:

  • mistakenly organizing their life around the problem; instead organize around the solution, which includes your well-being.
  • unconsciously fueling the problem with their energy and attention; instead disconnect from how your energy is being drained and redirect your energy to to your own priorities.
  • internalizing it (taking it personally); instead realize you are taking on more than your part of the situation, which causes you harm and diminishes your ability to respond in the most effective way.

If you have been trained to feel guilty when other people are unhappy, you can  trap yourself by taking on more than your part of a difficult situation. You can clarify this by asking yourself these questions:

“What is my part in this situation?  What am I actually responsible for?   How can I behave in a way that’s actually helpful?”

When we buy into codependent behaviors, we are inadvertently preventing karma from working itself out naturally, in the way that it needs to.

To help you avoid this trap and set things right, use this symbol with the affirmations to release attachments to the malaise of destructive behavior:

“I let go of attachments and blame. I detach from sticky, toxic energies.”

I create resiliency and autonomy.”

Like a healing balm, imagine that a loving coat of peace and comfort is pouring down over you!

These affirmations will also help with this Circle:

“I remove reversals, stoppages and retrograde energies.”

“I have a clear and direct connection with my energy.”

 


Let Go of Harmful Karmic Agreements.

Use this Soul Contract Circle to help you identify and release any social, familial or religious agreements that prevent you from being present for yourself or that pull you out of balance. Simply gaze softly at the Circle while you use the affirmations. 

“I release any agreement that says I’m powerless or have no choice.”

“I release all agreements to allow myself to be shamed, blamed or punished in any way.”

“I let go of my agreements to stay stuck in or comply with harmful behaviors associated with the old paradigm.” (extremism, slavery, deceit, greed, prejudice, intimidation, control, manipulation, dishonesty, co-dependence, etc.)

“I clarify my priorities and communicate them directly.”
“I have autonomy over my body, my mind, my energy and how I use them.”

Let Go of Intentions That You Don’t Need Anymore.

Check agreements and intentions with family, friends or business relationships that block your ability to move forward freely. Consider old jobs, organizations you’ve been involved with – religious institutions, political agendas, completed projects, places you’ve lived, modes of transportation, ways of communicating or doing business, etc.

“I let go of out-dated, complicated or harmful intentions that restrict my freedom.”

What intentions will actually serve you now? Do they need to be clarified, simplified or re-organized? What do you need to have happen for yourself?

Unearth Old Emotional Garbage and Karmic Patterns.

Use this symbol for Dissolving Destructive Blueprints to identify and dissolve any mental or emotional patterns that are holding you down. See them disappear as you send them to the Sun:

“I gather destructive patterns or energies and send them to the Sun.
I dissolve  any connection I have ever had to them.”

 

 

“Old channels of ______________ are collapsing.”

 

“I close the door on life destructive energies or old patterns of suffering.”

 

Make New Decisions that Are Straightforward and Direct.

The longer you remain stuck in the mud or scattered, the harder life is going to become. It’s time to reorganize your decisions to create what you really want. What do you want to decide about your future? 

“I decide to be guided by the truth and head in the direction of my highest good.” 

I decide to empower life affirming ________ and _________.”

“I use my life force to support the truth of my Soul’s path and purpose.”

Are there other decisions that would help?

 

Recalibrate Your Energy to Truly Support Your Existence.

Devote your energy to finding MODERATION in how you use your energy.

“I connect with my Heart Center and am guided by my true Spiritual Source.”

“I exist and am empowered to ________, ________ and ________.”

 

Invoke Protection and Clarity of Mind:

“I close down all harmful energy channels from the old paradigm.”

“My mind is open and clear to receive generative life force.”
“I learn to utilize the element of Air to effectively manifest my goals.”

 

Refocus Your Energy to Clarify Your Priorities.

Visualize what’s truly important to you in the center open space of this Circle.

“I consciously direct my life force towards truly beneficial activities and priorities.”

Don’t forget to include fun, joy and restful relaxation!


Close the Door on Harmful Paths or Unnecessary Suffering.

Finish this part of the game by closing the door on harmful activities, agendas and pathways that lead back to unhealthy patterns. Take all the time you need. There are probably a lot of them.

“All doors and pathways that lead to suffering are sealed and healed.”
“I follow the direction of healthy protection.”

Discontinue Harmful Behaviors That Keep You Stuck to The Abuse of the Old Paradigm.

“I let it go.”

 

Welcome to the Middle Road! You probably feel much more balance. Go back to the Initial Evaluation for the game and see what has changed.

If you feel complete, congratulations! Go out for a walk to integrate and get grounded.

If you feel incomplete, you can continue to the second part of this process and let go of a few more mindsets that get in the way of finding MODERATION:

There are several other decisions to explore that might really improve how you’re dealing with your situation.

Extreme #1: The need to be liked and approved of by others.

Here is the prime example, ‘Being liked = being important and having purpose.’ You might want to let go of that, because this is a terrible time to base your self-worth on how other people react to you.

“I decide that my worth comes from within. I let go of the need for approval.”

“I build my relationships out of sincere goodwill from my heart, not from projected expectations of self-importance.”

 

Extreme #2: The ‘more is better’ or ‘bigger is better’ syndrome.

For example: The Sun is good, however too much Sun causes cancer. Butter is good, yet too much butter causes weight gain, etc. Another social meme that explains the mindset is: ‘The sky is the limit. I want it all now, so I should be able to have it all now!’ 

“I am clear about who I am and what’s in my best interest.

“I decide that clear, MODERATE limits enhance my wellbeing.”

Use this Circle like a mirror and clear away any markings or old graffiti that obscure the pure energy signature of your Soul.

 

 

Extreme #3: The ‘I’m not doing enough/doing too much” dichotomy.

Finding MODERATION means putting in just the right amount of effort to get the desired result. Think Goldilocks – not too much and not too little… just right.

If you’re uncomfortable because you’re feeling blocked or scattered, there may be a good reason. Do you know what it is? Suddenly heading off into fifteen different directions will probably backfire on you badly.

If you’re sending your energy in too many directions, stop and regain your center. Thoughtful consideration about what you really need is what’s most important now.

“What do I really need to focus on right now? What will help me do that?”

 

Congratulations!

Now that you’ve made choices about finding moderation you can bring order and new happiness into your environment!”


For many people, finding MODERATION signifies an opportunity to go within and expel deep patterns of fanaticism within their psyche so that they can evolve and arise from that pattern, much as a beautiful lotus arises from the muck and mire at the bottom of a pond.”

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Rheanni Lightwater - Finding Moderation in the New Paradigm

Rheanni Lightwater CHT, CKT lives and practices in Santa Fe, NM. She specializes in mind body healing with family and relationship clearing using Kinesiology, the Intuitive Learning Circles, Reiki as a Master/Teacher, Hypnotherapy and Shamanic Clearing Techniques.

Schedule with Rheanni via Zoom, FaceTime or in person when you visit Santa Fe, New Mexico. Call her at (505) 271-4612 between 10:00am – 5:00pm, MST, Monday through Friday to schedule or Email: info@soulresourcesllc.com


Disclaimer:
This Transformation Game should not be considered as an exclusive method of treatment. The appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic authorities should be consulted for the diagnosis and treatment if there is any medical or psychological condition. The information and practices described on this website are best considered as an adjunct to orthodox medical or psychological treatments.