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Choices That Support Happiness

Kuan Yin, the Goddess of Compassion, is helping us with this I Ching Reading and Transformation Game for making choices that support happiness.

Choices that support happinessHexagram #50 Cosmic Order

“This is a time for readjusting your individual relationship with the cosmos… begin to perceive what is actually possible for you to achieve and not waste precious energies on the impossible, those things that are not in accord with the COSMIC ORDER given the circumstances of your life.

If you can harmonize your aims and desires to the needs and flow of the cosmos, significant deeds will become possible.”

~ The I Ching Workbook by R. L. Wing (Doubleday)

Are Your Decisions Supporting You?

It can be difficult to come into harmony with the cosmic order when most social agendas are geared to speed things up and create instability.

busy officeAs consummate consumers, America has been diligently taught to follow trends and be a step ahead of everyone else. Back in the 50’s – 70’s it was called “keeping up with the Jones’. Today it’s keeping up with technology, social media and business demands in everything from health fads to politics. Unfortunately, this External Guidance System is far more attuned to the demands of the status quo than it is to your desire for harmony.

So how can you address this? If you are willing to develop consistency and patience for the choices you make, you could pull yourself out of instability and get back on the road to creating happiness.

Making Choices that Support Happiness

Choice #1: Be Willing to Learn New Behaviors and Listen to Messages from Your Soul

This is the first step and an important one. Now, much more than ever before, your behavior is going to determine where you’re heading at this time. If you’re utilizing your Internal Guidance System (instinct, intuition, logic, observation and common sense) and taking responsibility for your actions, you’re developing a willingness to support your own happiness. Remember that the ego has been in charge for a very long time and it takes a while to relearn deeply ingrained patterns. So, it’s better to make small steps in the right direction than it is to make dramatic, ego gratifying steps in the wrong direction.

Use this Intuitive Learning Circle for integrating your Internal Guidance System to help you determine where you are in regards to WILLINGNESS.

Ask yourself these questions while gazing softly at the Circle below:

“Am I willing to try something new in order to live a happier life? If not, why not?”
“Do I still believe that fighting and struggle is the best way to create what I want?”
“Do I think that I’m running out of time and that I need to speed up?”
“If so, am I WILLING to change my mind and my behavior?”

Animal Medicine



Choice #2: Have the Courage to Choose the New Behaviors and Stick With Them Long Enough To See if They Work for You

Results don’t happen overnight and if you’re constantly changing course – going from one method to the next – you’re actually hampering your own progress.

Many people think that impatience is a good way to get things accomplished and unfortunately for them, the exact opposite is true. Patience is a great virtue to help you harmonize with the COSMIC ORDER. Changes of this magnitude are best taken step by step to effectively monitor how things are coming together. Use this next Circle to help you:

“Am I willing to slow down and perceive what’s really happening?”
“Am I being impatient? If so, where did I learn that from?”
“Am I willing to change my relationship with patience to help me achieve what’s possible?

Sloth Medicine



Courage is the motivator for the greatest changes in your history, and now is no different.

Use the following Circle for COURAGE to see what kind of energy you are using to motivate you.

“Am I using more courage than fear to help me face my daily challenges?”
“Am I caught in some kind of fear? If so, where do I feel it?”
“Am I willing to change my relationship with courage to help me achieve what’s possible?”

Jaguar Medicine




If you’re using mostly fear and impatience, realize that you’re likely to give up before results have a chance to show up. That means you’ll probably go out looking for a new, quick fix. Or you might turn back to the past looking for a safe and seemingly easier way to cope. This is an illusion. You can use this affirmation to help you let go:

“I release my dependance on fear and impatience.”
“I stop buying into extremes and the quick fix.”
“I release any agreement I have to fuel these kinds of conflicts in other people.”
“I decide to be grounded and centered in my own life – following the guidance of my soul.”





Imagine your impatience and fears are like a pile of old luggage gathering dust in the attic. Let this symbol help you clear them away into nothingness.



Choice #3: Keep Choosing the Light, Rather Than the Dark.

Real happiness is based on being able to shed light on harmful modes of behavior and compassionately allowing for change. Pay attention If you are:

  1. feeling apathetic
  2. resisting productive behaviors
  3. being in a hurry
  4. pushing yourself to unreasonable extremes or
  5. being hard on yourself.

What can you do to help you unlearn these behaviors?

Healing on a DNA Level

The next few symbols are from “Divine Nature Activated” and will help us release negative conditioning that’s held on a DNA level. The key is to relax as much as possible while looking at each symbol. It can help to imagine that an old, broken DNA strand is falling apart while a vibrant and cohesive DNA strand is relaxing, healing and filling up with light.


When using these symbols, it’s important to relax and breathe as you use each affirmation:

“I release my tendencies to react out of extremes. I make a commitment to solutions that are in my highest good.”




“I release my tendency to attract methods and ‘quick fixes’ that don’t really work in harmony with the cosmos.
I use my energy to attract the truth about what will really help.”



“I request and receive support that will assist me in being happy.”




Use this Circle to fill yourself with light. Imagine that with every breath you are filling up your body with the pure, peaceful light, color and vibration of your Soul. This method will do more than most anything to help you get back on track. Remember, like attracts like, so if you are being the light, you will attract more of it. If you are in harmony with the cosmic order, you will attract more of it as well.

“I am filled with the pure light of creation.”
“I am in harmony with who I am in my own authentic life.”




Choice #4: Commit to Good Protection and Taking Care of Yourself.

Finish your Transformation Game by using this last Circle to heal and seal your auras.
Be sure that you spend all the time you need with it. Your auras are an important part of having good health and protection!

“My auras are sealed and healed.”



We hope this healing meditation has given you support in your healing journey.

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