Sacred Cow – Its All About the Money
Creating a Tipping Point for Economic Prosperity
What does bailout have in common with burnout?
The Wall Street Bailout has raised the ire of a lot of people and for good reason. Our priorities are upside down. The reason why those securities originally went bad is because people were not able to pay their mortgages. To solve the issue in the long term means that people need to have opportunities to take good care of themselves and their families. What makes simple sense is to improve their lot in life, so that they can fulfill their agreement to pay, thus keeping the banks and their securities solvent.
The only thing that has been getting real attention in the media is the money. Today’s Sacred Cow is:
“It’s all about the money.”
What about sustaining self-respect and an individual’s ability to take care of themselves? So many people have hit the skids and yet, it’s the bankers we are supposed to help. It’s give, give, give, until there isn’t anything left. And now we’ve even gone way beyond that point.
A Microcosm of the Macrocosm
So what does this have to do with burnout? I have found that people in my practice who are sick often feel loath to do things to take care of themselves. They feel that they are somehow being selfish – that they shouldn’t be asking for anything extra. Often there is another member of the family whose needs are supposed to take precedence over theirs.“So and so has it so bad, how could I possibly ask for anything?”“I don’t have time to do that for myself, I’ve got to take care of thus and such.”And so they go without for long periods of time, sometimes their whole lives. Their minds are conditioned to accept their lot in life; however, their bodies and gut feelings are operating out of the reality of what’s really going on. The result is illness – depression, chronic fatigue, diabetes, you name it.
Finances Aren’t the Only Thing That Can Go Bankrupt
I often say to them, “You can’t give what you don’t have.” Yet somehow they keep expecting that they can and their health continues to suffer. Their bodies are literally burning out because their energy supply is bankrupt. They are running on empty. And so is our economy.
Look at the Soul Contract Circle to release the two agreements that cause the emotional and physical crash:“I release the agreement that taking good care of myself means that I am being selfish. I replace it with “It’s okay to invest in myself.”“I release the agreement that keeping the Status Quo going is more important than keeping myself going. I decide that “My needs are important.”
As you play today’s tipping point game, ask yourself what your current needs really are. This will help you to turn your priorities right side up. I know that you know someone who could really use this game, after you play it yourself, consider passing it on to friends, family and or co-workers who are in the process of burning out.
Rheanni Lightwater © 2008
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