Trans-generational Healing
Thursday, January 13th, 2011Kuan Yin, the Goddess of Compassion
is helping us to answer our questions about how to properly nourish ourselves as we transition into new and different ways to manifest our heart’s desires. Her advice comes from the I Ching, an ancient Chinese text that follows and predicts movements and energy flow in the cosmos.
The I Ching energy that is most appropriate for this time of the season in North America is Hexagram #27 NOURISHING. However, the advice that is given can be useful at any time, for anyone seeking to make positive improvements in their lives:
“Exercise unrelenting discipline over your thought patterns. Cultivate only productive opinions and attitudes in order to properly nourish your character. If you are engaged in activity at this time, keep your mind as calm and relaxed as possible.” ~ The I Ching Workbook by R. L. Wing (Doubleday)
Nourishing Your Heart’s Desires Through Clarity
“Many people say that they are tired of pushing and trying to force things to happen. They claim that they would like to enjoy their livelihoods and create through love and respect, rather than hatred, competition or fear. Most people do want to be happy, yet the Old Paradigm offers few examples of how that could actually work. Because of this, it’s entirely understandable that even those with the best intentions get lost in a sea of confusion and misinformation.
To clarify what will actually help you get out of the quagmire, here are some suggestions that you can investigate for yourself through this short Intuitive Learning Game.
Kuan Yin’s Motivation Game -
Trans-generational Healing for the New Paradigm
Suggestion #1: Go within for creative nourishment
The ego is only able to recreate what it already knows, so to get clear answers about how to create in a new way, you are best served by going to your spiritual source and asking for guidance. In order to get clear guidance, go within and get quiet. Those who are conditioned to look for answers from the media or other forms of the status quo will have a difficult time coming up with answers that will actually create happiness.
“I allow myself to go within for answers.”
“I allow myself to get quiet.”
Suggestion #2: Look at what is motivating you
Since time began, people have been taught that forcing through guilt, greed, anger or revenge is the best way to get things done, and it is true – these emotions are very motivating and give one a transient sense of power. Unfortunately, whenever one is motivated by something, that something is NOURISHED and grows ever stronger. If that is not what you intend for yourself, you might want to let go of the belief that you need these emotions to motivate you or survive.
Use this Soul Contract Circle to help you access conscious and unconscious conditioning, assumptions and false beliefs that are being held in your nervous system. Imagine this misinformation is like a tangled net that keeps you in the dark. See the net dissolving as you use the affirmations below:
“I let go of the belief that I need to get angry or upset to to get things done.”
“I release the agreement that life has to be hard.”
“I release any agreement to carry on any negative family Karma. This includes family conflicts, grudges, guilt, illnesses, curses, feuds, etc.”
“My new agreement is to be forgiving, patient and kind with myself as I learn new ways of being.”
Suggestion #3: Have the courage to be honest with yourself about how you are really feeling
This is another important step. Courage has been the motivator for the greatest advances in your history, and now is no different. Are you willing to NOURISH courage within yourself to do something new? Those who can’t access the courage it takes to be honest with themselves about how they are really feeling have suppressed emotions that will come out in negative ways to subvert their intentions.
Take a few moments and gaze softly at this Circle. Allow yourself to relax as much as possible.
Once you feel relaxed, ask your heart these simple questions:
“Am I willing to be honest with myself in order to live a happier life? If not, why not?”
“Am I pretending that something isn’t bothering me, when really it is?”
“Am I WILLING to activate the courage I need to make positive changes?”
Suggestion #4: Be willing to let go of habits, behaviors and beliefs that you picked up from someone else.
If you are carrying someone else’s issues, you will have a very difficult time finding room to be happy. They could be societal, family or tribal issues. They could also come from love relationships or other close relationships. Use this symbol to imagine a big, heavy baggage filled with negative ideas and emotions that someone dropped at your front door. You realize that the baggage isn’t even yours and you are still carrying it around! Consciously decide to set it down and see it going back to wherever it belongs.
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Suggestion #5: Keep Choosing the Light, Rather Than the Dark.
Use this symbol to surround and fill yourself with light. Imagine that with every breath you are filling up your body with pure, healing light. Remember, like attracts like, so if you are being the light, you will attract more of it.
“I am surrounded and filled with the pure light of creation.”

Suggestion #6: Recognize that the attachment or aversion you have to negativity exists in your own mind – and that you can change that.
You may not be able to change what others are doing, however, you can change the patterns you use when you respond. Use this last symbol to help you dissolve the patterns of control, manipulation, anger and fear that hide out in your sub-conscious mind. You can imagine these patterns like black clouds, dream images or vast amounts of data that dissolve into the pure light of day. Consider the affirmations below to help you identify them and let them go.
“I release and dissolve any karmic patterns that come through my family line, including prejudice, guilt, fear, poverty or intolerance.”
“I release all patterns of revenge, retribution or self-righteousness, regardless of where they came from or how they got there.”
“I dissolve patterns of greed or resentment that I have learned or created for myself.”
If you like, you can contemplate more specific behavior patterns that are causing you problems and dissolve them from your mental continuum now. Examples might be impatience, sarcasm, violence, victimization or self-pity – any conditioning that could keep you in the dark.
Even though you may not consciously be aware of what karmic pattern you are operating out of, going through this process will help you to gently let them go.
Congratulations! Now is a good time to take very good care of yourself. Relax. Take a walk in nature and let it all go.
2011 © Rheanni Lightwater All Rights Reserved
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Rheanni Lightwater is a Feng Shui & Energy Healing Practitioner, Certified Kinesiologist, Hypnotherapist, Reiki Master/Teacher, Karuna® and Grail Reiki Master/Teacher in Albuquerque, NM. Remote work is available: contact@intuitivelearningcircle.com




























You can loosen up the soil that imprisons your own family tree if you can take just a few minutes out of your time. Look at the Sacred Contract Circle to your left and release these agreements:

